Emotional part 2

1. Don't harass on her family 

2. Don't call or ask my sister or brother in law . 

The most emotional day in years

   If no one can control anyone , if body 

belongs to the one who own it , if marriage don't mean you can take control of others body and mind , if reading and spiritual searching is for self - exploration , then I don't equip with reason to get so emotional .

    Even the ugly and unpleasant condition happen to Meilijg and it owe to her own will , what on earth I can take charge of this happening ? 

   So , why I am hiject by such an annoying emotion ? Why it's been occupied for so long ? And why doing other things can't get rid of such an emotional outbreak ?

 This is how I will teach myself :

1. Wait for her call or message , not to push and initative .

2. Not to ask where she is 

3. Not to say I will be there 

4. Not to not 

5. Don't ask when you will be back 

6. Don't be Holmes and tried to bring out the so call TRUTH. 

7. Not going out 

8. Do my normal routine 

Last but not least : see how many of the top 8 I can achieve .

Developing story day 2-4

She reply with a where to confirm by 9:00 pm and will call me then , this is totally unacceptable : 

1. Delay 2 hours and not telling me where she is now ?

2. Not to mention to meet by when but instead a call to explain ?

I immediately call her and yell :

1. Where are you now ?

2. Why can I : your married husband can't see you now ?

3. Are you kidnapped ? No then why always say it's inconvient ? For what ? It's really really piss me off 

4. She hang up the phone and I leave an even stronger message : if don't tell me where you are by 9:00 pm , there will be zero tolerant from me , I can't stand anymore and can't believe this is 30 years of marrigage ?

I line her sister and no response still .

Devloping day 2-3

She reply by 16:00 and said : I just wake up . Had a car accident .

I ask her to call . She reply just check out 

I call her :

1. Where are you ?

2. Why can I be with you ?

3. Who's with you ?

4. Why need to check in hotel and why can't I book hotel for her ?

5. Why say I am pushing her ?

6. If there's car accidents , who is the cause or run away ?

7. When ? Where ? And why ? 

I am really piss off when hang up the phone I send a message :

" if I can be the one you trust , tell me who in the world you can put trust with ? " 

Developing story day 2-2

A line response by 10:12 this morning with a message " I was off to southern taiwan and the mobile connection was bad "

My reply :

1. Bullshit . Period

2. My thoughts : 

- even a child knows this is a infant stage lie 

- anyone can easily make a phone call to someone that he is ok.

- if you ask your son to do it , why can't you follow the rule and apply to your husband .

- everyone suffer and sacrifice , you are not the only one , no matter how my mother treat you , you won't be the least miserable person in this world .

3. My action :

- silent and no more initative to call or social media 

- do my own thing and go my own life 

- even on her day of return I will do the same .

- no oblige to tell her who I will be any more 

- she deseve the lesson and learn the lesson of respective me .

Developing story day 2

I couldn't sleep well . For concerning her safety , don't know then I felt in sleep .

1. Wake up 6:10 am and check her line response : " happy " period .

2. Call and no response with voice mail : the number is not turn on yet .

3. Reply with my line : if you decided not to let me know where you are , then please decide everything now .

I am at peace and only raise one / recall one bad memory when first day resporting to spirox and found it a trap .

She told me over the phone : If you can't take the job , why not kill yourslef ? I am not sure the mind tigger now is a " toxic or juice of inspiration " ? 

Going to my day now . Count every moment , you don't live for anyone else and you fill in the moment and create meaning to your life . 

Developing story

1. Call to mother in law's home by 7:00 pm , she pick up phone but tole me Meilijg wasn't there ...

2. Call sister in law but must be wrong number , can't reach until 23:30 using line phone , she didn't know where Meiling is either .

3. Wild guess :

1) plastic surgery for maketing excuse ( 60%)

2) remove the womb tumor without telling anyone ( 40%)

Can't think more . I need to go to bad now .. 

Movie : German - assassins hitter

Only 2 audience inside the new cinema complex : cinema asia - good facility and nice place - ESun credit card member enjoy 67% discount .

The movie is a real testimony about German's invention to the world which cause 55 millions lives - Single person against the evil empire , a hard to believe story .

Is there any true love ? I don't know really . The touching details are too much for me , I have to block my eyes and yes , I don't understand German but screaming is an universal language .

Emotion developing

Scenario 1: Meilijg didn't bring her mobile with her :

Action 1  : when and how should I call her ? Every 6 hours should be ok .

