2017年9月23日 星期六

This is the first time I encountered the war between apple and google : my blog can no longer post as freely as before - before iPhone 8 launch

Forum 7: Seven Seas

1. Stiven : nervous to be the moderator and indecisive ( bring a coach )
2. Grace : met first time , love the 5 level of listening ( curiosity about what a coach can do )
3. Eddie : sister brings vulnerability and separated with wife - new life ( not yet )
4. Glandy : love and worries for dad and biz ( vulnerability)
5. Chris : thinking and organize , amaze to see how a forum can go this deep ( thinking about having a coach )
6. Tina : many gestures, treat me as master and impress on how I can spot issue so precisely.
7. Kwee : his issue been consolidated: it's indecisive and prostration. So many turbulence inside ( need a coach )
8. Leo : start up in a more stable stage , not as panic as I saw him last time ..
9. Ken : good learner , finally understand what's Wise In Update .


Roger

H

One hours
1. Heng How : why not close down ? I have no idea Calvin got my mobile phone
2. I woke up this morning, think of exercise but lying on bed and image all the awful feeling I had. My ... So I don't feel good
3. Yesterday, I feel like yelling to someone and do had the emotion
4. You should be the coach handling all my McDonald's affair
5. I understand the story you share about Sounds reaction to " why not buy a mini freezer at our room " Meiling only want to have the emotion exit not really ask for solving the problem .
6. D : I understand, you role as coaching is not to influence client : what Sam address is not correct .
7. About Public speech : I am kind of space out on stage and I don't know how to tell a story .


Roger

Reflection

1. Tattoo talking to tattoo : the donut clerk and young customer .. what's the words they stitches to their skin
2. 段純真 open its branch beef noodle shop at Viewshow cinema - shin Yi .. a good surprise about the taste I love move from Xing Hu to Taipei
3. Both Aj and Bengo stock price jump high . Why ? Tseng Yeng ?
4. M talent day and many M employee dress in different custom
5. Daphne project seems like a " Go "
6. Daan & Steve and Roger : some spark should ignite


Roger

Check my next financial forecast

If I doing everything as normal : 20 millions ( 11 personal & 9 corporate )
If I doing things extremely well : 29 millions ( extra 9 millions from personal coaching revenue )
My credit card spending annually : 6 millions ( 3 millions goes to traveling related items)
I should set a saving target and wealth Managment principal from now no .


Roger

2017年9月22日 星期五

Be high hope and prepare for the worst

I like what the coaching book said :
" to enter coaching biz , the bar is low but to be success the bar is high "
You can be a pro / part time or life growing coach but don't falling into pathetic struggling coach .. good one


Roger

BW

He said that he have no money , this is to my surprise. At the tele conversation, I can felt his sincerity so offer a free session .
Pause and he need to think about it .


Roger

Daan

Why my fire didn't cease ? Why there's no " Yes , But " slang during our conversation and why
- how's life treat you ?
- I surrender
- read what you didn't say
- enjoy to hold the space
Keep coming back during our dialogue. I got to believe that there a connection between us and Link to the world .


Roger

Late last night

1. I make it happen for Chi Hong to the National Palace Museum visit
2. I was in deep sleep but woke by Meiling to perform my " sex slave " functions, so interesting.
3. I knew Meiling's dream is to rebuilt our house , my estimated amount is roughly 6-70 minutes NT investment.


Roger

2017年9月21日 星期四

Last minutes help

Chi Hung need a prefer arrangement to National Palace Museum visit .. I tried to contact Mr. Lin : my classmate and senior .. Thanks for his acknowledge to help .. and I back to my Yoda Power again .


Roger

Gene

I don't get it : from 600.000 downpayment to 300.000 ! I should not ask why but there's a Why ?


Roger

Bowei

The need :
- what happened for the last 3 years
- where to go next ?
- I don't have the courage to step ahead
And you help me to draw my coaching process , thank you and let's walk the journey together.


Roger

My dear Roxanne

I am not in the position of not help you ,but , yes it's a but if you really want to initiate businesses relationship with others. You should pay visit first but not to wait for someone to show up because of you ..
Nunam cafe is a top brand in Vietnam, Khanh is my forum mate , I am happy to into but to ask them flying over to you - I don't think this is realistic .



Roger

This is how it happen

Lunch casually and randomly find a " quick service " Chinese restaurant in the ally nearby She Ta : where I print my workbook for Saigon .
I order a " stew rib " set : it come with side dishes and soup - looks great and pricing at 200
There is something wrong with my first bite to the rib - I tasted the sore which don't come as a flower but a rotten food , I split it out gently.
Then I approach the counter quietly and told the service man " the dish have some problem " he immediately take my rib away and send the menu for me to pick the replacement .
I can't - so I told him that I will eat my side dishes and pay the full - no worry
And I took a mouth wash at the water drain at the restroom before consume my dinner .
I finish all my remaining lunch . I saw owner ( or manger) stand behind the counter - I walk up and take 200 from my wallet : the owner said " I am sorry for he ignorance , the meal is on the house , please do come back "
My reply : no , you should at least take the cost , so I left 100 to the table and told him I will be back .
There's another 3 guests in the restaurant, they aware something is happen but nothing burst out .
This is what we can do : don't give hard time to people even you are standing on the ground call " REASON "


Roger

90 on the mountain

He is dining karoke with the younger elder and the Taiwanese tune is :" I am a man "
My Reflection: Manners Makes Man


Roger

My introspective on Logan lucky and Kingsman

This is not an coincidence
When " LOGAN LUCKY " reveal "country road take me home .." as it's main music fabric , I am a bit surprise ; Then " "Kingsman: The Golden Circle ". doing the same with an update choir version for this John Denver classic , I am totally stunned in the theater ...
What does it mean ? " Take Me Home " is the message - " Good Old Days / Simple Life " was the ideal heaven in this noisy world ; and a transforming mindset surface which I term it as " New Age is going back to Old Day "
Tell me what you think .. if by chance you saw both movies ..


Roger

2017年9月20日 星期三

Vicky

What she want :
1. A macro picture on business leases mindset in TW
2. How a leader coaching environment can happen
3. My stage in hero's Journey : reveal and atonement
4. Story I share :
- daan and smog free project
- business owner in china do not think about tomorrow
5. Corporate measure coaching in a stereotype way so it's HR call not a boss call


Roger

2017年9月19日 星期二

Hu Wen

Roger : you are so smart that don't want to be the boss, so you won't have the sleepless night .
- you have been convinced by Liu Tong which I don't agree with
- liu know you will meet him by 13:00, why not make himself ready by 12:45 or have me to call him up ?
- I have the answer in me , just want to double check
- for colipe : if I success , everyone will be happy , if I failed , i won't regret.
Roger

Resonate with Daan

1. He knows how to read people : hearing what isn't say
2. He enjoy reprogram peoples brain : hold the space on Speech
3. Surrender is often said : another Steve Vai
4. Take a different perspectives: hochen and smog free project
5. Coming project
- the green kite
- lab tour
- taipei visit
- intro to Pauline

Roger

What I observed last might

Hu Wen is the " big brother " type
Pauline : don't feel safe always
Renny : as charming as before
Hank : love to see me here
David : smiling kind of fake
Sandra : little do I know her please pleasant always
Trix : no much , not much
Paul : absent minded
Lee Wen : I am on a diet but the duck skin and beef are so good
Wendy : absent / so ...
drink much less than before
Still in a forming stage : no one willing to take a lead - probe the boundaries .
Try to lay out forum norm / style etc
Courtesy : a tradition


Roger

Daan

Hey , we met one hour ahead of schedule and this is exactly the same greeting I often use :
" how's life treat you ? " and this morning it coming back to me via you .


Roger

Andy Liu

You feel the change in your body and this is trigger by your mind -/
It's 1000 days in the seeding and now we see the sprout ..
welcome to walk with me ..


Roger

Pauline

Do I need to recruit one more coachee ? What's the bandwidth I have ?
Puli - so nice



Roger

2017年9月18日 星期一

Andy Liu

It's been 3 years and I can sense the sprout burst out the ground- hard ground maybe .
You said when I ask about your " 3 years confusion and wandering " your body changes- you felt calm and relax ..
so if we may :
1. Help you to deliver forums in your networking.
2. Identify ( pool ) or request for personal coaching
3. Liaison with international- YPO networking ..
on the side you said you wish to be my protege and learn from me : my reply : to learn is not a need but a want . To put yourself to a need and be my coachee is the first step .
Walk with me - likewise I am waking with you .


Roger
It's Woody Allan - open ending , complicated internal noise ; fuzz in what to do ; emotions over rationale ; love and cheating ..
It's always an Ego vs Self.
We saw it at movie channel and I had many reflection


Roger

位置:Coffee and Love

Hu Wen last night

It's rare and I am at home . So pick up the phone to go over his " how to solve " by the time we ended our coaching over phone . He ask if I am be the bridge and invite Shung to a conversation with him ?
I reject and told him this is the best window to address it without any intermediary - no secretary , no third person - a chance to bring back some " left behind brotherhood "


Roger

S + D

Via D , I see S better ; Via D , I check and balance what I heard from J.
It's a good 2 hours connection, not about time , duration but the qualify when we conduct the dialogues.
Old habit die hard :
1. Sleeping disorder
2.Addict to mobile games
3.Pull your value under others
4.No exercise
5.Emotion hijack.
S is good - honesty and open



Roger

2017年9月16日 星期六

It happens between 8:30-09:00




Roger

H

1. So my brother is getting closer to me so I might stay in A still
2. I can't sleep and need the sleeping / calm pill .. dose it hurt
3. In 3 months, can you help me to become an inspirational speaker ? R: a better speaker is our goals
4. He is asking a lot . R : compensation: 20 m NT ?
5. J : why can she just get rid of unhappiness?
6. Let's go and buy " school of life " cards
7. My new hobby is the 4 K projector screen home theater : 200 inches big screen
8. Volvo 90 is a good new car . My self drove car not a fancy one but good enough.
9. BW is so blunt and know nothing do nothing ..


Roger

Weight control or

I am exceeding 73 kg regularly and this is not a good sign .. eating too much fat and don't control on my appetite is so wrong .
After the complain and confession. I should strictly on my eating


Roger

Trivial something

-Why so many young girls tattoo on their foot angles these days ?
-Why Buddha Life memorial hall such glamour and 48 underground palace - each one sell something on the ground floor
-Stiven hurry and I am ok .. the " do I know you " exercise
-Sound is so upset about his new apartment : no bathtub space and his whole plan is ruined


Roger

Movies

How come it become the integral family / couple entertainment these days ? I don't get it and I don't really want to know it

Not healthy to me


Roger

Other movies

If I can't recall , they don't bother to writing something
- dark tower : a terrible one
- 2:22: for the second run movie, not bad a love story who wish to correct the wrong from previous life .
- Wonder Woman: saw the second time on second run theater : a good one still . " I can save today and you will save the world " ..


