2012年9月25日 星期二

About to board

Sitting at gate B7, there are hundred of TA Chia matuz temple pilgrim on the same flight to Beijing ? Should be a very crowed trip !
Sound asked us to accompany him late last night to the late supper outside - a soybean milk local breakfast store - to be more precise This is a store open from 6:00 pm to 11:00 am , breakfast and late night supper open all night ! Sound is 80 lg now , he gain morn than 15 kg for the past year , his lower belly is rounder than mine .. He should put on a diet program . A nice boy honestly .
For the trip this time , major task are :
1. PRD forum retreat
2. Clean the rental house and
3. Pay back the advance to Robert
4. Real estate agent to re rent the house

2012年9月24日 星期一

Meiling syndrome

Her anxiety and physical reaction to her upset with my mother is getting serious , I am aware that the situation can't be altered over night and leant that I can only listen , neither response nor feedback !
I am not going to fix it as it is not what I can do ! Better stay this way ! She have been develop a victim role for 25 years , I can only do nothing , care and concern will be my mandate . Thus is by far I can do !
Done my PRD forum retreat document . Recall on juro said , I love it and I am doing it for myself ! Yes

Today with Hubert

For Hubert , this is a constructive day as we agree upon many to do's such as:
1. The change objective and change behavior
2. The process of steam line Teresa's obligation
3. Next move with Ivan
4. The facilitation session for Hubert new venture
5. Review advisor and consultant table
Happen to meet Eric at the office and ask his favor for : sports socks for WPO yunnan trip and consultant for Kevin Lin on functional sport socks
It's good to potentially extend our coaching to 6 months and its a god mid term arrangement !
Check the market cafe before see him , a nice place to have light lunch someday

Human resource awards for banking industry

I missed the CSR panel semi final but capture the hr session this morning !
4 institutions among the semi-final list : china trust ; HSBC ; tai shin and chargers

Movie alone - expatriate

After the body fix by master Huang , I develop a going movie alone idea and take the action
At broad way cinema for " Expatriate "just for fun and for a total relaxation !
Philip call for confirm the FMD : I charge for 120.000 NT as my list price ! A compensation for October !

HR award for banking industry part 2

What impress me is HSBC - a model from DDI and Chartered Bank - self develop real - scenario training " the day 1 readiness " program is a education process for me.

Lunch wirh Matthew at tien ho

When saying good bye , I bunt into Richie Walker at the time he is chatting with Matthew , yea indeed it's a small world !
Matthew had difficulty in applying you sea dragon chapter , but it don't rule out our deep friendship !
Yes , I am interested in leaning his biz model and so something upon it !
Return to single status is a new leaning from him. How to rebirth and conser relationship with same and odd sex in a mid 40 range ! Yes a good leaning
For Kevin Lin liaison , not a problem at all . I will hook up with them.

2012年9月23日 星期日

Gala dinner at World Trade Center 33 f

This is a gala I promise Daniel Keng to attend ! Daniel inform the contact May Lin inform me that he is about to perform the stent but want me to attend still ! So I am here .. But as I said to Meiling earlier this is a gala I was list as a flower vase ! Not if Daniel is in such a critical situation , I will be even reluctant to join!
Yes , the Su chi - deliver a 10 minutes speech from Pu Ko Su chi . Now we begin to eat !

2012年9月22日 星期六

Ping pong with sound

I won most of the games ! Sweat and connection is the main purpose for me to do so!
We had fun for almost 2 hours at the ping pong center and enjoy another good fried pork rib rice next door !
The guest next to our table is a Japanese and a club girl ! Sound is so smart to sense it as I did ! We exchange our finding with a smile ! He is glowing up !

