Ming Chi

I didn't know I am the few who met Chung's wife Yang Mei Mei before . And I am the 4 who come done to Tainai attends her funul ceremony .

It's a very heavy ceremony , Chung cried and not weep , I only only use one word to describe it " Grief "  they play her life in slide show and Chung wrote her wife such a touching farewell letter , it ended this way : " how far we can go , we take it as forever " 「能走多遠，就是永遠。」it's too heavy for everyone at the ceremony , emotion flows and no one can escape from this emotional wave , I cried so many times , when time to perform incent and greeting family.  I hug him so deeply , hold him so tight and I wisper to Chung " this is forever , it's forever " 

 Slide show at ceremony tell the story to those who is not familiar to the main character - we see it at birthday , at wedding and at funeral . Yang and Chung met at the age of 17 and got married 12 years later ... Lost your best love is heavy 

 My learning from this unusual ceremony is :

1. If I leave before Meiling : don't do this , it's too heavy for me and others - just a few friends talking and playing music

2. If Meilijg leave before me : I will share my love to her privately , I can't stand to show the world my vulnability .

3. Not the funeral house event - it's too cold 

 What happened after the ceremony ? On our way back to Taipei , on the HSR , I saw wedding bride and groun taking HSR to Taipei , and so so amazing , I am sitting at 8 cart number 8E , they are at 7E - I greet them with a " congratulation " before taking my seats , there must be another slide show to tell their story tonight , one day in a life - what I profound day in my life ..