I am here by 8:00 am, it open at 8:30 am , I am the first person registered and my appointment tickets is : 16 ? Why , even thought there is multiple way to register, but to serve for those who come in person a better arrangement is a common knowledge, I don't know why and I can't figure it out ?
And on the tickets , it mentions if any complains , please write it down and throw it into the suggestion box . I don't believe anyone will either check it or improve it .
I waited for 30 minutes already and I don't know when number 16 will be called.
Roger
2016年12月31日 星期六
2016年12月30日 星期五
Audi A6 arrive by end of 2016
Replace a new car for Meiling or myself - as a passenger. It's my own way to sustain living : CSR community : a BMW 320 - forum works early day : Volkswagen Passat CC , beginning of 2017 : Audi A6 to kick off .
Roger
Roger
Lucid dream
The cold part 3 : asthma coming back, this is the worst symptom I ever want to re experience: a nightmare since my childhood . I don't know what trigger it this time but when laying on bed last night , I can feel it coming.
Lucid dream :
1. Sound call home for mother late , it's 12:30 am in the morning , so I didn't wake her up for the call.
2. Sound is home and ask if we go to " Assistant Creed " yet , he is so excited about going to this movie with me.
3. Meiling had a guilty face on her , I don't know why and I don't want to know .
Roger
Lucid dream :
1. Sound call home for mother late , it's 12:30 am in the morning , so I didn't wake her up for the call.
2. Sound is home and ask if we go to " Assistant Creed " yet , he is so excited about going to this movie with me.
3. Meiling had a guilty face on her , I don't know why and I don't want to know .
Roger
2016年12月29日 星期四
Broadway Cinema reopens
I am here for " Great Wall " the movie I am not going to be - not on my priority list and to taste what's new from this old time favorite cinema ( close to where we live , quite and clean )
The renovation looks good , but it turn to a home theater alike cinema : 40 seats per screening room . I hope the experience will be good .
Roger
The renovation looks good , but it turn to a home theater alike cinema : 40 seats per screening room . I hope the experience will be good .
Roger
Get some sleep and get some rest
I lye down to bed and sleep without knowing what time is it .
Take another 2 tablet and hot bath , I return to bed by 5:50 and sleep until 7:00 am
Roger
Take another 2 tablet and hot bath , I return to bed by 5:50 and sleep until 7:00 am
Roger
2016年12月28日 星期三
In high fever now
The flu is getting worst , all the symptom come one by one : running nose ; block nose ; cough ; sore body ; and finally : Fever come to me .
It's like listen to sychodilic music , you just floating on the guitar , image now Steve Vai is Adolfo a solo and you just getting higher and higher now .
Noon send me a message by trigger of what Steve did at Kennedy Center Honors - he is tribute to Eagles or more specifically- Joe Walsh . The number they did is " Hotel California " and you see Don Henry / Joe Walsh nod their head with smile - the high light is when the All Star Band tribute " Life in Fast Lane " a guitar driven hit , you can image how Steve want to play with the song and to entertain the audience - including Obama .. he did it at the perfect ending to the Honory Concert .
This is Steve , how people love him and always bring magic to everyone on stage .
I am in high fever still , call the help desk for the fever relief tablet : as they are not medical Train and certified members , so can't directly offer me any medical Advisee and does , desk boy knock our door and say : this Tablet is from our own staff for personal usage , if you need more , please dial 3.
I books the earlier shuttle out tomorrow morning and ask if shuttle bus driver can lead us to a close by clinic - I need to fix the symptoms before it too late.
It's getter better now and I am sit to write my blog about my fever drift ..
Roger
It's like listen to sychodilic music , you just floating on the guitar , image now Steve Vai is Adolfo a solo and you just getting higher and higher now .
Noon send me a message by trigger of what Steve did at Kennedy Center Honors - he is tribute to Eagles or more specifically- Joe Walsh . The number they did is " Hotel California " and you see Don Henry / Joe Walsh nod their head with smile - the high light is when the All Star Band tribute " Life in Fast Lane " a guitar driven hit , you can image how Steve want to play with the song and to entertain the audience - including Obama .. he did it at the perfect ending to the Honory Concert .
This is Steve , how people love him and always bring magic to everyone on stage .
I am in high fever still , call the help desk for the fever relief tablet : as they are not medical Train and certified members , so can't directly offer me any medical Advisee and does , desk boy knock our door and say : this Tablet is from our own staff for personal usage , if you need more , please dial 3.
I books the earlier shuttle out tomorrow morning and ask if shuttle bus driver can lead us to a close by clinic - I need to fix the symptoms before it too late.
It's getter better now and I am sit to write my blog about my fever drift ..
Roger
2016年12月27日 星期二
Berlini restaurant
Hanes book it and I walked in with full memory of Mr. Han : I walked him to lunch twice a week for about one year back to my wandering days .
This is the flagship store berlini build its business.
Same taste , different staff and different guest this time .
Time pass , memory stays .
Roger
This is the flagship store berlini build its business.
Same taste , different staff and different guest this time .
Time pass , memory stays .
Roger
2016年12月26日 星期一
H 2 hours
H is in the mood to talk / share :
1. About Things with Joyce:
2. About Maple and his idea in mind
3. About A Zone : this is the arguably point as I am not align with break even in 2 years mindset - my task is to let KC know what Hubert want and if there's no way to deliver , we either find good hands and sell to good partner. As long as Hubert know I am here to help , he should understand.
4. About Frances and Shelin development and Chairman Chang
5. About AMBA and new site development.
6. About S co-op and new opportunities
7. About why I need money urgently.
8. The M structure : for Development Licensee : H is the only window to M : key person involved: Chen H Y ; John K. George C.
Roger
1. About Things with Joyce:
2. About Maple and his idea in mind
3. About A Zone : this is the arguably point as I am not align with break even in 2 years mindset - my task is to let KC know what Hubert want and if there's no way to deliver , we either find good hands and sell to good partner. As long as Hubert know I am here to help , he should understand.
4. About Frances and Shelin development and Chairman Chang
5. About AMBA and new site development.
6. About S co-op and new opportunities
7. About why I need money urgently.
8. The M structure : for Development Licensee : H is the only window to M : key person involved: Chen H Y ; John K. George C.
Roger
Mullet Caviar Roll
Chung produce the best mullet fish roll , when watch the tv news , I browse the website and tried online order last night , I didn't complete the transaction but received the shipping notice via mail today ? How come and never mind , it will be a Chinese New Years bonus to someone .
Roger
Roger
KC
1. Lu Tai : a potential lawsuit ? Never mind , we are here to peel the onion . I don't really want to get Fu involved and hurt his feeling
2. IP gallery : what's the market price and how we can offer you a better deal ? Let's be fair ..and try to be nice too.
3. A Zone cash outflow : need to understand and control : 2016: -22m ; 2017:-14m; 2018:-9m; 2019: break even
Roger
2. IP gallery : what's the market price and how we can offer you a better deal ? Let's be fair ..and try to be nice too.
3. A Zone cash outflow : need to understand and control : 2016: -22m ; 2017:-14m; 2018:-9m; 2019: break even
Roger
Hanes
What make you anxiety? Worry ? And how the planning can smooth your uncertainty?
1. Make the assigned project an enhance experience and knowledge/skill increases.
2. Network is essential to create an environment for people to " ASK " what and how you do ?
3. A personal goal such as " words in a 2 years coaching journey " as steppingstone to explore new possibilities in the future .
Roger
1. Make the assigned project an enhance experience and knowledge/skill increases.
2. Network is essential to create an environment for people to " ASK " what and how you do ?
3. A personal goal such as " words in a 2 years coaching journey " as steppingstone to explore new possibilities in the future .
Roger
Diana
We are thinking about the same question, what is our expectation in 2017 for our coaching program ?
1. We agreed in 2017 is the final year to end the 3 year program :
- first year : Stiven / James
- second year : Stiven / Jason
2. I have my own way to handle personal and family issues and I did reflection all the time
3. What would you want to do with this company is the only thing stuck Me .. and I don't have the answer
4. Risk taker : as long as I can access it and afford to take it , then I will go . Like ski in Japan .
5. People come because of me , my responsibility is attached to people . Some of the management team is detach. It's not a good spirit.
6. For sales , the performance to me is not measured by figures: if this is the case , please well communicate with keys take holders, if you only talk at the performance review , it will be deem as defense , it won't be good to you.
Roger
1. We agreed in 2017 is the final year to end the 3 year program :
- first year : Stiven / James
- second year : Stiven / Jason
2. I have my own way to handle personal and family issues and I did reflection all the time
3. What would you want to do with this company is the only thing stuck Me .. and I don't have the answer
4. Risk taker : as long as I can access it and afford to take it , then I will go . Like ski in Japan .
5. People come because of me , my responsibility is attached to people . Some of the management team is detach. It's not a good spirit.
6. For sales , the performance to me is not measured by figures: if this is the case , please well communicate with keys take holders, if you only talk at the performance review , it will be deem as defense , it won't be good to you.
Roger
George Michael
He was 53 and passed away on his perfect day : Christmas: his Last Christmas is another " jingle bell " to this world and he will always be remembered.
Roger
Roger
Team 6 is ongoing
My TED walk this Morning brings me new aspect below :
1. Offer Lite On team 6 a facilitation session .
2. Thinking about " your eyes is talking "
3. Figure how the session with Diana should go
4. Erase my 2017/01/03 dry run as Stiven is on call in the afternoon
5. Thinking to create my : word of wisdom calendar; 50 reading list and top few movies and make a year highlight as well
6. Get to feel the difference between Belief and Faith . - from doubt to Dao
7. So Mohamed is a prophet yet a Pope ?
8. Belief ; Believe In and Faith .
Roger
1. Offer Lite On team 6 a facilitation session .
2. Thinking about " your eyes is talking "
3. Figure how the session with Diana should go
4. Erase my 2017/01/03 dry run as Stiven is on call in the afternoon
5. Thinking to create my : word of wisdom calendar; 50 reading list and top few movies and make a year highlight as well
6. Get to feel the difference between Belief and Faith . - from doubt to Dao
7. So Mohamed is a prophet yet a Pope ?
8. Belief ; Believe In and Faith .
Roger
Run into Late President Ma Yin Chu again
This morning by 6:50 am on my way up to Fairy Foot Rock , Ma is on his way down , again , an hello / smile with no picture taking .
He is with 3 securities: one in front and 2 at his back .
Roger
He is with 3 securities: one in front and 2 at his back .
Roger
2016年12月25日 星期日
Learning today
Finally , pause to inner search and do my search outside : maya lin , an extraordinary overseas Chinese who win the architecture design award in 1982 and when she was 21 , and that is by far the most visit momentum in Washington: Vietnam War momentum .
Art is poem and Architecture is essays : maya want to integrated them and cover with earth nature...
what inspired me ?
1. Don't be limit to your race , your imagination and
2. Find a balance between 2 passions and knowledge
3. There must be DNA . And what's mine ?
Roger
Art is poem and Architecture is essays : maya want to integrated them and cover with earth nature...
what inspired me ?
1. Don't be limit to your race , your imagination and
2. Find a balance between 2 passions and knowledge
3. There must be DNA . And what's mine ?
Roger
This is so amazing
1. Roger : we team 6 did it : pair and peer coaching for the last 3 months and we will continue. Sander
2. Audrey: roger , your eyes is talking ..
Roger
2. Audrey: roger , your eyes is talking ..
Roger
2016年12月22日 星期四
Star War : Rouge One
1. Rebel is come from the passion
2. It's not about chance , but choice .
Roger
2. It's not about chance , but choice .
Roger
Royce session
Alway feel good as long as you feel someone really care : our in person Session is full of mutual learning and shading .
Royce is a quick learner - it's beyond my expectation, I need to foster myself for others to pick up .
Roger
Royce is a quick learner - it's beyond my expectation, I need to foster myself for others to pick up .
Roger
Hubert on news
Now the McDonald's deal is all over the news , he is no way hide and the first reaction is to postpone our coaching session then cancel it . I am fine .. the news will keep him busy for a while , the real pressure will soon approach.
Roger
Roger
Tuyen and Crystal
The morning session have to to pull the trigger - ask Crystal to make her coaching decision ... or to force her facing her future direct with Calvin .
I know I am doing the right thing at right time for all of us .
Roger
I know I am doing the right thing at right time for all of us .
Roger
Lunch with Tze Yao and Patrick family
It's a Thursday family lunch day and I take Patrick's invitation to see my little friend . 6 years old Tse Yao . We met 3 times and become friend . To see Patrick is always good .. he is actually a thinker - I recall to send him a very long letter about my inspiration few years ago and of course his reach out lent me 1 millions NT as a support to me belief .
Life Academy is his initiative also . Nice chair and new family breed .
Roger
Life Academy is his initiative also . Nice chair and new family breed .
Roger
2016年12月21日 星期三
Take time and make time to
It's how you priorities and realign your life .
Make time out of your routine
Take time focus on the important
" what make you money ? What make you happy ? " to do
Roger
Make time out of your routine
Take time focus on the important
" what make you money ? What make you happy ? " to do
Roger
Warren
We talk about culture:
1. From divergent to invergent
2. Checking the boundaries
3. Agreed upon the vital fews : what culture can sustain ? What behavior will change ?
Roger
1. From divergent to invergent
2. Checking the boundaries
3. Agreed upon the vital fews : what culture can sustain ? What behavior will change ?
Roger
位置:瑞光路,內湖區,台灣
2016年12月20日 星期二
Second Tigers forum at HK
1.Nice venue : Aberdeen Marine Club - Chairman's club
2.Good boat to Lunch at Tai Pu island .
3. 3 relatively good 4SFE and bring vulnerability to forum mate .
Others :
1. Decision made
2. Such an expensive dinner last night : HKD 36.000 what ? Why ?
3. Joke about night life in Taiwan is no fun to me
Roger
2.Good boat to Lunch at Tai Pu island .
3. 3 relatively good 4SFE and bring vulnerability to forum mate .
Others :
1. Decision made
2. Such an expensive dinner last night : HKD 36.000 what ? Why ?
3. Joke about night life in Taiwan is no fun to me
Roger
Only yes and no can change our life , maybe never will
This time , I am reminding me not to spending non value added time in forums and focus on the vital few
The more I see Tigres , the more I understand I am not one of them . Know who you are is a self awareness and to make necessary decision is approaching mature .
