Do what ?

Last night , sound open his invitation to Meilijg and me , talk about his anxiety these days and how he wish to borrow money . Rent the novel and making time for his last 2 days summer vacation :

1. His frustration and anxiety comes from the examination pressure end getting worst prostration - delay and no way to carry his willingness .

2. Wish to rent and not willing to see her mother's poker face - I told him this is a fair games , parent can't support their kid developing bad habit and have him addict to .

3. Never say thing like , don't worry about not able to pass university examination and end up with poor score , we will love you still . He don't like such a loser statement or negative thinking , so I change to my real meaning " we know you can make it and you are smart enough to enter better ubiversify , don't let yourself down "

4. Mother as his monitor and accompany him to study . Make him change behavior little by little and to conteo his dieters also .

The last night talk is valuable . Even thought it kill our original plan about early morning exercise . 

Patrick - thanks you

Life academy experience and 1 millions nt interest free loan are 2 things which brings me back on my feet now . You and Daniel together with all my 5566 forum bothers who set the example of " friend in need is the friend indeed " 

I pay back the second loan : half millions and spend time update with him at Regent 19 th tai pen club - it feel relax and see people's eyes straight .

I like what I read about Disney : even you Know it's a long tail economy , the fist thing to do it find your head "

Helen call for appointment next Monday : I am not sure what and how - but anyhow .

Robin - son of Lin Chung Yuang met again , we met almost 2 years ago. I assimilate how our conversion will go yesterday such as: " how are you these days " " what do you do now to make a living or chase your dream ? " " how can I be of help ? " period .. I guess it's a boring session so I asked " I should lower my mental age and you should increase your mature " let's dialoige . 

It's a good conversation .

Overheard conversation between a celebrity lady talked to a Tibetan monk - renboche , the content is so unhealthy : money and why , complain and no compassion , language mix with Mandarin and English . It's a weir situation. 

Good morning yesterday

I browse me last night and found 2 previous blog I posted dacade ago. One is " CEO Chat " - the monthly communication letter I wrote to So-net colleage and it last for 2 years - the last talk mark on my departure .

The second one is music memoir recall the date I falling in love with western pop and how it impact my life .

Thanks to the powerful search engine , I can restore it and print it next week. 

Pull myself up for mountaineering this morning - probably the first time I done it under a sick / physical condition . I am glad I did it .

Meilijg share an unknown information to kids the day before when we have the joy pot with father in Dao Liu - she told sound and fruit when I was young , my health condition was so bad , seeing doctor every other day and conduct anti- virus injection for a very long period of time to control my Asmar -- kids won't believe it but it give me a thought - if I consume such a huge dose of medication , my body might alter to a difference one and my life won't be as health as others ( not even mention my father who is 92 and looks like in his early 70 ) . So I either will die young or die in long pain ..... How to mentally equip it and to take the potential suffer a lesson in life ? A question for me to focus now. 

Question to Hubert

1. 3 values I deliver and bring to you.

2. Managing time : your focus on important things - never forget leader focus on people who work for them .

3. Too many one down : how to manage them ? 

4. Project owner : 

-report milestone and conduct variance analysis ( in regard to time and money )

- take project meeting minutes and follow through.

- well inform any external obstacle which may impact on overall group benefit / reputation and brand image . 

5. Succession of COO coming from succession of taipei property GM , in order to make it happen . Owner should get rid of the roadblock. 

Hubert introduction me a new book : tun around atory about Ford and have me Kuo Yuan Ye mid autumn festival gift pack . 

Fever is coming back , I feel like sleeping . 

See 李岳樺 for my cold - flu

Sound out for renting web novel by 10:40 last nigh . He put alarm inside toilet but don't have time to flush . 

Fruit went for her religious function but back home 1:30 am in the morning . Howcome the behavior they perform are so awkward ? Meilijg don't sleep much as she would prefer to spot them on sight . I wasn't feel well since yesterday , jump to bad around 12 and woke by 6:00 am

I went to see doctor lee this morning . Only one first name difference , kind of coincident . He ask me to complete the 7 days treatment and don't stop taking pills . 

Went to esun for Patrick's balance - it drag for almost one year .. It's time to call it an end and show my appreciation. 

Monster village

I was so sick last night . The high fever hit me hard , I don't know how I survive last night . 

Shi Tao monster village is where fruit want to go and we visit " worris - free forest " on our way to Taichung as well.

It's kid's game and I just perform father's duty on last week of their summer vacation. 

Ocean Clean Youth Movement

To be honest with you , I am not so impressed by the event SEE sponsor and initative by SOW.

What I see :

1. Big head with small body : volunteer . Lecturer , administrator outnumber the attendee ( student )

2. No leverage effect : connect and invite world class lecture and having them only taught kids under 18 most of them aware ocean debris 3 days ago . 

