Connect with Doug

I resonate his mail last night and leant the message of : ball on your hand , feel free to connect or not ...

I arrive W on time and we began with Steve Vai event - Doug had dinner with David Lin last night and visit TransGlobe while Stiven was unavailable - Doug in Impact - SEN networks and we exchange about Steve's " Seeing the invisible " concept and Doug told me Nobert had dinner with him before flying over here in Taiwan for Steve Program - what a small world - you can only be transparent - this is prerequisite to trust and then comes 4 leyer of trust : give / exchange / overtime / beneficial mutually.

 Steve Vai send a " I want to donate " mail - how touching and I really don't know what to do ? Maybe and its maybe - I have to continue what I begin with " master for minor "

Busy this and that ?

  Bump into yo yo at regent elevator entrance - we had a 2 minutes update . Speed and sweet , he know who I am but I know it will be difficult for him to see me these 2 days - but I am happy now ..

It's like AT&T : American this and that - I can fooling around all day by little trivial thing and can't really focus on prepare my " Macau supercharge " if centering is what people need , I need it as well . Keep quite Sunday to work on my scrip for the " all male spouse forum "

  Invite inf mayor Ko is not a good idea as it bring me tons of trivial things - dealing with it wasn't my expertise and it really wasting my life .

 Lucky to have Charles Lin / Daniel Yang donate 48 red and 32 white wines for coming CFF retreat - what I need now is to encourage more hosting member for CFF - not at easy as I expected 

  Good A Cut lunch with Kim - no one is Evil and I am favor people born with compassion - good heart . Sharing and connection make thing turn around .

 Jean told me many personal thing , I am listening like a coach : marriage / family / intimacy and children . At least this time we have a solid plan - for the magic house locate at A Zone permenteely . It take more teamwork and framework to make it happen , I know it's good and I am aiming to a triple win scenario 

  Non stop 4th day climbing - mind wondering a bit but not as yesterday . Post my " check in - buy in - all in " breathe and breathe message on fb - secrets code 

  Seeding Berlin and Bully quarrel over the social media - why and this is not commission -- 

Pedo and Peter

Taking my dentist clinic and found out Peter develop a terrible scenario - money issue with ro Roltary Club and with Pedo too ... This is another story . Should I ask more or let go ..?

Lunch with Aidan / Patrick

What about Aidan :

3 camels from Dubai names : orange ; banana and lemon 

We will date next time at land mark for ice cream 

Patrick is kind to sponsor lunch for CFF on Dec. 4th

Yi Ren for body change and the sugery going on Nov. 18 

Interest in personal coaching - one on one forum as him quotes .

Macau is an ongoing thing - bless to be better .

Morning mountaineer and snail

I picture snail on my way to the mountain peak - only the sizes difference , they alway climbe along the concrete stairs - slowly and gentely .

Slow is a bias word and I am mind wondering these days - even through I done my climbing the 3rd day .

  Norm's response remind me the imperfect mail send by Jeremy do cause confusion among CFF community , I am planning to obsorb it and hopefully find a sponsor to do it together .

  Ask Meilijg support my mentally on the initiative I take these days - I need someone to share my emotion without hurting others - I hope she will understand.

 A good night note to Sound last night, it should not be a silent break during his study days .

  Fruit always - no exception ask for kitty money on time . Her devote go Mai Zen and come home after midnight wasn't right . How can I correct her the cult is not really benefit to her ? 

  Can Do , Will do , no yet complete the " no invented resecue " statement . Should do it today . 

  Preparing to die is a lesson everyone should take but only a few willing to .. Am I ready for the class ?

Nice cafe and lousy day

-Le weback is a nice cafe , so I skip the study room and dive in , it turn out doing little thing .

-David Du is too last minute - send him sign cd and for both Michael / David 

-DDM can't accommodate visit on first week of Dec. no Cham for zen - replacement is a headache for me .

- wondering around - mind wondering less 30% of your happiness - learn it from TED radio hour this morning - done my mountaineering the 2nd day .