Roger
The more I see Tigres , the more I understand I am not one of them . Know who you are is a self awareness and to make necessary decision is approaching mature .
Roger
2016年12月19日 星期一
Why I am so sleepy ?
This update session drag for 3 hours and even myself feel boring about what I did .
I thinks after Yi Lan meeting , I should bail myself out from it .
Roger
I thinks after Yi Lan meeting , I should bail myself out from it .
Roger
Tigers Forum at HK day one
1. Long ice breaker : what's your name
2. No presentation urgency , but to extend Update as presentation
3. Deal with " Aging " and " Death "
4. Only do reflection no forward looking
5. Protocols and Process loose
6. Moderator is tired
Am I here to be changed or to bring some change ambience ?
A big question mark to me
Live fully and not talked about near death experience only
Roger
2. No presentation urgency , but to extend Update as presentation
3. Deal with " Aging " and " Death "
4. Only do reflection no forward looking
5. Protocols and Process loose
6. Moderator is tired
Am I here to be changed or to bring some change ambience ?
A big question mark to me
Live fully and not talked about near death experience only
Roger
Tigers in HK
We miss 2 persons this time :
-Bobby who I never saw him before
-So Chan say he can't be with on last meeting
Chat coaching to Calvin at lounge :
Dinner with everyone at Hutong restaurant on Peiking road number 1. With great view .
My term next time at Yi Lan
1. Have Andrew do onsite support
2. Stiven on kavara visit
3. Daniel sponsor liquor .
4. KC for car and logistic
Roger
-Bobby who I never saw him before
-So Chan say he can't be with on last meeting
Chat coaching to Calvin at lounge :
Dinner with everyone at Hutong restaurant on Peiking road number 1. With great view .
My term next time at Yi Lan
1. Have Andrew do onsite support
2. Stiven on kavara visit
3. Daniel sponsor liquor .
4. KC for car and logistic
Roger
2016年12月16日 星期五
Chou Chou dinner
Hubert skip the foundation board meeting and host the dinner .
Kin is doing everything he can prepare cuisine for us .
Main course : wagi beef / roast chicken / grill fish / seafood plate ... it's a gourmet dinner tonight .
Royce - Hubert have fun too .
Yu Ping is happy to engage .
Roger
Kin is doing everything he can prepare cuisine for us .
Main course : wagi beef / roast chicken / grill fish / seafood plate ... it's a gourmet dinner tonight .
Royce - Hubert have fun too .
Yu Ping is happy to engage .
Roger
Jason's mind map and road map
Now 38 , Jason draw his 5 of 4 years plan and see it clearly by age 58 , be the leader in this country is follow his political career path .
And yes , you can tell he shows his trust in you and willing to take this coaching program - from his own initiatives .
Basic info
1. Left home by 17 , not a happy immediate family .
2. Father working in night market with financial problem . Ask money from Jason all the time .
3. " I probably can't say I love you to my father " I see the vulnerability in his eyes
4. Siblings don't get alone , the area I am weak also
5. Wife is my working partner. We want to have kids
6. Yes I build my circle of friends but this is not a pure reflective relationship
7. I have 2 coaches before : one I think I am not trust him , the other one use to be my subordinate- well how can he coach me ?
8. More Oriental leaning and inner searching is what I aim for .
9. We focus on " change " and " better " it's either change for better ( improving) or " better change "( train is coming )
10. Learn from leaders in business world
11. Life academy is difficult to me , I can't really open in the big group ( Perfect image / defense / mask / trust )
12. Questions to me :
- why : passion is when talent meet your good at , and is there is " need " you produce many by product
- Mastery : skill / art / magic
- I participant and do peer leaning or simply listens
- a feeding to seeking leaning .
- TED is put on new cloth but nothing inside
Follow up:
1. Confidentially agreement
2. Coaching program
3. Key stakeholders 360 degree survey
We are having lunch at Legislators Yuang restaurant .
Roger
And yes , you can tell he shows his trust in you and willing to take this coaching program - from his own initiatives .
Basic info
1. Left home by 17 , not a happy immediate family .
2. Father working in night market with financial problem . Ask money from Jason all the time .
3. " I probably can't say I love you to my father " I see the vulnerability in his eyes
4. Siblings don't get alone , the area I am weak also
5. Wife is my working partner. We want to have kids
6. Yes I build my circle of friends but this is not a pure reflective relationship
7. I have 2 coaches before : one I think I am not trust him , the other one use to be my subordinate- well how can he coach me ?
8. More Oriental leaning and inner searching is what I aim for .
9. We focus on " change " and " better " it's either change for better ( improving) or " better change "( train is coming )
10. Learn from leaders in business world
11. Life academy is difficult to me , I can't really open in the big group ( Perfect image / defense / mask / trust )
12. Questions to me :
- why : passion is when talent meet your good at , and is there is " need " you produce many by product
- Mastery : skill / art / magic
- I participant and do peer leaning or simply listens
- a feeding to seeking leaning .
- TED is put on new cloth but nothing inside
Follow up:
1. Confidentially agreement
2. Coaching program
3. Key stakeholders 360 degree survey
We are having lunch at Legislators Yuang restaurant .
Roger
It cause my nightmare and headache in the morning
Meiling just can't understand what's communication and what's complaining : I don't stop anyone to communicate and won't close door for listening , but to complain is another story , she raised her voice with a terrible looks and began to shoot : this is totally beyond anyone's tolerance . Who sold the Passat CC and how long it will take ? I know KC is stubborn in some area but not an unreasonable person . On top of that : to sell our car is not and should not on top of his working priority ...
I made the mistake in the first place - the accusation from Meiling is right :
1. When ask her sold it to the previous second car dealers - I check the price online and ask her to check more referral
2. When do the Passat maintenance , I ask her to check with the mechanics engineer
3. And I also ask her to double confirm with both of them
4. Then I ask her why not hand it over to KC ?
I should know why it happens, the problem is my nightmares and the headache over night - her boomerang just put me in a bad situation . It's hard to handle now .
Roger
I made the mistake in the first place - the accusation from Meiling is right :
1. When ask her sold it to the previous second car dealers - I check the price online and ask her to check more referral
2. When do the Passat maintenance , I ask her to check with the mechanics engineer
3. And I also ask her to double confirm with both of them
4. Then I ask her why not hand it over to KC ?
I should know why it happens, the problem is my nightmares and the headache over night - her boomerang just put me in a bad situation . It's hard to handle now .
Roger
2016年12月15日 星期四
Morning Jason
Next time is aim for how to communicate on appraisals: for one down ? And for Jason himself - it's critical to the " stay or go " scenario .
Today :
1. Highlights for year 2016:
- AD / AD / AD
- Tango / Group dance and Solo
- Intangible but Impactful : Not to Do
- in between to in & out
- 三才：天地兩主觀；人是折射的客觀。
Roger
Today :
1. Highlights for year 2016:
- AD / AD / AD
- Tango / Group dance and Solo
- Intangible but Impactful : Not to Do
- in between to in & out
- 三才：天地兩主觀；人是折射的客觀。
Roger
A new friend intro dinner at Chou Chou
Who : Linda family : Linda / Sean / Sabrina
Sky Family : Sky / Lien Li
Host : Hubert
Special Guest : Charles
Roger : the connector
Restaurant: open 3 days only -
French comfort food : kin
Outcome :
1. Sabrina and Lien Li born on the same day : March 12. One day later than Fruits . They can be friends
2. Sean had good sense with Hubert : development and immigration to Taiwan
3. CCPF invite Sky can be something more concrete.
4. Charles acquainted with Sky and know a new restaurant.
5. Support Hubert and Kin for new open restaurant
6. Knowing Linda's family know what I am coaching with
7. Check my value Linda perceive for last 8 months
8. No agenda and no expectation is good take away always .
Roger
Sky Family : Sky / Lien Li
Host : Hubert
Special Guest : Charles
Roger : the connector
Restaurant: open 3 days only -
French comfort food : kin
Outcome :
1. Sabrina and Lien Li born on the same day : March 12. One day later than Fruits . They can be friends
2. Sean had good sense with Hubert : development and immigration to Taiwan
3. CCPF invite Sky can be something more concrete.
4. Charles acquainted with Sky and know a new restaurant.
5. Support Hubert and Kin for new open restaurant
6. Knowing Linda's family know what I am coaching with
7. Check my value Linda perceive for last 8 months
8. No agenda and no expectation is good take away always .
Roger
2016年12月14日 星期三
What a day
Feeling that it's a rip off shop and my wild guess is correct : spending 4200 NT and thinking about a compensation to my hard feeling .
Receive a fraud call when having my simple lunch - I tried to play with him and he sense it , hang up and didn't call back since , I am thinking of calling him back ..
Text message arrived in regard to new tea , I am not interested and I was disappointed for so many times .
Where to anchor for next 2 and half hours ? Regent first ? Maybe
Roger
Receive a fraud call when having my simple lunch - I tried to play with him and he sense it , hang up and didn't call back since , I am thinking of calling him back ..
Text message arrived in regard to new tea , I am not interested and I was disappointed for so many times .
Where to anchor for next 2 and half hours ? Regent first ? Maybe
Roger
Dino
It's nothing or anything, don't call me , make appointments and then say oh it's nothing .
1. Andante house / restaurant transfer is a hot potato...
2. Find new location for Chung Xing development is critical : no Stiven / Transglobe cooperation.
3. Old school is fine , yesterday mindset is terrible- how come ?
Roger
1. Andante house / restaurant transfer is a hot potato...
2. Find new location for Chung Xing development is critical : no Stiven / Transglobe cooperation.
3. Old school is fine , yesterday mindset is terrible- how come ?
Roger
Who miss the coaching session
Prepare the forum training material reluctantly but do a paradigm shift : why not take it a new monthly one on one forum format ? It's fun to try new things
Diana's assistant is kind of panic when see my show up by 9:00 am at the office . And this is her response:
1. We don't have Dec date with Diana and Stiven
2. You didn't answer a call yesterday ( a missing call she meant )
3. I should double confirm with Andrew also
A secretary do nothing important but everything in details .. redundant wrapped doubles and you are buying double insurance.
I am not upset , it's a learning and it buy me time to see Dino before AMBA meeting.
Roger
Diana's assistant is kind of panic when see my show up by 9:00 am at the office . And this is her response:
1. We don't have Dec date with Diana and Stiven
2. You didn't answer a call yesterday ( a missing call she meant )
3. I should double confirm with Andrew also
A secretary do nothing important but everything in details .. redundant wrapped doubles and you are buying double insurance.
I am not upset , it's a learning and it buy me time to see Dino before AMBA meeting.
Roger
2016年12月13日 星期二
I don't expect and it come so swift
As long as I know both of them knows exactly what they want - I don't think wasting time in exploring feelings is the right way - so I shift many Why to one How and make the process a roadmap to divorce - or put in a better theme: pursuing an independent life with healthier and happier process .
My first so call " marriage counseling " and not taking all the accreditation or academically approach but with my forum and empathy learning.
Sang forward me an envelope with 4.000 USD and paid my accommodation too .
Tien know I am not here to be the messenger snd can treat me fairly .
Once letter of intension sent : there comes 4 response :
1. What happens ?
2. Why and why me ?
3. Is there anyway to turn around ?
4. How can I accept and adapt it ?
Number 4 is the least scenario people want to see ... and this is the answers surface from my session ..
There lays many " for the time being " situation to handles and it requests direct communication and to holding each other accountable.
Roger
My first so call " marriage counseling " and not taking all the accreditation or academically approach but with my forum and empathy learning.
Sang forward me an envelope with 4.000 USD and paid my accommodation too .
Tien know I am not here to be the messenger snd can treat me fairly .
Once letter of intension sent : there comes 4 response :
1. What happens ?
2. Why and why me ?
3. Is there anyway to turn around ?
4. How can I accept and adapt it ?
Number 4 is the least scenario people want to see ... and this is the answers surface from my session ..
There lays many " for the time being " situation to handles and it requests direct communication and to holding each other accountable.
Roger
2016年12月12日 星期一
Am I doing anything wrong
Not a licensed psychologist but doing many related works -- am I benefit anyone but me ?
Roger
Roger
The broken rice lunch talk
1. It less than 5 to a 1-10 score for a managing director
2. Workplace safety can't be torolent and it's an issue .
3. It's how we see the company sustainable not to any person
4. Family office was talked 3 years ago
5. The key is how you deliver the " No " not about you can't say no
6. Boy / Business / are main reason I am protecting you .
7. Long mail is not communication, it's a one way or 2 way information .
Roger
2. Workplace safety can't be torolent and it's an issue .
3. It's how we see the company sustainable not to any person
4. Family office was talked 3 years ago
5. The key is how you deliver the " No " not about you can't say no
6. Boy / Business / are main reason I am protecting you .
7. Long mail is not communication, it's a one way or 2 way information .
Roger
Tell me or answer to yourself
1) Do you need to solve ? Or just want to share ?
Do you want to solve ? Or just need to solve?
2) It's solvable or not ?
3) who should and who can solve it ?
4) do you have anyone to share ?
Roger
Do you want to solve ? Or just need to solve?
2) It's solvable or not ?
3) who should and who can solve it ?
4) do you have anyone to share ?
Roger
Now it's getting tough
All the key stakeholders surface now : Crystal , Calvin and Hai Yan... if build the business is for support the family . How to reverse it today ? To have the family reach consensus on sustains the business?
1. Vertical vs Horizontal relationship
2. Conflict with value but born with same DNA
3. Single parent and culture shock
4. Pursuing own happiness and Wish your family well .
5. What picture of business both generation in business wish to see ?
6. Priorities in everybody's mind ? When was last time we sit down and alignment?
7. Talent perspective and corporate culture development.
8. Communication Skill require in dialogues
9. Taboo and hidden agenda ?
10. The calculate risk we are willing to absorb ?
11. Who we trust and willing to share ?
Roger
1. Vertical vs Horizontal relationship
2. Conflict with value but born with same DNA
3. Single parent and culture shock
4. Pursuing own happiness and Wish your family well .
5. What picture of business both generation in business wish to see ?
6. Priorities in everybody's mind ? When was last time we sit down and alignment?
7. Talent perspective and corporate culture development.
8. Communication Skill require in dialogues
9. Taboo and hidden agenda ?
10. The calculate risk we are willing to absorb ?
11. Who we trust and willing to share ?
Roger
2016年12月10日 星期六
3952 Forum Supercharge
I started with the story why a Vietnamese YPO join chapter 5 years but reluctant to join local forum and postponed her workshop until now ... and to explore my observations about this forum : Trust is in the trial stage ...
