Hated 8

Quintin quarantino is releasing another cult film and with no exception , you must enjoy his style before go to theater .

Black and white , good and evil , right and wrong , justice and fairness - a tango with varies human values .. If you enjoy excise your brian ...

It's another chapter by chapter story telling - sometimes story goes upside down .. And yes . You have to enjoy character the director . 

If you value yourself , everyone will

A very open discussion this morning :

1. Sea Dragon : my membership and chapter retreat service fees . It's not about free lunch , it's about how you value your contribution .

2. Wu's family :

- family ; business and family business 

- completion and corporation beteeen brothers 

- retirement and sustainability 

- open trust all base on confidentiality 

- we don't blame the one who is not with us today 

- 2 answer today : who is the counter partner with me ? Can I see the mission person ? Via whom and when .

3. Morgan Stanley kick off smooth , now I only need to deliver and reset all the expectation 

4. Russian forum willing to pay airfare in advance - the hero's journey should be a pay off 

This is a wired lucid dream

The scene is in my house , much bigger than where I live now . Celebrity or YPOer come on one day for a gathering / function , who I can see clear in their face is Roae Chow , James Wang of sercom . 

The strange thing happen the day before , my son die , with the reason I don't know and when get his body home I found my mother pass away on the same day.  So I have to perform 2 funeral at the same time , the double tragedy refrain me from telling my good friend around .

The following morning , then came for paying their condulcent to my son but didn't realize behind the curtain , my mother is there too.

It's a strange dream .

Chiang Mai : 2 temple 2 sensation

The tourists temple is an attraction to non Buddhism or to put it this way - for most tourist .

The modern temple is a retreat destination for higher spiritual search .

One religion accommodate to many and serve multiple purpose - we image : create : make believe and keep faith on ---- it's another hero's journey .

The closing session at Thai spa massage is good , I did a good relaxation during massage .

Dinner inside 137 pillars - good ambience with ok food -- and we spot on an issue with BP - the fact / truth / feeling and emotion is complicated -- you observe BP turn red fresh face all the time - it's a " I don't want to talk about it and can do nothing about it " scenario - we have it all and we :

- feel comfortable to out of our comfort zone 

- feel save to disclose not because afrid of someon else will breach it .

- not ready for any challenge and not willing to response " why " because it's only how ... 

- self talking is fine as long as it's not negative self - talking - for this you have go be very sure - it's a mental hydrine 

- the someone to talk maybe not around you yet -- so don't push and don't rush 

- yes , information is for receive not to accept . 

- save place + trust people to create a space to SHARE...

Longevity

DMM : Time magazine special issue 

1. Diet : eat less on everything 

2. Move : walk and move , don't sit for hours 

3. Meditation : positive thinking from early stage 

About to do list

1. Criterial : make you money or make you happy .

2. Revise and produce not-to-do list monthly 

3. Not a laundry list but :

- with a build on schedule in your calendar 

- mark the catagrory by color

- prioritize it 

4. Dairy reflection :

- do good 

- can be better 

- follow your bliss 

Observation

1. Kirati : raise rmotions soon / driving - talking - handling family biz 

2. BP - do everything intuite / reluctant to take action / can't control himself 

3. Thien : aging is a big issue / family harmony 

4. Farooq : you you you / difficult in accommodation / dependent / arrogant 

5. Ashok : difficult / blind spot / forum junkie / not caring others / emotionally 

6. Roger : lack commitment in contributions / sacaric sometimes / observe yet participat / distance to / challenge others internally 

Lucid dream : Steve and I

It's an opposite image of everything in the dream . Steve Vai come to Taiwan again for whatever reason . 

He gain many weight and grows a fat belly , talk rude and behavior weird .

I manage to handle him , so I follow his steps in Taiwan , no one can really talk to him ( as a matter of fact , I think in the dream , My behavior seems echo him also )

We end up walk in a pub call " cemetery garden " an indie pub , some chic sit inside , they play the song " sweet child of mine " by guns and roses.

