National Development Class 7 reunion

Due to cancel of YPO BJ training , I manage to attend dinner tonight - it's a civil congrass to me : we come from education ; industry ; government; soe  & NGO , if consensus can't be reached , the you can image how the country looks liked.

 I enjoy the talk - everyone update and you open your ear and heart to experience the real taiwan . It's a good education session. 

 Personally , I greet president Ger from long haw tech university who support fruit last year. 

Edge of tomorrow

Its rains like someone pouring water on your rooftop : I can't move anywhere after " edge of tomorrow " - I like the film and I quote this " there's no courage without fear " to echo my coming 5 ZH school teams establishment workshop .

  Fruit hurt me a while ago which lead me to go to movie in steer working on my ppt still - no sense in why she don't perform her responsibly and try to save some money for us ? 

  About the movie : why alien attack earth were all bad and mean creator ? Why it's only ET be friend with human beings ? Are human hate ourselves and always seek a dramatic way to end it ? Like movie , cult religion or science fiction novles ? 

 Yesterday go to hot spring at wu Lai with Meilijg : I take less than 10 minutes hot spring and do :

1) my ZH rationale book and script 

2) a long conversion with Yuang Chun and chun Yi 

3) answer 2 calls : one from ministry of culture and received minster's performance books for last 2 years 

One from ken who asked me to be his referral as he apply job at world vision now : it doesn't make sense to have candidate provide referral names , who will speak bad if your friend is workings on something ? 

4) go to tamsui and taste new restaurant eecomended by Joseph : nice but a little expensive and so many masquiyo which kill all my appetize. 

5) early bad at living room coach for 3 hours and result to late at real bad around 2 in the morning 

6) Yi Hwa's mom help my income tax application - I need to pay extra 200.000 for year 2013 - for this poor performance administration ? 

The heavy rain don't seem to stop any minutes . I am stuck in front of the movie theater - try another one ? Or it's a wasting of time ? 

About today

Non stop message is to comfort the person and it works - l bless and wish the person well.

YPO BJ call the last minutes cancel my trip tomorrow - it easy my stress to extend my roadshow and perform beyond my capacity - they felt regret and I get more air for next 3 days 

Coaching with J & D - the " house of cards " local version and -- I share my " cross line " experience with both : I do hope both of them understand .

Went for the " bad neighbor " not as good as expected - just anothe entertainment film . 

Reflective :

1. Radish club means serious when check the CI 

2. J is a smart quick learner and knows holland well 

3. Guy Kawasaki " reality check " is a bed side bible to me - you won't regret for reading his works

4. Chen lock : do I need to believe in others or my inner voice ?

5. Delima : should I pay him for soda green favor ?

6. Talent leap : the more we check the clear I am exciting 

It's over period

It's been 3 years and the on & off switch come in fast pace . The argument this morning prove that it ain't work - it will only getting worst .

So , it's completely over - and I am going to get it over as quick as possible . 

No regret and no worries --- never complain now. 

Family issue

Fight with sound - for his unreasonable asking for leave from school - I stay put with my principal with a no - emotional , may a lit bit but I should not take his attitudes not to respect father as father and mother as mother . Cool or silence cold isn't bad always - he should learn how to follow student displiine and respect elders - the death prison bite off his mother's nipple is always a lesson to remind .

A Team workshop is good - I have make it another module - thanks for the trust from Frank and Angeli.

 Since we can choose - so I make up a not to go to SH decison this morning - I don't have the mood to do it now and would like to buy myself a better breath before long trip next week to China.

Hubert interest in Oliver Oil - he interest in many thing - from the " if you really know me - you open and he take it " similar to house of cards - you open and you get arrested by others .

Bird nest meeting go as usual - improve the meeting but not the result .

Max Chen have breakfasts with me this morning - echo to my knowledge from him - job seeking and referral - a whilstle blower -- if you doesn't contact but meet to ask help - you won't get any fair response .

Da Nang retreat : central Vietnam

Not if I saw Nan Hai resort and Inter-Continental peninsula resorts , I won't image the communist country will sustain . It's been rebuilt to a land no one afford to destroy - too many interest party and too much power involvement .

 I was landing at Saigon in the middle of anti-China demonstration - taiwan as skape goat result to an unimaginable and uncontrolled riot and looting - even on the date of my departure - all my friend warm me not to take the trip - dose forum so important ? Greater than life ? Of course not , but I knew my brother in Vietnam - Thien will take good care of me.

  First day in Saigon : very professional massage treatment before the authentic dinner with Thien's family - nice family , I am asked to be the mentor for his son - the soon to inherited 28 years old young man.

  A very early flight to da nang - Thien skip his golf and accompany me to some local taste - Mo Quien breakfast and see the market in da nang - Van is a great helper and personal assistant who throughout the trip been a great helper .

