YEN forum fundamental

1. Venue : taipei tea house : good venue 

2. People :

Grace / Raymond / Jason / Michel ( husband of iris ) / Rex / George / dasha 

Iris / Vicky / Joe / Jeff / Alan / Michael ( HK ) and ?

3. Value take home 

- another practice 

- young can be good 

- out of family biz is a generalized issue 

- surface can be a good presentation gadget 

4. My learning :

- G / R share in vaulnabilty touch me

- Jeff is so creative 

- Joe's psychology background support my undertaking more

First time 收驚

If not for daniel's sharing - Meilijg's insistant , I might not gain this unique experience . Grand Hyatt BANGKOK left me an uncomfortable experience .

I went to Sing Tain Kung met up with meilig yesterday morning . The Dao temple perform this activity quite often , but since it get rid of the incent worship ( the first tier one temple / Dao announce it in taiwan ) the sho Jin sevice suspend .

 We have to move to the Dao shrine Daniel recommend . He was there 2 days ago . So we went - near by long Shen temple .

The Dao sister perform it for me , she murmured some Dao satra like a Sheman and do it twice - the overall operating time is about 5 minutes .

Then she told me she exhausted the weir spirit away . The spirit is kind of mean and bad . So I am clean now .

Then I was handed 2 Dao Fu - I am asked to burn it to ashes and to mix with yin yang water ( half mineral water and gel tap boiled water ) and drink it . Last ritual I have to do it take out ash mix water to went my chest and back 3 times , I was giving 2 dose of Fu to drink in 2 days .

I did it at night , it taste like burning material with water . I can't finish it all as I saw black ashes sink at bottom of the bowl .

I think this is final session with james and I might solve Hubert headache

He do fill with emotion , he tried to believe there is a bright side in human nature - it implied he see me as the bias coach still.

 He metaphor how I can be a perfect partner with Diana to sacatoc on how I might experices - I don't get it in the first place and response with " are you serious " I am so naive .

 Lunch with Hubert - a candid suggestion to him - not to stir in the muddy water or be the victim of what he should not take :

- simply the thing 

- iron and straight it

I hope he deliver his decison on next Monday : no layer in the construction side / no conflict of interest in between / no putting people in ambiguous situation . 

SAVI and bro daniel

Smotic / audiotory / visualize / intelligent the 4 phase of learning really excite me . How can I was cope with the principal and now find a system to support .

I am excite in preparing the YEN and Noah workshop and it go with the 4 p

: Preparing ( leaner ) / Presrntdrion ( trainer ) / Practice ( mutually ) / Perform ( in the real world )

I had a deep sharing session with danile last night during dinner and afterwo coffee :

- the Japanese style set meal 

- the IPO company GM role and responsibility 

- the organizational grow of forum works

- the nightmare we face in our own experience 

- the brand acquire aftermath challenging  him now.

- how we see happiness . 

Chi Fung steet do have some old and new creative little shops - it fulfill my workshops toten need right away

Writing on behalf of Hubert today

親愛的大老、會兄、會姐

  「水城台北」和「台灣小吃行腳」是舒國治先生散文作品中我喜歡的兩本，國治「找小吃」和「述小品」的魅力在台灣獨樹一格，他描的景有畫面，他寫的吃有味道，他的細緻引導我們回頭看到自己生活中的不經意，而這也勾勒了我記憶裏或想像中的「台灣人情味」：一種人杵立街角、佇足巷口或屈膝伏短凳上的怡然與自在。

  舒式文體讓我讀的舒服，國治的筆觸似乎能牽動身體的其他感官，「看」的視覺勾引起種種感覺交𠥔，而我也身歷其境，神遊其間。

  兩本舒式散文提供大老、會兄，會姐展讀，庶民生活總會在不經意中展露美感；或許因國治文字的躍然紙上，帶給您走訪老台北，再嚐台灣小吃的衝動。或者那一天，我們約國治導覽，親炙其人文風釆！。

  弟昌霖 謹上

Learning from coaching - mutual benefits if you pay attending to listen

Diana : I grow from a background that my family business run in strictly cerntl controls , my Grandpa and father are so mesterimg in their industry , so no one is fooling them , compare to my father in law'f family , they don't earn respect among employee as we should ...

Roger ; mastering in things is perfect then you run industrial biz , how to mastering in people will benefit you more if you running a people oriented - service nature industry .. This is a soft skill development to be a better leader , don't you see more and more trun leader ultimately master 2 field : philosophy and psychology. Think about it.