What does it reflect ?

1. Doing something together ( in Taiwan , to the pub ) 

2. Related to music or rock ( music )

3. Fear of gaining weight 

4. Intimacy relationship ( noly I can handle him and behave the same ) 

Diverso

It's 3rd day and I do all my reflection on the black notebbook . This is for the side happening during the 3 days:

1. China corporate forum potentilla 

2. Bee girl for Eddie : forum + life academy model for 4 years 

3. Morgan Standlly workshop ? In Shanghai on March 4th.

4. Harry WPO invite co chain on coming movenber Silicon Valley summit 

Is it good ? 

My lucid dream

1. Hit the jet pot and win millions of sothosan millions - and it's so vivid this. I have to collect the money inside big pocket 

FMLD SH

Attendee : josh / Bryan / Andy / Sean / Ronnie / CK / Rawland / Harry / Hank 

Take away :

1. Guardian angel : power of I

- lower safeguard 

- imprint 

- related 

- resonate 

2. Video works 

What I do on the Thai airline

It's an early flight , I seldom depart from terminal 1 and wearing my fight glass - the line for immigration is long , wondering who is going where for what ? Few express / budget airline operating on terminal 1 - the odd hours departure accomodate such crowd .

Watching goosebumps - you can say it's a hero model movie and it's a light one - to practicing my English listening without subtitle is important - right before Diverso forum meeting -

As I go through hero's journey myself , it exampified that from group toward individual is a must - I obsorb many Enegry by connecting with varies forums - I am not lacking any group hug - but to carefully follow my bliss is quiet essential and this will make some change in my life 

1. Send flower instead of going to the book press party - it's no point to do so 

2. Forget Miao Zen issue and get over it.

3. Don't mind why Charles didn't keep his promises or Royce didn't respond to.

4. Vietnam development  

   Happiness is an enemy - it weaken you how this Rush line cope with budda list ? Coincident ? 

6677

I am here and be here :

1. Scar ice breaker 

2. Issue Clarence 

3. A centering 

4. Longer update : 10 minutes 

5. Light 4 strips for everyone 

6. House keeping and next forum chairs 

Revise Journey in process

1.if what stuck me here have been identified , don't let the prelude dilute the energy.

2. Ice breaker for " answering to the call " need a centering session but not need to do a 1-2-3 sequel ice breaker 

3. Utilize FSFE all the time : can be debrief and can be a setting after all the sharing part 

4. My guardian angel : need a live demo before take actions . One question after one take turn is better to finish all season and exchange .

5. My guardian angel : since you design a " confidentiality ritual " the questionnaire can do deeper - with layer 

6. Change the liquid in story telling to Juice in story telling : blood / sweat / tears 

7. Develop work book : and to attach the tool guide right next to the exercise ( a usual proceed to enhance the journey ) 

8. Pre-writing poster : journey map / johari window / CTO / protocol / agenda / learning objective with marker ( good as advence preparation ) 

9. Rephrase my Chinese noted to English and to adapt some local flavor ( Russia myth / western myth / Oriental myth ) 

10. Time management : process and emotion 

My hero's journey trial v 1

I can't really finish the journey workbook this time .. And it's a great worshop so to speak .

Willam / Tony ( soe ) / Gary ( media ) Victor / George ( ice cream ) / Yung chun ( Entreprenuer in crisis ) / Richard ( kitchenware and me : 8 is perfect in reading room . 

My take away :

1. There is no such a thing call " overly prepare "

2. The hero's journey mapping with forum prinspal and johari window are perfect match .

3. I announce my " public in quinchi " in second half of 2016 for 60 attendee .

4. CC is so nice to me and prepare everything for us .

5. Chun smoke inside create a crisis on last part .

6. George help to correct my English and I really appreciate .

7. William show his vulnaviality and victor follows - trust build .

8. Paper writing rationale my procedure 

9. It's great to practice ... And follow my bliss lead me to my own journey 

Ping ping pong pong

Stiven is not really playing - handout still , Jack is here for varies reason , Hubert hang around and Tim is really planting .