It's a good one as I heard George appraise me in front of everyone- so , it's a payoff day and there's is no such a thing as over - preparation..
I am ready for a good movie day tomorrow.
Roger
It's a good one as I heard George appraise me in front of everyone- so , it's a payoff day and there's is no such a thing as over - preparation..
I am ready for a good movie day tomorrow.
Roger
SC morning
He reduce contact from 200 plus to 100 and Living a " less is more " life .
Not much talking but listen to my sharing .
A romanticism follower : I cherish experience and experiment. And share basic what people interact with me for the past year .
Vision Focus occupied his 90% of mind share but financially he is better off .
My leading from SC:
1. Roger is discipline : blogging / organize / good in utilize fragmented time
2.Roger is unique and can balance right and left Brian all together.
3. Roger is doing what he love
4. Passion to roger is : talents meet good at . Values is see need in the world to perform your passion .
5. In & Out is much difficult then in between and It require decent enlightenment.
Roger
Not much talking but listen to my sharing .
A romanticism follower : I cherish experience and experiment. And share basic what people interact with me for the past year .
Vision Focus occupied his 90% of mind share but financially he is better off .
My leading from SC:
1. Roger is discipline : blogging / organize / good in utilize fragmented time
2.Roger is unique and can balance right and left Brian all together.
3. Roger is doing what he love
4. Passion to roger is : talents meet good at . Values is see need in the world to perform your passion .
5. In & Out is much difficult then in between and It require decent enlightenment.
Roger
La La Land
-Joseph Campbell appears without a cause .
-If both of you wish to make your dream come true , someone should sacrifice for able to make it happen
-give your dream a second chance always
-love don't mean stays together
- try your best to the main goal , something else might come out - not because of the goal but due to your try your best .
Roger
-If both of you wish to make your dream come true , someone should sacrifice for able to make it happen
-give your dream a second chance always
-love don't mean stays together
- try your best to the main goal , something else might come out - not because of the goal but due to your try your best .
Roger
2016年12月9日 星期五
Back to normal
A hug and kiss can kill all the toxic relationship poison . I did it by 6:30 pm when saw Meiling in our living room
Now we are about to enjoy the romantic movie " la la I love you "
It can be so easy ..
Roger
Now we are about to enjoy the romantic movie " la la I love you "
It can be so easy ..
Roger
What should I do with my entering cold status ?
It's not a Cold War , but it certainly bring our relationship down to a cold place - literary and physically ...
distance creates ambiguity, distance create coldness , distance create unease feeling . And I am about to experience it . Should I and do I ?
I don't complain her but I think right now I have the intention to be cool down first , all the oral conversation lead to quarrel and drive to the dead ally , I am silk to see the possible outcome which I don't want to . So calm down and cool down first .
Roger
distance creates ambiguity, distance create coldness , distance create unease feeling . And I am about to experience it . Should I and do I ?
I don't complain her but I think right now I have the intention to be cool down first , all the oral conversation lead to quarrel and drive to the dead ally , I am silk to see the possible outcome which I don't want to . So calm down and cool down first .
Roger
You prepare before present
No matter how many attend your public appearance , they get the license to criticize your performance . So be ready anytime .
Today at Chia Yi for the 25th international band festival opening forum : my preparation pay off
Host and moderator: Rd Yeng
Panel : Jonathan Yeah : Chairman of Chai Yi culture & creative park .
I deliver my : first 10 minutes ; second 10 minute and conclude one minutes .
Roger
Today at Chia Yi for the 25th international band festival opening forum : my preparation pay off
Host and moderator: Rd Yeng
Panel : Jonathan Yeah : Chairman of Chai Yi culture & creative park .
I deliver my : first 10 minutes ; second 10 minute and conclude one minutes .
Roger
Steve Vai to Royce
I sense that he forget and thanks to my tuition sending him a reminding message in time .
Royce deserve a good surprise
Roger
Royce deserve a good surprise
Roger
Bombarded
Do coach receive bombardment all the time ? Why it doesn't happen in Taiwan but overseas? Or maybe distance create the space for bombarding. I don't mind as I know how to :
1. Filter
2. Stop - Listen - Observe
3. Not been the victims of information
4. Exercise Empathy: Connect Not React
Roger
1. Filter
2. Stop - Listen - Observe
3. Not been the victims of information
4. Exercise Empathy: Connect Not React
Roger
2016年12月8日 星期四
Troublesome day
Caught in between day :
1. Sany & Thie .
2. Meiling and Me.
3. The Fat lady and my dick
4. Calvin and Crystal
What else can better profile a day for " troublesome ? "
Roger
1. Sany & Thie .
2. Meiling and Me.
3. The Fat lady and my dick
4. Calvin and Crystal
What else can better profile a day for " troublesome ? "
Roger
Why her communication style is like that ?
It makes me feel so uncomfortable, what's " if you didn't ask KC , I will call and sell the car " and " here you come again , emotion raised " hey , if you standing on my shoes , what will you respond ? No one can talk with you ... never mind , I just blog it and keeping myself cooling ... I should not Bother her anymore .. it's kind of stupid to bring myself trouble all the time .
Roger
Roger
I tried my best to stay inside National Palace Museums South
And it turn out I am only spent 3 hours maximum for all the exhibitions - and it pity not seeing so much " Chinese " flavored treasure . It's kind of strange .
Roger
Roger
Sign and reflection
1. I emotionally burst out 3 quarrels with Meiling in one week .
2. Tien send me unhealthy messages and it worries me.
3. Hacksaw Ridge is a great movie and it's not a war movie .
4. Blood War is the worst sequels out of the 4 movies
5. I take advantage to stay at Cat's hotel in Cha Yi.
6. Cha Yi culture and creative park will take decade to balance financially, I should think what rationale behind !
7. 3 months bonus for KC is fine - I means it's fine .
8. Do I not willing to listen to Meiling ? Or she never share her true feelings up till now ?
9. Why I am inpatient to the number 18 when doing my massage? Everyone try to make a living .
10. Why my into Meiling to Hubert is " we hsve been married for 30 years ? "
11. How come I am so stupid use Terry's case in johari window and told stranger how I am smart and he is less EQ?
12. Why I want to guess on C & C coaching program? And Meiling won't join me in the guessing game ?
13. I am too prudent in writing my update to Steve , less human and more literature - do I intend to publish them and a little distortion now ?
14. Why I had 4 turkey rice in Cha Yi in one day during my period of " on a diet "
15. Why I am still cold to Fruit ? Even school send us the " skip too many class " warning letter?
16. Why I developed sense of guilt after one month windows with H and knowing we won't see each other again
17. Why met Alan virtually into by Thomas make me feel I want to take advantage of his coffee expertise ?
18. Why I know marriage counseling ain't easy but willing to take this task ?
19. Why I take one more day for myself to Cha Yi without telling Meiling?
20. Why I feel disturbed during the break at my own workshop? An inpatient mentor ? What dose it mean ?
Roger
2. Tien send me unhealthy messages and it worries me.
3. Hacksaw Ridge is a great movie and it's not a war movie .
4. Blood War is the worst sequels out of the 4 movies
5. I take advantage to stay at Cat's hotel in Cha Yi.
6. Cha Yi culture and creative park will take decade to balance financially, I should think what rationale behind !
7. 3 months bonus for KC is fine - I means it's fine .
8. Do I not willing to listen to Meiling ? Or she never share her true feelings up till now ?
9. Why I am inpatient to the number 18 when doing my massage? Everyone try to make a living .
10. Why my into Meiling to Hubert is " we hsve been married for 30 years ? "
11. How come I am so stupid use Terry's case in johari window and told stranger how I am smart and he is less EQ?
12. Why I want to guess on C & C coaching program? And Meiling won't join me in the guessing game ?
13. I am too prudent in writing my update to Steve , less human and more literature - do I intend to publish them and a little distortion now ?
14. Why I had 4 turkey rice in Cha Yi in one day during my period of " on a diet "
15. Why I am still cold to Fruit ? Even school send us the " skip too many class " warning letter?
16. Why I developed sense of guilt after one month windows with H and knowing we won't see each other again
17. Why met Alan virtually into by Thomas make me feel I want to take advantage of his coffee expertise ?
18. Why I know marriage counseling ain't easy but willing to take this task ?
19. Why I take one more day for myself to Cha Yi without telling Meiling?
20. Why I feel disturbed during the break at my own workshop? An inpatient mentor ? What dose it mean ?
Roger
2016年12月6日 星期二
End of the cold - war ?
If she didn't aware my feeling and emotion, can I call it a Cold War ?
I am now reconstruct what happens last night:
1. 8:20 pm she came home and say no word
2. 9:00 pm I reply with " I don't ask you to prepare vegetables, I don't want to eat " why give me that look?
3. 9:20 pm walk up to our living room , bath
4. 9:50 pm she walk up also , say nothing
5. 10:30 pm I went to bed
6. 11:00 pm she went to bed say nothing
7. 11:30 pm I angry jump off our bed , she is not responding
8. 11:30-12:00 I take about hot bath
9. 12:00-12:30 rest at sound room
10. 12:30-04:00 roof floor study room
11. 04:00-04:15 another hot bath
12. 04:40- 07:00 sleep at sound room
She don't even cares and I told her cancel dinner tonight and I will go out ...it's 7:00 am
07:40 am she call and say we should not cancel dinner with sunny ..
08:00 am I walk up to let her hold me - she is sososo ... careless in people's feeling
Roger
I am now reconstruct what happens last night:
1. 8:20 pm she came home and say no word
2. 9:00 pm I reply with " I don't ask you to prepare vegetables, I don't want to eat " why give me that look?
3. 9:20 pm walk up to our living room , bath
4. 9:50 pm she walk up also , say nothing
5. 10:30 pm I went to bed
6. 11:00 pm she went to bed say nothing
7. 11:30 pm I angry jump off our bed , she is not responding
8. 11:30-12:00 I take about hot bath
9. 12:00-12:30 rest at sound room
10. 12:30-04:00 roof floor study room
11. 04:00-04:15 another hot bath
12. 04:40- 07:00 sleep at sound room
She don't even cares and I told her cancel dinner tonight and I will go out ...it's 7:00 am
07:40 am she call and say we should not cancel dinner with sunny ..
08:00 am I walk up to let her hold me - she is sososo ... careless in people's feeling
Roger
2016年12月5日 星期一
From A 4 to A 6
It's a dramatic change , if not visit the showroom and check the car , I wouldn't been this change -- I like it but now I don't have the mood to share my excitement to the future driver .
Roger
Roger
Quarrel
There alway a tail ( or string attached ) after the round one hot quarrel , I have no idea when and where the second round will hit : it's a cold storm - she just want talk and posture with a poker face , This is what make my upset , what on earth I should bear it ? It kept me thinking again and again to live by myself , and this is why I should have saving for my own .
Whenever the day approaching : going out with friends which she call it " social " , I have to please her without any cause , it get me sicker and sicker ... I will buy myself more time alone and do whatever my life worth .
Roger
Whenever the day approaching : going out with friends which she call it " social " , I have to please her without any cause , it get me sicker and sicker ... I will buy myself more time alone and do whatever my life worth .
Roger
President Ma
Run into Ma this morning when climbing up the hill at my backyard: he greet me with a " morning " I give him a salute and " good morning neighbor " warm greeting ... nice vibe ha
Roger
Roger
Is it work this way
1. Crystal and Calvin response late or no response
2. Trap in sang and Thie
3. Sky Wu and Linda's charity
4. A zone slow in deliverable
5. Worsen reputation from Heidi view point
6. Stating the fire again ? W
7. Not seeing father and pretend nothing happens
8. Distance with fruit and not caring about her future ?
9. Break needed and yet to realize
Roger
2. Trap in sang and Thie
3. Sky Wu and Linda's charity
4. A zone slow in deliverable
5. Worsen reputation from Heidi view point
6. Stating the fire again ? W
7. Not seeing father and pretend nothing happens
8. Distance with fruit and not caring about her future ?
9. Break needed and yet to realize
Roger
I am kind of not willing to talk more
At lunch yesterday during YEN session, I am like to be kidnaped , young want to ask more , such as : how to express emotion and feelings? How to overcome bad experience turn obstacles? As I am not in the mood to answer , so I can see myself impertinence to these 2 young man - reflect on JR in class , on every break , always student approach and occupied his time. I never saw his annoyed , much to learn for me .
Trust is not a skill , so it's not how good you can perform or how many practice needed before you can trust others .
Commitment is not force to , so reluctant is a slowly killer .
Confidentiality is by defore : we need to feel save to talk : about our public and private life and sometimes take risk in disclosing secret life ..
Sharing is key process in solving : when share you either rationales your thoughts or just let go those unsolved.
Empathy is to connect not to react : you only acknowledge with your gesture or non verbal communication- just feel how people feel.
Self curiosity is searching inside you : the unknown potential is pursuing wisdom inside and in the old days we call philosophy.
Issues and emotion : if we can't assign emotion to the issue , it's a fake issue .
Believe: no matter what i say is truth or false , only you who decide to believe it or not .
Truth before Trust : transparent is prerequisite to giving trust .
Trust bridge : Respect / Understand/ Support
Roger
Trust is not a skill , so it's not how good you can perform or how many practice needed before you can trust others .
Commitment is not force to , so reluctant is a slowly killer .
Confidentiality is by defore : we need to feel save to talk : about our public and private life and sometimes take risk in disclosing secret life ..
Sharing is key process in solving : when share you either rationales your thoughts or just let go those unsolved.
Empathy is to connect not to react : you only acknowledge with your gesture or non verbal communication- just feel how people feel.
Self curiosity is searching inside you : the unknown potential is pursuing wisdom inside and in the old days we call philosophy.
Issues and emotion : if we can't assign emotion to the issue , it's a fake issue .
Believe: no matter what i say is truth or false , only you who decide to believe it or not .
Truth before Trust : transparent is prerequisite to giving trust .