3. Sustainability : student sent their proposal apply the camp , but in the camp . Not all fhe proposal been discussed or executed ( less than 20 %)

4. Eco circle have fun , for the rest , who knows ?

 Maybe I am on a watch standpoint , maybe I am only here for the judge and not fully participate and didn't get the take home value and maybe I am judging from a " biz " viewpoint ( the process and the result and the impact .... ) maybe I am asking too much ..... 

 The good side :

1. Sunny is capable in handling SEE and be a qualified secretary / Assistsnt - she brought her husband and one year son together .

2. Martin and the Chili Eco bag : a plus 

3. Yi - Chi : at lease we see each other face to face . A senior SEE staff . I should demostrare my respect in person 

Anderson on diary

1. Diary :

" for those who don't have important thing , they capture any insignificant and write on their diary - trying to prove life is meaningful " - from Anderson " my fairy tale life " -- for this I disagree , life itself is meaningless , it's us who give meaning to life , and the inspiration on things rigger you is how you craft your life - in your meaningful way .

2. Kenting morning 

- what a detail kitchen - morning refleshment and bounty choice of breakfast .

- elder locals cook for us .

- energetic radio show accompany with I latte 

- so I took the picture and sent it to the group chat room 

3. Sound: 

- Meilijg can't get it over , I just asked:

-- do what parent should do

-- if rent outside , he don't study , reding non text book and lazy - would you accept the worst scenario ?

-- if we buy time for sound to expend time on non - healthy reading material , by observer for one month. We can pull back and bear the one month rental deposit lost . 

-- it's not 2 kids - fruits change significantly and we should not live in the old and ugly memories .

-- it's not how we suffer or sacrificed , we are doing what most parents will do / we do and Sound take the consequence if he treat our " help " as " threat " 

Nice to meet you - vitality

I never expect to experience Vincent's boat " vatality " this afternoon . Check in apply room very early and to make up my Anderson biography reading at the " Starbucks " shio wen ..

Re - check in around 3 pm after my vegan pizza at " somoking Joe's " - it's roof 01 - the biggest room . I like the way Vincent re-design the b & b - lean and clean - it's not quality but taste .

Basa nova late lunch with 3 of co worker - Angela the house keeper , Jessica / June enjoy their 1 and half month working holidays here .

Vicent decided to sail the boat as fhe wind and wave is very good today .

 We undock by 5:30 pm and return by 6;10 pm . Vincent have me to controls the steering wheel - my first experience , he is so trust in his co workers and me.

Lesson learnt :

1. If you want someone really learn from new things , you should learn to free your hand

2. It's not so scar to control the boat - you check the winds and set off the right direction .

3. To be habitual somewhere , you need go fully adapted - at kenting , you must love sun - big sun first .

Lost and found

Check out han Lai by 6:45 am, take the hotel quete taxi to kenting shuttle bus . The bell boy didn't give me the taxi number ticket and I forget my lugge when get off the taxi .

Thank God I aware of the missing lugge immediately . Calling hotel for help , my luggage return wirhin 15 minutes. I didn't miss my bus and I tip the driver 500 NT - for his round trip fees for the not speaking passage- my luggage . 

Meilijg always say I will finally lost myself - she means all the things attach to me - distraction or not concentrate enough or absent minded ? I am not sure .

This is the morning high light .

I did " ice bucket challenge " the day before by the invitation of Wu Chang - a vistage coach who works for ZH island before - fun and not so fun now...

Lucy & Expendable

Movie in KS - the theatre open at 9:00 am ( the morning show ) this is so early , compare with Taipei - most of the theater open from 10:00 am , and yes the market support it .

How come so many advertisement not movie teaser ? Another thing we don't understand .

1. Lucy :

 I love Luc beccson , I had dinner with him 20 years ago when he came for the promotion of " the 5th elements " we ate at Regent Hotel - yes , this is the scene taking from Lucy - and the taipei scene is quite heavy . At least 20 minutes . The bad thing is the beginning of the scene at the Regent : the line show Taiwan is a " pirate / counterfeit " county still - the MIT logo not go very far , the stereo type hurt national image again. As the theme of the film - origin of human being , usage of memories cause my attention .

2. Expendable part 3 :

 Sylvis Stallone is heavier and the crew is heavier too : many explosion and fight - muscle and macho movie - extream entertaining .

 My hideaways 2 days - good or bad . Why I am shock when reading the biography of  H.C. Anderson ? Age 54? No sustainable income stream ? Don't have a clue . 

