2017年9月23日 星期六

This is the first time I encountered the war between apple and google : my blog can no longer post as freely as before - before iPhone 8 launch

Forum 7: Seven Seas

1. Stiven : nervous to be the moderator and indecisive ( bring a coach )
2. Grace : met first time , love the 5 level of listening ( curiosity about what a coach can do )
3. Eddie : sister brings vulnerability and separated with wife - new life ( not yet )
4. Glandy : love and worries for dad and biz ( vulnerability)
5. Chris : thinking and organize , amaze to see how a forum can go this deep ( thinking about having a coach )
6. Tina : many gestures, treat me as master and impress on how I can spot issue so precisely.
7. Kwee : his issue been consolidated: it's indecisive and prostration. So many turbulence inside ( need a coach )
8. Leo : start up in a more stable stage , not as panic as I saw him last time ..
9. Ken : good learner , finally understand what's Wise In Update .


Roger

H

One hours
1. Heng How : why not close down ? I have no idea Calvin got my mobile phone
2. I woke up this morning, think of exercise but lying on bed and image all the awful feeling I had. My ... So I don't feel good
3. Yesterday, I feel like yelling to someone and do had the emotion
4. You should be the coach handling all my McDonald's affair
5. I understand the story you share about Sounds reaction to " why not buy a mini freezer at our room " Meiling only want to have the emotion exit not really ask for solving the problem .
6. D : I understand, you role as coaching is not to influence client : what Sam address is not correct .
7. About Public speech : I am kind of space out on stage and I don't know how to tell a story .


Roger

Reflection

1. Tattoo talking to tattoo : the donut clerk and young customer .. what's the words they stitches to their skin
2. 段純真 open its branch beef noodle shop at Viewshow cinema - shin Yi .. a good surprise about the taste I love move from Xing Hu to Taipei
3. Both Aj and Bengo stock price jump high . Why ? Tseng Yeng ?
4. M talent day and many M employee dress in different custom
5. Daphne project seems like a " Go "
6. Daan & Steve and Roger : some spark should ignite


Roger

Check my next financial forecast

If I doing everything as normal : 20 millions ( 11 personal & 9 corporate )
If I doing things extremely well : 29 millions ( extra 9 millions from personal coaching revenue )
My credit card spending annually : 6 millions ( 3 millions goes to traveling related items)
I should set a saving target and wealth Managment principal from now no .


Roger

2017年9月22日 星期五

Be high hope and prepare for the worst

I like what the coaching book said :
" to enter coaching biz , the bar is low but to be success the bar is high "
You can be a pro / part time or life growing coach but don't falling into pathetic struggling coach .. good one


Roger

BW

He said that he have no money , this is to my surprise. At the tele conversation, I can felt his sincerity so offer a free session .
Pause and he need to think about it .


Roger

Daan

Why my fire didn't cease ? Why there's no " Yes , But " slang during our conversation and why
- how's life treat you ?
- I surrender
- read what you didn't say
- enjoy to hold the space
Keep coming back during our dialogue. I got to believe that there a connection between us and Link to the world .


Roger

Late last night

1. I make it happen for Chi Hong to the National Palace Museum visit
2. I was in deep sleep but woke by Meiling to perform my " sex slave " functions, so interesting.
3. I knew Meiling's dream is to rebuilt our house , my estimated amount is roughly 6-70 minutes NT investment.


Roger

2017年9月21日 星期四

Last minutes help

Chi Hung need a prefer arrangement to National Palace Museum visit .. I tried to contact Mr. Lin : my classmate and senior .. Thanks for his acknowledge to help .. and I back to my Yoda Power again .


Roger

Gene

I don't get it : from 600.000 downpayment to 300.000 ! I should not ask why but there's a Why ?


Roger

Bowei

The need :
- what happened for the last 3 years
- where to go next ?
- I don't have the courage to step ahead
And you help me to draw my coaching process , thank you and let's walk the journey together.