Trust bridge : Respect / Understand/ Support
Roger
2016年12月4日 星期日
YEN 30 plus forum fundamental the first time
Manage to get thing done in 8 hours : 08:30-16:30 and serve :
1. What's forum
2. Johari window
3. Deepening connection
4. Update and parking lot
5. Closing exercises and appreciation
6. Julie's speech TED
Roger
1. What's forum
2. Johari window
3. Deepening connection
4. Update and parking lot
5. Closing exercises and appreciation
6. Julie's speech TED
Roger
YEN morning
Shanghai is a good hotel , as the registration number exceed 30 this time , it ain't easy to knock everyone down , I am not trying to do that :
1. This is by far the best seating arrangement. So no compliant
2. Meet 2 members with high expectation, it need to be reset .
3. Logically, I should finish by 16:30 ...
4. Don't forget the " confidence posture " : 2 minutes..
Roger
1. This is by far the best seating arrangement. So no compliant
2. Meet 2 members with high expectation, it need to be reset .
3. Logically, I should finish by 16:30 ...
4. Don't forget the " confidence posture " : 2 minutes..
Roger
2016年12月3日 星期六
I consolidated my slide for tomorrow
Trim down from 100 plus to 80 and now come down to 50 something .
How to make sesame with all the slides ?
1. One slide with one message and one story to tell .
2. Consolidate slide fragments to all pages but to grouping to one slide
3. Take out those bridges slide as I can replace with my talking .
Roger
How to make sesame with all the slides ?
1. One slide with one message and one story to tell .
2. Consolidate slide fragments to all pages but to grouping to one slide
3. Take out those bridges slide as I can replace with my talking .
Roger
Bao An international airport
Mr. Chen pick a double meaning nick name for his wechat account, he send greeting massage early this afternoon, post his greeting signboard and told me he will greet me outside the gate next to Kentucky fry chicken .. it seems perfect and there is no way I am going to lost .
After immigration and luggage scan to the waiting area , there is no Kentucky but a McDonald , I don't see any sign board . Move forward to a Plaza with many food / fashion shops - I am lost , information desk help me to identify where Kentucky is : I walk in the gate again and by number 12 I call him up and find him wth the pink signboard. Then I told him Where I was , it's international arrival not domestic and ... he have no idea where I am talking about .. he tire hard but mission delay .
Mr. Chen said " it's not clears in communication " I am thinking picture is powerful than words..
I am inside a super luxury mersedez benz and it takes another 50 minutes to my hotel under the condition the traffic is good and he don't get lost on the way .
Roger
After immigration and luggage scan to the waiting area , there is no Kentucky but a McDonald , I don't see any sign board . Move forward to a Plaza with many food / fashion shops - I am lost , information desk help me to identify where Kentucky is : I walk in the gate again and by number 12 I call him up and find him wth the pink signboard. Then I told him Where I was , it's international arrival not domestic and ... he have no idea where I am talking about .. he tire hard but mission delay .
Mr. Chen said " it's not clears in communication " I am thinking picture is powerful than words..
I am inside a super luxury mersedez benz and it takes another 50 minutes to my hotel under the condition the traffic is good and he don't get lost on the way .
Roger
Learning 2 days with JR Lee
Professor Lee treat me at a partner. Lite-On senior take me as a professor . I spend 2 half day at NTU Hung's memorial hall for LEAD module C-4 .
According to JR : teach foe executive:
- introduce " framework " knowledge
- systematic in delivery
- action learning mindset
Day 1: the ABC in organization ( CSOP is his teaching principal: Culture - Strategy- Organization & Operation- People ) and I am response for the PC module .
- how to 1. Alignment: horizontal & vertical
- how to 2. Balance : old and new
- how to 3. Co-create synergy : priority and synergy among BU and BG
Day 2 : O mainly , by conducting 2 case study " Philip " & " Taiwan Cement " to check where " CSOP " imprint .
I am thinking how to apply it to A Zone , no matter how local , how remotes and how small , basic is the same , value stays
Roger
According to JR : teach foe executive:
- introduce " framework " knowledge
- systematic in delivery
- action learning mindset
Day 1: the ABC in organization ( CSOP is his teaching principal: Culture - Strategy- Organization & Operation- People ) and I am response for the PC module .
- how to 1. Alignment: horizontal & vertical
- how to 2. Balance : old and new
- how to 3. Co-create synergy : priority and synergy among BU and BG
Day 2 : O mainly , by conducting 2 case study " Philip " & " Taiwan Cement " to check where " CSOP " imprint .
I am thinking how to apply it to A Zone , no matter how local , how remotes and how small , basic is the same , value stays
Roger
2016年12月2日 星期五
CHT call center
Next question please : my response make her laugh .. similar to what Meiling always say : I only know how to understanding others but not your immediate and significant ones - I disagree .. objection loud and clear .
Roger
Roger
Emotion over quarrel
Call her but yet to follow one Action guidance so it's full of emotion . Never mind , let it out and let it flow . Ask her back to pick me up . I am going to movie still .
Roger
Roger
Triggers
When met at Wonderful Theatre, I am about to finish my tele communication with Sang .
She sit and told me : I am going to do my eyes again , doctor propose 2 option , injunction every 3 months with fees or 2 stitches for free . When my response is : injections even though I disagree with either way . She emotionally told me she want to do the stitches and what to do it now and told me doctor said after 15 days of micro operation, everything will back to normal .
I am not happy about the repeating performing micro surgery to her face and last time , the disastrous experience want leave any lesson to her .. why , I lost my mood for movie and dinner and ask her send me to the paper printing lab .
In the car , I said to her :
1. Love is not in the face , is my love is to her face , we should not keep our relationship this way .
2. Confidence ? Compare to those not fortune enough people, why you are asking so much?
3. No one is perfect , don't let the appearance overtaking our value
4. No one can remain Beauty when grow old , when you will prepare for it ?
5. Don't discuss this topic with me because my comments never been seriously considered.
Her response make me mad :
1. You don't understand me ? Again , this is her opening
2. The imbalance of 2 eyes make me uncomfortable? Who can really tell the difference?
3. I am doing it because you ask me to go out social with you ? Count my fingers , how many times you happily join my so call " social event " ?
4. I don't like your friend or circle , thinks about it , you don't want to go out work my friends also ? Have you ever inviting me ? Each time you go out with them. You come back and complain about it : not in the same environment, same mindset etc .
I have to get off now before our emotion arose high , I am not going to call first and will begin to " love myself " until you honestly send me apology - I mean seriously apologize.
Roger
She sit and told me : I am going to do my eyes again , doctor propose 2 option , injunction every 3 months with fees or 2 stitches for free . When my response is : injections even though I disagree with either way . She emotionally told me she want to do the stitches and what to do it now and told me doctor said after 15 days of micro operation, everything will back to normal .
I am not happy about the repeating performing micro surgery to her face and last time , the disastrous experience want leave any lesson to her .. why , I lost my mood for movie and dinner and ask her send me to the paper printing lab .
In the car , I said to her :
1. Love is not in the face , is my love is to her face , we should not keep our relationship this way .
2. Confidence ? Compare to those not fortune enough people, why you are asking so much?
3. No one is perfect , don't let the appearance overtaking our value
4. No one can remain Beauty when grow old , when you will prepare for it ?
5. Don't discuss this topic with me because my comments never been seriously considered.
Her response make me mad :
1. You don't understand me ? Again , this is her opening
2. The imbalance of 2 eyes make me uncomfortable? Who can really tell the difference?
3. I am doing it because you ask me to go out social with you ? Count my fingers , how many times you happily join my so call " social event " ?
4. I don't like your friend or circle , thinks about it , you don't want to go out work my friends also ? Have you ever inviting me ? Each time you go out with them. You come back and complain about it : not in the same environment, same mindset etc .
I have to get off now before our emotion arose high , I am not going to call first and will begin to " love myself " until you honestly send me apology - I mean seriously apologize.
Roger
JR Lee class
1. ABC in collaboration: alignment / balance / co-creation
2. Vertical power come from : resource / responsibility and accountability
3. Align people goals is different
Other take away :
1. The lite on jacket
2. Money in ?
3. Lunch box
4. Done 12/10 file
5. C-5 with founder talk and setting the exercise
Roger
2. Vertical power come from : resource / responsibility and accountability
3. Align people goals is different
Other take away :
1. The lite on jacket
2. Money in ?
3. Lunch box
4. Done 12/10 file
5. C-5 with founder talk and setting the exercise
Roger
2016年12月1日 星期四
One day Hsin Shu
Take the 8:20 HSR and working in the cabinet for next unplanned Saigon trip : Thie and Sang session .
And I miss my STOP , train took me to Taichung where I transfer another HSR back to hsin chu .
Meet sunny for one hour : 10:30-11:30 before Annie joint by 11:30 and Lynn appear at 11:50 .
- say hello and learn a few old and new spirox things : some resign and some return
- Sunny is happy about my time with her alone
- Lynn learnt the Ta Tung story
12:00 Lunch box with David
- his daughter and her future
- Vietnam as I know
- how I can be a family forum facilitator? My answer : Believe bring Trust and Trust transform to Confidence and the story goes
- come back more
- vertical turn horizontal relationship : acceptance to recognition - tango on the same tune
13:30-14:30 session 2 with Annie and Sunny : role of parent and what bow and arrow metaphor from the book " Prophet "
Gift : bum and cake
Roger
And I miss my STOP , train took me to Taichung where I transfer another HSR back to hsin chu .
Meet sunny for one hour : 10:30-11:30 before Annie joint by 11:30 and Lynn appear at 11:50 .
- say hello and learn a few old and new spirox things : some resign and some return
- Sunny is happy about my time with her alone
- Lynn learnt the Ta Tung story
12:00 Lunch box with David
- his daughter and her future
- Vietnam as I know
- how I can be a family forum facilitator? My answer : Believe bring Trust and Trust transform to Confidence and the story goes
- come back more
- vertical turn horizontal relationship : acceptance to recognition - tango on the same tune
13:30-14:30 session 2 with Annie and Sunny : role of parent and what bow and arrow metaphor from the book " Prophet "
Gift : bum and cake
Roger
2016年11月30日 星期三
Do it simply
If Tina can't be there , I should skip myself , what's important is important ..
let ed contact with Jerry is Things need to escalate , then see how it goes .
Roger
let ed contact with Jerry is Things need to escalate , then see how it goes .
Roger
H in hide pressure
1. Professional caught in between with key stakeholders: B + M
2. Personally divorce is processing through lawyer now ...
3. I told him we ( Meiling) can take care of his daughter if needed.
4. Slightly sad but refocus on business to resolved it
5. M is not good but how can ...
6. Friend dope .. be very careful
7. S : body with depress and weak ..
8. Farther further far away
9. Too many social dinner ...
10. Ride or run - inspired from the social dinner
11. Daniel and Hi Fi to release tension and pressure .
Roger
2. Personally divorce is processing through lawyer now ...
3. I told him we ( Meiling) can take care of his daughter if needed.
4. Slightly sad but refocus on business to resolved it
5. M is not good but how can ...
6. Friend dope .. be very careful
7. S : body with depress and weak ..
8. Farther further far away
9. Too many social dinner ...
10. Ride or run - inspired from the social dinner
11. Daniel and Hi Fi to release tension and pressure .
Roger
J today
1. How people hijacking you :
-- no one can see his / her blind spot
-- we don't know how to give an appropriate feedback
-- let Feeling ( reflect) than Fact ( rephrase) drive the way .
2. If you want to be objective, 3 dimension needs : He and She can be 2 subjective Party , you bring both of them to the middle and create the 3rd view : objective.
3. If you wish to deliver appropriate message, find an appropriate place and create appropriate environment.
4. Think it over : what's your add on value or burden ?
5. No expectation is to explore possibilities rather than aim for opportunities.
6. Who's the shadow dancer in your organization?
7. Treat human beings as human beings
8. No matter how light you are , no one can lifting himself.
9. 3 lines for financial section defense :
- first line details operation ( on )
- compliance & risk governance ( before )
- auditing ( after )
10. What's your message imply ?
Roger
-- no one can see his / her blind spot
-- we don't know how to give an appropriate feedback
-- let Feeling ( reflect) than Fact ( rephrase) drive the way .
2. If you want to be objective, 3 dimension needs : He and She can be 2 subjective Party , you bring both of them to the middle and create the 3rd view : objective.
3. If you wish to deliver appropriate message, find an appropriate place and create appropriate environment.
4. Think it over : what's your add on value or burden ?
5. No expectation is to explore possibilities rather than aim for opportunities.
6. Who's the shadow dancer in your organization?
7. Treat human beings as human beings
8. No matter how light you are , no one can lifting himself.
9. 3 lines for financial section defense :
- first line details operation ( on )
- compliance & risk governance ( before )
- auditing ( after )
10. What's your message imply ?
Roger
2016年11月29日 星期二
Walking Book library
It's 3rd floor on walking book : 4 hours for 200 NT with 140 drink deduction : quote and nice . Not too many people and no allow taking pictures
I did my telecoaching there
Roger
I did my telecoaching there
Roger
Message Karl last night and see you toning
No plan and not meant to meet but ..it's a ____ world.
Roger
Roger
Matthew
1. Who trigger the " we don't share in both way " and who take the initiative saying " break up " ? I am quote Alain De Bolton's " the course of love " to Matthew .
2. Jackie & Alex might be good fit for Linda's charity
3. David Dao : no preparation and not concern due to no one give you feed back and let you aware about your blind spot
4. Floating mediation : somewhere in taiwan
5. Movie : captain fantastic
6. Block week in April for Matthew road show .
7. I complete the mental toughness at da tong village and space cycle Managment team have a " left behind " feeling.
8. MUME : nice food
Roger
2. Jackie & Alex might be good fit for Linda's charity
3. David Dao : no preparation and not concern due to no one give you feed back and let you aware about your blind spot
4. Floating mediation : somewhere in taiwan
5. Movie : captain fantastic
6. Block week in April for Matthew road show .
7. I complete the mental toughness at da tong village and space cycle Managment team have a " left behind " feeling.
8. MUME : nice food
Roger
New York and Linda
1. Fund raising Charity at mandarin Oriental New York
2. Visit TED HQ with. Columbia and Miss Universal China
3. United Nation Chian sector
Other :
1. 70 investment project in the States
2. Invite in Noah and I Noah Tan : education
3. Knows Grammy better
Roger
2. Visit TED HQ with. Columbia and Miss Universal China
3. United Nation Chian sector
Other :
1. 70 investment project in the States
2. Invite in Noah and I Noah Tan : education
3. Knows Grammy better
Roger
Linda Linda
You are so talkable not talkative , you are too smart to be targeted as a serious competitor . I am blessed to learn from you and please do more good :
1. Eduction sector
2. Health care sector
Roger
1. Eduction sector
2. Health care sector
Roger
Lights between Ocean
"Danish Girl" actress and" Lobster" actress build the dramatic tension in this great movie .