Time : Robin Williams

I can't image few days after watch " the angerlist man from Brooklyn " on the plane , Robin take his life - whoc

At this cafe

「Regularly working on something until it works for you 。」 the simple definition of "DISCIPLINE   " 

The one thing in me

The one thing :

What's the selected displiine I equipped up to now ? Blogging diary - meaningful reflecting but not travel - log . How it works for me ?

- self awareness 

- quick to change 

- a habit to practice English everyday 

- organized thoughts much easy 

- recall things I want to revisit 

Local delicacy :

1. Morning wan haw salty pork congee 

2. Lunch stew pork rice at Kaoshung 

Relax :

1. Meat ( breakfast and lunch - dinner possible )

2. Massage ( right and left foot )

3. Mate ( to be complete )

4. Music ( Sky radio FM ) 

5. Movie ( to be complete )

6. Mute ( for 10 hours )

7. Memory ( in the process of creating )

FSFE taipei experience

YPO taipei forum fundemental :

David Lin / Sunny Huang ( officer ) ; Lawrence Chang ; Clair ; Jason ; Alfred and me :

1. Complete in by 2:00 pm - no lunch break and utilize lunch as " FSFE " edcustion session .

2. Lunch set by 11:30 am , can finish short version of " self - disclosure / self - discovery "

3.Demonstrate yourself is critical 

4. I admire Clair as a strong chairman who take up family responsibility and remain single  

Hubert session :

1. We need to conduct self-assessment to prove our coach is worked 

2. Consensus workshop need to change and bring more value to all executive to the group 

3. Inform Frank the property development statue in order to syceonize all information 

4. Help him and help me

Warren session :

1. Stick on one thought and believe it's good for corporate is dangerous 

2. Reluctant to check his blind spot will block him from leaning and growing 

3. It's culture influence you , not you come and change the culture , you can do it once you taking the power to change , but not now.

4. If he is not listening , save your breath but keep your ear open.

Pictures of the day

10 minutes bicycling and stop by at lkari for breakfast : grab the book " the one thing " with me and post John's quote to " talent fly " and " Diverso " life deserve to share and you should spread the positive energy .

Sound dose his self awareness last night . He talked softly with his mother finally and acknowledge his ADHD syndrome .. We just hope ... 

New learning today

Forum 

1. Review the forum ebook is an important things . Some doubt surf up.

2. Tiger forum commit to next Jan. At Tokyo - I am not disappointing anyone

3. Vivian's inquiry and need 

- the time I need and how come I am not able to obtain 

- the value of spouse forum to her and reconnect to the YPO world 

- YPO save and at the same time kill Steven Kwang 

- how am I able to position myself appropriately ?

Matthew :

1. His though about the white / black riot 

2. Exchange idea about how we observe ( see ) daniel as a fellow .

3. Upside in regard to space yoga development 

4. Candid talent fly comment : as a foreigner - you should love your land and people first 

5. Another good meal select by Matthew ( cafe de riz ) - I should be the one who pick restaurant next round 

Bone adjustment :

1. Daniel really introduce a good arcgupirust .

2. I am feeling better now 

Family:

1. KS trip : how to compensate ?

2. The keychain wallet for Meilijg 

3. Family trip next Tuesday 

4. The family supper last night at Japanese restaurant . 

"Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall." Confucius

Sound hug us and the family reconciliation done - we are blessed and I should see more positive attibution about my son. 

4 dreams and am open end story

A big excuse lead me to the unwanted development .

If 4 dreams is so real and this this the fate I am facing - face it ... 

Highlight for yesterday

1. Talk to shelene : coaching result 

- behavior change for a better you 

- find a new place which culture adaption won't be so critical here .

- review our improvement in 6 months

( maybe it's late - but it's never too late to change )

2. Taha con-call 

- English is OK

- FMLD isn't clear for all WPO 

- another regional forum requirement 

3. Frank / Angeli 

- the di Hwa street experience is excellent 

- Angeli fail to make her exit idea work with Frank

- it's not about Hubert - it's the family biz future 

4. Noah price negociation 

- it's not about the quotation but the value delivery 

- we have not know each other well , it's no point to take the " retainer consultation package "

- I have a choose and I have a stand 

5. Tiger forum retreat : facilitation 

- turn down the 3 time?

- how can I reject such a warm welcome and invitation 

- slow yes ? Quick no? No this is never the strategy 

6. National Developmetnt Class 7 dinner 

- ask Chris Tsai sponsor wine for the night 

- remind Hubert donate another 12 bottle 

- I organize the dinner and total attendee is 28 

- ambassador chen with us at ambassador hall inside ambassador hotel 

- my gratitude is 2000 nt for service people 

- Chen Shu - 2 deputy minister - one Keelung city major candidate and many interest dialogue 

Sound's mother physically left him today

Time to say goodbye 

By far this is the biggest fight among sound and us - his emotional , ruthless and dirty manner put us in the corner of parental Torrance . It's a sleepless night for Meilijg and her determinantion of leaving home is a vital action while I support .