Roger

My dear Roxanne

I am not in the position of not help you ,but , yes it's a but if you really want to initiate businesses relationship with others. You should pay visit first but not to wait for someone to show up because of you ..
Nunam cafe is a top brand in Vietnam, Khanh is my forum mate , I am happy to into but to ask them flying over to you - I don't think this is realistic .



Roger

This is how it happen

Lunch casually and randomly find a " quick service " Chinese restaurant in the ally nearby She Ta : where I print my workbook for Saigon .
I order a " stew rib " set : it come with side dishes and soup - looks great and pricing at 200
There is something wrong with my first bite to the rib - I tasted the sore which don't come as a flower but a rotten food , I split it out gently.
Then I approach the counter quietly and told the service man " the dish have some problem " he immediately take my rib away and send the menu for me to pick the replacement .
I can't - so I told him that I will eat my side dishes and pay the full - no worry
And I took a mouth wash at the water drain at the restroom before consume my dinner .
I finish all my remaining lunch . I saw owner ( or manger) stand behind the counter - I walk up and take 200 from my wallet : the owner said " I am sorry for he ignorance , the meal is on the house , please do come back "
My reply : no , you should at least take the cost , so I left 100 to the table and told him I will be back .
There's another 3 guests in the restaurant, they aware something is happen but nothing burst out .
This is what we can do : don't give hard time to people even you are standing on the ground call " REASON "


Roger

90 on the mountain

He is dining karoke with the younger elder and the Taiwanese tune is :" I am a man "
My Reflection: Manners Makes Man


Roger

My introspective on Logan lucky and Kingsman

This is not an coincidence
When " LOGAN LUCKY " reveal "country road take me home .." as it's main music fabric , I am a bit surprise ; Then " "Kingsman: The Golden Circle ". doing the same with an update choir version for this John Denver classic , I am totally stunned in the theater ...
What does it mean ? " Take Me Home " is the message - " Good Old Days / Simple Life " was the ideal heaven in this noisy world ; and a transforming mindset surface which I term it as " New Age is going back to Old Day "
Tell me what you think .. if by chance you saw both movies ..


Roger

2017年9月20日 星期三

Vicky

What she want :
1. A macro picture on business leases mindset in TW
2. How a leader coaching environment can happen
3. My stage in hero's Journey : reveal and atonement
4. Story I share :
- daan and smog free project
- business owner in china do not think about tomorrow
5. Corporate measure coaching in a stereotype way so it's HR call not a boss call


Roger

2017年9月19日 星期二

Hu Wen

Roger : you are so smart that don't want to be the boss, so you won't have the sleepless night .
- you have been convinced by Liu Tong which I don't agree with
- liu know you will meet him by 13:00, why not make himself ready by 12:45 or have me to call him up ?
- I have the answer in me , just want to double check
- for colipe : if I success , everyone will be happy , if I failed , i won't regret.
Roger

Resonate with Daan

1. He knows how to read people : hearing what isn't say
2. He enjoy reprogram peoples brain : hold the space on Speech
3. Surrender is often said : another Steve Vai
4. Take a different perspectives: hochen and smog free project
5. Coming project
- the green kite
- lab tour
- taipei visit
- intro to Pauline

Roger

What I observed last might

Hu Wen is the " big brother " type
Pauline : don't feel safe always
Renny : as charming as before
Hank : love to see me here
David : smiling kind of fake
Sandra : little do I know her please pleasant always
Trix : no much , not much
Paul : absent minded
Lee Wen : I am on a diet but the duck skin and beef are so good
Wendy : absent / so ...
drink much less than before
Still in a forming stage : no one willing to take a lead - probe the boundaries .
Try to lay out forum norm / style etc
Courtesy : a tradition


Roger

Daan

Hey , we met one hour ahead of schedule and this is exactly the same greeting I often use :
" how's life treat you ? " and this morning it coming back to me via you .


Roger

Andy Liu

You feel the change in your body and this is trigger by your mind -/
It's 1000 days in the seeding and now we see the sprout ..
welcome to walk with me ..


