Roger

Call from Cliff Chew

It's a cold call as we don't know each other that well - a second generation tycoon and business leader , I overhead he had some financially difficulty due to the late transformation of business and not able to win capital market appreciation.
He call and jump to the very brief conversations: " I run into the cash shortage , there's a bank cap to be fulfill now ! Do you have money I can borrow ? " my swift reply " I don't have " " well , ok bye bye " and my last greeting over the phone is " keep it up "
I did a forum supercharge for this age forum and I can see non of his forum mate will lent him any money - I am out of his social and business circle and he comes to me .. my instinct told me not to drag more conversion so I just reply short . I feel pity for him and really feel sad as well.
The feeling floating with me still even now I am working on forum treat materials


Roger

All the morning

Linda delay and we reschedule to tonight, it's tough to find her discipline , it's not in her DNA - I can only accept .
Find a book about 9 wisdom systems by Chu- should be a God Book to digest
Heidi finally appear - yes , I recall her as consultant to Chuang Han and she is so interested to know who I am and why I did what I do ... so
Hubert ask a coach outside and I invite him to Cat noodles by Roger : Hubert didn't bring enough cash still and I pay for the bill and this is a catch up follow up about personal and family development.
The only things I told his is I won't mind if Fu told him anything but I will consist on doing what I know is right .
Good day for continue my " true detective "
Happy to see all Thailand Meeting hook ups


Roger

Another free style dinner

It's fun and it's inspirational : no agenda and no expectation, it's a free flow and Chew Boss Won is such an interesting person who can hoop up right people for the very unique way . I will summarize it later .


Roger

What Change happen today

I change my blog to blog word as the blog function do have a bug - it Deletes my input when hit the SPACE bottom : and my reflection today :
1. A cold call this morning for me to set up meeting with this business lady tomorrow morning ..
2. My surface strike again and I am not mad
3. New Vietnam day for FF in November
4. Fu did get my message - I hope
5. Angeli looks lack of energy to me
6. Run into Chen Fu and commute buy 2 " folk song 40 " documentary
7. Chew people blind dinner tonight : a talking or drinking event ? I owe him book and one meal
8. Quick response from Ben for ELAC meeting - happy
9. Horace connect to CP and set up meeting in Bangkok : I am exciting .
10. Recreation and it's fun : you have to into someone's world to know him .
11. Nicole and hp program : it's a courtesy to hp and Nicole is too kind.
12. Pizza OGGY take so good

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Corporate forum

Blogger : corporate forum challenge 

1. It will happen : top executive afraid I am being back a human and transform them to develop feeling , it ain't good for the need of corporation : efficiency . 
2. Participants: what is it in for me ? Professional or personal ? I can only tell them to live in 2 different world make you a true person .
3. Connecting : 30 out of 40 have their take Away , 30 express it onsite and I know it's seeding now .
4. Learning : if any corporate think they need to create space for human touch , I have confidence to deliver 
5. I am glad receiving feedback about " another day " " if Tomorrow is next life " " mind the gap " and " Steve job voice "
6. Story Corp connection exercise and Cleveland clinic empathy video are so good .

Fu session

I did send my message loud and clear to Fu today :

1. You have to work with KC : if you don't like it , I will take all responsibility 
2. You have close to 2000 Friend on FB : it's not easy to build such a good connection, don't screw it up .
3. We are not a tender offer firm , don't waste time in developing non value added activity - similar to III program 
4. There is no strategy in doing anything , we are here to saving cost and increase revenue .
5. High level change ? Many rumors - what coming from me is the only truth .
6. Don't send my the daily sales - it's no point to me .
7. Do what you have to do but don't use it to downplay others - hijack the communication. 
8. If we can't turn around - I will turn it back to ministry of culture 
9. Don't waste our life here . 
10. What the deal made with Wu was gong : now we doing the new . 
11. If you can't lead , I will take it . 