It's like a Harvard ethic class or world famous debating : if you act as judge and to consider each parties situation , what will you do ? If you put on their shoes , what will you do differently or similarly?
I enjoy it and I am thinking hard about the question to me also .
Roger
It's like a Harvard ethic class or world famous debating : if you act as judge and to consider each parties situation , what will you do ? If you put on their shoes , what will you do differently or similarly?
I enjoy it and I am thinking hard about the question to me also .
Roger
Li Yung
When enroll to Medical Schools, she pay her appreciation visit to Mr. Chen - our respective senior at JHS . Chen neither happy for her nor excite about the good news but to told her :
" now you will become a doctor , remember to help those who less fortunate than us "
This is the Turing Point and a tattoo in her heart to keep her high spirit in performing good - as a passion , as a way and never fear or regrets .
Roger
" now you will become a doctor , remember to help those who less fortunate than us "
This is the Turing Point and a tattoo in her heart to keep her high spirit in performing good - as a passion , as a way and never fear or regrets .
Roger
2016年11月28日 星期一
S : thanks for honesty with me
1. Try this and that , finally I will get what I want .
2. I found someone misleading others by using my name .
3. There will be some family change such as Derek study aboard , but it won't be life changing ..
4. S learn to deal with his emotion better
5. J still trying to impress me by telling me he is doing so many
Roger
2. I found someone misleading others by using my name .
3. There will be some family change such as Derek study aboard , but it won't be life changing ..
4. S learn to deal with his emotion better
5. J still trying to impress me by telling me he is doing so many
Roger
Ice Breaker
Tagline and Catchphrase: sometimes it kills relationship:
1. How to resolve anger with significance others? One Action
2. How to conduct issues clearance ? Feeling and fact
3. How to perform an appropriate Feed Back : 3 domains
Roger
1. How to resolve anger with significance others? One Action
2. How to conduct issues clearance ? Feeling and fact
3. How to perform an appropriate Feed Back : 3 domains
Roger
My understanding of deliverable from Forum
FORUM Deliver :
1. Structure Conversation
2. Meaningful Dialogue
3. Effective Communication
4. Authentic Friendship
5. Searching Inside Yourself
6. Better Oneself
MODERATOR Attribution:
Peer Leader : Lead from behind and Lead beside
- you demonstrate ( open + trust )
- you influence ( genuine)
- you share only experience ( no critical )
- you connect not react ( empathy)
- you give your trust before everyone ( take risk )
Roger
1. Structure Conversation
2. Meaningful Dialogue
3. Effective Communication
4. Authentic Friendship
5. Searching Inside Yourself
6. Better Oneself
MODERATOR Attribution:
Peer Leader : Lead from behind and Lead beside
- you demonstrate ( open + trust )
- you influence ( genuine)
- you share only experience ( no critical )
- you connect not react ( empathy)
- you give your trust before everyone ( take risk )
Roger
2016年11月27日 星期日
Tip to Thien's driver
Son : happily accepted with no hesitation.
Van : smile reluctant but accept finally
They must talk before and some friend tip some don't .
How much is appropriate? Do they compare ? How you show your appreciation but not the bossy attitude? It's all EQ
Roger
Van : smile reluctant but accept finally
They must talk before and some friend tip some don't .
How much is appropriate? Do they compare ? How you show your appreciation but not the bossy attitude? It's all EQ
Roger
Learn more about the good and can be better
Behavior check is the key , not by how good she or he express and communicate.
C + C factory Vietnam
Roger
C + C factory Vietnam
Roger
Deep Dive with C this morning
It's a quality 4 hours and we commit to engaging the in coaching program -- deep dive : if go deep you dive ...
Roger
Roger
Conflict resolved in one hours
One Action taught us - don't let the confrontation between the one you love sleep for more than 24 hours , so once I done my " relief reflection blog " I talk to her and ask her " apology " when open our conversation.
Cliche kills once it become a habit : for those who aware . It will comes to a time they can't stand it anymore . To the new acquaintance: you just don't have second chance to man your first impression.
So - honestly and skillful feedback is so so important .. starts from your feeling ( private domain ) then the fact ( public domain ) but never to intrude others feelings ( their private domain ) on your blind spot ( the third window - or more precisely the mirror) you either received feedback or develop self - discovery skill.
She promise me she won't absent minded use " divorce " as cliche anymore -- it's so fragile to a 30 years marriage couple .
It takes year to understand, to learn and lifetime to practice ..
I am still learning.
Roger
I am upset
Even though I had a linguist graffiti that end with " why you want to learn ? Study this " since you are my wife , you know clearly that is my cliche, I don't mean to put off your passion in learning .
Why but why come up with " let's divorce ? " say it so easily ? Don't you get the lesson I shared and stories I told ? And you repeat others mistake ?
Now you have better confidence in your appearance and achieve what you want - you know I am not happy about people change her nature figure but to care and support you , I alter my value so many times and now this is what coming to me ?
I hang up the line immediately by telling you " I am not in the mood to talk " you better think it over -- I can be stranger too ..
I am upset now: 7:30 am in Saigon .. and the stomach not feeling well again .
Roger
Why but why come up with " let's divorce ? " say it so easily ? Don't you get the lesson I shared and stories I told ? And you repeat others mistake ?
Now you have better confidence in your appearance and achieve what you want - you know I am not happy about people change her nature figure but to care and support you , I alter my value so many times and now this is what coming to me ?
I hang up the line immediately by telling you " I am not in the mood to talk " you better think it over -- I can be stranger too ..
I am upset now: 7:30 am in Saigon .. and the stomach not feeling well again .
Roger
2016年11月26日 星期六
S case
Married for 12 years , 10 years old daughter, quarrel and fighting developing distance , no intimacy for 3 years . Spouse raise divorce proposal many times , now S can't stand the suffering : can't eat , less sleep , don't want to go home , impact on work and company , so he send a divorce letter this time
1. There is not love , care still
2. End of marriage is not the end of the world
3. Give you anything
How to make a peaceful divorce : to me it's only in the stage of sending " letter of intention " not yet in legal process ..
Find her a marriage counselor at Singapore and both of you see the professional.
Ask if she trust roger and having roger be the counselor
Call me anytime and drop me whatsapp..
Roger
1. There is not love , care still
2. End of marriage is not the end of the world
3. Give you anything
How to make a peaceful divorce : to me it's only in the stage of sending " letter of intention " not yet in legal process ..
Find her a marriage counselor at Singapore and both of you see the professional.
Ask if she trust roger and having roger be the counselor
Call me anytime and drop me whatsapp..
Roger
Stomachache
It's been years I didn't encounter with stomachache, but the trip to HCM city bring me this unease symphony. I don't know it cause by my overdose for cold medicine, eating something wrong or too exhausted?
Today I have a full 8 hours session , I have to look after my physical condition now ..
Should I call anyone bring me some stomach relief pill ? Jenny maybe ... a single mom who works independently.
BTW , I have no idea I am staying at a Casio hotel - a jv hotel win the best location - next to Saigon opera house .
Roger
Today I have a full 8 hours session , I have to look after my physical condition now ..
Should I call anyone bring me some stomach relief pill ? Jenny maybe ... a single mom who works independently.
BTW , I have no idea I am staying at a Casio hotel - a jv hotel win the best location - next to Saigon opera house .
Roger
2016年11月25日 星期五
Corruption
From G : it's seems to everybody corruption is the necessary evil for doing business in Vietnam.. how to walk around it ?
Roger
Roger
S. L
This is really a surprise to me : stress from family and cause by your wife . Now she is with cancer and you tell her you won't to divorce simply because you can't find a meaning to live together...
your personality impact on biz and bring the attention from your parent -- how can it be
We will spend more time tomorrow night , it's a two way street ..
Roger
your personality impact on biz and bring the attention from your parent -- how can it be
We will spend more time tomorrow night , it's a two way street ..
Roger
3 + 1 forum fundamental learning
1. Money can be disposable, friendship not , don't risk your friendship with business
2. Open is not a technical - without trust you can't pretend it .
Roger
2. Open is not a technical - without trust you can't pretend it .
Roger
2016年11月24日 星期四
Caravelle doorman
First he greet - with a smile
15 minutes later : he asked if I should wait inside as it's hot outside
30 minutes later : he said I've been waiting too long and ask me to call my friend in case he forgot.
Then I call and Calvin told me driver is waiting -- thanks to the doorman and what a communication break down ..
Roger
15 minutes later : he asked if I should wait inside as it's hot outside
30 minutes later : he said I've been waiting too long and ask me to call my friend in case he forgot.
Then I call and Calvin told me driver is waiting -- thanks to the doorman and what a communication break down ..
Roger
Vietnam Life
It's more vital than Taiwan. Even though I am kind of develop allergy due to change of weather between Taiwan and Saigon , on the ground and in the air .
Phong is a must and Vietnamese coffee stir me up - I need it before continue improve my material for following 2 days .
Roger
Phong is a must and Vietnamese coffee stir me up - I need it before continue improve my material for following 2 days .
Roger
3 times to Saigon in a month
Caravelle is the hotel they put me this time. I almost mistaken it as Le Maridien still both driver and reception speak mandarin , driver told me his sister married a Taiwanese who live in Lu Kong Chung Hwa but divorced .
Receptionist ask if she can take my car back to hotel. Of course .. Share the car no hurt at all ...
I shall pick up my exercise when return to a Taipei and meditation regularly every moment .
Roger
Receptionist ask if she can take my car back to hotel. Of course .. Share the car no hurt at all ...
I shall pick up my exercise when return to a Taipei and meditation regularly every moment .
Roger
A introspective
I am trigger by the " blockade " warning sign before any Railway Intersection: in my young days living in southern Taiwan:
STOP : stuck , danger , cross road
LISTEN : sound surrounding and your calling inside : echo ? Vibration ? Resonate; Ripple and whispering
LOOK: you observe with your curiosity to others and to oneself .
" in and out " triumph " in between "
Roger
STOP : stuck , danger , cross road
LISTEN : sound surrounding and your calling inside : echo ? Vibration ? Resonate; Ripple and whispering
LOOK: you observe with your curiosity to others and to oneself .
" in and out " triumph " in between "
Roger
2016年11月23日 星期三
Royce monthly
Changes I see in Royce : and the new thing
- Dec inventory for 4 heads ( 3 goods 2 to be improved)
- Diana : I don't do new year resolutions or I don't wait until New Years to do it .
- check the big family office , small family office and all related investment not in my radar before
- Best of the Best , first in Asia
- Make A Zone proud : ipevo / Xing and foundation co works
- mother speaks to Panasonic Dec. 21
- Soft power is a good foreign relationship building
Roger
- Dec inventory for 4 heads ( 3 goods 2 to be improved)
- Diana : I don't do new year resolutions or I don't wait until New Years to do it .
- check the big family office , small family office and all related investment not in my radar before
- Best of the Best , first in Asia
- Make A Zone proud : ipevo / Xing and foundation co works
- mother speaks to Panasonic Dec. 21
- Soft power is a good foreign relationship building
Roger
D / S session
D : sleep late /
- reading ; exercise; personal & family time is input , you get what you need before output
- learning forum Things
- difficult to bring S to achievable challenge
- Fintech and robot advisory for investment model
S :
Roger
- reading ; exercise; personal & family time is input , you get what you need before output
- learning forum Things
- difficult to bring S to achievable challenge
- Fintech and robot advisory for investment model
S :
Roger
Why develop the mood
When Fruit had another quarrel with Meiling - I am calm and the message on EMBA chat room flow in ...
when get on the car
- the class reunion is not what Meiling expect next Tuesday
- selling old Volkswagen to the used car dealer is not the only choice make her uncomfortable
- mother took all the old tea which she hide make her angry
How can't I just listen : and perform empathetic listening : connect yet response ?
It's difficult and it all coming back to you .
Roger
when get on the car
- the class reunion is not what Meiling expect next Tuesday
- selling old Volkswagen to the used car dealer is not the only choice make her uncomfortable
- mother took all the old tea which she hide make her angry
How can't I just listen : and perform empathetic listening : connect yet response ?
It's difficult and it all coming back to you .
Roger
When I am alone .. I
1. I read ?
2.I read the whole Bible
3.I don't have an answer to myself
4.I think ---
5.I looks roughy , but I always take long term view .
I am a thinker - thinking is an action you internalize and interval - it takes efforts but not many can understand ..
What life changing potential in next 24 months :
1. Health of immediate relative ( father and mother )
2. Moving and relocation .( kids mainly )
3. Change my role in business and responsibility. ( be an entrepreneur, second start up , turn around family business)
4. Change of role and relationship ( marry . Having children , separate or divorce )
This is not what you can control and not have clear answers -- solutions not even surface
3 words best describe me :
- I see myself
- people see me
- I want to become
Roger
2.I read the whole Bible
3.I don't have an answer to myself
4.I think ---
5.I looks roughy , but I always take long term view .
I am a thinker - thinking is an action you internalize and interval - it takes efforts but not many can understand ..
What life changing potential in next 24 months :
1. Health of immediate relative ( father and mother )
2. Moving and relocation .( kids mainly )
3. Change my role in business and responsibility. ( be an entrepreneur, second start up , turn around family business)
4. Change of role and relationship ( marry . Having children , separate or divorce )
This is not what you can control and not have clear answers -- solutions not even surface
3 words best describe me :
- I see myself
- people see me
- I want to become
Roger
Morning update
When there is a thought , you record it and it store is somewhere and it become yours.
Yao meet in the air and Tseng Kao Chen the variety show host who we meet 20 years ago .. I greeting him first and exchange conversation briefly ...
Hu Wen: let's have a group photos -- the way he routinely do on every " meet and greet " - the ticket bud now turn to every digital image..
Roger
Yao meet in the air and Tseng Kao Chen the variety show host who we meet 20 years ago .. I greeting him first and exchange conversation briefly ...