We spend one hour in playing and 20 minutes talking , I did sweat a little bit .

I hope the memories is for everyone .

Army colleague reunion

We meet by 8:00 am at 2nd floor cafe Kung Kwang shop / done our 2 hours limitation and move to half moon nearby NTU campus for another 90 minutes. My take away :

1. Learn I can enrich my experience by connection friends from difference experience 

2. Buy 2 good books right after we met - intro by Kao - a creative talent from the army days 

3. Revisit what make me grow in my army days :

- chance to lead 200 people at age of 20 plus 

- manger a ground from varies background 

- learn from the elite in army - generals 

- leverage my time in study mainly English 

4. Take away :

- Napoleon is the person we invented Madel and to trade what predictor used to dominate - the property ( it's call honor today instead )

- Lu's lesson about how to influence people ( breakfast )

- 2 Chinese medicine way to improve health - du Chung tea with ginger black tea ; Huang Chi drinks with Kao Chi 10 

5. Share my now doing : listening : ears / eyes / mind 

6. Life what's on my coffee mug this morning : 

A zone : Huston

This is a kick off session : I appreciate Fu's support and thanks to KC who willing to devote his time and energy / experience to support future success of A Zone.

Big Eric - operation and adminsation director who share the overall spending - this is ok and if we can manage to come up with new / breakthrough energy plan ( electricy mainly )

Eric Yang - in term of cross - industry co-op and creatively develop more idea bringing traffic - there's room to improve 

Li Lung : new head of sales and should contribute 85% of total revenue is in trouble - for this a revise plan needed and support from KC is immidiate ... 

If communication & consensus is critic issue within a zone , no one can escape from the responsibility . Top from Hubert - Frances and down to everyone - operation is detail / retailing is details and this is a nature role for everyone 

It take at least 6 months to dig it and require Fu's endeavors for Bringing alternative revenue . 

My lucid dream

I don't have appropriate outfit to wear , not sure for what function or just for today - casual for taking train to somwhere but official enough to conduct coaching session earlier , want to keep myself warm but reluctant to put on high neck sweaters - my skin sometimes alerg to it ...

I don't really see what I wear finally and my wake up call - don't stop believing rings .. 

I hope I am not naked . 

Tim

I know he will get lost and late for the dinner and I know the free taipei wifi is not working so well and he canst count on the whatsapp and I know the entrance of peacock don't encourage people to peer in and so - it create a new experience to Tim - how to find Roger .. A good experience .

Tim looks younger than his age and now Working in a new start up HQ in Taiwan - he come for training and will begin to work in London in March .. 

A young man so we talks young - I will bring him to ping pong session on Sat. And Japanese meal for lunch on 29th.

Wen Ko in Jail on Jan. 12 I really want to see him but don't

Know If this is appropriate 

R at curry champ

The best is opium curry - and we take it

R: sharing to parent - talked the heart or deal the matter ?

- 3 scenario and how to stand in a solid ground 

- from known to unknown and it's a journey 

- funding and hiring at the same page 

- playing games without sleep is not a bliss : it's an addiction 

- if it's racing , who reach the finishing line first win , it it's boxing , who stand still until the last win. 

- you pick the fight and change the game or rewriting the rules 

- legacy sustain due to its innovation .

Ra: now I have 90% confident talking to my father . 

Little 6 - my army buddy

His nickname is little 6 - double of little 3

We talked over the line and set up breakbeat on coming Sat. Happy to connect and great feeing ahead .

I was 20 something then and we have a history for 35 years - update and down date - too much to share .. 