Lite on

Blogger : corporate forum challenge 

1. It will happen : top executive afraid I am being back a human and transform them to develop feeling , it ain't good for the need of corporation : efficiency . 
2. Participants: what is it in for me ? Professional or personal ? I can only tell them to live in 2 different world make you a true person .
3. Connecting : 30 out of 40 have their take Away , 30 express it onsite and I know it's seeding now .
4. Learning : if any corporate think they need to create space for human touch , I have confidence to deliver 
5. I am glad receiving feedback about " another day " " if Tomorrow is next life " " mind the gap " and " Steve job voice "
6. Story Corp connection exercise and Cleveland clinic empathy video are so good .

Beijing

Blog : little something in beijing 

1. The airport escort service and the no point idea 
2. Meet Duggy and it's a 20 years after reunite , we are open about his sexual orientation and exchange our ideas in many things - 2.5 hours conversations is meaningful .
3. Doing biz via coaching and facilitate session : I can't really do it as I develop strong conflict of interest- ethically  

Beijing

Blog : black souls 

1. Met Aj on the same flight , it meant to be taking him on one of my forum - no escape .
2. Forget to bring my purse to airport until try to buy something : thanks god i brought some RMB with me but no credit card ...
3. Finish black souls - the Italian movie I done half last week on my way back from Tokyo : an amazing ending : to end the Mafia war , you need to end the family ties ..how can we only think about retaliations and develop to a vicious circle of killings ? How cruel Santiago can ended everything in his hands and this dramatic ending also end all the expectation from audience - a big mafia war .
4. Redo all the slide plan for GCC Beijing - a more local flavor and I need a good opening still .
5. Aj Diverso forum and Russian connection : so I am comfortable about help others still and continue. 

Paste blog

Blog :

Emotional bank account 

1. I am surprise how swift 2 of my Thailand forum bros response to my need and the first experience goes to Horace - gogoro. I am happy to help and with no expectation Things goes much smooth and fast 
2. Doing first Chuang Xing Bi weekly Managment meeting : it's good to get the machine running and see how the new systems works for everyone , it's a platform to share and to really solving programs - so am I right to do so .. and then I have let go any constraints on Jeanie consulting agreement. It's no point to bring unpleasant mood to anyone who still helping now
3. Dual forum schedule conflict : I am trying to accommodate both and I believe I can do it ... just to adjust some scheduling 
4. Meiling is truly happy and this is a great take away .. fruit show her good Gesture these days , there is not much I should complain now .
5. Greater china chapter YPO : it's a challenge or accomplishment to whom ? How I see the local Entreprenuer.
6. LightOn : moderator Orientation crease some expectation , now I need to reset them on 25. 
7. Buy myself  Sha Chi vest : so unique and beautiful- just to indulge myself for a luxury good . To get is happy - because I am giving and it's happiness .
8. New : Richard biz and choirs concerts in Taiwan . It can be very simple and easy and we have carol to follow - done the meeting in 10 minutes ... 

How come I am now using this instead an app to support me

Genius

About the editor behind Hemingway - scoot and Tom - the friendship and many inspiration 

Hubert

Only one hour ago and you totally forget call me before ? Is that something wrong ?

Dr. Chang

The first word change said to me is : " I think I have a problem : doing the star war model is kind an addiction to me "

I ask him 2 questions :

1. Does it consume your time and refrain you doing thing you should ? Answer No

2. Does it replace the achievement you make in other field ? Research / hospital admistrarion / career development ? Answers is no .

So you don't have problem I say -- then he change the subject to a mangement issue : change was influence by " overheard something that he can't be sure it's fake or truth ? " and the bias result to emotions - and emotion is what he need to address now - the cure ?

1. Be aware of indirect communication : filter the 3rd person / analysis the messenger come with a good intention or not .

2. Don't down grade yourself and think as your subordinate .

3. Learn leadership is power of influence , well blend 2 power : role & position : charisma and personality . 

The rest will be fine .. As usual, chang take care of my physical condition , I look after his psychological well being 

Back pain and relation to heartache

1. Overeating for the whole month 

2. Inconsistent on exercise 

3. Ignorance of body weight 

4. Upper right back pain 

5. The lucid dream 

These all contributw to a " potential of heartache " - I can't overlook my health anymore ... It's irresponsible and it won't qualify you a coach to anyone .

