Conversations with Sound

Father :You always late for everything , now you take advantage of that but one day you won't be able to do as you wish 

Sound : I know I over sleep always and alarm and mother can't really helps.

Father : when you need to earn your living , no boss in the world will torelate behavior like this , you better prepare to be boss of your own.

Sound : this is what in my mind

Father : even you run your own compmay , no one want to work for a lazy boss like you ..

Sound : so I have better carefully in select who I want them to work with ..

Father : well I hope there are people stupid enough to work for a lazy boss like you .

Mother : why you sleep in the morning time ?

Sound ; well this is my physical clock at school , I sleep in class every morning ?

Mother : why teacher can torelate your?

Sound : because I score high at examination and I won't break teacher's button line. 

2 introspection

1. Why I stop a length conversation with Fruit and told her there is a scheduled meeting by 2:00 ? We simply having the half price eel rice in 30 minutes and go .why not developing more intimacy in between ?

2. Gavin's initiation in handling telephone - exchange system ?

- don't take " it's not your responsibility " an end talk with superior , ask why and develop more empthy or sympathy - you end by reviving " not your biz " as a single of taboo and it lead to a hidden agenda . 

Play dumb not smart will get you more .

3. Conversion at MRT : my son is going to marry a girl who will take this her 3rd marriage - her past 2 husbands were all dead - it worries me..

4. Why and why not : wip - east meet west is In a critical situation , how should I stand ? 

- it's not my biz and why should I be the victim in this ? 

5. 2 movies 

- gaudi and his dangiri in Barcelona : build for 130 years and not finish - fishi is not god's business - God is not in s hurry . The Japanese sculpture : not to thigh who he is but to look at what he look and think about what he thinks 

- gun man - Sean penn built a good body give me a fantasy of building my own as well - yes a fantasy 

Chi Chi & Isabelle

The season went well as long as you willing hi listen and tell your heart people here who spending time with you is to grant their help .. The mentality tell the difference and it create a diffenent space for communication .

Coffee is the ice breakers : how we use and see coffee in our life 

Name for kid is another : how bold enough to take this decion in our own hand 

Business for result in coaching : Isabel's input is valuable not only apply to Jason :

- a coach listen and ask question 

- support coaches to make his decision 

- inspire them to think 

- confidant sometimes 

🅿️ the silo 

- communication and respect amongst EC team 

- the core value buy-in - interpete - influence design of workshop 

Long flight home

I took business all the time if the trip is exceed 4 hours - I rationales is as a reward to oneself and comfort myself that if I reach the age of 70 , international fly won't be viable to me , why bother to take biz if you are in wheelchair ?

The German express airplane clash cause many thought - the suicide co-pilot take 147 lives with him - a tragedy .

Aka - my pronounce and spelling is wrong - formal president of afghanis so again drone - so so strong .

Landing and transfer as Singapore Chang Yi airports met the YPO Japanese  member , we both decided to take shower at lounge - I done it twice in my returning flight . And we sit on he same area as well -- do we develop conversion . It's similar to what NPR Ted hous " press - play " said : strangers in one room create tension but not empathy , but if not stranger , we create empthy .

He opening share with me ( he is the 4 th generation in his family business ) 3 kid and the second one develop DNA indeficent syndrome : it resonate my memory about James Sun's daughter - ambigle -- she is 14 , I hardly can picture a 14 years girl need 24 hours care and support .

First flat cabinet experience - I must be suborning loud - well I can't help it - really 

Good night Melbourne and good day Taipei.

GLC 2015 day 3 & 4

Bob Grldorf touch my heart - in a few season and wave:

1. My profession when fill immigration form : musician always .

2. Writing music : compose unconsciously and purposely .

3. Guitar and drum : you can express your anger , punk is a viecle forexpression. 

4. Be very careful : war comes out of blue 

5. Get money , get famous and get laid.

6. Rich : feeling good about affordable 

7. Living a long life : annt 106 but the last 3 years is neither dead or alive .

8. Entreprenuer don't fit in the exiting world , so they create a new world of their own .

9. Neverever going back to be poor  

It's complex

Change your face is for increase confidence ? To whom ? Yourself or domeone else ? Someone you love or anyone else?