- Major office is so so buracricy - really . I am not sure if they take phone recoding . A perfect match with YPO ca -- I am complainting now 

- the last witch hunter : I am not there ,a typical mind wondering 

- lick happy : 10% wondering accordion to the tracing your happiness result 

Monday staff

1. Doctor chen : thanks you and I will pick up exercise 

2. Lunch at the chicken house : at least a make up for me.

3. Movie : the Italian journalist bio story : love is so stronger and yes 

- tell the truth , it hurts but it cure.

4. Let Meilijg enjoy her spa night : I am working on the CFF itinerary .

Last weekend

1.Sound and Meilijg went on a quarrel and the ending is no talking .

The night before we went to " black mass " all together and talks about white and his senetor brothers and if change the role - who will be who ? 

2. Update with Daniel at a close by cafe - guess what ? Bump into jerry gin . Another surprise , Daniel is so kind to let me do all decision on my own .. A true brother .

Do it differently and do it right

What's wrong for being right ?

My takes away today :

1. I did exercise which follow doctor's order yesterday - sweat a bit and stretch a bit . 

2. On the road : I hear Evelyn taking about hand drums - beautiful sound 

3. Steve Vai call without asking : a partner for better world ? Seeing the invisible partner to the world - this is so unique and I am going to donate myself - or win an Nobel prize ? 

4. Thank you Ming : I am not out of the world yet so have to decline the invitation to Xing Wei at this moment .

5. Abandon invented rescue : take back the decleartion form , I will fill it up tonight 

6. Lunch at W : SEE no evil , why leave ? Ask Charles : I should bring back to normal life and support family - if you need my service , yes , let's make an appointment .

7. Hubert session : reluctant to hotel , hyper in other business and struggle with same old issues - we need to restructure our deal in business and personal development .

8. Kim : settle with peace , and I am inviting him for good lunch on Friday .

9. CFF meeting with KC and Angeles : it seems my rough itinerary get things going now .

Ming Chi

I didn't know I am the few who met Chung's wife Yang Mei Mei before . And I am the 4 who come done to Tainai attends her funul ceremony .

It's a very heavy ceremony , Chung cried and not weep , I only only use one word to describe it " Grief "  they play her life in slide show and Chung wrote her wife such a touching farewell letter , it ended this way : " how far we can go , we take it as forever " 「能走多遠，就是永遠。」it's too heavy for everyone at the ceremony , emotion flows and no one can escape from this emotional wave , I cried so many times , when time to perform incent and greeting family.  I hug him so deeply , hold him so tight and I wisper to Chung " this is forever , it's forever " 

 Slide show at ceremony tell the story to those who is not familiar to the main character - we see it at birthday , at wedding and at funeral . Yang and Chung met at the age of 17 and got married 12 years later ... Lost your best love is heavy 

 My learning from this unusual ceremony is :

1. If I leave before Meiling : don't do this , it's too heavy for me and others - just a few friends talking and playing music

2. If Meilijg leave before me : I will share my love to her privately , I can't stand to show the world my vulnability .

3. Not the funeral house event - it's too cold 

 What happened after the ceremony ? On our way back to Taipei , on the HSR , I saw wedding bride and groun taking HSR to Taipei , and so so amazing , I am sitting at 8 cart number 8E , they are at 7E - I greet them with a " congratulation " before taking my seats , there must be another slide show to tell their story tonight , one day in a life - what I profound day in my life .. 

Fan Yu

Meilijg and I decided to lent her 100.000 and we don't expect the money to return - we knew each other for more than 3 decades but to be honest , we hardly knew each other well.

I try to open her heart at lunch and to dilute her anxiety - learn she have no money at all , negociate debt with bank and screw up a so call " dream project " funded by one of a friend : for this , it is difficult for her to disclose and I can't force her as well - it only come back to me where our 100,000 is a support or damage to her current situation .

 As know she need 50.000 as mostly living need , our gesture many support her for next 3 months , I told fan this is the fund to bring back her confidence , to what she good at and win many other relevant income to support her in the future .