Roger

Pauline

Do I need to recruit one more coachee ? What's the bandwidth I have ?
Puli - so nice



Roger

2017年9月18日 星期一

Andy Liu

It's been 3 years and I can sense the sprout burst out the ground- hard ground maybe .
You said when I ask about your " 3 years confusion and wandering " your body changes- you felt calm and relax ..
so if we may :
1. Help you to deliver forums in your networking.
2. Identify ( pool ) or request for personal coaching
3. Liaison with international- YPO networking ..
on the side you said you wish to be my protege and learn from me : my reply : to learn is not a need but a want . To put yourself to a need and be my coachee is the first step .
Walk with me - likewise I am waking with you .


Roger
It's Woody Allan - open ending , complicated internal noise ; fuzz in what to do ; emotions over rationale ; love and cheating ..
It's always an Ego vs Self.
We saw it at movie channel and I had many reflection


Roger

位置:Coffee and Love

Hu Wen last night

It's rare and I am at home . So pick up the phone to go over his " how to solve " by the time we ended our coaching over phone . He ask if I am be the bridge and invite Shung to a conversation with him ?
I reject and told him this is the best window to address it without any intermediary - no secretary , no third person - a chance to bring back some " left behind brotherhood "


Roger

S + D

Via D , I see S better ; Via D , I check and balance what I heard from J.
It's a good 2 hours connection, not about time , duration but the qualify when we conduct the dialogues.
Old habit die hard :
1. Sleeping disorder
2.Addict to mobile games
3.Pull your value under others
4.No exercise
5.Emotion hijack.
S is good - honesty and open



Roger

2017年9月16日 星期六

It happens between 8:30-09:00




Roger

H

1. So my brother is getting closer to me so I might stay in A still
2. I can't sleep and need the sleeping / calm pill .. dose it hurt
3. In 3 months, can you help me to become an inspirational speaker ? R: a better speaker is our goals
4. He is asking a lot . R : compensation: 20 m NT ?
5. J : why can she just get rid of unhappiness?
6. Let's go and buy " school of life " cards
7. My new hobby is the 4 K projector screen home theater : 200 inches big screen
8. Volvo 90 is a good new car . My self drove car not a fancy one but good enough.
9. BW is so blunt and know nothing do nothing ..


Roger

Weight control or

I am exceeding 73 kg regularly and this is not a good sign .. eating too much fat and don't control on my appetite is so wrong .
After the complain and confession. I should strictly on my eating


Roger

Trivial something

-Why so many young girls tattoo on their foot angles these days ?
-Why Buddha Life memorial hall such glamour and 48 underground palace - each one sell something on the ground floor
-Stiven hurry and I am ok .. the " do I know you " exercise
-Sound is so upset about his new apartment : no bathtub space and his whole plan is ruined


Roger

Movies

How come it become the integral family / couple entertainment these days ? I don't get it and I don't really want to know it

Not healthy to me


Roger

Other movies

If I can't recall , they don't bother to writing something
- dark tower : a terrible one
- 2:22: for the second run movie, not bad a love story who wish to correct the wrong from previous life .
- Wonder Woman: saw the second time on second run theater : a good one still . " I can save today and you will save the world " ..


Roger

Many movies

The latest one is " Strattons " a SEAL equivalent fighter who play the hero to crack down the terror attempt attack to London .
" what happen to Monday " is a very good sci-fi / thrill / action movie : foresee the world over population , what will you do and what can you do ? "
" American Assassin " is a good intelligent / secret mission operator movie - hate keep a man alive and revenge build mans will ..
" renegade " is a seems to be good but low budget film : SEAL perform good and save many war scent budget
" I am a taxi driver " - good story based on true event and person but the real person never show up


Roger

My confession

I admit that I can't get rid of the attraction - although it's been 2 years.
I surrender to my human nature and learn that I MUST accept it , otherwise the guilt won't be Away .
I do have my midlife transformation lesson to learn and can't escape from it
I am triggered by many side attraction and can't help myself finding an antidote / solutions .
I need to be as normal as I can ..
I don't play the role of victims and won't blame it on me only .
I can handle it well as long as I be very prudent .
It's not a rationale games , so don't bother to count the pros & cons

I am on the taxi to HSR station . Destination Tauyoung .