Roger

Many movies

The latest one is " Strattons " a SEAL equivalent fighter who play the hero to crack down the terror attempt attack to London .
" what happen to Monday " is a very good sci-fi / thrill / action movie : foresee the world over population , what will you do and what can you do ? "
" American Assassin " is a good intelligent / secret mission operator movie - hate keep a man alive and revenge build mans will ..
" renegade " is a seems to be good but low budget film : SEAL perform good and save many war scent budget
" I am a taxi driver " - good story based on true event and person but the real person never show up


Roger

My confession

I admit that I can't get rid of the attraction - although it's been 2 years.
I surrender to my human nature and learn that I MUST accept it , otherwise the guilt won't be Away .
I do have my midlife transformation lesson to learn and can't escape from it
I am triggered by many side attraction and can't help myself finding an antidote / solutions .
I need to be as normal as I can ..
I don't play the role of victims and won't blame it on me only .
I can handle it well as long as I be very prudent .
It's not a rationale games , so don't bother to count the pros & cons

I am on the taxi to HSR station . Destination Tauyoung .


Roger

2017年9月14日 星期四

Gary's father

What meant to be mean to be : my skipping the condolences turn to today : when Daniel leave me a message this morning on his first day home - I decide to go with him
It's an " after house " which Gary's father build for him : Bai Shen Chuang Tamsui and we kind of lost for many turns
What happens during the day:
1. Ask the house and trigger an old lady's nerves as she don't know to be contaminated by the funeral - bad lucky so to speak
2. Met Gary's sister and lean a few Things about his father : workaholic and a family man who suffer only in the last 10 days .
3. Daniel ask me to go to 行天宮 to complete our routine for funeral, of course I follows .
4. A good clam soup noodle together.
What meant to be mean to be .


Roger

2017年9月13日 星期三

H session

Perspective taking
It's J who not happy with herself ! Not you or me .
So - if you can't be sure sign the paper will redirect her emotion , don't take it as an solution .
Sleeping pill : take it but don't feel guilty otherwise you suffer mentally and physically .
And we go to " school of life " buying many " card games " and to outsource life problems to cards .. What a good day .


Roger

Jason Fung

As you are going to join TK 3C next Monday from Regent , my wish to you
- when off the dock and unload anchor to the sea. The moment you realize the only way to go is sailing to the next destination is when you can hardly see the dock where you departure .


Roger

First monthly with G

What's new :
1. Improve WU : rating and emotion attached
2. Learn the biz and role structure
3. 100 questions as check in and check out exercise
4. One issue can lead to multiple issue
5. Sharing is more than solving
6. Issues explore:
- commitment of my brothers
- fix myself: how to be more aware about my midlife transformation
- Doris : emotion : one action way ; protect or attach by emotions
It's a 2 hours and I saw him with eye red in the end .


Roger

J session

I deal with his emotion after dinner last night :
1. Emotions come from conduct a difficult conversation: 1) am I good enough ? 2) am I a good person ? 3) why can't I be love & respected as others .
2. Try to post a horizontal conversation mindset to overtake vertical heiracky
3. Trust is an issue :
- It's given
- it's a default not a nature ( your choice not practice )
4. Profession managers should realized it's only a transition : by function and by period : it might be mutually agree and can be one way thinking .
5. Consensus is to agreed on what we agree and disagree.
6. Our experience might limited us to explore new things as it come with different outcome .
7. Out of your comfort zone is to increase it ..
8. How I view your dinner ?
- from what you told me
- who took the initiative
- your own rating
- emotion and energy scan



Roger

2017年9月12日 星期二

Reflection

I am at Nunnan bulavoud now and saw the old office of Pater Chang - I recall how madam chang support her husband and willing to spend as much as Peter wish - the bias come from 2 fold : 1) Peter is the house master 2) Peter making money .
Then I check my own situation now - dose Meiling act the same as Madamn chang or I am spending like Peter :
Reflection is a good advisor .. save is what you really earned .


Roger

2017年9月11日 星期一

Father and Sound city tour

First day : a luxury day
1. Buy biz class HSR to KS
2. Check in luxury hotel : H2O with an upgrade treatment : nice room and many small details
3. Lunch at " Red Nose " pig foot restaurant for Rich stomach
4. 700 taxi fare to Buddha Life Tower : and it's a luxury place for religious practicineer .
5. Right foot , let food body massage : a luxury relax place full of Japan ambience
6. Taxi to Bo Chuang : a legendary place for stew pork rice : yummy
7. Taxi back to hotel : Taxi driver said how Luxury this hotel is ...
8. Calvin Le pho exhibition: a luxury event discussing with Sound .
9. Watch free movie at hotel : Bus 576 :a good one to me
10. Sleeping in a nice bad and pillow .



Roger

2017年9月9日 星期六

The Stop Sign

Having my recreation session to easy the arouse high but not laid .
It's partially decreasing but not 100 percent removed .
Another Stop is to stop tail after the 2 years window - it's so hard to keep a clean and peaceful life and don't let the impose ruining my life - take the initiative yesterday afternoon and to call it an end by 9:30 pm - no so painful
What cause my curiosity is why I am so into laid today but finish half way - no ejaculation --
I am human still ..


Roger

Finally

I told the taxi driver when getting off : you are driving too fast , I don't feel comfortable in the taxi .
My guest:
A taxi driver at his 65
A rough and age car without any interior furbish.
His last name : Lien looked like a


Roger

Thunderbolt Fantasy

It's pili puppy show - a childhood memory awakened by watching the We Work speech - Mr Huang the 5th generation who develop an innovative way and get the puppy show internally:
1. Not to use Taiwanese
2. Appear to wilder generation
3. Cross nation collaboration
To him : family business is not about succession. It's blood and it's family and Fans are like lovers ..


Roger

Renegade

It's a movie I was attract by teaser but fool inside theater . I thanks to my family will sacrifice time to tolerate it with me.
The redemption is to find another excitement to balance my emotions - anything


Roger

2017年9月8日 星期五

AM triggers

From getting high to getting laid : it's a road of human desire , how can I resist it as a fresh body ?
Connect W and how can I not to fulfill promise tomorrow, it will be a double arrows ---
But never ever to lay the ground of reunite or back to the old days as there is no old days and no one can turn back the clock .


Roger

AM bugging

Yes , my screen protector told me I have use the phone for more than 6 hours now - mid of the day and this is not healthy .
Thanks to AM taught me so much about online dating or match for mating ,it's too powerful to say no and it should be a NO for sure .
Make it my dui and share it with Royce , a good something I learn and reflect for the day


Roger

It's definitely a addiction

I buy my 2nd plan for 200 points . 2400 gone and begin another chat journey


Roger

AM part 2

I keep texting with 4 girls Who drag me to line chat and it really draw my attention from 7:45 to 10:30
By 10:30 I have use up my first package : 2400 , just simply open my AM message , they knows the human and this is such a powerful business model - mediate without selling any "Things " and get both side pay a premium.
As I have addict it for 150 minutes and I am about to back to my normal life now .
As for tomorrow by 3:00 pm .. I am openly thinking ....,


Roger

My Ashely Maison experience this morning

Trigger by the popular musical story I read from New York Times , taking about sex after 60 - I browse the dating - matching site Ashley Mansion which were recommended by the musical writer .
step 1 : you sign up and it's very user friendly, and then you need to upload your photo : even though it's an option and you can " mask " it , I decided to show my headshot .
Second.
Step 2: you were ask to buy their package : from NT 2400 to 24.000 in order to : priority your search or been searched and to use your point to retrieve your " message / gift " etc . You have to sign up. So I sigh up the expensive plan : 2400 for 100 points
Step 3 : guess what : there must be an customer service team aware or an AI to check your move and you receive first " march " message to be retrieved in 30 seconded once your complete buying the package.
Step 4: when open it , you got a " know you first before Fuck you " request and the matching one post her line ID ( once fishing , she will pull you out from the AM pond and drag you somewhere after ) and you realize it's " 15 points " to open on message- so expensive.
Step 5: the one who fish you begin to conduct conversation with you at the line chat room - it's free and you can exchange more information: some are very erotic but you can sense it's an SOP question such as : " what kind of relationship you are looking for : FOB mainly " " How Old are you ? " " What's your profession ? " " Are you married? Have kids " " Sexual preference ? " " free to meet ? Where to meet ? "
Step 6: then you will consistently receive at least 20 AM message to you and you choose to open a few of them and found the SOP : line and questions and request a " no string attached , no burden sex "
Step 7: most of them ask you to sign on on another date site : kh - you need to update and pay more money .
Step 8: this is where you spend all your packages and alway to call it an end or make it an addictive to your life .


Roger

2017年9月6日 星期三

Reflection

Today :
1.Train to Taitung and overheard the terrible conversation among younger generation
2.Tried on hour of hot spring at Chipen royal hotel
3.beautiful intimacy with Meiling before hot spring
4. Victor and his new direction: be a coach and Kris : I don't really want to team up and produce any Chinese forum curriculum for YEN
5. Gary's father : not intend to go
6. The interesting book found at hotel book shell


Roger

2017年9月5日 星期二

Recall

Sitting at ritz , I recall the days when I am marmeise by antique and bought me many Fake one from HK
There a time I went to HK , she come with me and carry 2 big Bronze status for me , it's so heavy and I was so mean gm her .. I mean so mean ..


Roger

2017年9月4日 星期一

I saw it in my dream

It's so vivid , his head is green and pretty much like a dragon head . Is it the "Slay the Dragon " scene from Hero's Journey .
I woke for a while and back to sleep again.
Since I learn the sleeping patten of a dog , I don't have any problem to break my sleep into pieces .


Roger

Personal retreat with Calvin

1. Morning session from 9:45 am
-- talked about Tass : emotion hijack and cocoon with no one listen . We will co- development a supporting framework : I devoted time , Calvin contributed to my logistics.
2. The new management: 1) time and my feedback interview is welcomed .
3. Family Trustee and Don't trapped in 1) brother sister versus relatives 2) inherited but not qualify to sustain and grow the business 3) sebilin influenced by extended family .
4. Role and worries to Crystal .
5. How you read your forum mate : Shaggi don't response , CP didn't change ; Tass has frustration; Graeme is annoying
6. Sound and Li Pu exhibition.