How I response ?

As a coach and mentor to many successful people , my blind spot is not knowing how to apply what I know to my own family , I am not worry the family dispute will impact my coaching career or performance . I am still don't know what to do... Never make comparison , only to see if Sound is better off himself . Only himself can bail him out of this unhealthy circle - his teenage rebel comes late but strong . This morning , I asked if we need to bring him to see psychiatric - his cold response again leave me no room to develop positive conversation . I can only say to myself : everything will be alright in the end , if it's not alright , then it's not yet the end "

Think positively 

 This is quite a lesson I need to learn in my life - a karma or anything else ? 

 Information receive but not to be influence if you take the information is message to receive - this is not anger management , it's a way toward life - bitter end or happy end? 

Next Step :

1. Support Meilijg cool down for a fee days and not to show up in the family 

2. Keep health loop with Meilijg and be sure her situation is in control 

3. Share with fruit what happen and win her understanding not to be impact significantly .

4. Reflect and introspective about what's going on , pick up all the piece and keep my other life simple and organize 

5. Distance with sound and learn how to do my own house work ..

6. Seeking mother's assistant to provide paty cash to sound on his week day .

7. Have Meilijg or myself communicate with school - inform sound's situation and perform student parent role 

Do I need any help ?

  Someone who can give me shelter or release my nagetive energy ? Something I can do to re-direct my attention ? Somewhere to go to relax my tension ? Somebody to talk to without giving me advise ? This is a time for " self - learning " " self - awareness " " self - discovery "

Fortune Teller - the drama show and Two Lives the movie

"Fortune teller " is the drama I bought for Sound , I don't really into the " double standing comedy " , since one of the main actor coming from double standing , so I spent 4000 for us.

The family relationship ( mother and son , father and son ) for the last month is not in the chord , so I am not expecting to go with sound in a " build up momentum " development . So we went as individual and each one enjoy his part in the drama , maybe I spoke to him less than 10 sentences last night to and back from the show .

To leverage hobby for integers family relationship - not a very productive way.

" 2 lives " is the movie I went with Meilijg just now . Go for art film is a theaphy to us - sit in the big dark box and watch the movie not in our familiar language - Thai is a nowagain movie and it's a drama . 

How to live 2 lives ? Before and after Cold War - Berlin Wall ..

Shementing is full of tourist still , it's a place I grow from teenage and the stew duck toung is Meilijg's favorite still.

Fighting ALS - the amazing ripple marketing

You either pull the ice water over your head or donate 100 dollar - if you pull ice water , you can name 3 to take the same challenge wirhin 24 hours 

- thanks to internet - It spread life wide fire 

- thanks to social media - you access it in minutes and you can post your on-post message over 

- it's a good course and no gender - races -age limitation 

Many celebrity lead and you can see how rapid it will grow . I really love it.

Disturbing mind

Kaoshung trip throwing a stone in my heart , distract , disturbing and I am in a wondering mood.

Am I drive by emotion or physical pleasure ? The best way to handle my disturbs is limit all my free time in KS , thus I don't have free mind to exercise my desire .

Taipei - kenning - Taipei is the safe route ! How come I can't manage my mind? 

Lienli and sky wu red wine

It all come from a good intention and we should not judge a gift with a price tag :

1. Sky wu : 1995 . Market price 875 NT

2. Ray Tseng : French market price 4700 NT

I check the price before give it away since we don't know how other's value us in value point or price point . 

Another learning in life

Picture of the day

Our passat cc run into trouble when on our way to buy lunch , we end up put ourselves at VW service center for checking our car - and this become highlight of my day :

1. Manage to finish 3 chapter of " The One Thing " a great guild book especially when it trigger the " from to-do list to success list ; eliminate your could do list and focus on should do and go extra mile to ONE THING "

2. VW service center turn itself to a business class lounge similar to airline - rest area , snack , light meal and beverage " people how how boring when waiting for car check up or repair . And you can see how " customer service " " experience maketing " works .

3. A test to my ADHD tendency : sound and I share the same blood and DNA - like father , like son . 

Highlight of the day

1. It's been months since our last itimacy - I mastulate for too long // and this midnight , we did it she said it felt great and couple should have the intimacy .. 

2. Daniel bring his elder son to our conversion so I can only update my part .

3. I bought myself key chain and wallet as gift -- I should and I wish to. 

4. How to face getting to the edge of rebel son ?

- please tell me your feeling about what we are doing -- if you feel our are pushing you , we won't continue ; if you feel we are helping you , we can absorb all the misunderstanding . 