Roger

2017年9月14日 星期四

Gary's father

What meant to be mean to be : my skipping the condolences turn to today : when Daniel leave me a message this morning on his first day home - I decide to go with him
It's an " after house " which Gary's father build for him : Bai Shen Chuang Tamsui and we kind of lost for many turns
What happens during the day:
1. Ask the house and trigger an old lady's nerves as she don't know to be contaminated by the funeral - bad lucky so to speak
2. Met Gary's sister and lean a few Things about his father : workaholic and a family man who suffer only in the last 10 days .
3. Daniel ask me to go to 行天宮 to complete our routine for funeral, of course I follows .
4. A good clam soup noodle together.
What meant to be mean to be .


Roger

2017年9月13日 星期三

H session

Perspective taking
It's J who not happy with herself ! Not you or me .
So - if you can't be sure sign the paper will redirect her emotion , don't take it as an solution .
Sleeping pill : take it but don't feel guilty otherwise you suffer mentally and physically .
And we go to " school of life " buying many " card games " and to outsource life problems to cards .. What a good day .


Roger

Jason Fung

As you are going to join TK 3C next Monday from Regent , my wish to you
- when off the dock and unload anchor to the sea. The moment you realize the only way to go is sailing to the next destination is when you can hardly see the dock where you departure .


Roger

First monthly with G

What's new :
1. Improve WU : rating and emotion attached
2. Learn the biz and role structure
3. 100 questions as check in and check out exercise
4. One issue can lead to multiple issue
5. Sharing is more than solving
6. Issues explore:
- commitment of my brothers
- fix myself: how to be more aware about my midlife transformation
- Doris : emotion : one action way ; protect or attach by emotions
It's a 2 hours and I saw him with eye red in the end .


Roger

J session

I deal with his emotion after dinner last night :
1. Emotions come from conduct a difficult conversation: 1) am I good enough ? 2) am I a good person ? 3) why can't I be love & respected as others .
2. Try to post a horizontal conversation mindset to overtake vertical heiracky
3. Trust is an issue :
- It's given
- it's a default not a nature ( your choice not practice )
4. Profession managers should realized it's only a transition : by function and by period : it might be mutually agree and can be one way thinking .
5. Consensus is to agreed on what we agree and disagree.
6. Our experience might limited us to explore new things as it come with different outcome .
7. Out of your comfort zone is to increase it ..
8. How I view your dinner ?
- from what you told me
- who took the initiative
- your own rating
- emotion and energy scan



Roger

2017年9月12日 星期二

Reflection

I am at Nunnan bulavoud now and saw the old office of Pater Chang - I recall how madam chang support her husband and willing to spend as much as Peter wish - the bias come from 2 fold : 1) Peter is the house master 2) Peter making money .
Then I check my own situation now - dose Meiling act the same as Madamn chang or I am spending like Peter :
Reflection is a good advisor .. save is what you really earned .


Roger

2017年9月11日 星期一

Father and Sound city tour

First day : a luxury day
1. Buy biz class HSR to KS
2. Check in luxury hotel : H2O with an upgrade treatment : nice room and many small details
3. Lunch at " Red Nose " pig foot restaurant for Rich stomach
4. 700 taxi fare to Buddha Life Tower : and it's a luxury place for religious practicineer .
5. Right foot , let food body massage : a luxury relax place full of Japan ambience
6. Taxi to Bo Chuang : a legendary place for stew pork rice : yummy
7. Taxi back to hotel : Taxi driver said how Luxury this hotel is ...
8. Calvin Le pho exhibition: a luxury event discussing with Sound .
9. Watch free movie at hotel : Bus 576 :a good one to me
10. Sleeping in a nice bad and pillow .