Roger

2017年9月3日 星期日

Tiger I SEE

sleep less than 4 hours and heading for the forum - my stay for 2 meals and 3 hours session :
1. Shaggi want to leave ...
2. Graeme is annoying many - as usual
3. Archi is a good day Chair with the help of " Obasan " , and he is kinds of share his highlight on our way way from dinner
4. Phil have a headache about Guam
5. Tass buy me a book " Time to Think " as ask me go read it and teach him
6. Calvin stays one more night with me and we have our lunch and dinner plan
7. Sochan love meat too much
8. General as alway with dirt cock cola
9. Why we need dial to Bobby ?
I did a presentation about " vertical transfer to horizontal relationship " I know everyone benefit from that
Lunch : Osaka Fried something good
Dinner : Japanese beef with Korean BBQ style
Spend a few time with Khanh and his wife and it's good -- learn about Sound and to show my appreciation.
Shaggi is too sensitive, archi disclose his jv with general , Graeme will become broad member to Sumida .. the 3rd or 4th independent director ( outside director) stealing from Tiger forum .


Roger

2017年9月1日 星期五

Host

From Taipei to Huailien
Taipei really good : see something, say something, know something and learn something.
Huilien Ian's table :
1. Good vibe and MD Chen's story is a tear gas .. so vivid and so inspiring , a nature born storyteller.
2. Lawyer Tseng : warn and gentle and yes , he feed the house dog a bone - Ian said it never try any bone before - a dog workout bone for 10 years.
3. Su yin : she is a Taiwanese to me now
4. Daphne: nice to connect and with strong curiosity to know what coach is and how the trust is build or break .
5. Sky : always nice to have you around and I deliver CQ ELAC message already
6. Wu Yueh and her classmate : come to eat
7. Yu Ping : why I need to know Fu's though and how you handle it ? I don't really care
8. Angeli : Thanks, you are really a helper
9. C : I am sorry what I said about " thanks you " wasn't come from bottoms of my heart .
10. KC : are you jealous ?
11. May Ann : thanks you and thanks
12. Chaucer : a few leads and some reflections. Nice vibe


Roger

Why I had this emotion

About Connie to join our dinner tonight, it's a development since her " no thanks you after Golden Melody award ticket " and I don't really see her doing any volunteer works for us at Talents Fly this year ...
if she is Angeli's good fried then I don't mind .. but this is an emotion. Emotions is to be aware but not to controls .


Roger

2017年8月31日 星期四

Day reflection

Hanes session is more a dialogue than coaching. What I scan to his body is lack of sleep or not in a good sleeping quality , rest than that, he is hype and full of energy .. we
1. Update on a few things
2. Communicate and develop a lifestyle business development roadmap : sell the product - provide the service - owning a customer- stealing an identity
3. His question:
- Why experience count ?
- our book and his idea
Lunch with Bowei and Hubert
- a coaching nudge to Bowei via Hubert
- yen house Chinese restaurant is good yet h is too much ha la
With Seyin
1. Why her fiancé couldn't come
2. Learn Gary's money borrowing secret
3. Good session with Kevin Peng
4. Lovely dinner at " Really Good " with president Ger , Frances & Richard ..

Really good is a restaurant..


Roger

2017年8月30日 星期三

Difficult Conversation

Difficult Conversation 3 layer : 1) Content ( Fact ) 2) Feelings 3) Identity : from 3 main questions : ⏺ am I good enough ( ability ) ⏺Am I a good person ?


Roger

Calvin and Sound

So Sound enjoy a big breakfast and willing to revise VW website?
1. He knows how to mingle
2. He search for information before seeing the person
3. He willing to help


Roger

J learning

1. When ask to simulate the situation, don't be trapped to take a role play - its will lead to some unthinkable projection.
2. Communication hurdles ( difficulty ) come from 3 aspect ( rehearsals again )
- 1) Fact . 2)? 3) Empathy: a) am I good enough ( capability challenge ) b) am I a good person ( integrity challenge ) c) why can I be love / respect as others ( feeling of fairness )
3. Proactive communication: make it happen ... Inactive communication: let it happen .. or Time is the remedy .
4. 小善易為惡;大智當若愚。


Roger

2017年8月29日 星期二

Met Chris Berry

My finding :
1. I had a charter of connecting with artist easy and deep .
2. I enjoy time to be the ambassador for Taiwan and showcases good things about where I live
3. Chris is warm and passionate - a friend to be and a free spirit also
4. Bring Angeli is a good move. Let her involve and include and create her ownership
5. Ken love what I post about father at Chinese New Year - a resonate so deep and it's the " back look " story every Chinese have in their heart
6. Du ship Yu do offer authentic local delicacy and it's delicious.
7. Be a good host you must : know the basic of your guest ; bring your story a fun way ; feed them local news ; share what we eat and a bit out for their comfort zone ; connect to next encounter ; debrief the purpose of meet ; let social not only social



Roger

2017年8月28日 星期一

Sam

It's not about businesses although my biz pipeline come from YPO forum pool
What I suggest :
1. Fix price for forum fundamental and moderator training, free market for forum retreat.
2. Don't let non qualified member take up CFF role and offer their service: fee or free ...
3. If language is a condition : how to inform or promote language specialist ?
4. Traveling resource: how it was identified and how to make it a fair play in backing region CFF pool ?
5. Rating and recertification criteria?
Other than this : Kurizawa welcome , Joe pizza good and other movie things


Roger

Logan lucky

John Denver is the main theme but it touch upon " games of thrones " what an combination and only can link multiple generations.
He is a genius .


Roger

Recreational moment

Do it simple with no backfire. Even on the Chinese Valentine's Day , I received the greeting but still can joke around it .


Roger

R

I knew the restaurant he plan for lunch is close on Monday , but I don't mind as we can find restaurant nearby , it only proof some neglect in details .
We begin with his trip earlier and follow with his start up - or investing in a start up , his current challenge is people , my viewpoint is different, I need a " why " full with passion to convince me .
And we go over :
1. Emotions is not what you can controls but to aware.
2. To build your muscles of self awareness you need to train your reflection & introspection.
3. Journaling is the best way to build the awareness skill .
4. Passion is where your talents ( do good ) and calling ( bring you values & happiness , achievement) meet .
5. 3 keys determine your future, you just need to align with your passion : shareholder agreement ; ink / chop ; timing to exercise .
6. Father and son : the vertical versus horizontal relationship and my story
7. Separate bed : good or bed
8. Special care giver to father : 3 on 24 hours call
9. 70 years anniversary, I am the only family member and elder son who is not invited to go on stage -- if not for your help and coach , I couldn't be this way now .


Roger

My getting high fantasy

It's been very long since FOB no longer integrated to my life , so I am fantasize the scene every nigh before go to bed , it help me to tuck in easier .. and I have no idea what it means .
And yes , getting high is an ASC : alter state of conscience . Not like getting laid : it's a FLOW - blurry your conscience in time and space .

Roger

On snail on top of the other

I am not sure if they are mating , this is an odd experience so I took the picture here


Roger

Lucid dream

It's a business scene , we are working with a strange company , accordingly to them , the investor behind is a 3C tycoon, I have no idea what business they are into but it seems we have ( or I introduce ) Japanese potential customers visit .
We are all in the office- and the office looks very much like Mr.Han's office , we are thinking how to return favor and pay visit back to Japan .
I don't know why we need to find a company name and the suggestion they makes sound like a Gang , I don't like it and told them if we change company name from time to time only for completed one transaction, I will lose my credit . The counter part show his background, he was a district attorney so it proof his " righteousness " and " credentials "
Then the elevator open , come out with 3 ladies , 2 of them wearing the security uniform and holding a suspect in between , the security had blood in their face and ask my counter partner :" please explain it ? " and I have to excuse myself and slip away silently ...


Roger

Parents sit behind me at the ping ping games

They sit for 10 hours , I don't know why I didn't consider to move my seat ? They are the live broadcaster at the game , they are not watching the game but talking the games , it's really annoying and sometimes thy even ANNOUNCED the wrong information .


Roger

Daphne

It's you on last minute , and it's my decision to allocate this fantasy mission to Angeli .. distance creates ? I don't know but I am aware.


Roger

Table Tennis Universise

I love the Game , not really who wins , unfortunately you are surrounding by patriots , so you become one of them .
Sports competition is about winning not gaming, a sad truth to reveal human nature .. using other body skill rather than weapons to show " I am stronger than you "
Spend 5 hours in 2 sections


Roger

Table Tennis Universise

I love the Game , not really who wins , unfortunately you are surrounding by patriots , so you become one of them .
Sports competition is about winning not gaming, a sad truth to reveal human nature .. using other body skill rather than weapons to show " I am stronger than you "
Spend 5 hours in 2 sections , nice games and nice competition. I am a human being and can't escape from all the hardwiring DNA .


Roger

Royce Take Away

1. Time share: what you do ; Mindshare: What you think you should do.
2. Keywords : include the insight & foresight .
3. Children should not be treated as an instrument to glory their parents.
4. Its quality space in overlapping time , no quality time .
5. Do nothing sometimes is the most difficult thing to do .
6. Don't let my experience become the hurdle in you.
7. To train your awareness muscles: build consistent reflection and introspection moments
8. Your NOT to do it ......
9. EES : emotion & energy scan from Update
10. Let the passion drive you have to give up fighting for fair measurement in any achievements define by normal people .


Roger

2017年8月25日 星期五

Shanghai dialect

H is not happy and this is the second time . So he raise it at our closing lunch . My observation is : no one purposely want it happen and for us , who don't understand Shanghai dialect should voice out and remind them also .


Roger

My word to H

As you are too Romantic, romantic about by planning in advance and planning in details , all of your projection should come to reality one by one , time after time with no flaws .
Once you understand things won't come as you wish , your romantic bubble burst out and you feel frustrated, then emotion arose .. you won't be romantic anymore..
stay in every NOW and learn to appreciate every CHANGE , take the uncertainty the only certainty, life will treat you better or you will let go your romantic obsession and rescue yourself.