 The first afternoon meeting is simply - update and one " on the road " exercise - the energy level wasn't there and this is a P's return to forum trip .

  We book J9 at ocean villa for our retreat - beach front villa with 5 rooms . Good place to come retreat with family : Becker we we're introduce to nan hai and inter- continental . 

 Second day the energy come even lower  - we are entering the storming stage after forming for 2 years . The conflict and self - ego grows on many forum mate - I don't see it as a challenges but opportunity to see ourselves better .

 As incoming moderator - challenges stayed.

 Take away from da nang :

1. Hui Ano - UNESCO heritage village worth visit .

2. Central Vietnam food indulge my appetite .

3. I should make myself available to inter-continental peninsula resort da nang one day .

4. The itimacy with Vietnam brother Thien grows 

5. Bao is cute - really cute 

6. TM do have his own observation and he is a very talent professional who deserve a better platform .

A relax and retreat - my energy level is mild and over eating - lack of executor bring down my energy - will and way...

A non liner day

1⃣Morning warning : Vietnam riot and the sentiment of anti-Chinese looting . My plan to Vietnam tomorrow and Thien's don't worry .....

2⃣Stiven Peng : the impression about Prague University and my continue work / couching with James ( another blessing 

3⃣Jay and Kevin lunch : good to be connected and the coincident to sit at both board .. Nan chun mama and Steve Vai project ...

4⃣ Angeli : from heaven ( Bhutan ) to hell ( Nepal ) and her struggle on the road - a good reflection to Fruit 

5⃣ regain fruit : never push her out 

6⃣ Hubert session : connecting the doc and make ZH stay a memoriable take away . 

Do I have room for movie tonight ? I should . 

Fruit : developing story

Thank God I call her back home : with a distance . I share how I feel about her drop out of school again and again , how she not able to appreciate parent earning for supporting family and advise if not finished this school term , it won't be any " ok " job ready for her ..

She didn't get emotional - a progress indeed --- we don't really talk heart to heart .

This morning : she said she will intimately finish school and won't cry for oversee trip to comfort her lost or love --with mild tough , I can't tell it's a change or compromise .

Receive her sweet and apology message - at least she is in the " reflective " mood , another good improvmebt should be  recognized . 

I love my daughter and won't give her up -- same as to Sound.

Very bad night

Sound said she will walk out of home and  never be home - I call her up and ask her to come back - with no money and no Id - there is no place she can stay .

No matter how bad she did to me , I can never ever push my daughter out of our door ...

A very bad night . 

Change and reflective

My second run for " ZH EC forum " went pretty well - a tailor make program and a deepening connection with personalize card make the difference .

I appreciate bobo introduce Liu Chen and master Ah Chung to me -- with so many memories . It enrich my life .

  Yuang Chang and Chun Yi are so delicacy . Follow me to hungchu - lunch . After lunch and to the airport gate : it seems the ZH privat tutor program came to alive again - It will ultimate change my time and life and it ignite something I don't think I have before : how to turn my coaching & facilitation passion to a higher ground ? 

 Spirox officially nominate me to be the " compensation member " and " Independant board of director " the join dinner were so good - you sit around people who co-create the positive energy and the vibration is so powerful - I coin it the 3rd revolution - internet - logistics net and now people net .

 It's nice to re-connect after one more month --- this is my fate - admit ands face it .

 What make my blue? The initative idea of having fruit take care of her mother and arrang the japan trip - change to Meilijg comfort fruit trip to heal her break up with boy friend again and then another ugly family war rose - how come all the good intention turn to wrong direction .

 SEE and SOW should not be so difficult to work hand in hand -- I don't know how to coordinator it .

The morning interview is strange to me : if SOW see the candidate is a talent to handle SEE project , I don't have a crue why .. If I am to deliver a final decison . I will say : let's leave this opportunity to younger one . 

My reflecting : " how bad you want it = how god you will be " 

Nicholas Fun : Fan and the book

I was truly inspired when reading his book last year and secure time for this " shinyi lecture house " in person speech .

He is an honest speaker to himself and I texted to the audience .

I do mark 15 points for either mistake I should not make or brilliant point I can used at the back of my " ZH EC forum " slides print out , 

Buy another 4 books for my suvenier tomorrow with Nicholas's autograph and exchange name card -- I only asked if one day I can listen to his speech in English .. 

The session tighten my muscle for my performance on Sunday --- must be a beautiful Sunday .

Nicholas read the last episode in memories of his mother - sing " winds beneath the wings " as prayer for audience . Sticky ending 

I feel so sad when hearing it

Fruit called and asked if she can invite colleage friend come for a talk with her at home ? 