Tokyo

1. 13th : 

- doing all my slide in the airplane 

- public transportion to APA hotel 

- Ginza scan and dinner with inayoshi 

2. 14th:

- do all the slide supplements 

- good eel rice at takashimaya 

- nice vibe with TOKU over drink 

3. 15th:

- done BJ forum fundenmal 

- Shaggie car to singashen and the nervous driver 

- volcano tour 

- nice Marriott at karuizawa 

- big family sea food dinner 

4. 16th

- all day forum 

- take moderator role 

- Korean bbq 

- good hotel bar talk 

5. 17th

- continue forum 

- yes , my voice calm people down

- next March my day chair event 

- why Tass / general / Calvin so enjoy shopping ?

- train to Narita with Calvin and learn more 

Tiger forum 2nd

I am not going to judge what the Tigers looks like , this is how I read / observe them for the last 3 days:

1. Phil : time and tide wait for no one - keep it up but you have to admit time leave the mark everywhere .

2. General : go my one way , feel free to be .

3. So chang : easy , less talk more listen 

4. Greame : like a kid 

5. Khane : yes I can and I always promise 

6. Archi : humm - let me think and what can I apply to my company 

7. Shaggie : day chair is the boss 

8. Calvin : anxiety and need to be calm 

9. CP : I am behave well now 

10. Tass : thinker and thinking . 

Me : curiosity ..  Still 

Inayoshi dinner

He doubled and triple confirm the dinner appointment and explained to me over Line that he want me to know his current business better . To make sure I won't miss the appointment , I arrived today and having dinner at toriyaki restaurant with him . 

Inayoshi is 64 years old . Retired from Sony Corp 5 years ago and now working in a small company ( according to him ) as COO - it's a trading base company doing : purchase Sony equipment / Arranged Sales & Marketing material for tire one company in Japan and 3rd :,laundry and dryer machine for either coin laundry or professional laundry faculty .

He ask what help I can grand : well , as a coach , l knows many business owner but didn't conduct business with them , to introduce is not a hard job but to run business , the effort have to take from inayoshi San .

And he want to be an advisory for not out this company he serve - to help 97% of the small companies in Japan find its international opportunity or identity succession plans - it ain't easy and he want to continue to support .  See what I can do -- Japanese is more subtle and I knew it well. 

How I managed to get to APA hotel

I decided to use all public available transportion means to get here , snd thanks go googl map - it resolved many of my anxiety . 

Airport to shigagawa station by express train Kyoto Line - I should not stop here but to take one more stop to Ling YUEH temple .

On train Again - get off the Ling YUEH station to exit 2 - up to a few stairway and out of the station , you see APA just across the street . 

Total time from Haneda airport to hotel include get lost and buying socks for Meiling : 40 minutes I guess .

Lovely Taiwanese Musical at Keelung

I am so emotional at the 2nd half of the show -- what trigger my tear is the reflection to my life earlier - I take it as a collective memory for Taiwanese .. 

The Japanese - ballad is the opener to your vulnability -- you feel and your chamber of memories arose - so vivid and so .. 

Why I am feeling this way

So reluctant to jump into the operation muddy water with Hubert - AMBA is all in a mess and A Zone require decent time to fix .... And I am not interest in doing the operation .

If without paradigm shift , I can hardly event want to walk in the conference time at ambassador hotel - thank god my paradigm swift slightly and I take the positive energy into the meetings : Amba org and F & B structure talk ....

The cold respond from KC let me feel a bit uncomfortable , not because of shu In but his very brief and cold answers ... Am I too sensitive ?

Reflection:

1. What is my viewpoint differ from JR . Will I create a storm in the same course ?

2. Royce knew my concern about spending money in forum retreat 

3. Now the confrontation between KC and Fu will surface ! Do I have the talent to guide them working together ?

4. The " deeper than sea " : do you ever love someone deeper than the sea ? 

5. " I and kaminski " : old let your feel you are not existing , you are here and feel not here . 