Action 2 : call her to mother in laws house by 9:30 pm : presumedly they should be home then .

Scenario 2: she don't want to answer the phone :

Action 1 : leave her message and Emiljo every 6 hours 

Action 2 : call the house as well by 9:30 pm 

Action 3 : no concurrence emotion to myself - calm and leant to be alone 

Action 4: do somethings different tomorrow and enjoy myself , not to be influence greatly . 

S + D

I challeng you : challenge the assumption is what make a leader reflecting .

- compromise personality is what we need ?

- sales strategy and biz goal ? Is that anyone discuss with me ? Or I just do it my way ?

- benchmark C : other than sales , who should and can be responsible for taking up this task ? 

- someone just can't be taught or reluctant to learn ..

- there's easy way and hard way - once you choose to do it the hard way - casualty is ineivatavle 

- the situation is clear that he can't perform full function of GM / forget about sales and do something strategically important to our company : growing and expention. 

- I want to free myself : taking a 44 days summer leave is the bigining . 

Jason

1. Willing to say . 2. Space to share . 3. No afraid been candid . It comprise the element of communication in trust manner . The rest is whether people take it as an information to receives or an idea to accept .

- you enter the casino with your financier , you give your credit already , let your boss throwing the dice . If lose , who shall taking all the consequence ? Him not you . So ..

- it's your projection to see the doubling outcome , but from the angle of your counter partner : especially owner , his projection won't be the same as you .

- if you say you can make significant improvement without change people , I will let you do as much as you can , if your suggestion is to change people - sorry , trust take time .. Be patient please.

- the book by mizebueg and the article of one on one . 

- balance versus homony . Always a challenge not a question .

- if you go with the team , you stay with the team.

Tomorrow and this afternoon

I have too many plan for the day off alone and yet to decided where to :

1. Kenting one day trip for sun / beach ?

2. Kao chuang trip ? Stay over at one interests hotel 

3. Wandering around by train 

4. Find a good cafe and reading for fhe day 

5. Movie and movies 

6. Do all my training : workshop materials 

It's difficult to know what you really want and I don't have an answer yet ... 

This is how I feel and how it goes

It's not a lucid dream but a dream :

1. I am in the army camp and seems I was enroll and assign to a new unit .

2. Met Liu and Li : the 2 close army friends and Kao as well .

3. It's a day after rain , people talking about next mission or what and they communicate in English . 

4. Another dream in the dream : I or we suppose to attend the funual for somebody but we were call it's cancel ( or postpone ) as the 2 dead back to life .

5. It's brief. What I can see is I am a officer.

Then this feeling comes early in the morning : I agree Meilijg should take a week off here and return to her family , accompany her elder mother for a week , it's not a vacation , but to her , it's a freedom as she said it all the time : I am the servant / labor to your family for too long . Feel a little bit lonely . 

What " Florence Jenkins " inspired me

Same as " the man who know infinity " before movie start , it stated : base on true event / not fake or true but an event recreation .

I take it as a small version of " Danish Girl " who pussuing dream badly and as she say on her dying bed : you can say I could not sing , but you can't say I didn't do it . At canines hall a sole recite ...

And it's about a love story : more mental than physical and This is she full version of phase 2 : alchemist ..

Netflix begin

For the past few days , take a full experience of Netflix : I am not in the mood of creating my speech / workshop materials . So let the flow take me to documentary films :

1. Finishing my Keith Richard bio film and learn a few good line from him - the last touch is recocilltion with father and father been the great supporter for 20 years on the road .

2. Collapse of American Dream ; norm Chomsky is an unique and great person :: knowing what he is doing and challenge the world dominate by the rich and wealth .

3. Twisted fucking sister : a documentary will lay out the story of this club superstar without a record deal - how Jay Jay and Dee manage there way up and look at the face of ( of course it's one side story ) Epic leve Fred . Atlantic Duag Morris and many others 

4. Story of yogananda : a spiritual figure and how he influence 2 worlds : funny fo knew his preach is " religion of all churches " this is why George Harrison and many celebrity were inspired by him . Self - Realization is the key and soul matters . 