 A seed have no right to complain a our hard land ; a talent have no say to challenge ... Who send me here ? God ? Or course not - it's Meilijg , she is the Angel - and God abandon you ? No , God helps those who helps others ...

 She is so anxiety , so lost of confidence and so confuse about her future ... We account for our own living and should be posively gaining what we need. 

We dealt it

Before lunch - Meilijg send me a reminding message - don't be emotional , I didn't and so CFF win Angeli's friendship support as well , I only share with her why YPO mentions so many times at our event .

Yu Ping really play downgrade no matter she told us this is her first time to deliver hardship to Kim ( or any person ) in more than a decade and she's been calculated the damage might done to her ( but not include us ... ) I didn't debate on that , but I did 2 things :

1. Share with all the role YPO did for support Steve's trip 

2. We do have key stakeholders in the chat room and received this accused message .

Good part : Royce have someone play the notes Steve wrote on the backboard of our event - this is so beautiful - so beautiful .

I bough the book " ethical intelligence " at Eslite books this afternoon and it is the reflection of what we suffered .

A wonderful intimacy with Meilijg yesterday

The things at talents fly really bothers us , I marks it below :

Business : do the right thing good 

Charity: do the good thing right 

So I am really trapped in what I want to do good - Meilijg said it perfectly: the easiest way to perform your charity is to donate money , the means in perform it is so complicate , so get yourself rich and then donate it , not to perform it.

  So after my reconcile at the Dao Temple , I decided to go to movie with her " no escape " and we went bed so early last night and had a good intimacy before falling asleep .

 Woke up by 3:30 am - seems the good cause bothered me still , self reflect and remind myself for the meeting and lunch today : no emotions / no upset and no complain, only listen and accept - I surrender . 

TransGlobe tour

I didn't know there is no session today , Jason reply with a YES , do I am here :

1. There is no rule but one rule with the owner - go with the flow but SOP

2. If caught in between , find yourself a partner to engaged and support you 

3. Surrender to the earth , There is rule of nature you just don't against it.

 Call chi chi and find the chance to

1. Obtain expectation for 13th workshop 

2. Knowing to obtain comment from Jason also 

3. Understand coach might not works for Joseph but to others perhaps 

4. A tour to employee space on 17th floor and customers space on 4th .

  This is so so unique 

This is kind of weird

From zen to rocking roll is a huge success and talents fly deliver its Virgin program well - but why it lead to a breakup of the association ? 

I can't figure I it out but to accept it - yes , I surrender . 

我們不行的

未必別人不能、不行、不願。

難：

工作：把對的事做好。

公益：把好的事做對。

如果工作是公益=難上加難。

Steve Vai event day

1. DDM 

- Heng Yi is a great guide 

- Chang Chi smile but voice so low 

- Guo Yuang really work on our body and mind - the zen exercises he lead 

- my moderation works and win mater Guo Yuang's authentic smile - about how I design and ask those questions 

- excellent lunch at DDM 

2. Cloud Gate :

- not smooth on back up guitar in the beginning 

- delay arrive of David Tao course a few problem 

But it went well as I am relax / calm and accordance 

- Mr. Lin deliver a touching Cloud Gate story 

- Duet " little wing " David T and Steve went well 

- showcase is a blow away - never mind those who can't stand the loudness 

- my closing moderate give a good ending and win Mr. Lin's warm greeting 

- dinner is a " fan party " even though the sign board is not set up , but everyone enjoy the evening with Steve 

⭕️ to improve 

- don't sent the cd artist disliked as gift 

- guard to your resource more observed 

- can be even relax if I can 

Steve in town day 1 & day 2

On 15th

- airport getting on event t-shirt 

- meet David Tao and lead to a " Vai academy " theme 

- event chairs lunch : good vibe with Heng Yi promo his cloth 

- hair shampoo spa - only in taiwan experience 

- E race car at TED with Royce 

- loving intimacy dinner with Loretta and chang Yi / Matthew 

On 16

- 7:00 morning messages 

- 9:00 breakfast brief with Norbert family 

- Matthew space cycle impress Vai and we need to schedule for Pia in the afternoon 

- master for minor judge discussion lunch and think about the grand surprise 

- sound check and you see a full show with power Steve delivered 

- feel a little bit uncomfortable about Terry's taken too much of Steve's air time 

- good welcome dinner and kick off 

- Steve Thank you cd and photo session is the highlight of dinner 

I am home now and think about my moderation role .... 