Sound first school day at inagtus

I arrived by 9:00 am. Suppose to be there later but on time . Sit for 2 more hours and met a few teachers on how they deliver the class and how they interactive with student !
Junior high Ho is the class sound in ! Class teacher miss cheng is their English class teacher also
Sound had issue with math teacher , however . He was prepared . So ..
President of school attend class for 5 minutes talk , nice guy who graduate from the same school !
Lunch with sound at coco curry restaurant . Nice talk ! A father and son gathering

Ponderosa dinner

Sound is found of having steak last night ! Family decided to eat out at ponderosa - the American steak chain at NTU ! All you can see buffee with one main course .
I order the Boston pork steak and sound had rib eyes ! Meiling ate the most among family - this is the dinner out after her micro surgery !
I was thinking the first things I did with Meiling - first Vietnamese restarts : maykong river - first pizza restaurant : pizza hut - and first America steak chain : ponderosa , the first salad bar - sizzliler ! We did many first time for the past !
Walking through discount outlet before movie and see a less expensive Phillip hi fi system : I really thinking about have one

2012年9月21日 星期五

Human resource awards for banking industry

I missed the CSR panel semi final but capture the hr session this morning !
4 institutions among the semi-final list : china trust ; HSBC ; tai shin and chargers

2012年9月20日 星期四

Drink with Ray Tseng at W hotel

Conclusion :
1. Gopro is a good initiate to take
2. 50 is the relationship potential , everyone should count it
3. My help in
- So net
- Robert in Beijing
- Wei at Malaysia and SH
W at night is a sleepless night ! Good hotel !
Ray is a very mature person ! And I happy to know teacher Tseng is on now and yes OK

Second session for winds seminar

Today is the visual art in album design and application ! Cheng is a Grammy nominee on 2008 album ! A good speaker when sharing his story about how he Cin tien and his chant album communication . A very good story to share !
We learn how music visualization is a key to complete the music ! Today , I do prepare question for the second part and I am feeling better now !

Esoterism continue

Ryan is driving the company , maybe he knows . Victor / Steve / Roger are favor his intention ! It will the increase the length the company is willing to achieve ! Giving advise or direction in the industry you are not familiar with is dangerous ! You need to pay your tuition !
If management teams is planing favor . You will see wrong resource and energy deployment , waste and non production activity will then seed and grow !
How I can be help to both part and be an appropriate coach and consultant ?
Better find a pepper time to deliver what I discovered

Esoterim - Ryan - Ken

I see the problem ken created for Esoterism and in parallel the problem in Taya VC - ken is her typical person Marshall Goldsmith mentioned on his book " adding too much value " on everything !
Be professional in new learning is to listen carefully with empty mind ! If you really want to say something :
1. Give suggestion but share the consequence and result
2. Share only the experience on behalf of yourself and take account of what you say

With Kevin Lin

This is a coaching process when becoming Director for Kevin's company ! The issue today are :
1. The athletic brand / product development : sports pant and shirt with function but no socks at this moment
2. Resign of marketing staff
3. The super run proposal revise
4. Sponsors engagement
5. Others : writing lyric for Jay Chew / Hi-tech sport gear in Taiwan / ma ahi island marathon
6. Gobi run for 2013
KC is working on recruit new staff and consider a sports / brand command spin off . See what happen

2012年9月19日 星期三

James Wang dinner at Sherwood

I met David H at the lobby of sherwood , we are among the EMBA friends James invite ! David is in a hurry mood , a kind of eccentric flavor flowing while we were talking - about Spirox . The company he took over year ago !
James invitees a few interesting people to the meeting : Charlie - the long time friend with NTU EMBA , MD Chiang : plastic surgery master in Taiwan , bingo - who sing / cook / travel / drink and now work for Thomas Wu . A vey easy going person - David and he talk a lot about red wine during the dinner , GM of syn Yi restate , the topic for dinner flying - no theme is the theme , wine / sports / urban argriculture / travel ... Maybe a rich experience sharing , maybe a waste of time ! Well at least. I have a good meal and wine ?