Ejiri

1. Freedoms is not free 

2. Freedom don't equal to free time 

3. Freedom is a status of mind : you have the right to choose .

4. Self - assessment : your mind share ( what others can't see ) and time share ( can be measured )

5. Take the role yet responsibility and find the 3rd road - your way to be a better consultant. 

Session with robin

I am so candid and the introspection is :

1. Don't be too naive for both party : it will hurt us more .

2. Parent drop the share 

3. Yuang is a problematic issue and need a clear and speeding cut 

4. It your idea can't be appreciated by potential investor , what will you do ?

5. Do it every month - non related to your parent 

6. Am I doing something wrong before cause my mother reluctant to share family information ?

I see D

Am I bias by Hubert's viewpoint ?

1. Do you read the proposal before ?

2. Do you think it's a win win collaboration ?

3. Why it's so easy to read your face ?

What happen at regent forum reunion

Eat at and old legacy restaurant 

Everyone update :

Ryne : more busy and much pressure 

Beth : monther and website development 

Candy : 3 weeks compulsory off 

Blaca : no head count increase 

CC : the eyewear and gratitude 

Shirley : now I am at lobby 

Cholletre : support Melvin : the pace and temper 

Jason : let's do forum lunch as sharing 

Celine : India adventure 

My : the dignity of old Russian lady / what you know about regent ? Quiz show / it's development and all about better me - strength Finder 2.0 

Update with old forum trainee

It's not spot on the business but the sharing bundling with confidentiality flavor , so ... It's open and trust . 

H irritation

I mean to do it even he told me he was warn my reaction and emotion .

I should and will as it connect to the " a zone " status whether the job can be done or expectation of delivery can be realized .

We ate as a Taiwanese restaurant , he don't want to take about it and his full mind is occupied with the M project . As I can see it's another challenge ahead of him .. As friends , as coach or as what ? 

Linda process

Second time and only do wechat phone coaching . We need time to get to know each other more and to familiar the process . This is the learning :

1. Inform 10 minutes before coaching time .

2. Find quite and safe place to talk 

3. Check microphone 

4. Remind CTO 

5. Brief process : E - GROW - F 

6. What's urgent and important and what 's burning issue . 

Money morning

After my ted walk and leaning " right business is the most profitable business " I decide to clear the money :

1. Labor insurance can claim for 1.5 millions ( a little fortune for family )

2. Da Yu debt conver stock was liquidate back to 2003 . At least I find it out today 

3. Open my E Sun web - mobile bank and learn the 2.3 millons cash still - this make me happy .

It's a busy money morning and I clear most of it now ... 

Reflection

1. Father need day care and money to support : Meilijg and me - put me in charge .

2. Money : Meiling / you have more than you need , morgege / insurance / house / cash - don't ever said to live to 60 only .

3. Gaining weight : can't do anything about it ? Do it together with Royce .

4. Thomas : now I have no one looking at what I am doing - lost the momentum and loose the Enegry : in grief 

5. Li Long : I am not really concern about the job / title but tell me someone I can learn it from 

6. Shu Yi : it's the evil alliance surrendering , they been pushing me and I am expecting it will come . But it did come .. 

7. Mother on the phone : what daughter not contact after the Japan trip and the old man is counting days ..

8. KC : don't caught me in between , they are not reporting to you ...

9. Royce : Sam stop drinking now ..

10. Chew : Sky is a talent and he get drunk once in my shop after midnight 

Taxi driver in Huailen

Where are you from ? Taipei 

Tour hear ? Yes

I was from taipei before , but didn't see you before ..

It's good to live in Huailen 

Yes , the air is fresh but can't make any money . 

I leave him more tip when the meter stop and I arrived A Zone ..

Second thought

It's not a why but how ? My empathy taught me to co work with H and share his less power / hopeless and maybe helpless situation now ..

What a big change need ? When put things in such a blur and blue situation . If the sky falls down and he willing to take all the consequence -- beat it ..

Shu In is leading Hubert

It's a sad and bad things happen to H and I can't calm it down now .

As a coach : I suppose to correct wrong to right or at least to have him think it over .

As I said to Shu:

1. If he don't know , you have the obligation to share your fact and feeling 

2. If he knows and don't / can't handling it : he is not a leader to follow but only a friend to remember . 

It's a fatal personality that lead to a less friend , no supporter situation and it's a pity to see things getting worst .

I don't mind if I can contribute and don't really care how others in She Kai talk about me . I am only here to help H and it change is not happening - then I won't be able to grand my help and realize my value to him. 

TPO - senior forum experience

Follow the book and stay in protocol won't get you wrong - small but ripple change happens and I am happy to deliver this way :

Thomas / Frank / Charles / shiao ling / Yi Ping / chuang Fan / Harry and me .