Developing tool

It's a similar journey : facing - fighting - finding and follow - do it all over again and again . How to be Better ? just do it 

- do it first 

- do it more 

- do it true 

- do it again 

This morning . Spending time for the facilitator tool and guide - it's guiding me yet others - I didn't follow the " context / content / time during / tools " design but follow my bliss - to Polish WORD and to VISUALIZE then create IMAGINATION - let the heart take you is to 

Surf - Fall - Dive 

And many ego to self scenario happens in between -- another wake up of Tao .

H absent for tomorrow

I am not sure if Hubert will turn out for ping pong on Sat. What I know is M bothering him still - may the force be with him . 

A minor hero's journey today

I take the coaching chance with Hanes and rationalize the journey - it amazingly turn out to be a good system of story telling - it blend with east and west way of thinking - I can't be brag about my own philosophical approach , but I writing it down and preparing to make a clear notes tomorrow - again : sharing is a key process in solving . I am echo to my own calling and this the how I follow my bliss - it's a Tao / Path and journey .

Moving to Da Chu for a oilly lunch - deep fried pork rib - can't resist the tempertaion of meal ( another dragon ) and find a cafe for preparing FMLD - it's getting there .

Japan interchapter event dinner is a good connection with member and getting some updates :

1. Stiven said he was so upset / angry yesterday -- Isa

2. Shin agree to support Takeo San and continue the Jazz festival 

3. Eric Wu reaching out for his hand and ask for family help 

4. Sharing my hero's excitement with Patrick 

5. Alex agreed on lend his good stone house 

6. Russia mission for David LIN - couple outing 

Tai-pening is an interesting place and Eugene have his own idea - Alex invest ?

Morton of Chicago open in taipei with Ken's involvement - . 

Late begin and end on time

Do Diana only : as the open office ceremony take place , we move our session to 10:30 , Isabell have something to say to D - so our session begin by 10:50 and ended around 12:00- no time for Stevin but book his time for ping pong on 20th- Saturday .

Last from D : I am a little bit confuse now , I quote what Joseph Campbell said about marriage : we surrender not to the person but the order / system we call marriage ... 

- it's about communication and loop

- it's about consensus and open dialog 

- it's about challenge the assumption 

- it's about trust 

It's about quality of relationships . 

How to publish something utilize current and future technology

I am thinking to publish my " somethings " but reluctant to follow the old school way : find a publisher house - visit editor - a physical book - book promo tour - end of book cycle .

What can be done today ? A breakthrough to make the publisher - eeceiver gain more value - by utilize what technology can do today and tomorrow ?

I can't figure it out by myself - need some brains ... 

Finally the call is ringing

Check Alex's mail early in the morning , he have some question about the journey I design and develop - maybe I am hoping too much - send him the almost done workbook . It save our time to explain and give him a hint about my endivious efforts in make the thing happen . 

It's version 5 now and I am thinking of creating took book to support the journey :

1. The atanony in listening 

2. Secret window - explore johari window 

3. Sharing in 3 stages 

4. A good story telling 

5. Alternate Concience mStage & lucid dream recording 

6. Mildfulnees meditation : search inside you 

7. Train your left brain and the musaul of imagination 

8. Self awareness tool : picture . Note of the day 

9. DU : peer coaching in profound way 

10. Self coaching questions 

And the reading reference :

1. Joseph Campbell foundation 

2. Movie : Finding Jo

3. The hero's journey book 

4. Bill Moyer : pbs interview 

5. Carl Jung 

The Danish girls

I want to say this is one of the best movie we saw this year - it have a profound ambition to address an early transsexual lady - Lily and his wife's love story .

My reflections :

1. Dog is truly the best friends of human being . He can't tell who change gender and be loyal as usual .

2. 4 brave man in their age suffer and have courage to prove what Joseph Campbell address " hero's journey " in early 30's : Amer / Lily / Hanes and the doctor from German .

3. Die for becoming a true woman and whatever it takes 

4. Great actor and actress demostrate such a romantic love story . 

5. American pychological association delist homosexual as a pychological decease in mid-80 , you hardly can image 50 years before , they are so bravery to claim their rights .