Roger

Lucid dreams come after forum

If this is the conclusion : sex is nature, nature sex , then this lucid dream reveal something:
The scene : Its a cafe and we set on the same side
The Action : come to an pause of conversation , she lay her left hand on my right leg . And I put my right hand on top of her hand , gently and feeling different


Roger

2017年8月23日 星期三

Being challenged

By H when try to response to b & b inquiry about breakfast - my intention is not to waste food , not a customer versus service clerk . So when he challenged me with a not friendly voice :" do we have the obligation to answer " I really feel bad
As we said earlier room is his responsibility and I am checking on behalf of him , on top of that , I am not his secretary.. the instinct and instant response now transformed from emotion to feeling . I feel bad


Roger

Auther

Bump into Arthur at HSR just now , it's been decade even we live in the same community.
He works for Sonet 16 years already .
And yes still kind of nervous seeing me , we chat for 10 minutes
1. He is going to maili buying retiring land
2. Kids : 14 and 9
3. ISP business decline due to mobile connectivity
4. Aita San is no longer handle Taiwan
5. Remaining old member : May .. and him
6. Now the CHT shareholder was not a viable assets
7. Willing to work till retire : VP is the ceiling
The see you again greeting to me : you are handsome with good spirit still ( 仍然那麼瀟洒)


Roger

2017年8月22日 星期二

Lucid Dream : David Lee

It's a forum alike environment, on every morning , Terry Kao will show up to our office before official business time , Why ! Don't know and one day he asked me to do a forum for us ..
Then another day a forum like scenario take place in the same room and it's david lee doing his presentation : a good story telling and touch upon his dick : how he controls them now .. the turn out for this forum is huge , as a professional facilitator, I am finding the window to tell everyone 2 things :
1. Confidentiality.
2. Story telling : BST : good things with trouble ; bad things with good ending .


Roger

2017年8月21日 星期一

Chris T

You ask an appointment for : sharing my experience how to begin your first coaching case .. I have no problem Chris
1. CTO
2. Update weekly , In Person monthly
3. GROW model to explore issue
4. Follow up & follow through
The rest is your facilitation skill and personal attribution .
Herban kitchen do have great vegetables meals with decent portion .. I am so full now .


Roger

Tesla Taiwan talk

To set up super charge station in A Zone seems like a good idea .. this is how we thinks :
1. Free use of the space , brand support on event / eduction etc
2. Maybe a T-Cafe can be considered
3. All the contributions and maintenance done by Tesla ...
ping & mark talked to KC and me .
Nice space and cozy office ..
Red brick - White Furniture- Lean in decorating..
Cool Tesla


Roger

J session

I spot his intention to know what I am talking with S / D , so I stop him , it can't be too specific.. and this is my professional integrity
The issue is : how to align our now to owners future ?
My take Away :
1. The building stone for Future is every step of Now.
2. Platform elevate us to reach people we want to see and to gain the experience in life
3. Status Quo caused by the " Freeze Froze "
4. Conclusions varies from Consensus
5. To optimize but never maximum- space for breath benefit more .


Roger

Hitman & bodyguard

It's an alternative crime movie and it's so entertaining, am I lost my taste to art film ? Or there's no ok art house film recently ..
maybe I am use the movie time to relief something and to " killing time " kind of scary .


Roger

Chi Hun MD

Summary :
1. Feedback : to express my feeling first and don't challenge others feeling / emotion ( private domain ) don't create the defense mood - fleet or fight ..
2. Run for peer leader: 1) not lead by professional but as leader who influence. 2) set the goals and to advocate them : international developing / in & out ; increase peer intimacy and sharing experience; be the social conscience to our community 3) 2 tag line : beware of what you wishing for and to finish what you started.
3. Upgrades : your patients ( customers) and yourself : 1) upgrade to VIP before introduce better treatment package . 2) use analogy to explain why cheap can't product best quality 3) promote your expertly via hospital resources. 4) how to pricing : first prof and package with VIP clicks
4. Something about current reality in Taiwan : 1) dare to dream big 2) ideology ruining the country
5. Personal : I was once considered to Major psychology, as it's too complicate so I follow my passion : model making and choose to be othotlogy MD
6. Passion is : When Talents cross with your Calling.
7. 10.000 times rules works : Malcom Gladwell " outlier " is a master piece .. even the Beatles .
8. Yoda : Thanks for your token and a memento to our friendship


Roger

Chasing the scream

It's a documentary literature and Hari do know how to attract people : such as recoding upload for everyone and beginning with the story of Billy Holiday ...
Drug War is an invented game or it's an evil wrongdoing will cost human being falling ? And what's the appropriate way to treat addiction ?
I enjoy reading and it's a quick reading book .


Roger

2017年8月19日 星期六

Gaia resort


Meiling pick me up at Sunsang airport and heading to Gaia resort beitou .. it's the couple force us to go .. but the hot spiring is very good .
My emotions arose by google map - the gps direct to super highway get me nervous always and Meiling read my nervous also , the result is at resort but no sex.
We had a very quick dinner and I share our 30 anniversary plan to Japan ., it should be nice but to reset expectation always
This morning, we went for a hike and see a big rotten tomb use by an army general ,,sad
And I murmur about her neglect in caring me and yes , the pay off is good sex after breakfast and before second hot spring treatment .
She say " after my place stent , I start to treat her well " which means it's only 10 years .. my question: what did I do to her before ?

Roger

2017年8月17日 星期四

3 topic


1. My brother
2. My successor in mind
3. My newly acquired company

Roger

Another 3 and half hours with Hu


It's a good one as Hu clearly list down 3 issues to go over today and we spend 3 hours to do it . And the remaining time is his weekly Update..

Roger

30 is something unique , we should do something special with someone

Japan hot spring trip with Meiling is the idea , and the thoughts behind is to appreciate 30 years on the road ..
no expectation but a planing


Roger

Terry in sun glass

We wave heads outside the immigration line and learning he is heading bj .. just a nod and hello ..


Roger

My mobile office


Yes , it's eve air lounge : printing unlimited ..and good stationary ..
as I am the " real " frequent flyer ( as I run into the hospitality manger at the entrance : her greeting is wired : oh sir , I saw you many times ? )


Roger

2017年8月16日 星期三

Gestures

I don't know why people enjoy standing in others way .. and to complicate things .
Such as the Talents Fly 2017 cross but not over vs A Zone and Winds Music , A Zone foundation... people knows each other but don't want to build the consensus for making a good thing good .. I have too many Why ..


Roger

Reflection on Sound


As father and son : the vertical relationship, I am upset
As 2 adult dealing with emotion : the horizontal relationship, there is people like that , never mind and just leave it alone .

Roger

Sound piss me off

I am not happy about his challenge my feelings and brought back the snake liquor issues, more than that , he swirl and say something bad over the line with me when discuss his " trip in Vietnam "
What should I take it ? Spending time , effort. Money and relationships and this is the pay off ?
I need to write it and let go of such an unpleasant emotion .


Roger

Talk walk

FB producer manage : your attention is a product
Neefx CEO : our competitor are FB google and sleep
Scholar : don't grand the power to phone to decide for you - delete social media app


Roger

2017年8月15日 星期二

Electronics shut down Taiwan

It never happen before and the damage is hArd to calculate. The good side : you hardly can see people in the same community walk out their door and communicate. No TV and lights turn the community become a community .


Roger

TTV what do I mentioned


1. Not only to find new trend , but to survey on loyal customer what works for them and what can be better?
2.GMA brand is not by packaging or marketing but the context , how to build the mainstream versus application Eco system ?
3.Let the international panel be your next cheer leader and having the locals to guide And mingle with them .
4.Measure the impact , not the outcome
5. Asian base and asian focus - from market to service ..
6.Seating dimension and panel design will make some difference : panel to panel , lecture , one on one , workshop , experience , audience lead panel ..

Roger

4 words for H on emergency

1. Can you return and help me ?
2. I need a partner
3. She is not stable
4. Can we meet and talk ?
Slow Yes ; Quick No


Roger

Gene kick off and personal retreat

I appreciate regent Tai Pan offer me a no private room charge space for the whole day and offer me great support.
Gene : kick off from 10:00 until 13:50
1. CTO and confidentiality Contract sign off
2.Go through personal retreat ppt
3.Do the basic
- family
- networks
- spouses and personal Things
- issues forward looking ( p / f / b )
- 3 contacts for interviewing
- WU format
- coaching contract
- Time share : Mind share; Sharing with someone you trust ; solving with someone hold you accountable.
Anti is the Things we don't have time to address
A good start ..


Roger

Should I joke about the applicant ?

I shouldn't but I couldn't help ..
She use the name " Courage " apply for the matching selection ..
her music wasn't impressive so who all the judges come together for the final round .
After showing the video, I ask the event organization party , did she use the name " courage " first time to apply ? The answer is yes and without second thought , I said " yes , this is what they need .. " Tree didn't get it the first time .. my explanation just making the fun no fun anymore .


Roger

Recently encountered tattoo figures

1. The grand staff for Eva airline who have a little lions head on her finger
2. The camera man who shoot the opening ceremony at CQ Shin Kong Place tattoos a big " question mark ""?" On his back head
3. This morning I met a young girl running on top of fairy feet stone , she wore a short top sport with belly naked : you see on top and of her belly tattoo 2 human face - she must have someone to remember or something to tell .
To me , its brave to put on your second skin - tattoo , why , because this is the thing once you do is hard to reverse - when grow up , grow old or try to change your identify .. you just label yourself in a hard way .. I don't ha for the courage to do it and it won't be on my buckle list .


Roger

A relatively long conversation

Meiling was horny last night , it's an intimacy invitation, however , the mood was not for me, so we do an length conversation on bed instead of making love over bed .
She will do the pregnancy test the following date , although the decision is made : she is too old and I am to overwhelmed to take the risk of having another baby , the topic surrounding it still.
I flip the Perdue of Carl Jung's last publishing, professor Yu did a great work introduce Jung to his newly acquainted, especially on sub consciences and the non cause - effect theory on " Things " a more meaning transfer simultaneously from " Ego " ( who are you ? ) to " Self " .. ( dream and symbols ) , so clearly and precisely.
Then my curiosity arises , when learn he used to teach at Tung Hwa but passed away at the age of 61 -- and the first time I saw anyone mentions / profoundly " in " & " out " as the nature to life .. similar to my personal finding this year - am I a self born wiser ? Or my soul once hiding somewhere ?
I felt pity about the lost and pity not able to have in person encounter with another wiser .

Roger

2017年8月14日 星期一

More-space warehouse

Bin Chang road 309 B2
Access with U card
Storage 105
Password : 1919
Now I have a space for something ..