D-1 day

What I did :

- have Steve say thank you over the phone to all event committee 

- a message before boarding 

- massage and recreation 

- paper bag and pack for itinerary 

- sing tien Kuang taio temple worship 

- check the flight monitoring site 

- buy signatures pen 

- push cd to pack - space 

- Cha Cha : buy no stillness in motion 

- non stop communication with sophie / KC /,-Angeli 

- say no to discovery as I know it's a comuflag 

- buy duck tong for Meilijg - this is important . 

- driver talks : both 

Many to think and things

Sam Ng - from space chen and learn his passion in support cancer family by music - he will join us from HK 

Jason - new office and can't stop to spot how the chemistry goes with D. It's ok I say - we introduced H as well .

Taxi driver - nice talking to you about how to guide young man - your expericd experience about failure / find a still before be a businessmen 

Sound : like another lost kid now . What can we say ?

Eric Yu : good to connection and offer the potential work 

Jason lim : yes forum retreat comes alive 

Ken chen : see dragon - Alive again 

Kyoto: for this I don't know .

A few good movie for Chang Yi and Matthew : should be a good dinner tomorrow night 

Steve Vai planning and meeting

Yes , so many people behind this program and so many details have been taken into consideration simply for create a better experience. 

People connect people and people leverage people , sometimes a prestigious guest lead you to connect people you hardly can reach - this is a network effect and you better have a few good high impact friends in your circle - we are blessed to be treated as good friend and we offer others as well .

 It's 10 days dis connect and I can live with that . 

Shu chun crusine at ambassador hotel is truly good - a thanks you dinner ruin my on a diet plan. 

Gang of 4 for a day

The purpose is to support Sidney and it end up the old way : fun and taking this and that ... But we are lucky to be at Li yutang old house to Celebrate his 120 birthday - guild Chu play a good role and let us know more about Lin - his short stay in Taiwan and rich culture / linguistic influence to us .

 Follow another emba event - team made Ko's daughter marriage - having see him for years but I want to show my basic caring - so westin here I go.

 Classmates don't talk too much - Yu don't show sign of retirement and it echo what Ray shared - another issue. 

 David Tao's ask for more really bothers me - and this is relay by David Lin : if they achieve what they want but Heng Yi know I don't favor his request ? How to balance? It's hard for me to jog the balls .

How come an almost veteran rock star turn to celebrity to Taiwan and everyone want to take a cut on the resources ? I must figure it out .

One hour pre conference call

This is the image captures and we went or a good one hour even Steve mistaken the skype schedule but we manage to turn it right . In regard to what we go through this morning :

1. No 101 and joint YNG dinner 

2. Create slot for Royce and his racing car experience 

3. D Lin is not happy about the lunch on 16th when phophie push on menu confirmation,

 4. I am most temper when sophie didn't recall Royce won't take the train with us

5. David Lin tried to have David Tao's session another value for his Great Music 

6. Many who's who at the DDM weights 

7. Sam is so good at get thing done and no escape from take accountability.

8. David junior is good in budget control 

Simple life in Shanghai

1.Why I need to find an original version for every performers at simply life - does it make me look smart or make others look stupid ?

To point finger is much easier and I should always keep a heart of appreciation- don't be arrogant and don't try too hard to prove yourself .

2. Feng is losing patient when ask him to changed his driving plan - I have prepare a 500 rmb tip for him and end up paying him 800 - the different is due to the impatient bonus - Hubert can't stand at one place for more than one hours .

3. Gathering by 8:00 pm : a weir time for meeting and depart to Chang Sou , mini van driver Chang drove like crazy - he want to fulfill his promise to get us to Yu seng hotel by 9:30 pm.