My answer is : yes but Instinctly I felt something wrong and asked 

1. What's wrong with you? ( I should use - what happen to you ? )

She said : she break up with her boy friend - the 3rd time or more ... How can I do more to support her or comforts her .., she need a shoulder I know 

The story for ec second module

1. What's the road ahead ?

2. Which road we should take ?

3. Who lead the way and the company we choose ?

4. On the road : bump or not ?

5. Metaphors : road you were on one month before 

6. Life walk : what impact you the most and what inspire you ? What tigger and how to change the future you see 

Lost for 2 days

The no reflection and introspective life is not life -- my blogged vancant for 2 days and it shows I am somewhere lost for 2 days.

And the increase of my weight signify my non displiine life there days -- 

Interview in many yeses

Asked to act as " frequent visitor " for Ambassador Hotel and taking interview on " travel and leisure " managzine China 

I am dress up , I am a feequece visitor but not a customer -- anyway . I did it and it seems my background cause their intention / interesting ?

Why I like it ? A habit lead snd a generation by generation behavior . How can my forum / coach role raise more conversation ? And why music is a metaphor / language to facilitate our conversation ?

Tina said it was so great and my way of delver - leading concreting really make it difference - yes . If every one interpreter and giving meaning to a positive / brighter approach - the world must be different ... 

Sarah and Maggie

We met for lunch : 2 of my fomal sony music colleage one in change of mandarin pop and the other for international - not if Katherine's internship we won't meet so quickly -- even thought  Sarah and I have not see each other for 6 years .

We talk about family and kids - Sarah don't have her own . Maggie have a son study overseas -- 

Thanks god I come up with the second module " on the road ; almost there " without a key exercise , it would be only the " SLOGAN " - LIFE WALK is the key element to complete the module - I am going to craft the exercise and turn it to a powerful itimacy and sharing program :

Music / Video / Story / Writing / Acting -- combine 5 senses .

Director Lee asked for help - the Joanna song and the new movies -- on top of that is " episode 2 - attabu " 

Wait at David's office - Watson Capital -- new customer approach .. See what happen .

I do spend 2 hours at the comic book public library - another good memory : always try new things 

AJ called and I don't think " documentary film " is good for my career "

Different Monday

It's not a blue Monday but a different Monday - Meilijg yell at Sound last night and the qureel didn't end until one in the morning :

1. This is due to irresponsibility of Sound : not perform what a students behavior - take bath every day with long and addictive bath . And more , when parent asked him to change this bad habit . He only acknowledge but getting worst . This is how it happens 

2. Meilijg blames it to all : which is not a mature way : if any wrong doing from sound , she will immediately walk away . She even said it to fruits at one o'clock today - for fruit . This is nothing she can do .

3. I am OK : how can I double or weighty it to blame our own child - not to mentions I caught a cold after masagr the day before - the blind master saw me fall asleep simply walk out the private room with the air condition on - at least I deserve a blanket . I took so many rests made cold medicine today .

This morning - I woke up as usual - 6:10 Meilijg only do breakfast but not bring sound to mrt station - stick on her principal - set on the living room coach - with big rain . I only saw him walk out the door 

4. I got up for all the administrator work :

- find a student study center near by taipei railway station - book morning section from 8:30 - 12:30 for 2 seats private cubic - 135 NT . No interruption unless you want to create noise yourself 

- recreation after 1:00 pm

- ate the " flat duck " noodle 

- buy sound his favorite " double talk " CD

- replace my bank card

- having coffee and organized my coming zh ec forum 

- call fruit and buy dinner back home

Not feeling well still .... What a day - a red Monday . 

Find / identify customer to improve yourself

Regent give me strength to grow , the challenge and constant practice perfect my forum skill apply to corporate .

Transglobe / Ambassador require less my efforts to challenge and growth .

I will find another tough customer to give me growth energy. And to sharpen my saw...

Julia Peng " home returning concert ks " my first experience attend concert in ks / with Eric : Fucling ; daniel ... An interesting day .

Josephe's wife share with me shelin development : the first 8 years happiness and the latest 8 years suffering : H is in great danger - he is not aware it and not even wish to face it ... How can I do it? As a close friend and as a consultant .  

Hubert and Ko Chi Taichung trip

I don't know why I bought the wrong date for our trip today - I bought 3 HSR tickets from TAIPEI to Taichung on May 1st - yesterday and didn't aware it until we been reject at the entry gate - thanks to Josephe who accompany us to Taichung and tied to reclaimed my used ticket ... How come i am so not pay attention to ... I bought another 3 tickets and catch the same car ...

H is less patience - we stop at ok yung eye clinic and stayed for 5 minutes then move to the ice cream building ( the old 4th trust corporations ) if we didn't sit for the ice cream - we might ended our tour in another 5 minutes 

Mr. Chang run a gallery at home - rented home and prepare  delicious lunch for us - h ate 3 bowl of the vege rice .. 

After the lunch / we take a walk to the seclay market snd enjoy a berry different coffee - 200 per cup wasn't cheap - we love the ambience there before going up the almond tea house.

It's a trip with no purpose --- thanks to Ko Chi and we had good time there