Today with Ivan

Ivan : CHRO for Ambassador hotel group feel frustrating today when we have our first buddy matching session !
Angeli request my assistant to be Ivan's coach - for a HR head who is hardly communicate with others ! Today , I received his message , he need a open mind environment before shading and not being stop by " no " " but " and " however "!
It's like a coaching session ! A reticent sense goes to him and yes , no HR strategy is a sin for hr executive , not to seek top management's idea about strategy will ultimately lead to a " what should I do first " puzzle !
Ivan prepare Ambassador famous moon cake for me - the winner for the moon came

My debut facilitation for cross over project

At shin tien classroom ! Su ling is such an experience marketing concept developer !
I will facilitate for 15 minutes and lead a 45 minutes q and a !
Enjoy the story about Daniel Ho and ukulele project
The response from my season is not so active , lieung asked us to save time for the q and a , but as most of Chinese training . Only a few raise their hand not to mention their voices ! Most of the question asked last night être one the mainstream va non mainstay debating , a very old and non productive time to spend !
Maybe we should change to what exception is ! Do it better on Thursday's

2012年9月18日 星期二

Teresa coach

The theme changed , it's not about culture , but to handle the complexly of reporting and key stakeholder relationship , so we agree change the subject to the newly created topic " AMBA development and Teresa's challenge "
It deal mainly with management issue instead of colored adaption ! Treaa don't like the way we accept the culture and melt in a culture which she don't like !

AMBA Teresa second coach

Arrived at AMBA shemengtin again ! Breakfast is not as crowded as my first visit ! I enjoy the modern art installation at the entrance ! Yes. The big issue is how to spot the hotel entrance from first floor ?
The chair and table similar to 1bite1go , vantage with 60 flavor - this might be Hubert's input .
What to begin?
1 communication starter without theme ?
2. Update : personal and business
3. Protocol in coaching :
- listen / accept / question / sharing
4. Complete and organize the presentation outline !

2012年9月17日 星期一

Patrick host dinner at 101

Patrick host dinner at 101 for greeting WPO member Thomas couple ! Michael and I join as guests .
The Taiwanese restaurant shin yeh at 101 is the place for foreigner ! Patrick secure window seat but I don't see any of us gaze the widow for the taipei view !
It stated with Tom's online education business , it begin after his professions career ! The custom for YPO is you are the guest but prepare your perform wine and being it to the host !!
Good to connect with Michael and Patrick and to chat with Linda !
A good host is to have his car drove the gust back and having his wofe swiping him home !
Linda is so busy ! It's kind of fun to interactive with YPO - WPO!
What I learn from Tom are : hrs dude from foil is to give junior a change to be the wisdom in forum since become seniors ! And forum mate should be different from you otherwise your presentation only get the result you bias with ! Be friend at forum but bit necessary good friend ! A new perspective in forum experience !

101 shopping mall

Boss hire chew for endorsement ! Must be expensive and for attract customer from China - Boss is easy to be recognize by Chinese bosses .. So

Meet Gary

It's one month after my first assessment to park view hotel Hwa Lien , we met at mr brown cafe - the more quite one !
I did a report to him and to his surprise , he never expect a report before him ! The strategy blue print I lay out is simple : identify strategy - develop people - improve process and procedure - built a sustainable system ! I told him this is a 2 years project h and win his trust over the conversation ! Thanks to the story telling pp I rear earlier . Send my quotation with the po after meeting
Gary inform me this is an initiate without consult his father and it will encounter future engagement with his father , he will figure out a way to place me in a proper position ! Now I am sitting for his call to confirm it !

Esoteeism Meeting this morning

Victor is not there but sent a message at one in the morning - for this. I need to reschedule my coaching session and postpone to next Monday .
We talk about iPhone 5 and 3 options to re-focus on company milestone : a mass market product development . Universal product design ; B to B market . For the 3 option by 3 difference people won't be please by victor who need to take all the advise into action , if he not have passion in either on. It will be a pressure not a please to enjoy .
Ryan is getting more hand on in Esoterism development ! New tubing happen and they are ignoring the direction Ryan directed ! It's an interesting development !