4. Why May pay for our first night and sunny for following nights - this is a noodle trip and we should go Dutch 

5. I am a Cinderella - Hubert want to but he don't have someone to call to-- pity 

 Non stop working on talents fly trivial things : probably this is what I need to contribute - not only the money .. 

Le Suits Oriental

James and James

Wei is my 6677 brother , Meilijg ask me bring over a gold gift to congrats on his new born boy - James accept it and swiftly hide it in his pocket.

Chen who support me for 2 days car and driver - who told us at the dinner what he give the driver 10 days holiday before this assignment - favor to both party . They are both James.

Saw Eddie / Jack / Hank / Haibo and it's a wonderful dinner at old place - I should promise not to have stew pork any more.

 Go out to K with H and check his old friend , not a good person - I mean , in my value system this won't be a good fried to H. Money have no color and don't again ugly people donate money for you to do good -- yes , money have no discrimination.

 Le suit Oriental is a nice hotel I like in SH - I should make another trip with Meilijg someday .

 Stop doing the regular routine to W. It's  about To fade away ...

Documentary on Scientology

Begin from a mad man - develop by a ambitious person and promo by celebrities like John trovota ; Tom hanks

1. Writing and audition session like " life academy " visits and memo recording .

2. Bridge is not really bright but climbing up the step on ledder- you pay more 

3. Retaliation : for those who label as " Oppesoer "

4. Less member but grow financial power - buying property ...

 2 hours with good insight ... 

Figure it out - Chang Wei

Call with royce this morning and sense what David asked is a little bit too over from his viewpoints, so I am taking back the resource manager's role and change as below :

1. Move all event chairs greetings to lunch on Oct. 15th.

2. Secure time for my own private dinner with him and invite " Chang Yi " and Matthew only .

3. I am blessed that Chang and Matthew favor it and secure time for us.

 Woke up 5:00 am and me draft the preparation letter to Steve 

- to do and Taiwan 

- a rehearsal to year end CFF retreat .

 Matthew send movie trailer " Martian " although I am not a fan for astronauts theme movie , I decided to come 

 A deep nap from 12:30-15:30 feel great now 

SEE bye bye

Stevin : coach and coach

--Out last 20 minutes session is to play table tennis together - by his request and it make him happy - I haven't pick my racket for years , it's fun for me too.

Key message " I love my wife " and it explained all - no argument and not a debate session .

-- visit his house the first time , it's a kind invitation , basket ball / bedminton / ping pong / shower - where you can find it ?

  Finally deliver my bye bye to SEE - it's interesting to have Wang She / Feng Ren witness my official resignation - no hard feelings .

 Busy in doing Steve event - need to translate event chairs message - good exercise.

 Where Steve Vai will be and should present on Oct.15 bothering me - I see the selfish and personal agenda surface - this is human nature - see I can do the right things .

J coaching

My take away :

1. Almost everyone have a heart of change , but it become difficult when it come to executions .

2. Family biz takes biz as extended family - are you favor in becoming a family member ? Good and bed.

3. Slow Yes and Quick No on any negotiations.

4. Transparent is the prerequisite of Trust - disclosed and giving first is the sign of engagement mutual trust 

5. How you read it ? 

6. Owners don't have the capacity and capability to know all the business , do instead they try to understand people who run / know the business . 

7. Begin from stregetic viewpoint before organization change .

8. 2 ways to show tour accountability:

- resign or 

- insist to take full consequences.

9. Caught in between is a chain reactions, from the top and you will hold the threshold as well. 

10. Prove your professionalism by asking right question and following questions . Other will learn from the session .

11. Return favor by invite to a causal session - you play a equal role is build the bond 

Hole in my forehead

Why and wow 

CFF retreat committee call

If not from Manju's reminder , I don't know how the call this morning will turn out -

- I draft an agenda last night 

- Sarah chip in with contribution on tech and others 

- I did a rough time table and illustrated program event and socials 

- I browse the potential yet sign up 

- I take the lead to the call 

Maybe I am suppose to be PUSH for good ? How about the book with Ceaser ? Dialogue  and conversations seems to be a good method , but I don't feel comfortable to say what I am not act thing yet ..