5. Finalize Sep trip and workshop :

- no to another Hun chew Mao 

- suspend CEO Beijing 

- confirm Bangkok 

- confirm Noah wealth management 

- confirm YEN  

Spirox family forum no. 1 learning

1. Paradigm shift is the key 

2. Remove those who will impact the space we co-create ( Ken )

3. It's not about the issue , but the people 

4. Charles bring back his PASSION 

5. Resonate is the key and sharing the expedience really help for the new comer 

6. I had the subway vagie subrime sandwich as before . 

Can do better :

1. Flip chart is better than the black board 

Picture of the day

I post it on last blog : it's an old lady doing her rehabilitation at 11 f of ambassador hotel . This is how I mark up the story :

I am doing my rehabilitation at this hotel , my son put me long stay here since this Feb. my husband pass away before Chinese New Year , and I don't want to bring more trouble to my daughter in law, now only the Indonesia health taker accompany me diary in this hotel , my son came to pick me on Sat. 

I love the maid , she will stand a distance at 11 floor and encourage me to walk to her side , her age is not much younger but still work hard and with warm heart .

This morning I greet this middle age man who smile at me , I reply with my smile and what come to my mind is my son , how I wish this smile comes from my son.. Now I have to walk for my rehabilitation , I don't want to disallow my son the day after tomorrow . Our Sat routine lunch .

New things , new happening

The dream last night is the highlight :

" I went to a temple - shape building with some good friends , I push the door and walk in before anyone , the temple worship no status / God but an old photo , you can hardly recognize the image , I don't feel comfortable and rush out , told the delegation , but this time they lead the way and I follow.  When open and walk in , we took the alley on the side to a alley like attic - to my suprise ,along the attic are long tables - you see guest eating some very interesting food and smile . Wow , this is a hidden unknown concept restaurant to me --- 

 After the meal - forgive me , I have no clue about what we eat and how it taste . Then we switch to a Forum scene , I am the facilitator for sure and coming a very unique participant - Bowei Lee , sicnr now he is in the deep water , I don't know he is seeking for help or .... " this is the dream .

Bump into Feng Yang when walk out the HSR , she took the biz class seat as I and probably because her Assistsnt is with her - do her gesture to me is " a high ranking government office " kind of strange to me.

Hubert is nice and warm still ! But the " I hope so " post a not sure relationship with his brother . 

Talent fly spread wings tonight

Danieli miss it - I am a little bit down, Hubert come to say hello , I felt better , hochen and chi hung and lien li show up make my day. People move by people . This is how I feel tonight .

Matthew knows better , hochen speak Better and ..,

There's a fundemental core question :

-- the why ? 

Talent Fly : who will fly with us?

It suppose to be a good connection dinner , until one hours ago , it all change :

1. Hubert will only drop by

2. Kevin wondering about his contribution 

3. Daniel said he had a biz dinner , neither can join nor can take call.

 So I am little ( not little ) bit down , I don't know what outcome it will be? If non of the so call "financial sponsor " show up and demostrare their support .. How I can costemic our " drive social relay" 

Is a proven concept ? I am really worried   

Self - awareness

" don't stir the deep-fry vegetable unless you have decide " the Japanese noodle shop clerk yell at me 10 minutes ago when I check the noodle counter at misukoshi dept : food court .

I am not anger but I did reflect on what Meilijg told me : don't wash you chopstick in the dish , please precisely pick and take the food to your plate .. 

I don't know whoelse will feedback on my blind spot like this . I should know how to improve it - this is certainly a doe hard old habit .

Sweet voice

I overheard Meilijg talk sound to bed with sweet voice and feel comfort , it ain't easy to handle child like sound , and I felt sorry about how she observe I am not willing to " facing " this issue together with her . As a matter of fact , the more I involved in the nagetive energy the upset I am -- I rather stay away from that ackur situation.

This morning :

1. Esun RMB deposit 

2. Morning mountaineer saw snail 

3. Banking award run into Isabel - who sit  next to me : I should no label her as red guard to Diana and throwing out any content ..

Day in a flash

1. Robin Williams commit suicide - the angerist man from Brooklyn can't get over himself .

2. Adam Tsui : send me a movie premium invitation , we havnt been really contact for years , I know he is good in movie industry .. But 

3. Vivian chen : She is the one between David 

4. Sound : it's about how to love him or give up on him , I don't really have quality time to deal with it and I leave a big challenge to Meilijg alone 

5. James liu : he is not really want to resign but know he will be force to leave or ..

6. Hilo : a good preacher and a good example of talking his way to the top 

7. Spirox : board meeting is a new learning even thought I don't really learn anything 

8. Ambassador dinner : at hsing chu - the very inexpensive dinner won't get the hotel any profit 

9. SC : man with wisdom , less talk and listen with smile 

10. Pinion : work as hard as before and devoted to the board meeting 

11. James : presentation is a challenge as usual , howeve he is so loyal to what he love.

12. David : do many good trial : 10 miles run as company event , first mile for university student , Kevin Lin experience , live a good life , eccentric - the typical entrepreneur .

