Dr. Chang

The first word change said to me is : " I think I have a problem : doing the star war model is kind an addiction to me "

I ask him 2 questions :

1. Does it consume your time and refrain you doing thing you should ? Answer No

2. Does it replace the achievement you make in other field ? Research / hospital admistrarion / career development ? Answers is no .

So you don't have problem I say -- then he change the subject to a mangement issue : change was influence by " overheard something that he can't be sure it's fake or truth ? " and the bias result to emotions - and emotion is what he need to address now - the cure ?

1. Be aware of indirect communication : filter the 3rd person / analysis the messenger come with a good intention or not .

2. Don't down grade yourself and think as your subordinate .

3. Learn leadership is power of influence , well blend 2 power : role & position : charisma and personality . 

The rest will be fine .. As usual, chang take care of my physical condition , I look after his psychological well being