2012年9月16日 星期日

MIB second run movie with sound

Arrived home late last night , sound expect to go to movies with me today.
Meiling can and pick me up at sun seng airport - with a new face : surprise me but not too much , she did the nose / eye lid and face on Wednesday ! I have nothing to say bit to say as long as she feel comfortable , then it's fine with me.
Done a long break for bicycle exercise ! Walking with sound to our branch and buy snack for movies , walk and talk is a good time for me !
I didn't enjoy MIB 3 too much , falling asleep do a little while , we went to the 3D dance force on first run before, so we didn't see it again. Buy some noodle for Meiling and out for me own now.
James tried to organize next forum crisis meeting. The dates is difficult to fix even it is a crisis ! It may take longer to process as I can image !
Buying 2 books at SH book shop before going to airport yesterday ! Chen chun ser wrote a great novel " Bai Lu Yung , I have not buy any novel for very long time ! But I do enjoy it vary much ! I have done close to 300 pages now : wording like " regret " - th after tense turn tto " before gret " is a very good metaphor !

2012年9月15日 星期六

SH forum crisis

Blog : shanghai 6677 forum crisis
The situation is quite similar to what happen to my taipei forum : doing biz with each other , of course , there are some difference ! This time on the development , I can see the damage will ripple gradually .
The crisis burst out on the emergency forum trigger on Sep 7 , the day I check in banyan tree resort yunnan ! An realh winsen for gathering in the early morning , I can't be there but would never know the crisis I goes so deep!
Forum brother beside me and jack gathering and decide not to jeperprise to business as the bail out cash is high up to 120 millions RMB : almost 600 millions NT ! Nevertheless , all the forum brother disclose their borrowing and investing to Q - the trouble maker in crisis ! I wasn't their and feel less about the crisis until the day we had forum : sep 11th.
W went so deep that I'd Q can't return the fund, he will soon go bankruptcy . J invert close to 100 Millions NT , JW for 5 millions . W along account for 800 millions : 500 from loan shark with a 24% annual interest rate !
Hear after is the fact I collect
1. Q first met Bo school president via M, he immediately ask for investment
2. JE invest packaging company with high cost and low revenue , he suspend it, but for the raw material wholesaler his 10 million RMB invest is in risk
3. W invest in 2 company : parent for 13 millions RMB for list prepare , 1.6 E RMB for the wholesale with no cash at all : only product
4. J invest 19 millions as a minor shareholder , his feeling I Q did not tell the truth at the beginning
5. Postpone of ipo for many times and stop talk about it at forum
6. Not focus on main biz but for real estate and mining biz with government connection
7. Produce a no realistic profit in 2010 aim for a higher PE ratio when ipo
8. Halo effect force Q push for relevant trading and touch the edge of legal issue
It all lead to a leverage trust and brotherhood for his own interests and ipo make his no turning back road

Xi chio hotel

An equivalent to diao Yu tai in Beijing ! It capture the best scene in SH ! Andy book the house 7 for tea with Daniel ! Let the picture talk

Days in China

I don't think blog break the firewall in china ! Give it a try !

2012年9月10日 星期一

Too much to write in Yunnan

For the past 4 days , I really enjoy what Yunan taught me ! Let me begin with the people I met:
1. Gerald : of course the guide who accompany to the journey is the most important resource I have , rich knowledge in china culture and history , experience about Yunan minority and people who have story to share , hole and mild , a friend to me now, Gerry's work in A&K for 26 years now and iinchsrge of the china / south east Asia ! A person who appreciate china culture so much !

2012年9月7日 星期五

Boarding kunming

Gate 508 - escalator - shuttle bus and gate to Kunming !
Waiting Gerald at the gate : DMC for the trip !