Stevin : 

1. we can't change how others feel 

2. If owners run a specialized licensed required business , there will be a backfire like system crisis 

3. Report to me doesn't mean you communicate to the board already 

4. There are good and bad boss in both private and public company . So this is not always a must .

5. We are privately own company, ultimately call the professions will world for the family ...

Good morning TAIPEI

Since away for 6 days . Now I am switch channel to serve my corporate account - the executive coach session .

I've been thinks of taking " corporate coach " role as retainer to serve corporate executive , it's like a clinic on regular basis or an in house psychotherapist for executives . Is it a sustainable business ? Or like any fortune telling performing ?

Meilijg is not in good mood I can see - from the behavior ( do or said ) I can feel her impatience to many things and that include me - use closing sentence to begin our conversations . She had an issue always : what roger can't make more money ? My introspective is if I can support the family above average , is it my sole responsibility to be richer in order to satisfy her ? Maybe this is my quest in life.

Manage to finalize YEN material , not to be taking it lightly - every forum session counts and share same value . 

The other bothering :

1. Robert Qui from china asked me to have minister long for their panel ? Why I am in the position of been asked to deliver or to leverage what I earn so hard?

2. Lucy wang ask me to do a English manifesto for YPO Beijing chapter in English . I ignore the mail and nothing happen since - don't be a victim of what people predict how you will Behave . 

Over all in Bangkok

I am prepared and I am with passion and I tried my best to deliver ..PREPERE / PRACTICE / PRESENT / PERFORM 

1. TF : day one so frustrated . No getting anywhere .

2. TF : day 2 . Better as we get to know how self-curiority works on our heart and trigger / pounding our memories and experience .

3. FMLD : good with a good walking in the morning and model in the afternoon . Monkey biz illusion / right - left brains test is good also .

4. FSFE : for those really senior : in age snd in their protofilio . Someone vulnerable works the whole space 

 My learning :

1. Now I have confidence to conduct TF myself 

2. Take the feedback / vulnerability exercise to work 

3. No problem in deliver my session in English at all. 

4. More connect the Thai chapter 

No it hurt

Couldn't contact Meilijg so I keep calling ? No to my surprise , it an extended quarrel with Sound . He still want to stay in the apaetment alone . So it's all the smoking gun last week . I am not with the family and I couldn't help .

Tasnai said something like : Howcome I could not bring the energy to the forum - he means to the TF training - it hurt me , I've work so hard to prepare . The low involvement of paticipant result to me insufficient in delivering good result ?

I go for a good Thai massage - relax and relief . Reviwinf FMLD - the program is not so easy . I better jump to my bed now . Really 

Another awful night

This time comes a real man instead of spirit :

1. I woke for pee around 4:00 am and the guy knocking on my door and yell loudly - he accompany with a girl who is laughing out with him 

2. I suppose to call hotel security but since learn the door is locked . I don't do it 

3. The guy coming back around 6 am and knock my door again 

What happen ? This is by far the awful experience I have in my hotel stay 

Make time to improve my slide and rationale today - no matter how ugly those participant . As a coach , I learn from every encounters .

TF experience the first day

They are not serious about what they are doing - only Tasnai and Nick aware what's going on, but how can I act as a teacher to punish those who don't following the rule ?

1. The buying part is good 

2. The emotions part we reset and do it again - second time is better but only me demostrte .

3. Vulnability part they are not serious as emotion part . When somebody get vulnerable . There is always one or two laugh . The value of forum is deteriorating 

4. Thanks god the video I brought color the program.

5. Good venu , good facility , not a bad facilitator but poor participant - the turn out is horrible .

6. My preparation mean something and I learn from the process as well. 

Tomorrow ? How to structure a better experience ? 

Beginning of the mess

1. Change room from 1221 to 1120.

- I left my belt at room 

- l forget to open safe box restore my passport 

- I stuck at elevator can't access to 12 floor 

- my shoe lance untie 

Now I am in 1120:

- hotel manager Aida told me : iPod docker do cause problem before 

- any help need is welcomed 

Nightmare at Grand Hyatt BANGKOK

1.Radio alarm in the room automatically activated twice after midnight , I have to pull it out of the outlet . It never happen before .

2. Someone is singing in the room 

3. No way to turn off lights inside bathroom 

4. Endless bad dreams 

This is the first time I will request for changing room and I will do it right after breakfast . 