Roger

Linda

So you need me
Do you need me
How can I help you
How I can help you


Roger

S session prepare Gene personal retreat

1. EES : emotions and energy scan
2. TIME Share VS MIND share
3. Key stakeholders analysis
4. GROW and Issue go deep
5. WWH : will + way + holding Simone accountable
6. CTO
7. PET
8. Weekly Update cycle and Monthly in person .
9. On regular and on emergency basis


Roger

Meiling

You don't need to ask me not to grand fruit money .. you are reminding yourself but not me .. so please
Finally you spot the boy who fruit is seeing now . You told me he is ugly , short and riding a motorcycle.. I am all fine as long as she feel happy ..
and yes , I won't grand more money anymore


Roger

S

Emotion and Energy scan : as normal as usual
Sleeping is an issue still but whatever
Moving to a non executive investor role is more save .
It's like serve to the army when you unroll from the army : you feel safe and you don't lost an arm or leg .. a good analogy .


Roger

Soda Green and Tree

I have no idea A fu from soda green is the panel judge today .. and I share some story with Tree about my Today Records Shop days with Lao Cha .. the guitarist from The Youth.
And yes , a possible dinner with Chris Berry on Aug. 28 before " Cross but not Over " event


Roger

Why

1. Why wear your earphone always? Can't let your ears take some rest ?
2. Why in a hurry , dose the minute or second make any significant difference?
3. Why running marathon demonstrates you as a better person ?


Roger

Lucid dream : 2

I am protecting my family : especially for 2 infant in my house , it's a house and with certain degree of security : bars / fence , bad guys hold metal stuff try to get in .. I am in the midst of protecting..
what does it means ? To have new born ? To encounter financial worries ?


Roger

2017年8月13日 星期日

Experience the worst seating area


For a local movie and get the first raw .. hey what an experience

Roger

Reflection

1. The small talk at union cafe about the external affairs: next table .
2. The hungry puppy chewing the chair at a corner cafe , and he plays with me .
3. Very expensive unagi rice : 900 NT and Why to hire a Korean service lady and point me to the wrong direction twice .. am I too serious and win the apology from cashier?
4. Union cafe : a tutor is teaching a high school kid about Algebra - I still can't figure it out why it is important at school but less - I mean much less significant after you graduate?
5. Louis CK : comedian with a character - send by sound ..
6. Sound and Khanh and Thien : sound love Thien the most .. no reason
7. Don't turn on air conditioning too long / so why not stay at public library or go to a movie ( and you have to put on the jacket )
8. Taxi driver Kevin ( an actor I Believe) post his celebrity photos all over the car .. which come more important?
9. Analysis follow Jung : it's quite a commitment, why everyone need to be analysis?


Roger

Weekend errands

I am not taking about some house keeping staff but my own little something :
1. Friday afternoon: 2 movie and one dinner wish Meiling: the Spain movie wasn't so brilliant and my second review to " baby driver " is an ok also .. but we had a very good intimacy on Friday night . Since her MC late for 2 weeks , she want to relief.
2. Sat : our in the car and see the world routine . From route 106 to Fu Long Beach buy ourself the lunch bento and return home along the coast highway.. I went home earlier than Meiling and we enjoy the " games of throne " at home , the new episode and the dragon mother .. good one
3. Sunday : it's an independent day , I do my library morning. I was late but manage to check the biography of sigmud frued .. part of . And browsing some good / now unagi restaurant in town . I am going to " just do eat " tonight .
4. Afternoon at Union cafe : a local good cafe , the table next to me is like some 60 plus elder talked about the external affairs and kind of emotions , I change my table , withdraw the playing heart and read the Juening life .. interesting in reading..
now I am about to enjoy my unagi rice now . 900 NT - its costly .


Roger

2017年8月11日 星期五

H : don't continue to surprise me

Voice recording : the green tea at HSR Kaohsiung station is good , remind me to buy it on aug 23 .. and I have to be at airport by 5:20 pm so which HSR I should take ? And calculate all the detail time spend in between .

Hahaha


Roger

2017年8月10日 星期四

H words

1. I am reluctant to take the group leadership but my father should retired in 2 years, on the board meeting, I am officially include in the Taiwan Executive Committee
2. The monthly long sabbatical from China is a 5 years routine due to the tax plan .
3. Sleeping always been a big issue to me , it damaged my health significantly, I've try every method and am taking sleeping bill now , but there's no off switch in my brain , it won't work after I tried the third time .
4. I am even too excited about I am about to taking sleeping pill and I should have a good sleep , and the excitement keep me awake all night after pill .
5. Coffee is the stimulative I need it now on almost every meeting .
6. A big " Whol. " when Vincent almost hit the crossing street cat
7. I have 5 secretary / assistsnt to help me sore out everything
8. I am too kind to my wife : 3 nanny , one assistant and 2 drivers .. she only need to yell and things get done. It's a problem now .
9. I don't eat complicated food such as : crab , shrimp or even the meat hard to chew ..
10. It's good to walk and now relax and take a good rest
11. My take Away is due to dry run , I have to ware short pant and I felt the nickel tissue development a soft tumor inside .. I need to check it now , but which specialist ?
12. Yes , I love to stay one more night at adagio Huilien , but what To do in the afternoon ? In 3 hours , can you tell me what to do ?


Roger

2017年8月9日 星期三

Reputation

If I maintain my reputation for so long .. why should I break it now simply because a food friend want me to diet the same color?
It's principal and it's live my value, no matter how others see me as strange or pretend, as long as I live it longer than people's thoughts , I win .


Roger

Wu support Wu

A funny thought come to my mind
When seeing Thomas Wu appears at Shin Kong Place opening dinner , I don't realize but gradually I sense Thomas once kidnapped in Taiwan , according to news it's May who save him out.
And Steven Wu once kidnapped in Beijing when boarding his planes back but was force to get off and couldn't come home to Taiwan .
They both risk their life being rick or running biz against others interest .. a funny thought come to my mind .


Roger

This is something unusual

I woke up 3 in the morning during a tiring day , something's unusual:
1. Carrie message about postpone linda coaching schedule : it happens and it will happen one day .
2. Meiling ask if she have pregnant , should we keep the baby as I am approaching 60 now ? Yes , it's a perfect one to correct us how it raise a child .
3. Not going out wine daniel and the crews


Roger

This is something unusual

I woke up 3 in the morning during a tiring day , something's unusual:
1. Carrie message about postpone linda coaching schedule : it happens and it will happen one day .
2. Meiling ask if she have pregnant , should we keep the baby as I am approaching 60 now ? Yes , it's a perfect one to correct us how it raise a child .
3. Not going out with daniel and the crews , seems I am not a coop man .
4. Still struggles in wasting time on the trip .. couldn't really bail me out from it .


Roger

2017年8月8日 星期二

Reflection

1. Melvin in CQ
2. Regent car back to Hyatt
3. Richard join YPO greater china and met daniel this morning
4. Gary had the wrong expectation about me and he is right now
5. Do nothing in CQ is something
6. I will go to the best sell movie this afternoon for sure
7. The same restaurant twice and the taste is good , price is reasonable
8. Ugly Monkey cafe - why charge for money
9. Met Chu Ping and Ming at airport - just think about the book ripple
10. The " warm " from wechat and the message she send
11. Sound knows how to make peace and decided to call me again


Roger

Aug 8 and 88

Today is Father's Day in Taiwan also the memorial Birthday for 88 , browse his FB this morning and so my respect for a few minuets .
Daphne is an idea candidate to participate as next karuizawa summer jazz featuring artist . Hope it to as planned



Roger

2017年8月6日 星期日

Emotion exit

To tell someone how sad / angry / frustrate / many other emotion seems to be a good mean in resolve your emotion , what we don't realized is if we are dumpling it and " outsourcing " our emotions to others without ask for permission?
If the one really listened, I meant in active and empathy listening , he or she must felt energy suck by you .. if he is not listing, you won't feel the care and yours sharing won't be paid off ..
when to ask permission for sharing - resolving your emotion ? Find the right time , in a right mood and maybe choose a right place - when things outside is right , inside can be right .


Roger

Don't do it

If the perspective is " you are coming back " I am really send a terrible message , don't make the transaction a continuity invitation . Do the transaction a transaction practice - one in a time , no dragging and no to pour in any feeling .


Roger

Rattlesnake liquor and the emotion

Late last night, almost one o'clock in the morning taipei time , Meiling line phone and ask about check in her luggage with Sound's suverner - the rattlesnake liquor in the bottle. I disagree and Sound insist on smuggle one bottle and see how it happen ? I told him if anyone should taken the risk , it should be him but not his mother , he getting emotional and challenge once I being in Tibet beef and not process quarantine.. I didn't answer him immediately but ask Meiling to stick on the principal - if anyone ask him to smuggle drug and other illegals material , what will he do and who should response for it ?
I really upset by Sound's way of inquiry during our conversation last night, it kept me awake for a long while :
- why he never appreciate my efforts to bring him Vietnam intern experience?
- why not to think my rationale in not to break the rule ?
- Why press on somebody's wound when challenge his viewpoint
It all surface some of his nature - the devil side of Sound , it's a pity to see it coming


Roger

Rattlesnake liquor and the emotion

Late last night, almost one o'clock in the morning taipei time , Meiling line phone and ask about check in her luggage with Sound's suverner - the rattlesnake liquor in the bottle. I disagree and Sound insist on smuggle one bottle and see how it happen ? I told him if anyone should taken the risk , it should be him but not his mother , he getting emotional and challenge once I being in Tibet beef and not process quarantine.. I didn't answer him immediately but ask Meiling to stick on the principal - if anyone ask him to smuggle drug and other illegals material , what will he do and who should response for it ?
I really upset by Sound's way of inquiry during our conversation last night, it kept me awake for a long while :
- why he never appreciate my efforts to bring him Vietnam intern experience?
- why not to think my rationale in not to break the rule ?
- Why press on somebody's wound when challenge his viewpoint
It all surface some of his nature - the devil side of Sound , it's a pity to see it coming , I am preparing to accept the Cold War next , some values you live and you should stand for .. for this , I can forgive but not forget.


Roger

2017年8月5日 星期六

Gang of 4 minus 1

Last minute notice ? Sidney - Why and Why guessing ?
It's purely a eating gathering , nothing particular .
Peter apply PhD at Tung Hwa university .
Chung Lu ( hey I forget his English name ) feel no focus in life ( according to him - no gravity)
Super man is so nice and offer 2 drinks for my friend .
Tua : I thinks I said something like : I won't take initiative anymore ..