HK airport

Transit at HK airport for kunming - a Yunnan WPO event site inspection .
Recap on what happens last night :
Attend winds record seminar on talent development for music industry ! I am there overlap with first facilitator - YU Ko Hwa - a good person ! It's a government sponsor seminar by wind record - I support wind and Yang for years even thought I am no aware of how the workshop I conduct 10 yeast ago seed the change wind is heading and turn it to a life style base music label .
The speaker of the night is singer songwriter Seng Shen - a Hakka talent who win himself many golden melody award , this is the first time I sit on his music lecture session to understand how he develop music and how he was inspired before .
Yu did a great after seminar session and explained natural calling coming from the talent inside besides passim outside . The gift in you will one day trigger you to do what you mean to and this is the calling in you ! I like it so much and know he is a person who really understand !
Sound at home is a bless to us. He shared almost everything after school and his life is open in front of us!
Fruit just did a plastic surgery on her nose - her mother said now she looks so confidence .
Meiling took a hot spring yesterday ! The first exercise she did after the list of blood in Beijing 2 months ago !
Yunnan - waiting for me

2012年9月6日 星期四

Hubert today

He came back to Taipei today . Jet leg is hitting him but we have our coaching session still!
He thought we have 30 minutes only , so I slip many procedure and tried o bring back the intimacy with him!
Very few update ! Not monitoring all the development and he agree to :
1. Review his consultant and to separate to personal advisor or business consultant
2. Effectively in decision making : how to make throwing ideas not a " order " approach
3. See Taichuhg construction sample house !

Angeli and lunch

I am coaching Angeli now and it feel great !
Cantonese restaurant and soup taste so good .
Again : goal / mission / consultant or not
Raise cat cause she is not going well with her sister ...
I am having all meals at ambassador today : breakfast / tea / coffee / lunch / sandwich dinner !

I saw rainbow yesterday afternoon

I decided not to work after print out material need for today ! Call Meiling for a coast highway drive .
We are lucky to see rainbow at da Wu reng : so beautiful . Follow the road back and took yanminsheg road back , Meiling share her latest finding and experience with Sound : a mutual and understanding child !
We bought one notebook for sound and printer for home use !

Interview with Chen

He is not a simple electrify and water construction company : hotel / public building / scientific factory : so Hubert release him as an interview candidate don't come from no where !
At my age and honest with what he say : find the right talent and do the right thing right is the final comments Chen made for Hubert .
We spend 80 minutes tighter and shake hand good bye !
Another coffee session at executive floor and witness the flight attendance interviewing session take place !

Coaching Hubert session

At one bite to go and enjoy my ny pastrami combo .
This is after coaching meal at his place
New restaurants and see John as well !

2012年9月5日 星期三

Esoterism meeting at TA YA

From 10:00 am carry through lunch !
A milestone review and next round discussion :
Ken - the person who in charge of taya VC is a profession with many critics , try hard to add on value ! His side talk with Rayne let me feel his personality / communication skill will increase Rayne troubles in manage his relationship !
Ryan is clear about goal and work , layer by layer with a precise measurement is important for macro management ! I learn it here today !

Wake up and back to work

Life academy stage 2 has a theme : power of influence and parenting module
POI end your dream with a wake up call : on the last day of your life and hope it comes earlier and brought you new life.
There are 6 key words on module one : " get rid of " " commit " " wisdoms " " belief " " willingness " " pay it forward " quite a system to support your correcting from past ! Change now and do it for others in the coming days !
The exercise we do 3 times is the reconfirm of your belief :
[ I see , I hear , I feel and I know I am ana of love , passing it forward ]
To settle with your past : especially the fundamental circle of life : family . Where you begin your journey of relationship !
Parent and child are 2 Mirror to you ! Father is heaven ; mother is earth , you are the human in between ! How high is the sky build the environment for you , and you are the environment for the " becoming " of your child !
" don't react on happening , change for the result " all the past result made the current you .. So . Begin to change create the result you want to see !