Bangkok day before workshop

Walking out twice :

1. Lunch : do a little slide supplyment and buy pair of shoes .

2. Check with nasian Ko about workshop 

- his last name is Ko 

- a WPO who went through the biz cycle and now a self employee who love forum 

- was trained as trainer - CFF but not qualified and fire with YPO 

- picky on trainer - use no Asian facilitator or American / love to communicated with trainer who's second language is English as well .

- following training : 8/12/12 persons devided to 1.5 day / 1 day / 0.5 day foe sign up.

- he will sit on all 3 sessions 

3. Met Kirati and his wife before YPO Thailand 40 anniversary . 

4. Dinner at Mr. Lee restaurant 

Sign on BANGKOK airport

" your luggage is coming in 2 minutes "

" it's wrong to use budda as tattoo "

" Tourist is not coming back yet , business man yes "

Mrs Ku : you are so brave and a true hero

1. 5 years ago : 2 stents due to taking care of old husband - 20 years older than her . Place the 3rd stent after funeul .

2. 18 years ago : Mother pass away , who not only take care of 4 child but another 3 from father's misstry . Father never take care of family even in the last day of mother .

3. When I was 6 - work in rice paddle wirh mother , pour hot Vegetsble to younger sister - burn on her lower belly . Since then support her to university , but she is single still.

4. Adopt son 31 old - cheated by formal girlfriend and gambling out all the money left . He know but reluctant to be a taxi driver . 

5. Old brother die at 65 - really look after me .. Even not give her 600.000 nt mother asked them 

 I give her 2000 nt this time - she didn't aware the tip is 1000 and I don't mentioned , this is not right to emphasize your good heart. 

My learning :

1. Why the last generation can save money . We couldn't ?

2. Don't have affair - it's so unfair to a family .

3. Someone to talk to : everyone need 

4. Empathy is resonate and bring out your own experience & memories 

A date with Meilijg

It's been 2 weeks since they move out and today - the night before my Bangkok workshop , we spend the whole day together.

Itinatily , we only want to go to one movie and end up hang out for a day , I am not hurry as the TF rationale is clear and I have confidence to perform the day after tomorrow . The take home today is : we need a date and we did it.

1. Finish my TF slide by 10 am 

2. Buy stationary I need at workshop 

3. Having a good lunch at the old Japanese restaurant at shementing 

4. Buy her a lovely uv umbrella 

5. First movie : India chef bros 

6. Second movie : the fake painting artist documentary 

7. Print my TF at she Ta road 

8. Dinner at home 

9. Buy sound the reference book for Englsih writing 

We do many things 

Back date and backup : 9.12-9.16

It works well and easily dig deeper and bring out emotion , vaulnabilty and self curiosity . In my case :

1. I realize to grow organize won't be a goal for me , to extend influence is ,as for how to leverage media or pubic influence is another issue

Chen Ho said one Entreprenuer from canton wish to meet me and asked if I am be her coach ? Things won't come so easy.

Bo Chung did connect , it's kind of blur still - need time to digest 

Yuang chen and Chung yi:

- to develop org. Benefit them but not the trainee or facilitator 

- exclusive means they should pay sign on and guarenty in advance , will they do it?

- Taiwan retreat - I should not act as the agent or coordinator for them 

TF : it take time to digest first and need practice following facilitor guide - it's complicate really 

0915

Meiling release and relief tonight , even we are away . Due to sound's bad manner which brought me to the family discussion . The last portion is Meilijg's crying for hour - for return my love and gratitude , she tried her best to support my family -- and the long time suffer turn to a vicious cycle - many insult from my kid and many pain course by my mother and she can only swallow it.... A very sad story - couple carried the family burden and difficult to untie the nod --- 

0914

1. Chi Bo from Noah asked me to be her coach together with corporate forum : I quote 3.5 millions plus travel and accommodation .

2. Bao Chang Lu from noposion invite me to be his coach at seng sen . I quote 1.2 millions a year ( in person once a month . Telephone every 2 weeks ) plus traveling and accommodation . 

4. Sung Yen at The Bund private board spend 3 hours with me to go over his road traveling from the near death experience to founding 2 Chinese base forum organization and plan to partner with Noah.

3. Frances Chang is so supportive at my workshop - thanks to the idea exchange at " life academy "

4. James Wey with Pete Johnson - my second breakfast : how his expertise in business turn around :

- the CEO campaign 

- assesent 

- forming the CST ( core strategic team ) or SEAR

- critical turn around issues

- rapid implementation 

He quote the retainer fees 180.000 usd year without transportation and accommodation . 