Roger

2017年9月9日 星期六

The Stop Sign

Having my recreation session to easy the arouse high but not laid .
It's partially decreasing but not 100 percent removed .
Another Stop is to stop tail after the 2 years window - it's so hard to keep a clean and peaceful life and don't let the impose ruining my life - take the initiative yesterday afternoon and to call it an end by 9:30 pm - no so painful
What cause my curiosity is why I am so into laid today but finish half way - no ejaculation --
I am human still ..


Roger

Finally

I told the taxi driver when getting off : you are driving too fast , I don't feel comfortable in the taxi .
My guest:
A taxi driver at his 65
A rough and age car without any interior furbish.
His last name : Lien looked like a


Roger

Thunderbolt Fantasy

It's pili puppy show - a childhood memory awakened by watching the We Work speech - Mr Huang the 5th generation who develop an innovative way and get the puppy show internally:
1. Not to use Taiwanese
2. Appear to wilder generation
3. Cross nation collaboration
To him : family business is not about succession. It's blood and it's family and Fans are like lovers ..


Roger

Renegade

It's a movie I was attract by teaser but fool inside theater . I thanks to my family will sacrifice time to tolerate it with me.
The redemption is to find another excitement to balance my emotions - anything


Roger

2017年9月8日 星期五

AM triggers

From getting high to getting laid : it's a road of human desire , how can I resist it as a fresh body ?
Connect W and how can I not to fulfill promise tomorrow, it will be a double arrows ---
But never ever to lay the ground of reunite or back to the old days as there is no old days and no one can turn back the clock .


Roger

AM bugging

Yes , my screen protector told me I have use the phone for more than 6 hours now - mid of the day and this is not healthy .
Thanks to AM taught me so much about online dating or match for mating ,it's too powerful to say no and it should be a NO for sure .
Make it my dui and share it with Royce , a good something I learn and reflect for the day


Roger

It's definitely a addiction

I buy my 2nd plan for 200 points . 2400 gone and begin another chat journey


Roger

AM part 2

I keep texting with 4 girls Who drag me to line chat and it really draw my attention from 7:45 to 10:30
By 10:30 I have use up my first package : 2400 , just simply open my AM message , they knows the human and this is such a powerful business model - mediate without selling any "Things " and get both side pay a premium.
As I have addict it for 150 minutes and I am about to back to my normal life now .
As for tomorrow by 3:00 pm .. I am openly thinking ....,


Roger

My Ashely Maison experience this morning

Trigger by the popular musical story I read from New York Times , taking about sex after 60 - I browse the dating - matching site Ashley Mansion which were recommended by the musical writer .
step 1 : you sign up and it's very user friendly, and then you need to upload your photo : even though it's an option and you can " mask " it , I decided to show my headshot .
Second.
Step 2: you were ask to buy their package : from NT 2400 to 24.000 in order to : priority your search or been searched and to use your point to retrieve your " message / gift " etc . You have to sign up. So I sigh up the expensive plan : 2400 for 100 points
Step 3 : guess what : there must be an customer service team aware or an AI to check your move and you receive first " march " message to be retrieved in 30 seconded once your complete buying the package.
Step 4: when open it , you got a " know you first before Fuck you " request and the matching one post her line ID ( once fishing , she will pull you out from the AM pond and drag you somewhere after ) and you realize it's " 15 points " to open on message- so expensive.
Step 5: the one who fish you begin to conduct conversation with you at the line chat room - it's free and you can exchange more information: some are very erotic but you can sense it's an SOP question such as : " what kind of relationship you are looking for : FOB mainly " " How Old are you ? " " What's your profession ? " " Are you married? Have kids " " Sexual preference ? " " free to meet ? Where to meet ? "
Step 6: then you will consistently receive at least 20 AM message to you and you choose to open a few of them and found the SOP : line and questions and request a " no string attached , no burden sex "
Step 7: most of them ask you to sign on on another date site : kh - you need to update and pay more money .
Step 8: this is where you spend all your packages and alway to call it an end or make it an addictive to your life .