6. " deeper than the sea " - once the decision made , please support your section and set me free .. 

7. The 2 persons who insist on taking there own seat at " wonderful theater "/ and they both behavior weird 

8. Linda finally respond , I have to convince myself I am happy with the coaching process even though we have not seeing each other 

9. Ownership for " talents fly " : artist or an institution ?

10. Hanes really echo to my viewpoint and I should find a way to publish them : word - story - schech - cards ( tools and many other things ) 

The movie : Me and Minkanski

It's a film about artist . His art and his life --

How to be famous 

How to stay away

How to deal wirh life 

How to be normal 

How to make friend 

How to in love 

How to know how to 

You probably will renosate better if you are an artist yourself or appreciate art . 

A man call Ven

A wonderful Swedish film - simple and with so many emotions . The scenes and many lines touch me . As I don't have time to memorize it , I will find where I can review it again :

1. Son walking on the rail track and almost hit by the train - father hold him the first time and it's the touching moment 

2. The street cat is the thing ( live ) bother Ven and prevent him from attempt suicide . Good companion is pet 

3. Talking to the lovely pass wife everyday is a rotini to smooth him .

Talents Fly after work celebration party

To choose Que is for supporting our brand restaurant - the position of restaurant is ? And the variety of choice is limited . You hardly can find good reason to come back ...

And 9 of us were there , the pressure is:

1. How to engage with those attendee and trigger more impact 

2. How can we share the great content to many others ?

3. Who will manger our face book and continue to connect with audience 

4. As our spiritual leader : what should we do next ? And how to sustain it ?

Oh ! We forget it

Hung foundation working meeting on last month : no meeting minutes . I can only recall some " to do's " from my memories . Why 3 persons from hung foundation and not even one taken the role to scribe " to be follows " and " meeting conclusion " - problem with my communication or take it for granted ...

Eel rice bowl

This one is not even qualify a eel place to be - too many fish bone , not grill but steam and paste with source . Rice is even poorer . So I have to dump it from my eatery list .

As for " Ji Cai " the local brand with functional casual wear - I love it so much and done my shopping 3 times and bought at least 10 piece of varies design - much better than the branded product and the competitive product - not stable in quality and sell in premium ... 

Jason

1. What stuck you here and wake you up at middle of the night ? 

2. Emotion talks : from the good gesture or not ? 

3. See some god in the temple : hold you accountable 

4. Family DNA : black or write vs blur and grey account for 99 %

5. Partially accept the imperfect role here.

6. Change : Accept : Leave and what's in between .

Meiling's home

I told her to forget everything before totally : it's a new life and new beginning 

And I should forget everything as well 

A birthday gift or mark that won't fade away . 

Recreation yesterday

Why am I doing it ? What pleasure it brings ? And the outcome ?

Resonate from the movie " big judge " yesterday at " wonderful theater "

- don't do it twice 

- you do your right thing and I do mine 

- anger for justice bring your young again 

What stuck me here ?

1. Yu Ping ask for the a zone project and the correlation is the upset of KC - an expected unpleasant ... Should i do it now ? 

2. Eric develop a intense tumor - what's the tradition Hubert's family did ? What can I do for him as the new Vice Chairman ?

3. KC insist on seperste a zone foundation and shin Kai - I agree with the Prinspal but it will also put Mei Yeng in a difficulty position 

4. Fu's no response to my " foundation authorization " is a sign of what ? How can I conduct a session with him in a better way ?not his way nore my way .

5. Samantha : Shi - She CFO have her way of financial Prinspal and practice , what if KC insist to do his way - even its an efficient way and the potential conflict in between ?

6. The biggest risk is gone of 3 Dept head from a zone and no immediate replacement - what would KC or I do? 

7. How to identify talent in a zone - motivate good talent and replace disqualify staff ?

  Am I too worry about the confrontation ? 