5. 4 forum coach : facilitator attend my workshop yesterday 

0913.12

The last comment make my day ;

Wen Chi : it's always pleasant to share and exchange idea with you . 

0911

It's a smooth session , run exactly 3 and half hour with the design result . Who's here ?

Bobby ; CHARLOTTE ; Hubert ; michael ; Sam ; Adrianne ; Jae ; Royce ; Jerry Chu . 

Take home :

1. FSFE works as well 

2. Monkey business illusion is a good connector 

3. Open for discussion is not bad 

4. Everything and every workshop is an unique forum experience . 

5. Mortality is a key finding together with " aging parent - parent " " live with difficult people "

Kris is so kind to walk me through her TF experience - even it's half way but it helps - we should work hand in hand -- indeed . 

Sleep at the rental apartment and watch the FINA final 8 games with sound - buy time to check slide to be used tomorrow - it need fix - too complicate and too wordly , I managed to clear my mind and rationalize what the goal we should achieved this time .

Revise the slide this morning . Presumedly can work better . Thinking about how to deliver true message to wen chin at dinner. 

I got it : about TF training

I read through the facilitator good and participant guild , run through 2 power point and check my note before , then I come up with my version of training curriculum :

1. Opening with a " right here right now " paradigm shift for 2 days 

2. 4 modules connect with video I select : emotion ; vanuability ; feedback ; curiosity .

3. Process for all , debrief for mine .

4. Presentations set up : card is the key weapon .

I spend 5 hours at VIP lounge of ambassador hotel figure out my " slides lead rationale " to organize my thoughts .

Now my confidence level is : 75% 

What's next :

1. Master the guidebook 

2. Memo for all the slide I prepare 

3. My own story to demonstrate 

Climb up and sit down

What trigger me this morning at " SEE SOW " meeting 

1. Re start vs re set 

2. Any event is a brand incubate , you need to cook at home several times become moving out 

I finally climb fairy food mountain this morning , nothing fency but to continue my exercise for better spirit .

Meiling came home and having rice noodle on the floor . We share something and exchange idea . She send me to Charles office and I check her emotion with fruit - this time I think it's hard to get by - fruit broke her heart 

Day 3 - brief encounter

Meilijg left a message said I was out so early . Supposely she went home yesterday morning .

I simply reply my bad sleep the night before and we meet between 7:00-8:00  pm briefly after she bought grocery from cosco .

I ate the chicken salad she bought and we chat , she seduce me to stay with them last night . Due to my heavy function today , I just can't .

Talk over the phone twice last night before going to bad. I witch off air conditoner . The first night in summer without it . I sleep fine after move away the guilt last night . 

Day 3 - a little bit calm down and it seems she is doing double work . 

Stevin

It seems ok with Stevin and Diana and Stevin look at me and inform me anothe project he is involved and I am able to contribute my expertise .

Kris say yes to my " help " I am so gratitude , the skype call will conduct tomorrow .

When prepare : the more you dig, fhe more you realize you need more time to complete your task --- never ending worries.

Project by project -- is it my life?

Diana :

- final approve 

- learn how to interview 

- prudent in change management 

- increase the arm for product and sales 

What wake you up in the middle of the night

My answer to the classic ice breaker :

Last night , I woke up twice , first time I felt the strange incent bite me again , exactly at my right hand thumb , it recalled me the bad memory of centipede bite me early this year . I jump up turn on all the lights and flip quilt inside out and found nothing . So I move from bad and lying over the floor .

Second time : switch off air conditioner and sleep on the floor for about 3 hours then I woke up : night in town without Meiling is different . 

Hemorrhoid hit me hard these days - stress ? Not enough rest / sleep ? Over working ? Anxiety ? I have been blood for 4 days . Even I take it naturally but it's not a good sign.

What wake you up in the middle of the night ? Your answer is?

Come visit

This is not the first time Sound away from home . So when he said he getting use to it . I had a self - awareness that we as parent neglect his hungry for love for too long ,

Arrive by 8:40 pm and left by 10:15 pm , the short stay meat something . 

Love is to accompany : whoever and whenever . Time is the ultimate love you demonstrate , spending time together even say nothing is precious to people who share love . I found it and learn it today . 

How about Fruit ? She challenge us exclusive her from the moving. Or ignore her presence by telling her as a developing story . She ask beef bowl : I don't have car , don't have Meilijg so can only trade it with cash : is this what she really want ? Or this is my best effort?

Sound want to be home on weekends . He is right , it's not in prison or enroll to army . We should not rule put his rlght to be free on weekend and to connect his love to his gramma . 