Ice breaker : if you really knew me .

Update with mit and parking lot 

4 steps experience 

Drink in the beginning of forum to open up ? Short session and must have dinner.

At lease : vaulnability is there and everyone have his take away . 

What an experience

H29 after Thomas pilot coaching , I was reluctant to be there ( fully presented ) for Thomas , his ice breaker trigger me and we end up with a good 90 minutes together at hotel Quote .

I never image I am the one offer service twice and the enjoyment higher than what I expected . It's abnormal and it's non usual .

Thomas : it's all about parent and child , fairness or love and another typical family issue . I can't make any judgement call about right or wrong and maybe stay out of it is the best solution .

Azizi change the meeting appointment is not a good sign to me or to Royce - my gut feeling told me something wrong here 

  See my book at national library bookshelf is an excitement . Know it's there but didn't take picture . Done it this time .. 

Reading periodical

Become more and more by-stander when reading periodicals - expecially in the business & finance section : am I too old to get excited about the tread and coming business opportunity ? Or I am no longer interest in gaining more money ? Or the coming new age of business hero is Stranger to me ? 

Hochen on front line news today : becoming a new cabinet officer and response for transportation / tourism and tele - communication : it impact diary people life and it will easily become the headline .. Hope he can hang on there.

Prepare the late afternoon senior forum meeting : the role is blur - rather a moderator / member than facilitator / trainer . See how it goes .. 

Remember to love what you do and do what you love : passion drive . 

Staying at ambassador hotel VIP lounge and enjoy free drink and business center . Am I too sloppy in leverage the gong resources ? Or this is exactly the culture in ambassador hotel ? 

Royce second session

2 hours with him :

1. Trace back emotion and energy 

2. Continuity on reading and weight measure .

3. Review 3 entity and 3 role and / or responsibility .

4. Come up with hold your accountable and solution 

5. Check : not a formality yet a routine 

6. Confidentiality reminder 

Breathing every morning

Told Meilijg in the car : to hear her complaining about my mother is like breathing in the morning . No hard feeling but to tell the feeling .

Like the book " don't get mad by the trivial things " if this is a big sale means many of us do encounters this syndrome : easily provoke by small things and you image and create a big ripple which turn yourself unhappy .

Been to 3 motives yesterday : stop work In the middle of the morning : explain and rationalize myself that "coaching " is an onsite / imprumtu skill . Too much prepare and analyze won't do good - it gave me good resign to go out for movies :

1. Eye of huros : myth and action . Entertaining .

2. How to be alone : catch and modern 

3. X-man - appolylody : good story as a series movies .

Night marketing : hopping street food

This ocean street food is not as good as new world park - the one much closer to our hotel .

J is over hospitality to the remaining forum mate and the one I love is : oyster cake , different from taiwan .

Make time with Kirati last night before dinner and offer a free coaching session . He said it worth 10.000 usd , I hope it works for him.

This morning when Wendy - the manger ask me return key by 12:00. My emotions raise and told her this is not how I was told : plan to check out by 15:00 and this have been confirm by your people , why make a potential expeat customer disappointing ? Everybody knows the check in time is 3:00 pm , why bother to take a 3 hours window ? This is rare to me and I really not happy . 

Forum crisis

I don't take it as a Chinese verb : crisis and opportunity , to me this is a simply crisis - determine leaving of a founding member triggle the ripple of breakinf up forum.

The peanuts incident I witness last night was only the tigger to the big quarrel , I was call to handle the issue during the morning break , but the split was there , the thing I can't be sure is if swore words did come out from my favor party or not . Conduct a candid issue feedback session :

1. Share your feelings when heard it .

2. Writing your feedback to each member for things increase or decrease your participant in forum .

3. When forum shared the decrease part you agree with a " I second " or defend on points address .

4. Centering mildfulness breathing before.

 The decision made and by the end - the closing of forum meeting , my sharing : we meet at homony Lane should depart peacefully . 

Diverso first morning

1. The loose moderator : no ice breaker - no time keeper - no protocol ...

2. New member : no really in any forum and don't less about FSFE 

3. My other forum invitation : create a big noise that I am happy to seen : help me in making " yes " or " no " decision by end of June. 