Emotion arose when communication with KC

Why every time this emotion happens ? Dose he love his work but again rest of the world ?

I am not going to suffer this , by asking me not to trust anyone but him , how can I sit and let others feel offense by him ?

If the guts and commitment it there , I should :

1. Place him as the vp for a zone 

2. Have him commit to spend time and effort there ? Don't play with me , really 

3. Always said replace somebody but reluctant to take the vacancy , for instance : tempering .

 Again only yes or no change our life , maybe never will. 

Hochen morning

He came first the first time , I am late for 5 minutes and it create a good ice breaker : no über in town is inconvenient to me on Monday morning .

My ice breaker :

1. Allen " I am the boss "

2. No good biz in asia 

3. Talents fly : only artist no politician 

4. Ming : commuist in Taiwan

5. Numbers can talk but maybe all right

6. Mindfulness for relief the anxiety 

7. I am ammuse to media or public 

8. Friend and story make tourism work : my Lisbon experience and Maryanne's Kenting trip 

Talents Fly done the 2nd year

At Huilien at A Zone : from 2-4 Sep. 

1. 7 people from 6 teams pick to the camp 

2. Tier one master deliver their winning formula / success factor to all participants 

3. Volunteer learn a great deal 

4. Sky Wu devoted himself entirely with effort / time and bring his own band : Sky 5. Participant feel a positive enenge and purify themselves from bottom of their heart .

6. My opening remarks : all the good intention is to seed a good cause . 

  I am very relax and hardly give any insetruction at all . 

Hochen ice breaker

1. Allen Wang on board : I am here to be your boss , and you must know that ( 做官 vs 做事 ）

2. How you face anxiety and stress ? Mindfulness ? 

3. I just return from 3 forum retreat : the truth I heard is no country in Asia can avoid the decline of economy . ( China / Thailand / Vietnam / Singapore / Malaysia / Japan )

Birthday present from sound

Sound's birthday present to his mother is to Present himself : it's a calculate surprise as he didn't response to call his mother , we know there's something happens :

Sound walked in my room around 9:30 pm and ask where's mom ? I ask him go call her and he said I brought you a birthday cake home to see you .. And the sensitive boy also told me he feel his mother sound very tired .

It's the best birthday present - Present and present yourself to the one you love - the efforts work . 

Shu Ping street stew pig feet

It birthday wishes come from Meiling : first time in life and her first time to eat the longevity pig feet for :

1. Live healthier 

2. Live longer 

3. Transforming to good fortunes 

4. Spend longer time with me 

On number 2 is truly a wishful thinking as it have to be " ME " in her plan as well .

Good to buy her what she want today and she need " pajamas " also. 

The neon demon

It's a lousy movie - I have to be honest 

Jason session

1. Self awareness is a means to control your emotion 

2. If you don't have a choice , you have shoulders , if you do have choice , you grow wings.

3. People get mad CID trivially thing 

4. You change career for : fame / fortune or create history 

5. People's value generate by who need them . Not in regular but odd moments 

A big reflection day

1. My taking up Vice Chairman's role and commit to support Hubert .

- A zone turn around 

- AMBA re org and executive alignment 

- Persoanl development 

- No string attach 

2. Meiling complete a satisfy refixing

- Get rid of die of shame 

- Remove all the shadow in her heart 

- Gaining confidence 

- Take back her life 

- Commit to be together down the road 

 Bring her a small birthday cake and celebrate at the small budget hotel room , happy to see her happy and it brings happiness to us.

3. Complete and send Vincent family forum & coaching program 

- it's fare pricing and I won't do it lower than what I know how I contributed 

- wait and see and hold back all my expectation 

4. Dear Zarack : a great and great documentary 

- the dramatic story 

- the brave grand parent and parent to all

- the wonderful editing 

- the emotions arose 

5. Greater China Chapter : YPO 

- invite to do mandarin forum fundenmal to Beijing 

- connect Robert and Han maybe 

6. Terminate both Netflix and spotfly 

7. Briefly organize coming project