And QB - the pet we keep . He must be lonely now .... 

It's like butterfly effect .. Ripples and ripple ... This is how I feel now. 

Reflection today

1. SEE Taiwan meeting :

- Sunny Chiu really work hard and smart , thanks God we don't judge a person by first impression .

- Charles is open to new idea . New things and with bold mind . This is what I can learn .

- SEE taiwan need a mid term developing plan , I can't escape from the missin .

2. IPO company director seminar 

- I saw Feng Yan and greet her over message only -- no response .

- boring but I take the seat with electric outlet . Working on my noah project . It's pay off 

- meet esun CMO - he praise my workshop and I am happy 

3. Pring all materials 

4. Frank short talk 

- working for family is so different as professional 

- Feank

First day Meilijg not at home

She woke me up around 1 in the morning and ask if I had put the bed outside ? Yes I did .

She came home around 8:00 am and told me she clean the rental apartment until 5 am this morning - felt so tired 

She said sound don't have the will to take the diet and anger at her when having the breakfast outside .

She said she brought back the firing pan as it's no point to book for Sound for dieting .

She said she don't know how to response to sound's request on going home on Friday . 

It's the first day and night: I bring her the vegetarian  fried noodle which Frank gave me at Ambassador kitchen -- I am seeing her now . 

All quite now

Meilijg suggest to have a family lunch but kid not able to join , do we move it to early dinner at Peng's restaurant - the food is ok .

I help to bring staff to the bus station , Meilijg cried at home , seems like a permanent leaving - this is the first time in almost 30 years she left me and find a place for her - even sound is the reason .

I told her to make it a growth engines such as to record what happen everyday with sound , her Personal reading journal , it will make her home away a value for everyone. The worst scenaio is : sound didn't change much and the have quarrel all the time outside.

Shit blood for 3 days , I hate it . 

The address Meilijg and sound stay for ?

4 hours on this coach

I do almost nothing today but sleep on the coach for 4 hours , I don't know why I am so sleepy , so nothing to do and so lazy for the mid autumn festival :

1. BBQ last night : sound want to do it but it end up complains I am not helping but only ask for ready food .

2. Go over some TF material in the morning and learn the preparation will take longer than I expect .

3. Help Meilijg moving and check the apartment - physically it's a seperare life we have not experience before . 

4. Low motivation : no clue 

5. No exercise : lack discipline and bad body circulation . 

  Warch good program at PBS - thanks God am not wasting life totally .

1. Director Tasi Ming Liang / actor Lee Kung Sheng interviewing about " stray dog "

2. The young chef learning in Singapore program : sponsor by ambassador hotel . 

Good handbook for training facilitator

I borrow it from community library 

Reading at Liberary

I slept 20 minutes at home , it's too humid to sleep longer , pick the book below I walk to the community library and begin to read : professor Fu is so good in using plain words explain philosophy to us . I do enjoy reading .

James Wei sent message last night for claim his " life saving money " RMB 100.000. I have no problem to give back the forum norms address clause , that was 2 more years ago . Thanks for Jack Lin's into which make me able to conduct workshop and earn some RMB for the last 12 months. The saving can support what I am doing now , but not able to be a sustainable fund for good

I realize  65 years old is the magic number for almost all the man concider retirement , which mean I leave me 10 years to get the life I want to live if by average Taiwanese man live 75 years old , I need to at least buy myself 10 years retirement fund and support another 20 years for Meilijg , it real and no one should escape . 

Reflection today :

1. Socrates : I am not a wiseman , I only pursue wisdom : love wisdom 

2. Moving already . Learn how to be Independant and Meilijg learn how to accompany Sound.

Gift with discount

Asked David Du for the comfortable underpants - I want to buy 20 set , he reply with an ok and when see him in person : he gave me 10 instead for free . This is what I called a " discount gift "

Lunch with Hubert and Angeli : at the restaurant ( desert bar ) introduce by Angeli , I seldom eat desert but this is do good. Angeli simply touch upon her " break " decision after the meal and it lay out the real issue :

1. Who's the boss gesture ?

2. Consensus between owner brothers.

3. Vison and future picture owners see 

I am ok to facilitate the beother session and yes , it's been 3 years and I should make myself seen in the value chain of outside consultant .