Hu Wen: let's have a group photos -- the way he routinely do on every " meet and greet " - the ticket bud now turn to every digital image..
Roger
Les Suit Oriental
The quality drop significantly:
1. In room is ok .. but some broken pieces didn't fix
2. Breakfast less rich as before
3. Meeting organization and logic is poor
4. Coffee machine as the kitchen : milk sour , it will directly cause not only compliant but liability.
It's getting old and not a responsible person looking after it's reputation .
Roger
1. In room is ok .. but some broken pieces didn't fix
2. Breakfast less rich as before
3. Meeting organization and logic is poor
4. Coffee machine as the kitchen : milk sour , it will directly cause not only compliant but liability.
It's getting old and not a responsible person looking after it's reputation .
Roger
2016年11月22日 星期二
FMLD SH today
Who : Phillip Xiao ; Fu Wen Chen ; Wendy Chiao ; Hubert Shia ; Shu ; Sam ; David ; Alex ; Tsui ; Yen Li . Roger
How to improve
- story and exercise flow can be more consistent.
- be alert to absent minded and use electronic devices
- too much slides
- less group sharing
- equipment check can be done earlier
- lunch break too long
- forget bring my notebook - unprofessional
Roger
How to improve
- story and exercise flow can be more consistent.
- be alert to absent minded and use electronic devices
- too much slides
- less group sharing
- equipment check can be done earlier
- lunch break too long
- forget bring my notebook - unprofessional
Roger
Applying SIY Taipei program just now
It's a 800 UD per person perform for 2 days , instead of going outside , I rather to know how it works here in Taipei . This is an impulse learning decision and I process payment online just now .
2017.04.07-08 : Search inside you --
Roger
2017.04.07-08 : Search inside you --
Roger
2016年11月21日 星期一
Cold Shanghai and raining city
One and a half day for 100.000 NT compensation. You hardly can judge it's fair or not . It's a city commute airline and Shanghai is only 90 minutes away from Taipei.
It's getting dark here , raining and colder than Taipei .. as normal , I will prepare class in my room , buy something from Fami mart , hot shower and get ready for tomorrow .
Seeing France Ping Feng is the only appointment. I have too many to see but what to concentrate on my profession .
Roger
It's getting dark here , raining and colder than Taipei .. as normal , I will prepare class in my room , buy something from Fami mart , hot shower and get ready for tomorrow .
Seeing France Ping Feng is the only appointment. I have too many to see but what to concentrate on my profession .
Roger
2016年11月20日 星期日
Corner office and Lexus and chairman of the association
I thinks they are the symbolic something important to Fu - and I strip it from him .
Roger
Roger
Gang of 4 annual day trip
It's 14 years since we graduate from NTU EMBA, it's a not in strict format gathering , we share in shallow way , Update and offers jokes we heard ...
Chen Mu old house visit is a sequel to Lin Yu Tung old house trip last year .. to connect old model - scholar celebrity in Chinese Philosophy is something inspiring .
Today : Sidney is our driver , Peter put together the itinerary and Jasper and I be the passenger.
What's new :
1. Jasper done a good scull-open surgery to fix his nerve system .
2. Jasper complain to me about melody's unprofessional way in taking care of his insurance claiming - for this , I use a straight feedback to let him know I am not here to take the compliant simply because she was refer by me 10 plus years ago ... jasper never take his own responsibility ...
3. Check if Sidney know Chaucer and find out they are so closed back to NTU medical years - what a good surprise
4. Lunch at " brother restaurant " Mrs. Kao recognized me at once and I greet Kao after the tasty meal .
5. Yanick coffee and confectionary : I skip sweet and cake the first time .
6. Sidney : driving his Lexus like a sport car
7. Peter : love to help me connect resource in Yi Lan.
8. Peter : when see me , immediately told me he fix all the financial issue with his lotery club -- so sensitive.
9. Chen Mu: scholar and his ( Rich inside but Humble outside ) is a classic thinking .
10. Brothers restaurant: good business still .
Roger
Chen Mu old house visit is a sequel to Lin Yu Tung old house trip last year .. to connect old model - scholar celebrity in Chinese Philosophy is something inspiring .
Today : Sidney is our driver , Peter put together the itinerary and Jasper and I be the passenger.
What's new :
1. Jasper done a good scull-open surgery to fix his nerve system .
2. Jasper complain to me about melody's unprofessional way in taking care of his insurance claiming - for this , I use a straight feedback to let him know I am not here to take the compliant simply because she was refer by me 10 plus years ago ... jasper never take his own responsibility ...
3. Check if Sidney know Chaucer and find out they are so closed back to NTU medical years - what a good surprise
4. Lunch at " brother restaurant " Mrs. Kao recognized me at once and I greet Kao after the tasty meal .
5. Yanick coffee and confectionary : I skip sweet and cake the first time .
6. Sidney : driving his Lexus like a sport car
7. Peter : love to help me connect resource in Yi Lan.
8. Peter : when see me , immediately told me he fix all the financial issue with his lotery club -- so sensitive.
9. Chen Mu: scholar and his ( Rich inside but Humble outside ) is a classic thinking .
10. Brothers restaurant: good business still .
Roger
2016年11月19日 星期六
25 hours adventure to Ta Tong aboriginal village
Chaucer plan it and take risk on how we may achieve it - it's a " near live experience " not a " near death experience "
Many of us reluctant to take action due to knowing to much : knowing too much block us form take action as we analyze and calculate the risk , most likely we will give up.
It's a metal toughness and physical challenge , the only way down is up , If you can't reach the b & b , you won't be able to survive the Night .
For the frequent mountaineering expert and guild , no matter how they connect and enjoy Nature, they do encounter with human issues .
In the mountains climbing team, don't be the lone wolf - you will make others so anxiety and want to Kill you .
Climbing up your feel exhausted , going down your leg won't listen to you .
I never put in on my bucket list and I did it .
Roger
Many of us reluctant to take action due to knowing to much : knowing too much block us form take action as we analyze and calculate the risk , most likely we will give up.
It's a metal toughness and physical challenge , the only way down is up , If you can't reach the b & b , you won't be able to survive the Night .
For the frequent mountaineering expert and guild , no matter how they connect and enjoy Nature, they do encounter with human issues .
In the mountains climbing team, don't be the lone wolf - you will make others so anxiety and want to Kill you .
Climbing up your feel exhausted , going down your leg won't listen to you .
I never put in on my bucket list and I did it .
Roger
2016年11月17日 星期四
Li yuang Chen and Layer Tseng
Met her 42 years later , since graduate from JHS in Dao Liu , I only heard her name through media and know her charity and community development won her reputation like the modern mother Teresa in Huilien .
Via ya Ling we met at her husband's Huiling rose stone museum and I received a beautiful stone as a gift .
Dinner is wonderful, my return favor is dinner on Dec. 17 in Taipei with her family ...
Roger
Via ya Ling we met at her husband's Huiling rose stone museum and I received a beautiful stone as a gift .
Dinner is wonderful, my return favor is dinner on Dec. 17 in Taipei with her family ...
Roger
Anne driving me
Anne from andente drive me to a zone with the company car . I see her blue eyes and aware the unknown future cast shadow to her - and can be many others
Anne joint andente 2 years , we met a few times but never talk ..
How to save their soul yet their job ?
Roger
Anne joint andente 2 years , we met a few times but never talk ..
How to save their soul yet their job ?
Roger
Dong Hwa University: why not Tung
Prepare my talk , not teach to student at dong Hwa university.
1. Breaking the rule
2. Having them thinking
3. Participant and interactive
4. Share the experience
5. Tell the story
Roger
1. Breaking the rule
2. Having them thinking
3. Participant and interactive
4. Share the experience
5. Tell the story
Roger
To Hanes and copy Heidi
11/16 像家人的朋友，像朋友的家人：中午的coaching session , 聆聽了像朋友般的家人的分享，他目前生命中最重要的關係人似乎已經由家人身分蛻出，以親疏不等的朋友身分出現！前天讀到「自由和幸福不會同時出現」，一本由一位法籍記者在臨終前和兒子的「回憶錄」由兒子以訪談記錄方式呈現。「追求自由就得忍受不確定和不安定；享受幸福就必須在明確的道路上設定目標而累積安逸。」「幸福感」也是「舒適圈」高感性的呈現⋯「不安於室」「蠢動因子」又都是「自由基因」作祟，人生難兩全，「之間」與「進出」是常態，不能意會而適應、釋懷地往往就感染輕重不一的變態：「精神分裂」，成長為了成為；成為後又想歸零做自己，思維調整是多刺激美感神經，將「不適」給美化，寫意強過寫實，這也是中國人在順、逆境中的哲理了。晚餐應美籍摯友馬修之邀和他由美國來台的親人餐敘，被視為親人的朋友，感覺很好，天南地北的自由表達，「roots creative 」由五位年輕主廚合開的創意料理，可口、精彩。今天是「家人：朋友」對照組：有些親而不近，有些不親而近。檢視自身，同理可証。
Roger
Roger
How to balance - multiple layer
When KC inform Diana want to reduce coaching session from twice a month to once a month . My sense is to cut the consulting fees : from 3.6 million to 3 millions . My commerce senses alert me and it's all about money .
Send a message to confirm with Diana - her replay show the consistency about balance work / life - to her it's not about 600.000 NT , but to Forum Works , it's to balance our book for not able to afford one staff's annual compensation.
My business nerve told me the coaching deal won't be extend to 2018. Actions :
1. To make up the revenue shortage by Dec. 2016. Hubert and his affiliate company is my target .
2. Identify new client in year 2017 - M or other Corporation/ YPO individuals.. this deal amount should be no less than 4 millions NT.
Life goes now : do right and do it now , Land Rover is not a luxury waste , but it's time to compensate my year and life.
Roger
Send a message to confirm with Diana - her replay show the consistency about balance work / life - to her it's not about 600.000 NT , but to Forum Works , it's to balance our book for not able to afford one staff's annual compensation.
My business nerve told me the coaching deal won't be extend to 2018. Actions :
1. To make up the revenue shortage by Dec. 2016. Hubert and his affiliate company is my target .
2. Identify new client in year 2017 - M or other Corporation/ YPO individuals.. this deal amount should be no less than 4 millions NT.
Life goes now : do right and do it now , Land Rover is not a luxury waste , but it's time to compensate my year and life.
Roger
2016年11月16日 星期三
Roots Creative
It's a good restaurant, pretty much like achoi . 5 chefs works on fusion food . Matthew introduce me his uncle Berry and best friend or her pass mother.
We had a good 2 hours together and I am pretending I am a foodie myself .
Roger
We had a good 2 hours together and I am pretending I am a foodie myself .
Roger
AMBA Meeting
I purposely put Sindy in an uncomfortable place when challenged her " annual reward and bonus " should be HR function to discuss / propose to Chairman , no a financial role -- I know H is kind of protect her , I am mean to stir the muddy water and get something straight - don't let AMBA be another Ambassador-
Roger
Roger
H coaching
As F said it's ok , H knows he must be back and check .
When F grabbing about my let go of him , he knows to stick on my side .
And be open to M / Marriage / Media / AMBA and brother.. even the blur relationship in developing.
Roger
When F grabbing about my let go of him , he knows to stick on my side .
And be open to M / Marriage / Media / AMBA and brother.. even the blur relationship in developing.
Roger
2016年11月15日 星期二
Lawyer stead noodle dinner
Knowing more about madman CHEN and foundations theme MEME next year : Lost & Found .
Hung's foundation aims for support / detect and incubate new something in the field of liberal art / culture aspect .
Dennis : cousins to Royce and
Connect the story : Sony Music Taiwan official website done by Royce - his first job ; and its doing so good that Sonet spot me to transfer to Sonet - in my Sonet years I joint YPO - my YPO years bring me to become CFF and then co development Steve Vai program with Royce as he is education chair - finally I am ask to be his coach and get to know madame now ..... the circle of " good intention "
Roger
Hung's foundation aims for support / detect and incubate new something in the field of liberal art / culture aspect .
Dennis : cousins to Royce and
Connect the story : Sony Music Taiwan official website done by Royce - his first job ; and its doing so good that Sonet spot me to transfer to Sonet - in my Sonet years I joint YPO - my YPO years bring me to become CFF and then co development Steve Vai program with Royce as he is education chair - finally I am ask to be his coach and get to know madame now ..... the circle of " good intention "
Roger
NTU school of management
Both Dean and Deputy Dean know my name and told me I win very high appraisals among class I perform for SEED class - I am happy the word of month spread to the academic field . Again : my self awareness- am I try to approve what ?
Jason / Hubert / Fermin & Sam is here to support- brotherhood.
Roger
Jason / Hubert / Fermin & Sam is here to support- brotherhood.
Roger
Happy birthday
If my greeting make you happy then I am happy , whatever you want to call me , I am fine , it's the receiver's perception always .
Done mainly my Dong Hwa sharing structure and complete SH forum moderator leadership development workshop material - a mix of East and West - do it for Eddie and Haibo .
Hung's foundation : It's an annual big Thing to the family and I will never neglect it , moderator and facilitator role seldom been treated equally to speaker , if the more you check the dynamics the more you will sense the critical role a facilitator performs - a key screw to tie or loose every group dynamic..
Roger
Done mainly my Dong Hwa sharing structure and complete SH forum moderator leadership development workshop material - a mix of East and West - do it for Eddie and Haibo .
Hung's foundation : It's an annual big Thing to the family and I will never neglect it , moderator and facilitator role seldom been treated equally to speaker , if the more you check the dynamics the more you will sense the critical role a facilitator performs - a key screw to tie or loose every group dynamic..
Roger
2016年11月14日 星期一
Long time : interview
Wong is a potential marketing head we are going to place at a zone : KC done interview twice and I am doing the final round : my questions
1. If all of your program will be executed in 2017, how many manpower need ?
2. If you can only pick 3 to perform , name your top 3
3. Do you experience a leaders role in any corporation before?
4. When you going to marry and with the new family will relocate to huilien ?
He is green , KC told me compare to the employee we have now. He is outstanding . What can I say , we are not sex to recruit tier one talents in the market .
Roger
1. If all of your program will be executed in 2017, how many manpower need ?
2. If you can only pick 3 to perform , name your top 3
3. Do you experience a leaders role in any corporation before?
4. When you going to marry and with the new family will relocate to huilien ?
He is green , KC told me compare to the employee we have now. He is outstanding . What can I say , we are not sex to recruit tier one talents in the market .