13. Roger : too little sleep and too many things but come up with " making friend " idea and execution procedure 

14. Bobo and cha Jen : let's not force us to do things without passion and account ability.

15. Bird nest liow : I forgot to say thank you -- 

Why in my mind is :

How to love sound ? And spend more time with father . 

Today

1. Vivian is the third person between David 

2. I bump into didi when walk down the HSR cart - what a surprise 

3. Pregnet Anita .

4. How to love Sound 

5. New experience as Spirox boaad members 

Short pain long suffering

Sound is is a way to destroy his life - in a negative view . Or I should find a way to develop his passion and talent - in a positive thinking , now let me take a look at his " good "

1. He cook dinner for me last month.

2. Even he 

Bin nan " talent fly " bobo " coaching " and 6677 lunch

Summaries :

1. Bin nan aim for :

- kana cafe chain development 

- sold his propriety for 80 millions US 

- IPO his structure iron biz 

- liquified financial data biz 

- retire house 50 license opportunity in Shanghai 

- paralyze father 86 on his terminal stage 

- support 1 million NT for " talent fly " 

2. 5566 

- haibo on the go with his court decison 

- James slow in biz and good in father and daughter relationship 

- Jack taught me about : how to do biz with those rich local tycoon ( mystic ; no pay no show ; stick on same price ; watch my account ; difficult to build trust ) 

3. Bobo

- personal : passing of friend trigger 40 thinking 

- biz : how the tv shopping alter everything 

- radish club : secretary gentian issue ; doing biz issue ; forum training issue .. 

The private car driver is so greeding : asking for fat service fees and this is unbelievable 

Commerce Ocean Channel forum

It's a gambling between wenru and me - with limit information and understanding , I decided to take this journey - the block on the road is small talks from ZH island - where wenru is a member and consider to leverage her influence and drive other members to her own initative - according to many ZH executive , they are not happy with this development .

My counter measure :

1. Set a new price quote to them and asking for down payment - and they accept it .

2. Check how Yuang Chun and Chun Yi response on the very late payment for my last service - that was  one month ago dated July 11.

3. Carefully examine every step the administrator Chen Hong is doing - detail and flawless .. 

The learning and result :

1. Have a time line to estimate the 8 hours program is critical to the expect result .

2. Need one person at least to open his heart and mount , demostrte trust and vulnerable . The emotions will traveling .

3. Quality of peer make the differce - who to screening and filter is critical 

4. The space : room , emvirorment , connection space and aroma 

5. My confidence : the well prepare slide and hand out - card and post it.

6. What's new works :

-- pair for sharing who inspire me .. 

-- postcard for everyone to write why pick and his learning and writing as the closing part .

-- dream / passion list and feed forward win many good response 

-- walk among all who seats 

7. What can be better :

- my father - have more people to share  

- lunch break  after : more room for body strech . 

- save time for q and a . 

What impress me:

1. Benson Li's villa and the wine experience center inside the tunnel 

2. Again benson's rare mushroom diner in another amazing private dinner 

3. Wenru do have the attraction to some big shot who behind her . 

4. Shesen is the birth place of Shanghai and I should visit the Catholic Church next time. 

ELAC and sky

Sky save time for us - I really appreciate and on top of that , a personal invitation to his participant on " talent fly " -- the snow ball is rolling .

Daniel said the board meeting is world war 3 against Germany . At the VIP room arrange by CC - I don't smell the dynamite.

Good for sky to do things together . It's an encouraging development for our friendship . It should be picture of the day and I store it in my memory . 

Brothers and couple

This is my take away today when conduct 3 coaching with 2 family biz owners.

1. H learn a great deal from forum and coaching - the development with E is in a positive direction .

- go over messager / special Assistsnt role to craft working process 

- blur and absent minded were 2 different approach 

- sld - ambassador - a zone - talent fly process 

- welcome another 360 degree change assessment 

2. D & S

- glad to conduct it at the same table for about an hour 

- iron out all the outstanding between business and impact on family relationship 

 What's more important than biz ? Or biz sometimes ( money : power ) hijack relationship . My learning is crucial.

" talent fly " is about to kick off and I grow the snow ball a little bit faster - see what happen .

 I am concerntrate on tomorrow / day afternoon tomorrow session and preparer for enjoy it as much as I can.

- recreation done , felt relax

- not home : women day ; mother day ; drangon boat festival and coming mid-lunar July goast festival .