4. TM : caring people / FK : selfish and non EQ equip : observe the table behavior .

Good to know and good to go;

My other learning :

1. Home to me is a check in and leave stop - relax / safe / transit 

2. I commit now , but never after .

3. Yes : how ? No : why ... 

4. It's easy to talk then walk - self aware bee can't really change anything . 

5. Demanding don't equal to appreciation . 

Lucid dream : mother and it's so rare

I am not feeling well - she walk up the stair and say it only 

It's a mix

1. 7 Terrance is a mix : fake Chinese antique with a mix Chinese / Beitish flavor locate at George Town - old gone Penang 

2. Mix : new coaching contract : happy and Meilijg's complains about mother . No happy last forever 

3. Mix : Ling Lo food : Malay mix Chinese with strong flavor and spices 

4. Durian : farmer owner - old wisdom ( don't put all eggs in one blanket ) and new innovation ( trip advisor / wifi / b & b / eat all you can )

5. Diverso : thien is no here , Richard's first session with us 

6. Me : try of durian and devlop high hot .

A day to remember

Carry send wechat asked if the coaching agreement sign off - my simply answer : don't worry turn out to be my first coaching contract from China - Linda He have Carrie TT 52.000 USD as down payment - KC inform notify by I Sun Bank when I landed Penang yesterday .

 I can't hold my excitement as this is 

- first official coaching contract and payment deliver from China

- first non YPO executive recognized his / her need for Coaching and recruits me to the position .

 What's next ? Jing Jing - Chi Sheng and Lu ? No what first before next : perform my service beyond Linda's expectation and take it as a knocking door to China .

Why shark fin soup last nigh ?

I aware notice but didn't reject it . Why - the desire ? The taste ? The non guilty binding ? 

Bio Teck or pharmaceutical industry sharing

Jo is leading the conversation and JR is asking question for collecting decent information before we design program for them .

Interest to know femal CEO dominate this industry - biotech ... And science is the key in the deep domain field ...

My sharing :

1. Confidentiality 

2. Sharing in solving 

3. Collective wisdom 

I stayed for 90 minutes and gain some learning ..

Good morning daniel

His guessing is wrong : warming cafe open as scheduled by 9:00 am - a so close by indie cafe to his house .

It's a good update and it seems I will take up many of his schedule after mid- June .

1. 88 Jezz concert : July 29-30th

2. Vietnam : some times in June / July 

3. Talents fly : Sep. 2-4 Huilien 

4. Steve Vai : July / August German ? 

5. Hubert : audio shop check 

A day as student / observer and by stander

JR lee launch a 4 company senior talent development program , he invited Kevin and me as the core for this pilot run - 14th is the second day and I was there full day :

1. JR is more experience and handle the class well : linguistic graffiti similar to KC or Kevin - this is the blind spot we need to be aware 

2. Teaching and leaning isn't sycronization as my experience told me .

3. Maggie is the prospective for coaching 

4. Kevin deliver too much and lost the taste of time control and ending in rush 

5. I have craft a module and template to JR right after .

Allen told me in his chamber that JR wasn't response for the SEED since last June : kind of " well .. So ... " 

Always a learning to me .. My season on June 17.18. I thinks I can deliver it my way .. 

A zone consensus

KC / Samantha / Fu and me:

1. Agreed on delivery of -15millions lost as our bottom line 

2. May 25 to review the revise project 

3. KC to support process improvement 

Others :

1. Don't end up with construction off set by destroy 

2. Don't post our value to others 

3. We : consultant with a role yet responsibly 

4. Beware of our linguistic graffiti leading to wrong interpretation . 

Gavin talk

Good :

1. Transition 

2. Understanding 

3. Willing to support 

4. No enemy in between 

Blind spot :

1. Reluctant to reduce package 

2. No mistake from my side 

3. Can do more than what I learn 

Others :

1. Talent develop : BUILD / BUY / BORROW . 

2. From party A to party B : we have a lot to learn .

Jason morning

I didn't double check last night :

1. How is the 2 weeks they away : difference make you feel different 

2. The conditional approves statement 

3. Tell the difference between comments and commitment 

4. There is no territory : it's all there's but to find our boundary .

5. It's harmless to share : you need to exercise and practice it.

6. From story to sharing then find the solution , it's consensus and it's making trust work.

7. Lead by heart , can't reserve .

8. On the same boat and on the same side ..

DU anniversary

Hanes and I will celebrate the anniversary for DU : it's June 1st and the first message comes so compact : 3 sentence only .. 