6. Love can be so painful -- 

Excitement

Not much sleep :

1. Being awake yesterday after clinic treatment - sleep around 1:00 am

2. Wake up 3-4 in the morning and done my version 4 for hero's journey workbook 

Is it too extreme ?

Reading and buying ( yes buying and buy in ) more spirituality books lead me to a trencent mood , I am not sure this is good or danger - can't be spending too much time in the special world and not look at the normal world - enjoy your bliss but can't ignore the responsibility to feed many mouth . To equip such a mentality and always be aware should be fine now .

Many new age deal with spiral experience and how to connect to the unconscious world. How I can experience and guided other is a good learning .

Finished watch the trilogy of girl tattooed - the swisdish movie . It's provotic and against many ethic norms . Thanks to my  matapher rich experience , I can easily derive the ethic trap and enjoy the series .

I think its flu

It erose my temper and my self awareness knock-knock me just now , apology to sound and say sorry to Meilijg

The flu kept me in bed from 4:30 pm to 10:00 pm - right after a short trip to she ding enjoy chicken and to embrace some new year flavor .

 Revise second version of " hero's journey " it gets better and I can SEE how the process goes . Print it to examine , learn this I need to revise it again tomorrow . Better is a never ending journey .

 Reed budda sama's short book , ever inspiring .. Happiness - to get and to give . If happiness is an invented illusion for human being - the profound insights will be so significant ..

Hero's journey module

Try to develop the workbook for forum blending with hero's journey model . It can work , but need to modify following :

1. How to create an environment that everyone can produce his imagination juice .

2. If find your bliss is a key , how to develop the exercise for participant to really identify his / her bliss 

3. Once bliss identify , how to adapt and follow this calling ?

4. SAVI rule apply : somatic / auditory / visualize / intellengence 

5. Facilitator guide and example 

6. Related to Russia and others 

7. Try it myself . 

2 days Chinese New Year holidays

Left home by 6:00 am heading for the Japanese village - a new recreation park convert from old movie town . We were there before 8:30 am - avoid all the traffic and be the first batch of guest there , but we stayed for less than one hour - you spend 200 nt per person for the admission and gain nothing back . And you need to pay more to buy at all the shopping arcade - a very ugly business model we think .

So moving south as time still early , we surprisely spot the Gokeng green tunnel - the road trees covers and it turn out to be a big " green day market - play , eat and drink " you can easily spend 2 hours there .

Then we move to our night stay : the footprint inn located at chi chi - small town in nantou county .

To our many surprise , this is a great hideaway for family and for individual - hub to many attractions and with a warm Country flavor .

We didn't know this year the lantern festival choose chichi - so we begin our footprint by 6:00 pm and return our room around 9:00 pm - so many lantern and do many local delicacy . And our family tried the first time to " believe or not " museum -- kind of wired . A good night at chi chi.

What excites me on the road is to discover the only story fit for all : the hero's journey and how I can blending with forum and benefit to many people - like what any hero return to do : sharing the story and to encourage everyone to their call to adventure And share the hero's story of their own. 

Second day - use google map and programs to " not taking freeway " we follow west sea highway and finally - fruit rose her emotion and give everyone a bad face ... 

Not feeling well this morning : a minor flu and taking medication now ..

Earthquake

Preparing con call this minding and truly believe " a hero's joueney " 100% fit YPO forum - an unique journey we explore together .

And the earthquake news comes : falling building and casualty - a sad story before Chinese New Year 

Greeting to Kuo Lieng who we have not contact for years - in the earthquake zone I am sending my greeting and re connect .

Walking for hour for pick up DVD - it might be P. Anyway and riding u bike home before my new year recreation .

Doing massage morning and be kind to the massage technician - blind and deaf is double imparity and require extra effort to satisfied any client and I should be kind to him . 

Taeko San : here we come

The primary goal for Tokyo trip is to pay visit to Taeko San who is the wife of my best fried Itoh who passed away on dec 2015.