Roger

News about R

Melvin go to CQ : Sherry and everyone support .
Andre resign and a consultant become managing director of Regent
CC develop cancer : sad and she take a year long leave
Simon prompt as GM of Regent Taipei and he is not happy ...
F have been here for 5 years and If Chances come .
Jason resign and will take new offer in Sep.
Sinking Life opening banquet will be done by Regent CQ team - Steve will be there on 9th also
S : remain unchanged.. following 5 years will be challenge still .
Antonio / Jason take me as role model ? Right and wrong ...
Gang of eating : Ellen ; Simon ; Fumei and Melvin but now .. gone


Roger

Daphne

A story to open :
1. What is karuizawa summer jazz festival
2. Why I am doing so ?
3. The budget and prerequisites
4. You ? Ok make my life simple
--
Possibility :
1. Toku
2. Aki Tanaka
3. Akio ?
4. Sky Wu


Roger

Fumei

It's been 5 years at Regent , it ain't easy when Trust is not the DNA in the culture , please won't feel Safe then .
Leaning :
1. Personal and business updates
2. Time share versus mindshare
3. Choice is my default
4. Trust is a choice never the practice



Roger

Sherwin

Sure . Sherwin , I might be one of the unique person among your father's friend circle - the other one is A Da .
So - to pursue academic credit : MBA PhD is a stepping stone to you next career goal - somewhere in the field of international affairs dealing with " rebalancing asia power "
As you see the instability coming next in Asia and since it's inevitable, how to manage it is critical than to stop it ( it's almost impossible?
And what's your constrain ? Time and Money- and by the way I am married and this is part of our plan - to work overseas and for me to pursue my life goal is to trike a balance in Asian stability.
It's not a normal route people walk on he life Journey : survival - success then significant, you done the reverse engineering and put the significant in front - as this is the goal you hardly achieve in one life , so it's qualify to be a life goal .. congrats
What I can do ?
- Shu Yu Ren
- Japan negotiator
- block chain : nation of weaver



Roger

2017年8月4日 星期五

2 good movies


The 2 action films were so good :
1. Frozen Secrets : Cold blonde is a great action / spy movie and the tone of director is amazing .. music and background of Berlin Wall is also brilliant .
2. Baby Driver : like it so much , not so many action movies have such a racing / action feel . Enjoy it as another cult film
I do have a good time in the theater .

Roger

Behavior , thinking and action

The thoughts floating for month and days , I project the consequences and not to take action . And the thought of immediate pleasure cast a shadow on me .. by calculation the risk , it's higher than the " transactional pleasure " that's my rationale brain stop me to do ..
and the substitute is either less save or less pleasure or it contain certain degree of risk , although the exposure is not as significant as my floating though . It's a risk also .
I am use my Update to probe my thoughts and I know 100% I should NO take action .
Behavior and behave ..


Roger

2017年8月3日 星期四

Hubert

McDonald is in fast pace under a fast food mentality , I have to catch up and only observation now
-- don't worry and no push. When the time comes , I will be ready .
What's dose our sessions benefit me ? By only sharing but not solving ?
-- by sharing you are in the process of solving
-- you know the skill of coaching and use it to lead the new team
-- I am the one you trust to share what you don't disclose
-- whenever you ask for " solve " I will be there and all you need is call me
How you see our partnerships or relationship
-- don't let it end
I love to help others
- so please help me more
- when the time is good for you or it's bad for me .
I am surrounding by abnormal persons in my family
- time bomb



Roger

Session with Hanes

My high / hype energy is an " in - between " syndrome.
We agree :
1. Boss must be the smartest in his company. Those who smarter than him either work on their own / find a smarter boss .. or the worst case - play dummy and live life easier working for you .
2. Communication dilute trust - if any corporation need efficiency, the leader can only allow official internal collaboration meeting once - for the second time , come to owners office for final decision .
3. Do the Right thing and Do the thing right
4. Flow :
-- SEAL : 1) never give up your partner in war . 2) alway look at opposite side when taking mission 3) onsite - we follow whoever move first .
-- Google : Burning Man & Schmidt as CEO from 2001
5. CSR report and Jay's leadership


Roger

2017年8月2日 星期三

Who I become the pa to D


Simply because you never say no to him and always response to his request no matter it's easy or tough .
So , don't let yourself be the victim of friendship . It's not mutual and won't health

Roger

The young female driver at airport

She drove up to 130 km / hour on the highway , no less than any tough male deiver .


Roger

Reflection

1. Why daphne ? And she's ok .. karuizawa 2018 - become an agenda now
2. Coco Shen : what a pity or not . Miss in Tokyo but say hello on FB
3. Last minutes on Aug 4th .. I should just let the time passing by .. and make it a movie day
4. Shopping : for the comfortable and cool clothes .. not the fancy or brand thing .
5. So many unagi rice : 5 in totals and I won't get tired of it .
6. A remote coaching with Huwen ..
7. Totally forget Linda / Sean ...


Roger

Non stop is a discipline or not

5 nights 6 days in Tokyo , I perform 6 times if my own recreation without others hand - it's a discipline or I am overly abuse my " BODY " although I fully aware it's nothing to do with body .
My private and secrets life refrain me from ruining my reputation , it's critical to what I am doing now ..


Roger

Internship resonate


I recall the time when father arrange me a summer part time at Taipei Municipal Police Station for distribution of police shoes - it's for uncle Tasi's " All Beauty Shows " who tender the police shoes at that time .
I don't know how many days I was there to issue / replace shoes , my memory is I sneak a few hundred at shoes box and use them to buy some vinyls - rock album at my high school day .
It's my stains when I was still a high school student .
Today , I am arrange Sound internship to Saigon and this memory surface ..

Roger

J session

We were back to Taiwan last night. His family time at Bali and my coaching trip to Saigon
1. Relax is to experience an Extreme Experience : it require your full attention and the " NOW "will surface .
2. Not a " emotion / energy " scan today but a " reality check "
3. No equity involved, professional can only be short sighted .
4. To see the 「脾氣 」versus 「任性」
5. Next board terms : what's the contributor made from current director
6. If brokers can run the business & industry, we shall all be pity . Consequences is not as simple as you see.
7. Smart people doing stupid thing ? Must be some agenda .


Roger

Emotions trigger

Our emotions is triggered by others - mainly other people's emotion . And how those unpleasant energy infusion to our mind is still a question to me .
Ken Yang : good friend of mine and development Winds Music to an unimaginably sustainable position at such a industry destruction.
Talents Fly ask him / or his company to join force a " charity based " function by offering their expertise. The intention of doing good should be clear.
I am not sure is the budget is irrelevant or the strategic mind of " buy one get one free " free ride is a must for surviving today . The even hijacked and the corporation with Adagio B & B ( or the trade off ) become the marketing angle which diluting our " good cause " and blurring the role " Talents Fly " / A Zone perform at the joint event ..
A Zone foundation manager is so upset and emotional - according to Angeli ( our project owner from Talents Fly ) who initially should be the coordinator to all possible dispute , however , she is taking a step back ( this is only my observation, don't want to get her hands dirty is her nature ) and rationale why Winds is doing - I am fine as there is no point to break my friendship with Ken but to reexamine what I did for them and should I continue to do so ...
KC is cool as a bystanders but he see things clear ..
my emotion is been trigger by Mayan and Angeli but not Ken or Winds Music .
I am journaling in order to bring back my peace of mind.
In addition , I am not so happy about having our volunteer such as Connie here and do " almost nothing " but to be a guest - I didn't reserve dinner seat for her ( and my impression change after preparing gma tickets for her . But after the show , nothing happen and no Thanks you .. It's don't sound like an HR specialist to me ) .
This is a mix emotion .. and I am anchor it here .


Roger

2017年8月1日 星期二

Viewpoint, thoughts and others

When happily share my commitment to bring over Taiwan jazz musicians to Japan participating on karuizawa jazz festival . For ease the financial burden and to do something meaningful .
A cold water pulling down on my head , Meiling say why can't get rid of the grief ? What not let the " missing the lost one " keep within oneself, why not work for the living , the poor and those who need help and we can really SEE ? And why spend money on the dead ? Why not save for the raining day ? Would 88 happy to see this happen ? Or why I am doing what I think is good but to drag her grief period longer ? By continue to support karuizawa jazz festival and bring her back to the 88 days - how can Teako bail herself out ? How can she open new chapter for her life ?
There is nothing wrong with her pragmatically thoughts, I just told Meiling don't share such a thought to anyone as it will be treated or cold blooded .
I am a human and I am maybe more human sense than normal human ..


Roger

2017年7月31日 星期一

What trigger me when visiting 88'd new house

Teako :
1. He must be lonely without me.
2. When his photo pop up at my phone , I don't understand the message : he want to stay or happy about new house
3. I saw so many 88 car plague on the day we move
4. I miss him
5. I don't go back to eat at Shanghai chef or Kendall : I feel sad
6. It carved : by Teako on 3018.08.08 his birthday
7. I will eat at the sushi restaurant next week and ask Saito san to accompany me .
8. I do nothing , Singh language translation for government and stay at home with cars and dogs
9. You are the first one come to visit , even before his brother and sister .
10. I wish the album he produce can be reissued not to delete .


Roger

2017年7月29日 星期六

Gene

1.He send me a " I am temporary ok " message and begin to schedule our personal retreat
2.Velera / Adagio group Tiffany try so hard to find a day to meet up
3. NOPOSI working on viable timing still , not dying but it take longer to close the deal
4. Royce 2 years will ink this week .
It have to be Real even you are doing virtue / virtual coaching work


Roger

From Ejiri : the Pirate Life - jack sparrow


He said : to define when to counselor or coaching :
From negative to zero energy : he need counseling .
From zero up : he need coaching.
It's an interesting definition

Roger

2017年7月28日 星期五

Reflection

John :
1. I will love the movie " aloha "
2. Luk Tei is difficult to talk .
3. Yes Vietnum please . I will attend dinner on 13th
4. Kenting : impossible to build now
5. H2O hotel: it's for fun
6. We have a house in Tokyo
7. Talent Fly if can move to southern Taiwan
8. I don't really know jazz
Ray :
1. 3 AD : accept differences ( conflict of interest) Adapt difficulty ( conflict of value ) Appreciate Diversity ( human DNA )
2. Super power : traveling between times , reading people's minds
3. The development of language is we try to hide our minds.
4. My blind spot in seeing why I do what I do
Daniel :
1. You fail to dinner
2. You don't get the phone
3. You didn't pay your dinner due
Ejiri / Aki joint dinner
1. Happy to help your wife and thanks to Sidney
2. Aki : it's from 1966 the Beatles change you . I should not bring back the ugly memory about mandarin hotel incident
3. Danny : check and balance .. you are smart : hello roger ..