It's a mutual learning 

Linda He first

Linda :

1. Knows what she is doing 

2. Flexible in conduct our coaching session 

3. Still wondering what she want from me

4. Miss the date but better last night .

5. Remote in the month of May / June and to perform our coaching duty 

6. Roxesen can't perform here and linda see it clearly : Better find another brand and be the brand ambassador still. 

Day off and on

One day trip :

1. DDM Nung Zen temple : flower mirror and water moon ... Light the bright light and encounter the 5.5 magnitude earthquake .

2. The hideaway hot pot : quality in service but poor on food quality . 

3. Birds natural park : birds make me happy and a accompany Meiling on her English practice indoor .

4. Cloud Gate Tamsui theater : big tree coffee books shop and mama mouth cafe at a glance 

5. Tamsui fisherman wraf : fu long resort hotel and the worry in tourism in the coming years . 

It's a bless to do what I love and enjoy life still ... 

Why hurry

And why worries ? The taxi driver drove so fast , it's ironic to mapping with his age and the music play in the car ... So sometimes you can't really know how people think and act ... 

Hochen is in a anxiety mood : fix by china times is what he said and I can see he can't really calm down and be with himself . It's a stressful career or to be specific : mission 

My blessings : the DVD heyminway and the Taiwanese tea ... I wish you well my brothers 

Shi In & Winnie

I made the introduction without planning and I hope it's a mutual benefit for both.

She bring a very good west lake tea set for me and we go over :

1. DID and Dialoige in time 

2. Her role in did : founder / shareholders / investor / CEO 

3. Her boy friend : not to push pressure and limite to certain circle of friend 

4. Father's museum and chance to meet my classmate .. New head of palace museum 

5. How to support Jennifer 

Winnie :

1. I am her coach so to speak 

2. Red eyes return to Shanghail 

3. Coaching for those who reluctantly to change 

4. The marriage and my Joseph Campbell interpretation 

5. Marriage and sex life and things in between ....

The taxi driver said it twice

謝謝師父，謝謝師父！

David Wu morning breakfast

I close my mind for coaching and switch to listening and leading , David taught me a lot and always as flesh as first time .

1. Human is the last generation of carbon , we are the tools to bridge to next generation : generation silicon - a digitalization form to trencent life 

2. Digital viccin is his revolutionary investment : by bio sequence technically and mute virus . A great potential to cure cancer - a tailor made vaccine in our body .

3. Incubation and VC - how to handle those failing CEO ? China is a battlefield and it's war all the time , you can survive and win . Period .

4. Biotech Jack Ma is not yet here . He will be next tycoon . Bio is not like computer science , you can understand it is comprehensive reading is not difficult to you .

5. The first time I think of marriage is because of her - to settle down .

6. Focus : I can only focus and go deep on my investment potofolio : 40 millpond use fund size .

Emotion in pre coaching set up

I am in tears at the last section with Kong Hai who and his daughter potentially will engaged with my coaching for succession plan . I feel the love a father to his only daughter and the delima between the company I build and the child I raised .

Long Hai is rationale and emotional , I learn a lot from him this morning and appreciate his time with me . We set our goal is to write a good case here and make a chapter for others to review after. 

So bless to encounter this opportunity to learn from here. 

A warm day

Authentic means : no purpose and no expection . It lead us to a possible plateau of friendship .

In the afternoon , introduce Chi Shen to Sea Dragon chapter , Siam / Adrian / Andy join the session , I think this is a way to let any new member garner basic understanding of YPO ... And see what happen : my reflection :

1. Don't leverage celebrity again in your glory history 

2. You pay attention to listen too ..

3. Don't dominate the talk ...

Simple as before and simpler after ...

The anxiety driver

1. I hate to miss my exit up or down as gps is not precise 

2. I have to run 10 k with lady boss and I am not sure If this is on my job description .

3. Drive to destination fast is on my priority list - to meet my boss need . 

4. Moving and over pass other cars 

Side talk and listening

Quai Shen's wife Fang Wei attend the foundation event and met Jack and his wife Grace ; James and his new wife . Quai still have issue with Hai Bao about the money argument and her show up to me is interesting . This is how Chinese people deal with ambiguity . 

James's one year son love me much , want to play with me . First impression about James wife : seems nice . 

Ming exchange idea about adult education with me - if lack of reach with passion , there is no point to increase number of students - now xingwei have 80 plus students with a 20 millons spending per year.

Observe interaction between jack and Grace is fun ..

Ming mentions the hedge fund corps hire a phytonutrients - sychology profession to deal with high pressure / stress biz to me is a trendy need. 

