2011年12月19日 星期一

A very long and profound day with family

We decided to sent sound back to puli school before his retuning home on Friday, the decision were made to remain or increase the itimancy of the family, sound didn't catch up with hooligan examined and the ranking is declined, it concerned me and Meiling a little bit, but when recall the reason why we sent him to study in puli , it have little thing to do with the score, what sound told his mother is true, have not found what he want , so there is no driver to keep him move foreword , I agree with sound's insight as I disco ere what I really want by the age of 50, how come I expect a 15 years old to realized his life ahead ? However , since I am the person who been there, I should help him IDE tied his true passion in life earlier, not in coming 6 months as the enroll examination is a necessary pressure for him, to somehow learn how to leave the comfort zone, but to reconcile to our purpose for sending him to private school, we should not again the will in the first place.
We are happy left home by 11:00 am, first stop is lien chew street to feed our stomach the transitional food vendor in front of the temple it truly the old scene you can spot in old time Taipei , we were having too much before taking the highway number one to Taichung , meiling have a good intention to see our daughter on our way also, she is reluctant to let me know , surprising , fruit called for the money needed next week I take the chance to inform her we are on owe way to puli, if she is ok , we love to drop by further to cha yi , she is with her boy friend we know. With 2 more phone calls , she felt so happy that we will make the trip to see her, so ,we change our plan, to go yo ta tuang college at cha yi first before sending sound back to school , I can see sound is so happy about it,
Having dinner together with sound and fruit , we make our effort to be good family again, it what I learn from being the facilitator with so many YPO executives , family can only be the last place you want to be, keep intimacy and to create positive memory whenever you can.
We then have a long drive home , knock our own door by midnight , around 1 in the morning , meiling received a greeting call from fruit , xit make her day again.
My thinking is leading me to recreation , yes, I know, something you just go with the flow.
Promise hochen to sit on broadband policy panel with DPP Presidential election candidate , the color doesn't fit me but friendship over take my ration , see what happen on Thursday !

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