Roger

2017年9月6日 星期三

Reflection

Today :
1.Train to Taitung and overheard the terrible conversation among younger generation
2.Tried on hour of hot spring at Chipen royal hotel
3.beautiful intimacy with Meiling before hot spring
4. Victor and his new direction: be a coach and Kris : I don't really want to team up and produce any Chinese forum curriculum for YEN
5. Gary's father : not intend to go
6. The interesting book found at hotel book shell


Roger

2017年9月5日 星期二

Recall

Sitting at ritz , I recall the days when I am marmeise by antique and bought me many Fake one from HK
There a time I went to HK , she come with me and carry 2 big Bronze status for me , it's so heavy and I was so mean gm her .. I mean so mean ..


Roger

2017年9月4日 星期一

I saw it in my dream

It's so vivid , his head is green and pretty much like a dragon head . Is it the "Slay the Dragon " scene from Hero's Journey .
I woke for a while and back to sleep again.
Since I learn the sleeping patten of a dog , I don't have any problem to break my sleep into pieces .


Roger

Personal retreat with Calvin

1. Morning session from 9:45 am
-- talked about Tass : emotion hijack and cocoon with no one listen . We will co- development a supporting framework : I devoted time , Calvin contributed to my logistics.
2. The new management: 1) time and my feedback interview is welcomed .
3. Family Trustee and Don't trapped in 1) brother sister versus relatives 2) inherited but not qualify to sustain and grow the business 3) sebilin influenced by extended family .
4. Role and worries to Crystal .
5. How you read your forum mate : Shaggi don't response , CP didn't change ; Tass has frustration; Graeme is annoying
6. Sound and Li Pu exhibition.




Roger

2017年9月3日 星期日

Tiger I SEE

sleep less than 4 hours and heading for the forum - my stay for 2 meals and 3 hours session :
1. Shaggi want to leave ...
2. Graeme is annoying many - as usual
3. Archi is a good day Chair with the help of " Obasan " , and he is kinds of share his highlight on our way way from dinner
4. Phil have a headache about Guam
5. Tass buy me a book " Time to Think " as ask me go read it and teach him
6. Calvin stays one more night with me and we have our lunch and dinner plan
7. Sochan love meat too much
8. General as alway with dirt cock cola
9. Why we need dial to Bobby ?
I did a presentation about " vertical transfer to horizontal relationship " I know everyone benefit from that
Lunch : Osaka Fried something good
Dinner : Japanese beef with Korean BBQ style
Spend a few time with Khanh and his wife and it's good -- learn about Sound and to show my appreciation.
Shaggi is too sensitive, archi disclose his jv with general , Graeme will become broad member to Sumida .. the 3rd or 4th independent director ( outside director) stealing from Tiger forum .


Roger

2017年9月1日 星期五

Host

From Taipei to Huailien
Taipei really good : see something, say something, know something and learn something.
Huilien Ian's table :
1. Good vibe and MD Chen's story is a tear gas .. so vivid and so inspiring , a nature born storyteller.
2. Lawyer Tseng : warn and gentle and yes , he feed the house dog a bone - Ian said it never try any bone before - a dog workout bone for 10 years.
3. Su yin : she is a Taiwanese to me now
4. Daphne: nice to connect and with strong curiosity to know what coach is and how the trust is build or break .
5. Sky : always nice to have you around and I deliver CQ ELAC message already
6. Wu Yueh and her classmate : come to eat
7. Yu Ping : why I need to know Fu's though and how you handle it ? I don't really care
8. Angeli : Thanks, you are really a helper
9. C : I am sorry what I said about " thanks you " wasn't come from bottoms of my heart .
10. KC : are you jealous ?
11. May Ann : thanks you and thanks
12. Chaucer : a few leads and some reflections. Nice vibe


Roger

Why I had this emotion

About Connie to join our dinner tonight, it's a development since her " no thanks you after Golden Melody award ticket " and I don't really see her doing any volunteer works for us at Talents Fly this year ...
if she is Angeli's good fried then I don't mind .. but this is an emotion. Emotions is to be aware but not to controls .


Roger