New this morning

Sent message to YPO friend who suffer from the gas explosion accident , this is what I wrote to Bowei :

" everything will be alright in the end , it it's not alright , it's not yet the end "

Sent similar message to Vincent Lin earlier when the TransAsia airplane clash on penhu island . This is a dark day for YPO . Tommy Lin' s marriage dispute on court is another dramatic news in town .

Grow big you have to worried about the risk explore at the area you can't reach .. But if you are inherit from family , how to revert the risk ? Sleep like a baby at night.  Wake up embrace each morning like new born ? It's a lesson we learn on our way to termination . 

Picture of the day

Let me thinks 

Supercharge reflection

I am not in line with what I suppose to do this afternoon until introduce FSFE and it trigger a deep ripple and emotion .

What I learn today :

1. Forum card calling should be more step by step guidance 

2. Check in is Check in , you didn't need to explain how and why .. Follow your heart until end 

3. MIT and wise should simply address 3 major area ( personal ; business ; family  ) before your issue and paking lot session 

4. FSFE follow the " patten " will get it . 

End up dinner at eieio : old McDonald restaurant . To oily , sality , I can't afford to take it.

Bobo's forum might go to ending stages as I saw the sign up for end of Aug workshop is not happening - this is China . You plan the long term but harvest in short term . 

Day trip to Noah Wealth Management

Summary : 

What chin Bao and wen chin need :

1. Forming a forum for chin Bao 

2. Find chin Bao an executive coach 

3. NWM internal need :

- forum and coaching by my way : YPO and Roger ( LIM / PLG ) 

- trial of CTC model at executive retreat camp ( CTC with Action module )

- 3 days internal moderator / coach / facilitator development 

- CTC module on ( together - on the road - almost there - I am fine ) quarterly program ( 2 days one night )

4. Wen Chin

- forum foundation : to incubate coach and facilitator ; certified and re-certified coach and facilitator ; promote forum for entrepreneur ; make professorial executive potential coach - moderator in the future.

- ZH Chiang university family business school and forum development 

5. Private foundation 

- provide top class for those who can't afford high profile coaching and forum experience 

My observation : 

1. Company driver is not cope with its culture when I see him drive 

2. IPO company have husband to operate its training and development program might again corporate governance 

3. Potential political liability as chin Bao used to have a coach jailed due to ideology issue 

4. Too westernize machnism in conduct " touch your heart " workshop - break you before make you and result to trumatise executive 

5. Naive in believe foundation is a best way to demostrare it's good intention 

6. Health concern : fruit ; tea ; zen ; staff restaurant 

Decision :

1. My time commitment to partner with them :

- build a wellness center 

- participate as inaugurate member in the Forum Foundation 

2. My expertise in developing business relationship :

- Sep. one Friday for " YPO forum fundemental "

- Oct. 1.5 day CTC Module with " Action " after consensus built. 

- develop a 3 days " moderator workshop " for their internal coach / moderators 

- rationalize my chemistry with Chin Bao as her coach 

3. Retainer Development ? 

- deliver what ? And how ?

- expect result and take away 

- strategic Partner in which direction 

- financial reward to justifies initative 

- potential resources allocation conflict and trade off 

- slow yes and quick no in ? 

Midnight fight

Meilijg and Sound quarrel result to a midnight bicycling of sound , I didn't know there he went and when he was back home.

It's a great disappointment for Meilijg who always take herself a victim to my family , and saw 2 kids grows to a " not - what - I - thinks " status .

I recall the 3 months time at the fake SoftBank agency in taiwan ? Like asia media ? And Mr. Chuang the ridiculous person who ask me to be the pit ; sales and many other unbelievable things , I don't know why I took the 3 months and almost forget the things I done there:

- unhappiness of Alice Wei and I pay her servence allowance 100.000 NT myself 

- bought a new Sony Viao PC 

What else ? 

I am currently at EVA air lounge before take off , try the day trip to SH and expect big delay of flight today - see what happens.

ZH island moderator workshop fees collection is a learning - next time you have them to pay it all in advance before take your flight . And there's no obligation for me to report to any ZH staff where I go and which client I take.

Sound and Meilijg fighting at living room

I should not get involved , so I play Pierre Busansun music ... New Age accostic guitar 

Lizard this morning

He is on the way down and sit on the side of long stairs - nice color and move a move .