Roger

2017年7月27日 星期四

Spot some private thing from Meiling

She accidentally leak to me that during my traveling, she came to Grand View resorts twice by herself without telling me ..
And act as normal as usual .
Hey .. this is so NEW to me


Roger

3 in a row who deplete my energy

C+C clash on planned joint coaching ( leave open issue remains unchanged)
L + S encouraged with the only daughter's psychological issue with break up ( impact on couples life and biz )
R hangover and space out result to an less performing one on one session ( reboot & recharged expectations low )
I am also suck in this gloomy low energy for 3 days ..
should a coach response for all the mental condition ? Or to experience up & down during the coaching journey is a healthier development?
I am only practice my life / executive coaching for 3 years ( to exaggerate to 6 simply because H is the take person bold enough to tango with me ) and if this is my mission and passion , more and more challenging on the road is inevitable. When a MD encounter a DOB when performing his surgery. How a mental expert stitch on brokers heart ?


Roger

2017年7月26日 星期三

I am here




Roger

Meiling to Saigon

I am planning : sound is exciting, how we may get Meiling out of her comfort zone ? And how to make her feel comfortable to embrace every new experience?
I can sense her reluctance but we will do it ..


Roger

Tired ; exhausted and lack of focus


R is not in a good shape today , clubbing until 4:00 am , how can a coaching session going well like this ?
He is doing what he call " mediation " before I arrived ( to me , it's napping ) and I can see from his eyes. He hardly can pull himself , in order not to tear down the mask , I use my " process " weight and shorten to a 90 minutes session ..
and I am wondering if he space out also , this is what I worried more -- as for the contents and context today , must be some take Away for both of us ..

Roger

2017年7月25日 星期二

Is it the break up siren ?

Even it is the break up siren , be amicable is what I hoping for ..


Roger

Sound's life learning

The car accident which took the life of his team leader is a life lesson . The grief , the lost , the life dialogue.. I am with him and not with him .


Roger

Hubert and foundation donation

I should have problem in what and why Hubert ask us donate to a non related charity
It's my role to correct the wrong doing and not to get my hand dirty if not worthy ..
it's not stubborn, it's to change some behavior not healthy to the organization.
Be calm and be rationale .. it's another learning process .
The cost ? I can really exit everything from Huberts so call " new kingdom "
I do have some emotion .. and I am fine my way to dialogue with it .


Roger

2017年7月23日 星期日

What I do on the plane to Saigon ?

Take a deep nap as I woke up 4:15 and take 7:20 flight out .
Nice Ding Tai Fung beed noodle
Reading some magazines and
Half way done my " emotion and energy scan " to Crystal's Update - second reading and series reading is different.. many resonates.
Landing and found it chuanghaw telecom open the roaming service with Vietnam again Such a good news to me , now I don't need go bring 2 phones or worries about no connected ...
check in so many " gift " it's like a present my preset trip .


Roger

2017年7月22日 星期六

Chaucer dinner

This is on his treat again : they choose a Japanese restaurant this time and we begin our idea exchange from 5:30 pm
The theme lay on his " lay off with one year serviliec pay " and how a MAN can find his peaceful mind : it about " something to achieve " to ease the trouble mind .
I share my 3 S learning from my coaching experience: survive - success - significant. and being him to think about the legacy in life .
He is so curious about how I may engage my coachee and to make it happen, what's the magic behind , then I address the 3 stage of mastering to him : skill - art - magic .
Not to be occupied by occupation and to appreciate every moment - the now and fully enjoys every In & Out .
It's about temple , not speed ; it's how we blend not balancing.. another take away.
Cancer pronounce similar to Cancel , and it's really the stop sign to many dreams and plans- Amy is such a character and her " please marry my husband " is a classic.


Roger

2017年7月21日 星期五

Smog free project is not a free project

My tele conference with Daan again is short and sweet :
1. I learn the model about private / public corporation idea
2. Roughly the licensing fees : for build the first smog free towel is roughly between 600.000-1.5 euro
3. Smog free bike and tower can license from the same source: Dan lab


Roger

2017年7月20日 星期四

W move to Tauyang

Receive the update when doing my body adjustment at Huang's clinic . I chat over the line but didn't talk ...
Should I reach out and bail it ? Or just keep it that way ?


Roger

Dunkirk retreat

It's not a war movie - when general said : I see home , my eyes were wet . It didn't address too much on the war scene but how human nature and survival mode drive us ..
I enjoy it's art and humanly - it's a good movie


Roger

A bit sad and mix with happy

He said he might step down after the so call " advance plan " , I feel happy for him and sad for this not performing government.
It's good to invite him doing something meaningful in life - as what slap on me is he is exactly the same age as Mr. Wu who founded eslite book store and passed away a few days ago .
Shu want to go overseas for studying international affairs : money is an issue , experience is another .. I will and should reach out .


Roger

Hochen

Sweet and short
1. The culture report with Cheng
2. Young in occupation/ career development
3. Smog free and foundation initiative
4. Tele com in Vietnam
5. Movie the circle
6. Hochen Hsu and international affair
7. Liner life develop 2 dimensions of circle : flat - cycle life , vertical : same circle of friend / connection for the feed yet seek direction
8. Talents Fly Sep. 2 in H Lien
9. Tibet culture window in Taiwan
10. Nation of FB ::


Roger

2017年7月18日 星期二

One day with SY Cai

I don't take it as any coaching / consulting session but more or less like support your younger sister, so this is how we spending a day tougher in SH
SY pick me up by 10:30 am with her JEEP - yes the 4 wheels and our first stop is the private museum - located at 17 floor of riverside- Bin Chiang .
If not for her personal guide , I wouldn't know how to appreciate the Chinese ancient art - how to obtain the basic understanding of Sung / Ching dynasty treasure pieces . And we touch upon the Univesity , the Advisory Board and how to connect resource I familiar in Taiwan and the boutique resort Managment liaison with Adagio / ... we set up the onsite and with Kevin / principal ger on Aug. 31 and magically I successfully secure appointment respectfully .
I then get the chance to hand touch those treasures -- so amazingly magic , it's not in the closet but in your eyes and hand - the first hand experience really make my day .
Lunch is good . I might overly ate too much meat ..
Second highlight is my virgin experience to " DiD experience center " . Locate in another prime area and open to public : workshop is a b2b approach , experience center is to increase influence to the mass.
Today , the center close for training, one of the top trainer / coach bibi from Mexico is doing workshop the whole day and I am so lucky to access to this privilege - the only person to enjoy bibi's guide in the dark .
As I am prepared , so I keep my eye open for the whole session , when conducting the final cafe in the dark , I assume my time in the dark is 25 minutes, and the actual time is 43 minutes- as you prepare , the fear is no longer a threat to you . This is my biggest take Away -hope for the best and prepare for the worst ...
I share the story about 88 and " love in the eyes " and sincerity wish for those who couldn't see , there is a souls seed in their heart ..
When complete experience and about to take the " I survive " photos and I was astonished to know I am the number 1110 who garner this experience. And it's my birthday: 11 10 .
Everything happens for a reason..

Roger

2017年7月17日 星期一

Many trouble mind

Meiling urge me to take the smog free project a business initiative and make a trip to Ruteedan . Pay a visit to Daan ..
I secure 2 days to attend Steven Wu's CQ sing Kong land opening and to witness the launch of ELAC first retail as well


Roger

Weddings party

Eric's daughter Jessica married Jack : more than 20 YPOer attend the wedding party last night at Marriott.
It's a gala and Eric do demonstrate his networks in his daughters wedding party. What interesting me is the YPO group :
1. Ray come only for 2 dishes but we finish our coaching session day in Tokyo
2. Steven Pan inform i should visit KS for the great restaurant open in his new hotel and Daan / Flow sees to capture his high attention.
3. James Wang : yes I agree to do 4 houses Session by 30th of Sep at Saigon
4. George : credit about getting Eric in the YPO org and his life in a slow pace
5. John open the family hotel H2O in KS and promise my upgrade, it's my father and son city tour new destination
6. Gary and Ken : no Wang Wen Chin from Business Week is not stealing my words
7. Rose : yes , so you met Sonet gentlemen in Japan
8. Philip : you gain weights now
9. Ken : how you forget to reply my invitation
10. Daniel : doing biz with Daan : both Steven
11. Steven Wu: ok CQ I am coming
12. Eugene : quite
13. Michael Chu couple : it's a party look
14. Hilo : interested in the cruise with Steven Pan
15. Alan Tong : just a glance



Roger

2017年7月16日 星期日

Coco Shen

Her post at FB in regard to " oyster " this is such a great article . I am totally surrender to it .


Roger

Learning: Kind of minds

It's a hard reading book but worth spending time :
From a machine learning to equip with Mind , this is a profound quest . And my learning today :
ABC learning model since 18th to unveil the mind :
A: assositioism , behavioralism , connectivity learning .
If your arms have mind , the should know the pain , what is the Amputate arm need to reconnect to the body : dose the separate arm feel pain ? Do we need to anesthesia it ?


Roger

MD session


What's next : one by one , goals achieve and now I don't have presenting / urgent issue , am I in the comfort zone too long ? Should I pursue my next goal ? And what's my goal next ?
Coaching solution :
1. What make a people stay in any organization: RED ( reward / environment/ development)
2. Transformation oneself from vertical development to horizontal development
3. What equip to be a peer leader and how it will benefit and enlarge my view to the world
4. Master is lonely: they are the best in their field , only to connect other master at their pinnacle, the conversation will spark .
5. By 50 , If you wish to change your value systems, the driver should be significant enough, otherwise , dose is worth to take the risk ?
6. A peer leader to connect people in other field then to increase your view .
What I am happy to
1. Be your connector
2. Love to record yoda model with your signature
3. Invite you to Huilien
4. Build a master matching group with you

Roger

2017年7月15日 星期六

Breaking the ice on bed

I slept at sound room last night , that was supposed to be set for Meiling but I occupied for a seek & hike - however, I fallen asleep and woke up by 5:30 am
Take my 3rd hiking in a week this morning. It's an achievement and by walking up. I make peace with myself and decide to break the ice when down home .
Take a shower , perform intimacy and exchange what we missed last night, it all back to normal .
Don't let the resentment stay over 24 hours especially with the one you love .