2012年9月3日 星期一

Day 3 public sharing

4 very courage participate share in public
- the china member about his relationship with superior
- the misfortune young girl about husbands and child
- the self esteem of the lady

Day 2 afternoon

Basically the day 2 class focus on : positive reinforcement . To build the trust by build the confidence in you .
After lunch session is difficult . People feel sleep always, TA design a group team Building exercise to get the group a group feel - a setting for coming session :
Master Wang is the leader in psychology base exercise , he use what I first leaned the first day to guild everyone to a " fully trust " status.
🏬exercise of trust :
No reason , fully accepted , 100% trust team
Find your own way to express it ? Not via word nor writing .
Take reject fully and do it again all together
TA : not there yet is a challenge to treat your fully acceptance
We take 5 hours to be accredits and follow with a 30 minutes sharing
💒exercise :
I see , I hear , I feel and I know I am a person of love and passing it forward
Do it more than 21 times in your group and support your peers to perform
Everyone ended it after midnight and this is a " test your limit ; explore your potential " exercise ! It compare with what we do day 1 is totally different !
- we are a team now
- we process trust exercise already
- we practice the rules on day 1
It's a good developing class ! They know what they are doing

2012年9月2日 星期日

Day 2 sessions

1. Sharing in public follow with
2. Chuang's explanation about :
Pass - cause ; now - chant ; future : result and how to
1. Accept and appreciate your pass ( correct )
2. Pay and contribute to your future (( act )
3. Lead to the root of you : parent and how your react / response to them make who you are today
4 share Chuang's dramatic story about i love you and I forgive you
5. Group sharing about your own reaction to your parents and how it make who you are now
Lunch and break
6. Afternoon begin with group execute for team Building : collect efforts for what our aim is
7. Group photo taking from 1:30 to 2:00 pm

Day 2 of stage 2

We ended first night by 12:30 , it's so so late and the mining call hit on 6:00 am! It's a design way to let you feel " you can change "- according to teach assistants
Last night , we do have a big issue sharing ! Lo told the whole story about his son and it take like 50 minutes - its a one man presentation if you want to adapt forum rules
Last night movie session " my life " is a good one but if your think it theorist ! We end the testing part by 5:00 pm and conduct a " positive assertion " sessions for more than one hour , then follow with dinner ; break and movie ! It's all include in our program !
Master Chang do have his way of interpreted ancient wisdom and religions jewel of crown ! Thing I can thinks
Morning public sharing led by Mayer yang : not in a confidentiality / trust and openness environment. Risk to take for many

2012年9月1日 星期六

Day 1 morning 11:00-13:00

1. Session begin with introduction : volunteer and background
2. Check in with a song ( melody only , no lyric )
- close eye but no breath exercise
- flip chart prepare
3. First session : Diao Ter ( road and
4. Procedure :
- the body gesture with buddy
- pair sharing during flip chart writing
- the acknowledgment sound attach
- aroma inside
- sharing with music as background

The beginning : 10-11 am day 1

1. What we see us similar?
- group and how we find each other
- the brother and children reflect to the core of program : being parent
2. Last group to your team
- how the team assemble
- 10 in one family with 2 facilitator
- identify your team leader ( eye close with volunteering )
3. Group sharing
- begin with facilitator and pillar
- no time limit
- on your own
4. Music all the time
5. Shape development
- big circle for introduce the game
- small circle for find the similarity
- family corner for sharing time

Second stage

For those who sign up 2nd stage and pay 50000 , they filter themselves already , for the down payment if it was done by corporate sponsor , at least they commit time for it !so more or less they are IN the space already ! It will make the coach perform easier of I am right ! On the other hand. As most of attendee learn the rituals from stage one. You need to design more surprise and produce more expectation ! It won't be easy for it !
Follow my head and my heart together ! To feel and to learn !

Life academy stage 2

Arrived at taipei railroad station by 7:25 am, the standard welcome ritual ready for us : bow with welcome greeting / wearing uniform / group sharing / I love you reminder : they all perform by volunteer at life academy - the señor student : safeguard the environment or be environment is the main function they do. Bring you back to the peer group : S3
South Garden is the venue used this time : 40 minutes from Taipei work European ambience , nice choice I am not sure if my privilege via Ryan can be realized or not .
We are waiting at lobby still ! For te 4 days training or development - pretty intensive