I managed to mountaineering this morning -- will and overcome lazy 

New learning

Gastro pub - I joint the F & B meeting of amba Chung San and learn a few things 

1. Signature dish is not design but feedback from customers 

2. Restaurant investment can easily go up to 30 millions NT and fhe ROI is 1" years - bad imvestment 

3. No 7:30 pm booking : smart in increase 2 turn over rate 

New about Angeli :

1. Not enough curry source may get her upset 

Others :

1. The long time care taker insurance is something wrong I think . 

2. I trade my movie time for revise coming workshop preparation - this is a new change 

3. I take vegetarian food today only a few salmon in miso soup 

4. LCY in trouble and media throwing stones to Bowei - it's pity for him

5. Hubert never in a stable mood in any meeting - he is so worried about my no show at coming forum supercharge 

What should I said about tomorrow ?

1. It's not a biz conversation 

2. It's not a negociation 

3. It's a Knowing each other and identity need / requirements ... 

Little something today

Listening to music at our bedroom with the old stereo - it's been many months before we play music at our room - new and inspiring .

Unpack immediately and prepare works for tomorrow as 2 weeks ago .

I enjoy the methodology of " career tree " and " personal biographer " should tied it. 

The Italian movie on the plane back " I am not from Napolas " is a funny movie ,nothing special . 

" minds is the most powerful weapon " said from our Diverso forum -- and " don't let what you can do stop what you can't do "

My " long life is not good enough , good life is long enough " ripples 

About FSFE learning - Diverso

1. To choose the issue / topics from update and parking lot 

2. For those need an precise solution and require analytic efforts - park in Classic presentation 

3. For those more personal . Non biz relate or not need for " coaching " to rationalize - park in FSFE 

4. Don't use exploration to replace presentation since it's a well familiar terms 

5. Even FSFE for require coaching - self - assessment follow some guideline is critical - otherwise " presenter " don't know how to " Frames " 

6. The moderaotor is the protocol always reminded everyone use " curiosity pattern " to trigger themselves 

7. Time keeper require also .

8. Moderator should police on :

- giving advise

- asking question 

- not to express his : her own emotion and experiences 

9. No percipient sequeccy in self - curiosities process :

- airtime each 

- trigger by presenter 

- the perecular one members sharing 

- the groups 

- no sequence on who begin first 

- can always coming back to presenter issue 

- difficult to do empathy listening since you need to capture what trigger you 

- many trigger lead from many - you better take note when listening 

10. Check with presenter :

- what impact on him ( issue become clear ? What emotions now ? )

- what presenter want for remaining of the time ?

11. Continues self - curiority 

12. Back to classic presentation 

- clearify question session insert 10 minutes and 

- perronal experience sharing with self scribe 

13. Hit a chord 

- presenter lead with at least 1/3 of the mates echo 

- another self - curiority session 

14. Closing 

- one minutes learning from everyone 

- presenter take away : 2 minutes 

15.If presenter perform first self curiority and find it enough - can we revise the 4 steps to 3 steps - no need to continue any " check with presenter 

Picture of Diverso forum

Due to the heart atrack happen to tech mor - we change our forum venue to Singapore - This time and next time .

I am the new moderator from now on and conducting forum in English is a good challenge for me :

Can be better :

1. Not only follow the reference , you need to check the energy level and prepare high energy activity / exercise 

2. FSFE is good but need more experience to escalate our expectation and value - for this I will have about write up to summarize 

3. No social or no culture component seems like decrease the excitement about international forum 

4. The group cycle from forming - storming to norming : we follow our no and fine 2 members for late this time ..

5. People do have his hidden agenda - why can't disclosed in front of forum meeting but to take small talk instead ?

My take home value :

1) tech mor advise me how to develop / grow my biz / passion and willing to monitor as my buddy :

-- wrote a book / tool with content or procedure : TTT / promotion / certification 

-- an academic run by professional to expend holistic service other than a one man show .

- tie / partner with corporate or institution for certification biz 

2. Treadmill for 45 minutes for a very long break - good to swear 

3. Get the Italy make reading glass for Meilijg 

4. See Marin while he pick me up at Chang Yi airport 

5. White Rabbit - the concept restaurant experience .

6. Buy on sale Paul Smith shirts 

7. High gram Q 10 for 2 years quata 

8. Upgrade and another good experience in taking Eva business class

 

Sarah and talent fly

The highlight of yesterday afternoon :

1. Sarah 

- what and why corporate dog ?

- running with animation figure is getting popular everywhere .

- new boss - 31 years old 181 cm lady 

- father's Heath situation and how mother suffer as companion 

- neighbor prepare dinner for them - week day 

- who's who in the old days 

- contact with circle friend with purpose 

- what ? You want to be a groupie at your age ? 

2. Talent fly consensus round table :

- dinner at chicken nest and round table 

- get to know many why and doubt 

- so nohe wealth is new client to CSR community who I will see on Aug.6

- the structure of working is : personal believe ( CSR - citizen social responsibility ) combine with corporate 

- preparatory office and account can set for kick off 

- founder gathering tea party : who to come and what contribution everyone will perform ( how to design )