Roger

2017年7月14日 星期五

Happy doesn't last for 24 hours

Watching the Apes of the war serial 3 , I like it and I know Meiling won't enjoy it . But she follow my step .
When taking about when to meet for avatar - circle de solie show , she instantly tell me why not bring Rabin with me ? What ? I said to her I only met him once and kind enough being him out tomorrow morning and that's good enough, why bother take him to a show he can enjoy in either London or New York ?
I keep it with me until 9:30 pm when Meiling ask me when and where to meet ? I said 3 pm at some corner and then she said don't you know it's so hot by 3 pm ? My emotion raised and tell her : don't be like that - it's not alway you accompany to do what I want , this is a good show , we go together, if you really don't want yo go , then don't , from COCO's concert in SZ , we have this agreement, what make me upset is her reluctant to go and without patient : if you don't what to be , then forget it , I should learn the lesson long time ago , and I really need to enjoy being alone or do things I enjoy myself . Period .


Roger

My happiness moment

Rabin is coming to Taipei - another FLOW participant who we haven't spoke during the Flow journey. I : as a local love to help and to host .. so , whatsapp become a swift tool helping us connect . I am going to take him to dintaifung tomorrow.
Breakfast at "Coffee Lovers Planet " with Daniel :
- light update
- hand him 600.000 NT non booked bonus
- understand the music passion isn't a game
- exchange idea on " Christopher; Daan " and how it will weaver to ELAC
- gene and how I am willing to help
- what's blockchain ?
- sound's Saigon experience
- learn Bowei a bit more
It's a great way to refresh our friendship
Visit eslite bookstore and buy me Carl Jung book - I want to connect more with him to Joseph Campbell
Mo send a " is it all : 100.000 US " coaching commitment- to me , the deal is coming to realize - I am blessed.
Number 26 is available today - do my body relaxation at Master Tang and he spend decent time in making my body rejuvenated.
It's a wonderful day


Roger

2017年7月13日 星期四

Finish Shoe Dog

I bought the Chinese translation about a year ago but only flip first few pages , if not because Alison and Business Week meeting tomorrow, I probably won't finish reading the paper book in next 3 years.
I finish it just now, reading tower the final chapter, I almost burst out crying, genuinely touching . His love to Matthew - elder son die in a diving accident and his hate to the one who joint Addida but they never can reconciled until the day Johnson die of heartache.
And love to Penny : who waiting for phil always .
Hire lawyer and accountant is a start up believing. I really enjoy reading it .


Roger

Esun for Avatar: it's for all e sun . So don't tell Meiling




Roger

Re set my expectation

No Christopher, no Mei and no NOPOSI , this is all fine .. really , if what I think is money and reposition monetary reward as the primary goal I am performing coaching role , it won't serve me good as well .


Roger

Linda & Sean

What's next
Linda : can't be traced as before
Sean : in a low mood and I am kind of observing his depression too


Roger

Sound

You told me that you have a dream and this makes me so happy .. a Grown up . Not necessary grow up like up but to grow up .


Roger

Daniel

Net not include in our official book is 3 millions and decide by our share : I am giving you 600.000 NT as a surprise bonus . This is what I want to do .


Roger

Ted Walk morning

Second day to hike :
1. Butterfly kiss the flower on my way up
2. Snail don't miss their appointment with me
3. Story crop : Coney Island story : biggest amusement scene by 1920 and the invention of hotdog .
4. Stretch and stretch your body
5. TED : hidden / the Sound in everything is interesting .


Roger

2017年7月12日 星期三

It's not nothing to do nor do nothing

1. Morning hiking with the insight of FLOW GRAFIC
2. Add SERIAL to podcast
3. Bicycles to Body relax
4. Light lunch
5. Reading and finish " unique " note
6. Renew my library membership
7. Borrows a book about " Mind "
8. Chat with Daniel and confirm breakfast on Friday
9. Sitting at Roxy Junior and connecting crystal
10. Good line chat with Sound .


Roger

Clicking in the morning and my angel sprain cures

It's been 3 months and become climbing the fairy feet hill .. I am so happy


Roger

Reflect on lucid dream and others

1. Late president Ma die in my arm - so vivid and so real
2. Thinking about visiting Yu Kwang
3. Sleep enough or ok
4. Why reluctant to talk to Stiven over the phone
5. Linda missing but I am also absent minded
6. Yes , I am kind of seeking 3 more coaching opportunities: NOPOSI / Christopher and Mei
7. Koning coming back on Sep. at Japan
8. Tiffany didn't forget and neither I



Roger

About FLOW

37. All about FLOW: my meta-analysis
- people + place
- In between: the story teller sharing - connect and co-create the SPACE and it's FLOW
- People: at his pinnacle , master in his field .
- Place : do abnormal thing in normal place and explore never before place
- Small group organically grow on his own during - before - after the official FLOW
- Flow ambassador spur as the bamboo after shower / city by city
- SAVI as design thinking
- YPO ECODE apply


Roger

2017年7月11日 星期二

Tseng


So , I did exchange some energy to her - as a thank you for everything. Herbal is a great vegetarian restaurant .
Yes , someone to talk ; somebody to love and something to achieve ...
Be transparent and authentic...

Roger

J & my EMBA classmate Kao

The response is so interesting: king & queen rule the China Insurance and Jason's nice response hit the wall ...


Roger

Gene

A blessing :
1. Confirm on coaching plan .
2.Talk about Thursday dinner
3.A Zone : Space utilization : be smart / Co brand for new product - development
When talking about personal - Gene's nose turn red and eyes with tears - I will support him .
Not Wu Shung ; nor George Chen


Roger

Reflection

1. How often you do it yourself ?
2.Don't mad , I bought you see's candy .
3.Yes , have my own space is a sense of freedom .
4.Tai Pan : can I check your member card ?
5.3 coaching plan distribution, shooting in her dark !
6. How's should I quote client from Europe ?
7. Fried mutton with green onion - no stream rice please .
8. To begin my highlight is the lowlight
9. Stealing the fire - bought it from Amazon
10. Digital / uniqolo founders notes for a successful person .


Roger

J J D

It's a dynamic built naturally, it is the human nature blend with group nature . What's the long term/ mid term and short term goals for each key stakeholders, you can't find a perfect round and all stakeholders overlapping without any leak . Every team try to create a single round - One and have everyone follow the same belief.. it's an idea and it worth trying but don't be frustrated if the idea picture won't come to reality .
If we can find a perfect person , when we can create a perfect team - so .. now you know the game of team .
1. Don't pose the misunderstanding and to accumulate all the bad emotion .
2. Communication direct is important, information transparency is the prerequisite.
3. Think about your viewpoint? You back the issue or the person ? You rely on thing but trust in people .. people make you feel betrayal never the Things .
4. Can't afford to loose anyone now is also to strive a balance .


Roger

2017年7月10日 星期一

Reflection on the FLOW

1. Chris Troub is truly the intuition guy
2. Mechelle took the cold medicine I brought back from Vietnam and getting well
3. May Wen have been harassment for the whole night and Sound like been kidnaps
4. Doug is a warm people even helping Bele with his luggage .
5. Sam is not organized
6. Christopher falling in love with me and my coach engagement should plan accordingly
7. She is from Inner Mongolia and married a talented India and now they want to use blockchain changes the world .
8. Liz is an authentic human being
9. Zen : what's his name ?
10. MySpace : nice walk and talk
11. Long name : what confusing said " who enlightened earlier than you can be your teacher "
12. Eva : yes , I offer my help genuine.
13. Chris : love the way you play guitar
14. Anish : you should visit Taiwan
15. Mike : there's reason you come to Taiwan
16. Daan : sorry for jack Ma
17. David : ok ! What's the responsibility for taking up ambassador role ?
18. Catarine / Grace : nuts is good
19. Drumming partner : too polite
20. Dan : elun musk all done by you - nice portrait .

Roger

2017年7月9日 星期日

Bamboo forest walk and talk

Finally I spend time with David : it's fine to be the FLOW ambassador in Taiwan and help to find good article in his coming book
And Dan- clean air for ofo been connected as well , a cool person Iove to spend more time with .
This is flow : clean air , clean water , and clean mind


Roger

2017年7月8日 星期六

C + C

The karma stays and this is not who can break the chain . Accepting is the key but something you can't really open the door or heart ..
see what happens..


Roger

Coach possibly and opportunity

May & Christopher, from Sweden and London require my coaching engagement .. the needs is clear and how to fulfill is another story ..
A few marker segment is now surface :
1. New Lost generation: tech young entrepreneurs.
2. 40-45 new / early midlife crisis generation
3. New Beat Generation : Revival of new age , cult and need for Happiness and dining meaning in life ..


Roger

What make FLOW work?

1. Select and filter peers : Tech / VC / Entreprenuer group with mid-high success profile .
2. People & Place is THE logistic FLOW really need to take care , the rest is FLOWLER who build the Space
3. Repeat customer is 10% , not high , maybe to include more first timer .
4. Sharing as a part but not in structure way - encourages people to openly share but lack the " environment safety " element : confidentiality contact ?
5. Small group moderator: not only the guides or helper but who can bring people to go deep and to design some ice breaker
6. Again , it's who's who and who's here make the difference.
7. 4 years in the planing or design ? For the experience/ experimental event .
8. A destructive creativity? About what
9. If you don't reach out - open up - active listing , you won't create your own take home ( rather stay home )



Roger

2017年7月6日 星期四

First day to FLOW Journey

What I will missed :
1. The old street walk
2.The river riffs
3. Hotel massage
4. Karaoke: maybe



Roger

Reflection

1. Meiling and I had a good intimacy last night .
2. Sound learn what I don't: excel and other in his 3rd day at intern .
3. Huang 's body - Chinese message treatment is good but not as good as she claimed , I can do it more
4. Meiling buy Dyson but bad emotion
5. Chris is an intuition guy and dysfunctional
6. Chris sit next to me on the plane and I recall the day I met him the first time when MCA open for recruiting country manager
7. Eat less and slow .. be aware
8. Ask for : NOPOSY : I am kind of nervous or sense of urgency.


Roger

2017年7月5日 星期三

First experience, and they said it will take 3.5 hours of painful treatment




Roger

Hu Wen tele coaching in Roxy

A bold try and it went good for the 30 minuets session .. happy to go through 2 issue :
1. COO candidate and how to revise the ( reset ) expectation
2. Corporate culture implementation ? How to
3. Reading : new book for me .. in Aug.


Roger