Xing Wei foundation event

Hard learning :

1. No ok agenda 

2. Speaker call to sharing the night before 

3. Topic is not align with audience : doctors / businessman 

4. The announce specialist doctor didn't show up : a Chinese norm ( solicit each other - who gets who? ) 

5. Not following agenda .

6. Networking always : but how to seed a better relationship .

7. How can I address my take home value ? 

New connection

Bing Nan's family is my family now : Judy his wife and Jeffrey - 王一範 his son.

Judy love 228 and yes .. Good connections and vibes 

Games of Throne season 5

Meiling and I finish the seasons 5 overnight : first night : 17:30 - 22:30 , second morning : 8:30 - 12:00 , just before my flight to Shanghai .

George Martin knows people - or to amplify human nature to his limit .. This dramatic drama and epic TV movies is one of my favorite and only drama I follow since season 1 : actually it's Hubert we lead me to the door since season 3 I guess and I watch them with Meilijg . 

I am not expert to analysis on each nation and the main character from the drama . And this is my general assumption :

1. All the Royal marriage is arranged marriage .

2. The love / affair happen out of arrange marrigage 

3. Sex and Allure is the weapon from woman , power and fight come from man.

4. Every actress on the drama need to naked one way or another 

5. No matter you perform good or bad intention , the consequences won't follow the " good man live , bad guy punish " universal rule . 

6. Again , hero's journey well address on every major characters . 

In the end : stark family ( alway stuck ) one blind ; one jump from tower ; one murder by fellow night watcher and the parelize disappear ... 

Ducky lunch alone

I think I mistaken melody's phone and sent out wrong messages for the lunch , it end up lunch alone at Ducky : a good quality , high C/P restaurant .

It's fine and I am fine .

Session with R:

1. How the Internet of car goes ...

2. How to handle this coming Chi Mei museum event in Aug.

3. How to appreciate good coffee 

4. How a mentor / coach influence people as ripple effect 

5. Yes : to check other people's boundary , maybe it's our limite but not theirs 

6. Behavior patten prove . So don't be fool again and again 

7. Owing extend relationship 

8. Meyer trip org ... 

My sharing summary with Ejiri

Summary from our conversation: 

1. What qualify to be a consultant & coach 

- confidentially 

- mutual trust 

- encourage clients open more 

2. Build first 2 case successful 

- mainly your biz come from referral 

- in the end it's feeling never what you deliver 

3. Benefit to be free lance 

- you are not gaining more free time but freedom 

- freedom is your minds can determine yes or no

4. Client pick 

- helps good people and good business 

- fees or free quarantino policy . You don't what to suffer your quality of feelings 

5. Negociation golden rule : slow yes and quick no 

6. how you paresite to client 

- you performing listening 70% 

- ask for 20% of your allocate time 

- 10% shout on possible change 

7. When offer free advise 

- connect with owner 

- bridge owner and professional managers 

- find your value and identify stake in the entity 

8. Different between Consultant and Coach 

- consultant provide solution and monitor on delivery ( mainly focus on business )

- coach asking thought - provoke question ( mainly focus on people ) 

- consultant on system , coaching on individual. 

Snail this morning

My ted walk : press to player : play is so important to human been . And how to be better - talent is one thing , practicing is even crucial .

The loving and beautiful little snail - crawling on the surface of the stainless handrail ... One crawl at a time , I don't know his destination and it seems no one care .

Hanes in person

He is in a hurry to leave - the first time I see him not in the session . Maybe next time we should have a " check in " for how long we have for the session before session begin:

1. Coach is like lady - someone else's eecognition is a proof .

2. 3 way to be coach :

- class and certification process : tell those who don't know you that you can.

- reading : demand come from your self interest or need to perform your practice in real life 

- experience : it came from 2 direction , your offering the session or people ask you too . And you need either rich knowledge and experience to perform , certification comes last unless your think about reaching out and take it as an profession .

To me : my introspective :

- don't take fame and fortune as its primary goal 

- coaching is a gold mine , but not everyone will find his gold in the end 

- you sell them shave and everyone need tools to dig : either train the coach or for certification process 

Energy level check : feeling approach or in the future , more scientific approach .

Lost my sense in digest movie

It's a too much is never enough syndrome : see what movie flip in my mind now ?