Roger
Sleepless might
I had a feeling that it won't be a good night last night . Yes , a bad dream come true , I can't get into deep sleep until very late , but to close my eyes .... it's a long rest yet a sleep mode , woke up by 4:00 am , I am taking hot bath now ....
Energy up or energy sucks ?
Roger
2016年11月13日 星期日
When open in unfamiliar situation
How you turn your weakness into strength :
1. English is not my native language, I won't be correct in using vocabulary and grammar , but will do it clearly :
-- St. Petersburg Russian forum retreat experience.
2. Confidentiality is not a gesture , by showing your hand , you acknowledge with your mind .
-- Bon Vie challenge experience
3. Trust is not our DNA but it feels good to given your trust .
-- little child throwing up & down metaphor
4. Not happy with the Unprofessional logistic:
- first mistake from Kyoto to Macau
- second mistake from Laos back to HK
5. Commitment is not forcing too but willing to :
- I am here to say goodbye story
6. What's difficult to you : L/A/Q/S
- A+D ; A+D; A+D
Roger
1. English is not my native language, I won't be correct in using vocabulary and grammar , but will do it clearly :
-- St. Petersburg Russian forum retreat experience.
2. Confidentiality is not a gesture , by showing your hand , you acknowledge with your mind .
-- Bon Vie challenge experience
3. Trust is not our DNA but it feels good to given your trust .
-- little child throwing up & down metaphor
4. Not happy with the Unprofessional logistic:
- first mistake from Kyoto to Macau
- second mistake from Laos back to HK
5. Commitment is not forcing too but willing to :
- I am here to say goodbye story
6. What's difficult to you : L/A/Q/S
- A+D ; A+D; A+D
Roger
Gift to take
Even it's a bias rhetoric, I have the intention to buy me some gift after a tiring workshop . A compensation and little reward make me happy.
Roger
Roger
Mogul forum in Parkview HK
From doubt to Dao : I finally delivered and I feel how they feel , this is good enough , my expectation: no expectation but gain experience and I did it .
For the member who's expectation is to exceed the expectation, I told him only to "re-set " at the very beginning.. Douglas Yang , he feel it
Stantly Sun : I hear you
Frank : 0.1 percent of your reach Chinese philosophy
Damien : cross road and fight
Douglas Woo : ? And confusing
John : be a professional at the end
Tim : new venture ahead
I am complete another journey .
Roger
For the member who's expectation is to exceed the expectation, I told him only to "re-set " at the very beginning.. Douglas Yang , he feel it
Stantly Sun : I hear you
Frank : 0.1 percent of your reach Chinese philosophy
Damien : cross road and fight
Douglas Woo : ? And confusing
John : be a professional at the end
Tim : new venture ahead
I am complete another journey .
Roger
Parkview is where I am today
It's up on the hill and it's a club - house - condominiums luxury residency in HK island ; this is the dream life for becoming rich and famous .. compare to some rug street and garbed aisle , this is far more better.
To live in such a paradise , people can't take it for granted , life full with up and down , take the experience for granted - no one can steal it away but not any objectives you can see and touch - you are the lender for the best - your whole life and that's is - if they don't fade / rotten or transfer to other people . Don't take anything for granted - to have but not to hold - experience counts and noting else stays forever .
I enjoy the club house , arrive one hour earlier give myself a personal tour to this beautiful gallery and museum standard collections : Dali sculpture and Ancient Buddha stone sculpture - sincerity and peacefully. This is the Energy feed for today . Now I am peace with myself.
Roger
To live in such a paradise , people can't take it for granted , life full with up and down , take the experience for granted - no one can steal it away but not any objectives you can see and touch - you are the lender for the best - your whole life and that's is - if they don't fade / rotten or transfer to other people . Don't take anything for granted - to have but not to hold - experience counts and noting else stays forever .
I enjoy the club house , arrive one hour earlier give myself a personal tour to this beautiful gallery and museum standard collections : Dali sculpture and Ancient Buddha stone sculpture - sincerity and peacefully. This is the Energy feed for today . Now I am peace with myself.
Roger
You part 2
You said is well : 2 out of 3 ain't bad
You turn excuse to retronic reasons
You procrastinate and tell everyone it's patience
Roger
You turn excuse to retronic reasons
You procrastinate and tell everyone it's patience
Roger
How much is enough ?
You see all the good but still feeling bad.
You face the red but develop kind of blue
You only need a few but desire for many
You live one life but ask for immortality
You don't have near-life experience but afraid of near-death
Roger
You face the red but develop kind of blue
You only need a few but desire for many
You live one life but ask for immortality
You don't have near-life experience but afraid of near-death
Roger
It's not tein tein
It's gone , not over but it won't be the same anymore.. don't call me Tein Tein , it's how you deliver but not what I perceive.
Greeting is a hello yet the invitation to re-start it : starting all over again is impossible , split water can't retrieve.
So take it easy , you will see me only in your dream .. I wish you well .
Roger
Greeting is a hello yet the invitation to re-start it : starting all over again is impossible , split water can't retrieve.
So take it easy , you will see me only in your dream .. I wish you well .
Roger
Bad dream I don't call it nightmares
It hit me from the beginning of my light sleep , green light spirit was the last appear , before it surface , many chaotic situation occurred , it's like a hell if I can describe it.
I don't have a lucid picture when woke up but I clearly see the bad dreams --
Roger
I don't have a lucid picture when woke up but I clearly see the bad dreams --
Roger
2016年11月12日 星期六
Tomorrow is a blind date
I know it but I am afraid they don't , a professional can be profession is due to the co-op in 2 way streets, it's a very blind date , I just hope it won't getting darker .
Roger
Roger
HK
Plane delay 30 minutes, arrival hall is an ok Que , but the taxi waiting area is full of traveller , the reminder board flashing " free shuttle to major hotels in causeway bay " I rush to the shuttle bus stop and get on H2 line as the last passenger , it's good , traffic in HK is terrible today. There no point to take taxi as long you travel light .
Traffic bad , google map help me to decide which stop to get off , 10 minutes walk to hotel is nothing , I am on my way to enjoy late lunch / early dinner : according to google - the master of knowing everything, I am one minute away from Crown Plaza Hotel .
No greeting and no welcoming and no showing about this mogul forum . It's a cold versus warm session tomorrow.
How to get there?
Roger
Traffic bad , google map help me to decide which stop to get off , 10 minutes walk to hotel is nothing , I am on my way to enjoy late lunch / early dinner : according to google - the master of knowing everything, I am one minute away from Crown Plaza Hotel .
No greeting and no welcoming and no showing about this mogul forum . It's a cold versus warm session tomorrow.
How to get there?
Roger
Year 2020 I will be 60
I will STOP :
1. Long trip traveling
2.Taking Red Eyes
3.Eating Red Meal
4.Irregular Affairs
5.Wrong Toilet Position
6.Buy Books don't read
7.Buy goods don't use
8.One Forum
I will START:
1. Regular Exercise: walking ; mountaineering; swimming ; gym sauna
2. Smile everyday.
3. Sleep for 6 hours per day
4. Meditation regularly
5. Long retreat for month long per year
6. Writing and Teaching the coach
7. Spend Time with my Kids
8. Build a living will .
9. Around the ___ with Meiling
Roger
1. Long trip traveling
2.Taking Red Eyes
3.Eating Red Meal
4.Irregular Affairs
5.Wrong Toilet Position
6.Buy Books don't read
7.Buy goods don't use
8.One Forum
I will START:
1. Regular Exercise: walking ; mountaineering; swimming ; gym sauna
2. Smile everyday.
3. Sleep for 6 hours per day
4. Meditation regularly
5. Long retreat for month long per year
6. Writing and Teaching the coach
7. Spend Time with my Kids
8. Build a living will .
9. Around the ___ with Meiling
Roger
Movie on the plane wish me Happy Birthday
Isn't it amazing , I just search a French film that I didn't see before on my plane back to taipei and surprise me to caught by the line " isn't today your birthday ? " so I capture the screen . A very intuitive and entertaining happening .
Roger
Roger
Year 2020 I will be 60
I will STOP :
1. Long trip traveling
2.Taking Red Eyes
3.Eating Red Meal
4.Irregular Affairs
5.Wrong Toilet Position
6.Buy Books don't read
7.Buy goods don't use
8.One Forum
I will START:
1. Regular Exercise: walking ; mountaineering; swimming ; gym sauna
2. Smile everyday.
3. Sleep for 6 hours per day
4. Meditation regularly
5. Long retreat for month long per year
6. Writing and Teaching the coach
7. Spend Time with my Kids
8. Build a living will .
9. Around the ___ with Meiling
Roger
1. Long trip traveling
2.Taking Red Eyes
3.Eating Red Meal
4.Irregular Affairs
5.Wrong Toilet Position
6.Buy Books don't read
7.Buy goods don't use
8.One Forum
I will START:
1. Regular Exercise: walking ; mountaineering; swimming ; gym sauna
2. Smile everyday.
3. Sleep for 6 hours per day
4. Meditation regularly
5. Long retreat for month long per year
6. Writing and Teaching the coach
7. Spend Time with my Kids
8. Build a living will .
9. Around the ___ with Meiling
Roger
Long trip in 2017
1. Jan : family Phuket & Bangkok trip : 7 days
2. Feb: NY & LA biz trip : 16 days
3. Feb-March : Vancouver YPO Edge : 8 days
4. June : Cannes French music festival : 9 days
Roger
2. Feb: NY & LA biz trip : 16 days
3. Feb-March : Vancouver YPO Edge : 8 days
4. June : Cannes French music festival : 9 days
Roger
I am about to credit 1 millions NT
I don't know it's a dream or not , I am about to use my credit cards purchasing one of the expensive YPO event : Grammy Awards weekend experience, for purchase the program , it's close to 30.000 USD and to buy myself ticket to States is another 9.000 and to count in accommodation in the States is 10.000 USD - I am not talking other spending in NY & Los Angeles ..
This is how my coachee offers and I only bear the 6.800 package + 4 nights extra stays for 2.000 : it's 8.800 also .. what a mathematic magic next year.
Roger
This is how my coachee offers and I only bear the 6.800 package + 4 nights extra stays for 2.000 : it's 8.800 also .. what a mathematic magic next year.
Roger
2016年11月11日 星期五
Taxi driver today
Today , I boarding 2 taxi and to me , drivers are close to the age of suspension of commercial driver license : 68. I even though they lie about age , it's tough to make a living in Taiwan now . Both of them wear the hearing aids .
Roger
Roger
Mogul and my emotion
This is how is developed :
1. Negotiating on discount by intro Laos
2.blur in organization about logistic to Laos
3. Last minutes change to HK
4. No detail whats for
5. Day before fly out : no venue details and not even book my hotel
Now I have some emotion : take what I ought to after session .
Roger
1. Negotiating on discount by intro Laos
2.blur in organization about logistic to Laos
3. Last minutes change to HK
4. No detail whats for
5. Day before fly out : no venue details and not even book my hotel
Now I have some emotion : take what I ought to after session .
Roger
Vice Chairman to Sea Dragon
For connecting YPO Gold and spend more time with Adrian ... nothing else so I take it
Roger
Roger
Leonard Cohen pass away
In Canada - my favorite singer / song writer / poet and character passed away , office site didn't mentioned the exact day and why .. I assume he die on my birthday - November 10th ..
my friend Steve is in Canada now and he must be sad also :
I left my message to Mafan's facebook : now the bird will no longer on the wire ...
Roger
Terry Lin call me
After his triumph little dome concert - he call to confirm the Cannes invitation- well , what need to connect will connect ...
It seems next June we will join in a panel at Cannes France ...
Roger
You connect and radiate
Steve's warm letter arrived this morning - a reply to my Update and a ripple to how we experienced things together .
I am more than exciting as I am not manage my expectation but to totally reset it ... if shading give me more than feedback , then I am the beneficial in the communication loop . What else can we ask for ?
Connect the dot is continue, Rob Francis invite Steve and Pia to dinner at Montreal and they wish me happy birthday with a video greeting , it's a mix happy moment .
Roger
I am more than exciting as I am not manage my expectation but to totally reset it ... if shading give me more than feedback , then I am the beneficial in the communication loop . What else can we ask for ?
Connect the dot is continue, Rob Francis invite Steve and Pia to dinner at Montreal and they wish me happy birthday with a video greeting , it's a mix happy moment .
Roger
November update
From Steve :
An unconventional way in English : simple and powerful- by Steve Vai on our November update .
Roger
An unconventional way in English : simple and powerful- by Steve Vai on our November update .
Roger
Happy birthday yesterday
I keep my birthday wish by house keeping at lease my bed room area , I begin from 7:00 pm and finish 12:00 pm with a 30 minutes break . It's only half way done but to tie your running shoes is the beginning of every marathon... change begins today .
Roger
Roger
2016年11月10日 星期四
Stiven in bad shape
It's a phobia , if not the one he trust beside , he don't feel comfortable. When check in Le Maridien I received many complaints:
1. The room is not as good as Mgallery
2. The price is double
3. The room have bad smell
If he check the finishing inside and amenities, will be even disappointed.
Roger
1. The room is not as good as Mgallery
2. The price is double
3. The room have bad smell
If he check the finishing inside and amenities, will be even disappointed.
Roger
Flight high for my birthday
I am not that important to be greeting on my birthday, it's too many new friends show me their warm greeting.
CC , Elite , and many .. those who you miss - missing still ...
Roger
Dear air attendance
The person sit in front don't speak mandarin , I am . The cute air stewardess wrong about the passage in front , so she speak with me in English ...
you correct your wrong by another wrong : this is a very small incident and it's fun to observe ..
Roger
you correct your wrong by another wrong : this is a very small incident and it's fun to observe ..
Roger
Linda and long trip to The stares
The impromptu coaching to linda lead to a potential dramatic trip : New York and LA.
I haven't return to New York for so many years -since 911 and to attend the platform established by Linda is something interesting also - a charity - fund raising gala at Mandarin Oriental New York -- Chinese turn celebrity is now take the world in storm .
Los Angles for Grammy awards experience provided by YPO , one of the exclusive and expense event , however. Linda is eager to participant so I am ride on the wind to secured another good spot at the event .