Yes , Taeko San confirms Itoh share I am one of his best friend - it's a great beginning .

We meet at 3 eagle train station - with Aki accompany us . We go for a traditional japanese lunch and during lunch , she cried and cried , my word go her :

- Itoh San will be happier if she is happy 

- if she is not happy , he will be sad as he can not help her right now 

- Itoh San will be happy to see we connect and knowing each other more 

- if without Itoh San , we won't be able to expend our friendship and do more 

Taeko San is a strong woman : she was a recording artist before and release some album before , retire from music business, she become the secretary to Saito San : the famous Japanese producer and get go know Itoh San : getting married by 1988.8.8 .

 Taeko San currently running 88 label - a jazz specialize label ; do a weekly sigh languages inteoretor for prime minister Japan , conduct volunteer work in school snd hospital and she run marathon : no practicing just run and finish her first full marathon - amazing willpower .

 She commit to do the Jazz festival annually as legacy to Itoh's will - I commit to come this July and will seek way to find long time sponsor for this will . 

 We spend 4 hours together and a codify to Aki : we must be the few ( or only fried ) tovisit his house -- a family with music and inspiration . The 5 minute video shows us the young adult Itoh - a very handsom boy and the last 3 months become pass : suffering significantly . Love is the attachment you hardly can handle .. We are humans 

Itoh San survived with great Taeko , 4 cats and 2 dogs -- Taeko San keep all his viyal still..

 

Tokyo Self awareness

1. How come I can star at Meilijg when she ask to cancel her order at the Japanese restaurant ? It's so bad.

2. Why the credit card company call get me nervous - even I consume more than 500.000 in Feb. it's not the end of the world and I can afford to pay it up.

3. Pan ask my opinion about the moving of Eslite bookstore Du Nan - how I show off my knowledge at a social media ( line )

4. Why doing a 30 minutest wechat coaching wasn't my aim and I am fed up with a lack of self esteem person ?

5. How I excited about mosco YPO retreat and take it much too serious ? 

6. Why I joke about been in a sad mood yesterday ? Even though I know my mission for the Japan trip is with meaning 

   Self - awareness and my diary reflection 

Reflection

-The last heavy tone from D and her imitate the big sigh from S ....

-The worry I see from H and his giving up a year long project ...

-The major concer is family and spouse 

S have a deep and serious something about building consensus with J / D 

- how I hear not what S said but how much I will earn ...

- challenging the assumption - if the measurement not fit . Get rid of it 

- be who you are , in the end people will know . Don't fake it ... 

- rely on me or really on someone ...

H more

Potential : Chinese New Year greeting 

About mono and Bill 

Frances as open issue 

M is in a roller coaster ride 

High and sleepless 

Issue clearance at forum 

Shelin development with NTU 

The wooden furniture as a new biz 

A zone no p & l responsively but keep an eye on it 

Learning :

- share nothing but yourself 

- normal is the norm 

- patient is not family member 

- spiritual and spiritual 

H : you are right about one thing

It takes 20 years to realize this dream , don't rationalize it workout thinking , it's not a follow your heart mode.

Other people's biz :

1. How you going to do ?

2. What can I do to help you as a friend ?

3. How can we support your as a forum ?

Do more and speak less

Li ming from Noah and I am happy to connect with only a few words - my combine traditional and simplified Chinese writing is a style .. 

Spend un schedule 30 minutes with Jason , the extra for check his status of mind ... Need more time 

Stiven is not well this morning - D take it normally . He seems much serious today and talking about his plan for :

- utilize my coaching to support 70 mangers within this giant org 

- find a better way to provide and produce Hope Squae a future ( yes : being hope to future and bring future to hope , I recall the Pandora box and one thing left is HOPE ) 

D : ask my comment on her ... And willing to diclose gradually and even share the profound meaning she learn from reading a book . Good character and charisma . 

Another life rich moment to me ..