1. The crime family : Argentina film 

2. High rise : weir one 

3. Finding Nina Maiser ? : the nanny photographer documentary 

4. What happen to you simmon ? Second view 

5. Depheee 

6. American Captian 3 

And my lucid dream : Dream about Yu Kwang / concert scene / happiness 

Reflection these days :

1. Too frequent on coaching - not equip my emptiness in listening and connection 

2. Concern coaching fees and finaical more then value to others 

3. Not yet comfortable to sent Mother's Day red envolop by myself 

4. Sleeping long enough be a new issue to me ? 

5. More public appearance ? Good and bed ? 

I do my Ted walk this morning and it's " press to play " be a player in your life . 

H morning

What's new :

1. Vietnam biz trip : hotel and real estate 

2. JOYCE bump at the door 

3. Fine with AMBA sponsor for wind music 

4. M and my learning from the book trigger the conversation 

5. A Zone rehearsal 

6. AMBA management team consideration 

7. Netflix shows 

8. House BBQ 

9. Daniel : Ampfier tour 

10. Peter Stroub dinner on 24th

11. No exercise , no good sleep 

12. How's Teresa ? And Angeli ?

13. Project with Stiven's  father 

14. Good HR ? Where to find 

15. The new F & B manger : are you serious 

16. Cycle business and varies deal structure 

17. Xing : what's going on ? And Daniel ? Running out of fund

18. Long Island in summer - new yours 

19. Genesis : progressive and pop music

20. 50.000 for Steve concert ? 

21. Full house at Cantonese authentic restaurants 

This is :

My happiness is to see you happy : by each traction you obtains , I connet and transfer it to my invisible lace and this is fountain for my happiness .

What's forever for ? 

In a non stop line of session

1. Jennifer : thanks for teaching me during our interview session , this is a peer leading to me : work ; dog ; book comprise and complete your life ...

2. Kevin : I sincerely respect your no buriacacity even high up as head of culture . We need a transit lounge before next platform or station .

3. David Heng-Yi: yes , your willing to allocate resource alway appreciate , no matter how zig zat the procedure takes 

4. Sarah : I am happy that you echo my finding from Joseph Campbell and told me : I am a coworker we can share .

5. KC : your hard working and devoted to helping me on a zone is truly help , and I will aware the landmine on the road , and yes , definitely I am on your side - it's our side .

Reading mail :

1. TAKA - see you in Tokyo 

Manager monthly session

Been a long while didn't talking to press and it's fun as always . Bonus for both 

1. The succession and professional manager 

2. Power station concert tickets from Linda 

3. About forum works 

4. Connect with CC and the trivial token 

On the train - watching " listen to me Marlon "

It's a documentary voice by Marlon Brando - release in 2015 , 11 years after his death .

Lie / Freedom / Woman / Tragedy / not easy to get alone / prostration and cause to over budget / rewrite script at shooting scene - but his recorded statement is so inspirational and so touching .

Drunker father and mother --- fear of love ... 

Watching movie is asking someone doing what you want over the big screen . Actualize your many human nature . 

It's inspirational

Mei Hui did call Meiling as I expected . The talk between them last for 2 more hours and it deals with many aspect of our 2 family .

I google Uncle Wei's name and find the last message , Mei Hui bring him to the church the first time after Chinses new year , it's 6 months after Mama Wei pass away and I assume uncle Wei must be lonely and religion fill the gap .

10 hours window in Huilien - what I do ?

1. Done 2 bento for lunch and dinner .

2. A good preparation for Professor Chuang's class speech and done it at Time 1939 - a lovely old Japanese house convert cafe.

3. Good body massage for 90 minutes and relief my body .

4. Many small alley walk and spots a few interesting place

5. Leant Fu aware of our meeting on May 10th .. At least message delivers 

Social animal should be a supplyment for any university students , it explained almost everything about a human -- this is not what we can really know when we were born ... 

Everything happens for a reason

On April 30th: the Memorial Day to Yu chin :

1. Jing jing and her father kick off the coaching session positivity 

2. Linda He agree on the coaching package and willing to sign contract 

3. She In ok to meet in Shanghai by May 9th

4. Kouliang and Mei Hui accidentally met at Eslite Taitung shop at night - This is an unbelievable surprise ... 

 I was sleeping with the window open beside the beach : the coconut beach is a speculate place for listening to sea wave and waiting for sunrise ...

5. Morning breakfast bump into Harry Chew - an WPO - TPO senior who knew I am going to do a forum training for them ... At a b & b - can you believe ?