It will be a 16 days trip to the States , what to experience and what to see ????
It will impact on my working schedule in Feb. right after Chinese New Year and one week window from my Edge trip to Vancouver.
Must be fun -
Roger
I haven't return to New York for so many years -since 911 and to attend the platform established by Linda is something interesting also - a charity - fund raising gala at Mandarin Oriental New York -- Chinese turn celebrity is now take the world in storm .
Los Angles for Grammy awards experience provided by YPO , one of the exclusive and expense event , however. Linda is eager to participant so I am ride on the wind to secured another good spot at the event .
It will be a 16 days trip to the States , what to experience and what to see ????
It will impact on my working schedule in Feb. right after Chinese New Year and one week window from my Edge trip to Vancouver.
Must be fun -
Roger
On my way back
On the special day , who do your really want to spend time with ? Who you miss and yet sending you birthday greeting ? Who on earth you never think about throw you a surprise ? And who will be the last person you wish to see ?
You can only have dozens of choice in the coming years and how you make your special day special to others ?
Why it's special ? Because everyone is special , when you were born it meant you will be special as no one like you in this world .
Roger
You can only have dozens of choice in the coming years and how you make your special day special to others ?
Why it's special ? Because everyone is special , when you were born it meant you will be special as no one like you in this world .
Roger
On my way back
On the special day , who do your really want to spend time with ? Who you miss and yet sending you birthday greeting ? Who on earth you never think about throw you a surprise ? And who will be the last person you wish to see ?
You can only have dozens of choice in the coming years and how you make your special day special to others ?
Why it's special ? Because everyone is special , when you were born it meant you will be special , it's a special days
Roger
You can only have dozens of choice in the coming years and how you make your special day special to others ?
Why it's special ? Because everyone is special , when you were born it meant you will be special , it's a special days
Roger
Happy Birthday Roger
Celebrating my birthday one day before at Thien's new house - the castle for his retirement. Stiven come to the dinner with me:
1. A good set menu with champagne / white wine / red wine 1986 / ? ... 1962 ....
2. French restaurant catering at house
3. Nhan - Hun family sit with me.
4. Tao - Thien's daughter make a cake for me .
It's a warm and good memory-- thien is a true brother .
Roger
1. A good set menu with champagne / white wine / red wine 1986 / ? ... 1962 ....
2. French restaurant catering at house
3. Nhan - Hun family sit with me.
4. Tao - Thien's daughter make a cake for me .
It's a warm and good memory-- thien is a true brother .
Roger
2016年11月9日 星期三
Buddha is a complement
They said " I looks like a Buddha " I ask " then do you like me ? " they didn't response. Question : why like Buddha like me but reluctant to say like me ?
Roger
Key words
" I am born to take care of him. " r: " you will be taken cares "
" he is taking everything for granted " r: " don't be a victim "
" on everything relationship, I tell everyone dad is number one ... " r:" marries someone who co build the business with you , the person who love you and take care of your business and you "
" I want to live in Spain or Taiwan for a year , I just stress out "
Roger
" he is taking everything for granted " r: " don't be a victim "
" on everything relationship, I tell everyone dad is number one ... " r:" marries someone who co build the business with you , the person who love you and take care of your business and you "
" I want to live in Spain or Taiwan for a year , I just stress out "
Roger
Crystal
I don't know what I did or what gift I obtaining to let the trust flows like waterfall, she end up with tears - no one can tell , one role to play but not able to change role along the way .
Any solution? Find someone to take other role and change the character as time goes by.
No victim in this drama - it's a father & daughter gesture and you need to learn how to traveling between two worlds
Roger
Any solution? Find someone to take other role and change the character as time goes by.
No victim in this drama - it's a father & daughter gesture and you need to learn how to traveling between two worlds
Roger
2016年11月8日 星期二
A few things
1. Kirati say my lover is my wife
2.Thien had something caught by Her
3.Me too but deny totally
Lucid dream :
So many familiar face appear at the same restaurant / movie complex. Meiling and I went to the Monster movie , we couldn't finish it . At the connect restaurant, I met faces like : Celine; Ken Chang ; Culture Affair Minister , Hochen and others - I peek at what people order : Most of them order the Spanish seafood rosedo ..
Roger
2.Thien had something caught by Her
3.Me too but deny totally
Lucid dream :
So many familiar face appear at the same restaurant / movie complex. Meiling and I went to the Monster movie , we couldn't finish it . At the connect restaurant, I met faces like : Celine; Ken Chang ; Culture Affair Minister , Hochen and others - I peek at what people order : Most of them order the Spanish seafood rosedo ..
Roger
Finding yet learnings
1. Know when to stop .
2. How much is enough .
3. Identify Need & Want .
4. Have clear Yes and No to certain things
5. Traveling between 2 worlds
6. Smile at last .
7. Regrets as nature .
8. Freedom is free to choose.
9. Begin to love myself .
10. Wisdom is hear voice inside
11. End of the road , beginning of the journey
12. Close vs intimacy.
13. 4 loves
14. Johari window & mirror
15. Follow yet search bliss
16. Complete the full circle
17. Sharing is key process in solving
18. Someone something somebody
Roger
2. How much is enough .
3. Identify Need & Want .
4. Have clear Yes and No to certain things
5. Traveling between 2 worlds
6. Smile at last .
7. Regrets as nature .
8. Freedom is free to choose.
9. Begin to love myself .
10. Wisdom is hear voice inside
11. End of the road , beginning of the journey
12. Close vs intimacy.
13. 4 loves
14. Johari window & mirror
15. Follow yet search bliss
16. Complete the full circle
17. Sharing is key process in solving
18. Someone something somebody
Roger
2016年11月7日 星期一
Next session with Hubert
Nov, 11 morning 11.
And I want to make it a 1111.1111 event : November 11 , 11:11 in the morning .
Roger
And I want to make it a 1111.1111 event : November 11 , 11:11 in the morning .
Roger
Done A Zone assignment and re org
It's a change of role and change of mood : I prepare myself to conduct this task - the paradigm shift is not to please anyone but to echo to my role and responsibility- turn around and build a sustainable entity until end of the BOT.
Teresa is sacred as she is not prepare to be my one down and to handle top executive turn over . KC is an outsider even though he commit to support me , I am in the organization and the system to perform and influence as well .
Fu : can't say he is shock - the syndrome will develop in next 24 hours - the agreement : release role and responsibility at A Zone. Resume full function as CEO for foundation and effective by Nov. 10. Move our from current office - the symbol of power and transaction with Teresa ... this will create another ambiguity to Teresa ..
Li Kwang : agreed to take the servence pay and let go by Dec. 7th . Not taking the transfer and down grade assignments.
To All : my message: change for better, come with a passion and I am beginning to like you .
I am in Huailien : lovely east coast of Taiwan and I perform a cruel thing - organizational change - change the org and impact people .
Roger
Teresa is sacred as she is not prepare to be my one down and to handle top executive turn over . KC is an outsider even though he commit to support me , I am in the organization and the system to perform and influence as well .
Fu : can't say he is shock - the syndrome will develop in next 24 hours - the agreement : release role and responsibility at A Zone. Resume full function as CEO for foundation and effective by Nov. 10. Move our from current office - the symbol of power and transaction with Teresa ... this will create another ambiguity to Teresa ..
Li Kwang : agreed to take the servence pay and let go by Dec. 7th . Not taking the transfer and down grade assignments.
To All : my message: change for better, come with a passion and I am beginning to like you .
I am in Huailien : lovely east coast of Taiwan and I perform a cruel thing - organizational change - change the org and impact people .
Roger
What am I waiting for ?
Birthday greeting from expected friends and unexpected surprise ?
Someone tell me something I don't know ?
Better future and better hope ahead ?
The glory and glamour platform pave in front of me ?
Something big , Big something ?
Roger
2016年11月6日 星期日
Reflection
1. Terry Lin open his Taipei Little Dome solo concert yesterday, I was not invited.
2. Meiling pick me up at airport , when I get on the car , she begin complains when open the underwear I bought for her at Victoria's Secret, she said : " I don't like it " -- what ?
3. Hanes did a good daily update " your name " but I am cool to it - am I simply want to express but reluctant to appreciate?
4. Money and Happiness can be parallel...
Roger
2. Meiling pick me up at airport , when I get on the car , she begin complains when open the underwear I bought for her at Victoria's Secret, she said : " I don't like it " -- what ?
3. Hanes did a good daily update " your name " but I am cool to it - am I simply want to express but reluctant to appreciate?
4. Money and Happiness can be parallel...
Roger
2 expensive shoes
When bought the expensive shoes , I should do the house keeping and move all non performing shoes away .
And on Nov. 10 alone , it's good time for my house keeping activity : do it and finish it on 10th.
Roger
And on Nov. 10 alone , it's good time for my house keeping activity : do it and finish it on 10th.
Roger
Why ? Mother
Why I tried to erase all the memories I had with my mother ? No matter it's good or bad ? I just wish it's all blank , blank like a white paper , waiting for me to add any color I like - to manufacture the memories I favors and to share it . Make me feel more relax and comfortable.
Since I practicing facilitator and coach , I listen to so many " parents story " such as father gestures, mother gestures, womb scenarios and many , I don't resonate much or I just keep a distance , build a shield not letting the vibrations intrude to my life ... posture myself as a profession and amuse to the feeling trauma --- I don't react , don't react and don't connect .. distance to the mother affair make me feel more comfortable.
Now I know there's is something wrong , I admit it's not normal but I reluctant to rebuild the memories with my mother , should I analysis myself ? What cause this coldness turn to coolness ?
What did the memory my mother keep mean to her have something to do with me ? Tell my story to my son ? For him to connect the dot ? This is a delima
Now , try your best to describe the stranger : mother .. end of part 1.
Roger
Since I practicing facilitator and coach , I listen to so many " parents story " such as father gestures, mother gestures, womb scenarios and many , I don't resonate much or I just keep a distance , build a shield not letting the vibrations intrude to my life ... posture myself as a profession and amuse to the feeling trauma --- I don't react , don't react and don't connect .. distance to the mother affair make me feel more comfortable.
Now I know there's is something wrong , I admit it's not normal but I reluctant to rebuild the memories with my mother , should I analysis myself ? What cause this coldness turn to coolness ?
What did the memory my mother keep mean to her have something to do with me ? Tell my story to my son ? For him to connect the dot ? This is a delima
Now , try your best to describe the stranger : mother .. end of part 1.
Roger
Sharing triggers
1. My only hope is can stand on my foot again .
2. My lover is my wife .
3. Why he didn't even shake hands with me ?
4. I know what you saying
5. I like it : be human here
6. I am very content , I give it a 9
7. It's value , not races , religions or anything else .
8. Can we finish the spirit walk ?
9. I am embarrassed to say I only ....
10. So you don't have sex in the end ?
11. Non judgement: we can't control people's thinking but be aware of your action
12. You are a magician: the card is reflection to who I am and how I feel
13. Cards : patience; judgment; balance ; generosity; romance ; values ; and ?
14. You put yourself low when check the wine label from other table
15. Do you like the food ?
16. Tradition die hard . It's our DNA
17. No , I can't decide when i can join Dec. forum meeting until next forum meeting .
18. My energy is low , I am aging
19. Why don't we take group pictures this time ?
20. Everything beginning is toward the End
Roger
2. My lover is my wife .
3. Why he didn't even shake hands with me ?
4. I know what you saying
5. I like it : be human here
6. I am very content , I give it a 9
7. It's value , not races , religions or anything else .
8. Can we finish the spirit walk ?
9. I am embarrassed to say I only ....
10. So you don't have sex in the end ?
11. Non judgement: we can't control people's thinking but be aware of your action
12. You are a magician: the card is reflection to who I am and how I feel
13. Cards : patience; judgment; balance ; generosity; romance ; values ; and ?
14. You put yourself low when check the wine label from other table
15. Do you like the food ?
16. Tradition die hard . It's our DNA
17. No , I can't decide when i can join Dec. forum meeting until next forum meeting .
18. My energy is low , I am aging
19. Why don't we take group pictures this time ?
20. Everything beginning is toward the End
Roger
2016年11月5日 星期六
Imperial Super Beking Duck restaurant Singapore
A Michelin 2 stars restaurant serve great Beijing duck .. thien and I enjoy food and talk together .
Roger
Farooq small talk
He want to confirm my feeling , after our forum meeting , I agree to spend another 30 minutes with him , I didn't know his intention until he open up and talk : if there's any dispute happen between us , he don't want to accumulate until the day it burst out ... and he is kind of curious about my " respond only yet initiated any conversation with him "
His sensitive don't change my impressions about him but I didn't honestly tell him how I think about him --- I am here to enjoy forum and it's value , not to please or challenge any individual in the forum - if my gain less than offer , I will choose to leave .
Yes , the distance is not between he and me but everyone between me ... like I said " Be guru there , Be human here " I don't like spend time do meaningless conversation. It's me - Roger
Roger
His sensitive don't change my impressions about him but I didn't honestly tell him how I think about him --- I am here to enjoy forum and it's value , not to please or challenge any individual in the forum - if my gain less than offer , I will choose to leave .
Yes , the distance is not between he and me but everyone between me ... like I said " Be guru there , Be human here " I don't like spend time do meaningless conversation. It's me - Roger
Roger
Question to me
1. Tell us what's special about you ?
2. What activities make you switch off
3. Don't eat lunch alone
4. What role in life we can be
5. I am hesitate to let " Me " stop " You " to become " Who you are "
Roger
2. What activities make you switch off
3. Don't eat lunch alone
4. What role in life we can be
5. I am hesitate to let " Me " stop " You " to become " Who you are "
Roger
2016年11月3日 星期四
Bon Vie forum Gigi pass away
If my memory is correct, Gigi is the one who told me "tell me how can I trust a stranger ? "
. From Philippe and intelligent, if not for breakfast with AF on Sunday , I would not access and link to his sad news.
We met the first time in taipei just 3 weeks ago and now he passed away in Japan and his forum plan to see him in Manila in a few days .
Life it short , live the moment and cherish every moment.
Roger
. From Philippe and intelligent, if not for breakfast with AF on Sunday , I would not access and link to his sad news.
We met the first time in taipei just 3 weeks ago and now he passed away in Japan and his forum plan to see him in Manila in a few days .
Life it short , live the moment and cherish every moment.
Roger
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