David :

1. Sisters dispute continue 

2. Invent in brand and working on buying more wewong share 

3. The history house is about to see the world 

4. David Yang coming for money again.

5. I buy 3 function pan from Michael , I should received the adjusted pan next Wednesday. 

Done :

1. YPO to FMLD file / document 

2. Esoterism wrote off : from 500000 to 8500.

3. Google calender sync and print : finally a monthly print out calendar at hand 

Cold Japanese noodle lunch

Expensive 

So I am treated as an exit coach

James is smart and wiz and have many attributions qualified " outstanding professional manager "

The Transglobe chairmanship battle come to an end : it's harmony and it's not fire at all , but until today , I didn't realized I was taken as an exit coach , but never mind since I didn't successfully making anyone leave or stay , I am offer a bridge helping stakeholder cross the water without wet their shoes.

There is a compromise soliton : James do have his kitchen cabenit and mentors to fine tune his thought : in a professional fashion :

1. How many options he can choose 

2. The pros and cons for each party 

3. Minimize the cons and try to look at the issue / solution from different angel. 

It's a war James can't win , and a battle without smoke . 

What's my value ? My contributor and my learning from it ?  

Separate

Late last night , I went to bed already , Meiling whisperer to me : " next week , we will be separate "she hunger for independent for so many years , now a perfect reason for her to move out : fight the last fight with Sound on his university entrance examine . 

My wide guess :

1. They can only stay for a month 

2. Sound won't develop the change we want to see

3. Quarrel between mother and son will be a headache still 

4. I will visit them as often as possible 

Try surface 2 - kind of like it - it's light and it combine pad and PC perfectly . With touch panel and hand writing , I have no problem to do my Chinese slide . Good product and very user friendly  

Post of the day ? Reflection

Very few and almost forgot :

1. Lunch with Frank Lin , we go over the scenario about Angeli's break from the team .

2. Daniel is so lucky to get moon cake from ambassador today - on his way back to China.

3. 3 writie up about Andrew Kao : business week for his PE and elect as independent director for LCPC 

Why ?

1. I reluctant to open mail from Noah ? 

2. Hesitate to participate on oven side talk dinner ?

3. Not sure about raising fund for good course : Talent Fly? 

4. Trade off surface 2 to pro 3? 

5. I bought Meilijg another bag as her bitthday gift ?

6.4000 thoughts per day for average ? 

7. Meilijg don't have faith in Sound?

I ate at ambassador hotel employee restaurant for lunch - over eating and it's so delicious . This is my 3rd times there .

Gavin is not a coaching session , share his observation over the 11 months at Ambassador - 

1. By implement PMS system - some of the old problem will be dig out , it depend on leaders's mind to solve or not.

2. The culture here is wait / no response / ignore until the deadline approaching and everyone try to bail themselves out.

3. It's not about culture or old routine , it's about what's right and how can be better . 

Oven side talk

It last until 10 pm , I appreciate Peter organized for us , it's lucky we combine 2 group , the turn out is 10 persons only.

For the young and junior EMBA , the hungry to connect and learn , for semi retire groups , it's good for them to docking  somewhere - for me ? Again , it's not in my success list at night - today is doing what not success . What do I learn ? 

Full rest in the afternoon with QB and felt sleepy at dinner . 

Old story but not good old story .

Peter asking for speech opportunity as much as possibles . 

Simple happy

Buy Meilijg : 

1. The HK designer caven beg 

2. The little cute chocolate cake 

For her birthday today and I am bringing it home before next schedule .

Buy get you satisfaction; Get got you happy . It's human is easy .

" happy is how you satisfied your living ; happiness is how you enrich your life "

Spend 2 taxi for 2 Sony service center , the first one they don't carry PC product , the second had a long line . Thank God my Viao is on " sleeping mode " instead of dead . The engineer brought back it's life . 

Afternoon by now : no focus on success . 

Bendao Japanese cuisine

Benddao lunch today : I haven't been here for years - since officially depart from Mr. Harold Han's entity . Lady boss recognized me . The restaurant open for 13 years already -- a good and sustainable biz : quality food and loyal customers .

This morning is not " do the success list " nor " do the to do list "

1. Esun bank terminate RMB contract and convert to NTD - the bank clerk confuse me by saying and overall amount will less than what I diposit . 

2. See Helen and her staff at China Insurence Corp.: a long time CSR client back to 5 years . Yes , I am helping her staff to fine tune there social involvement campaign. Service for old friend.

3. Sing tai lung library : good place but I suddenly learn my PC screen is our of work - all black . Need to fix it ASAP 

Lunch at Benddao is the only pleasure this morning .

Today is Meilijg's birthday - people require caring - I should prepare something even I am not home for dinner 

To her by far this is not a " happy birthday " yet.