The risk is once it didn't workout , you will need to carry the new birth mark all the way - physically and psychologically , is it worth ?

And you can't let anyone - especially the one who live with you to say anything - how can anyone ignored it and blind to this ?

It's to hard , really hard 

GLC day 2

1. Advanced forum officer workshop result better than we expected : the 40 celebration exercise bring team 2 a deep connecting with others : simple - what forum meant to me ...

2. Moderate a woman in power lunch meeting and clearify many issues : Cynthia from WYN . Camelea . Maggie . Lucy . BJ Cythnia and the late Commer Jessie . 

3. Accompany Hubert and Angeli to a Garriesy of Victoria tour and buy park of shoes Hubert did.

4. Try to book flight back one day earlier - nothing to do on 28th- Wei chi have no plan and ...

5. Taipei chapter dinner : Linda have quarrel with Patrick , the leberioh restaurant .

Ronnie James Dio

Incidentally leant Dio passed away in 2010 that is 5 years ago - one of my favorite rock vocalists who give me my youth in rebel days -- bring back my memories of " temple of the king " and my infant understanding of rock

" man on the sliver mountain " is crave in his tomb -- well put 

Victim of a friendly support

Lucy want to do a female ( woman leader summit ) and I become the so call " master mind " " coach " " moderator " , I can't resist and say no in public and the nightmare grows ... How to admit / acknowledge and not been sobertage .. 

1. Do the plan and ask them to do all the work 

2. Regally check the milestone 

3. Don't get panic and take it as another learning in life ..

GLC Melbourne day 1

The advance forum officer workshop facilitated by David Long and the other CFF / forum officer go simple .

I am having an early breakfast with ping Feng's wife - talking about kids educations and dealing with ADHD -

Chapter dinners and comes the devil

I need to correct David Du before he mistaken the person who oppose WPO Taiwan and Alice is right - David can't really stick to confidenciality - it's a growing problem to him .

It's a great dinner : thanks to Patrick and Linda especially for order some special food like lobster omelet and camarwli . Overeating is the problem to me I know .

1.Adrian came and join us , his understanding of YPO is blur - warm hospitality and many drinks - to me not , if I can liaison him to buy Hubert house ..

2. Alice share how Ken's mother see Ken in YPO and ask him about YNG -- I am curiosity to know what do Mona think .

3. Quit smoking small talk between Patrick / David / Linda / Alice 

4. Teach for Taiwan is a topic and only a few know it's a globe program 

Founding father of YPO forum

I manage to take this picture : tell terry , Jofi to come and chat with Maggie , talking go Ronda as well :

Opening ceremony

2 introspection 

1. Why almost all the international event open with traditional / aboriginal ambience for good fortune ? Dose tribe connect the heaven and earth closer ?

2. When performing a ceremony / ritual we don't fully understand , the performer can't be the interpretor since it will create an identity issue - especially when you hear an aboriginal burst out fluent English and explain to you what they are doing - we either need another translator or better to use subtitle on the screen / monitor to enhance visual image .

3. Market place is not as sexy as before / fewer sponsor or non - rich pocket sponsor - the leverage / synergy with YPO is no longer that strong ?

Finish reading : slightly out of focus - Robert Carper

War juriousism or photography - it started by Robert - an Hungarian who begin it as Spanish civil war .

I knew him first from the documentary film which make me cry - 3 years ago and now the semi-bio of WW2 he is telling is such a good reading - I finish it on my way to Melbourne and kept thinking about this exordenarry man ;

1. First to shoot nomade landing 

2. He passion to war 

3. The little pink love 

4. Lush life and expensive apaptment 

5. Hemingway and Robert father & Son sharing 

A good writer and great photographer . 

" out of focus " is the true human life .

Number 13 and number 4

I see some elevator in some cities don't have the 13th or 4th floor - they simply skip it or use 12-A B to eliminate 13.

If you are in retailing biz especially in the field you need to issue numbers - orders - sequence , if you must do it in sequence , the 12 A B or 3 A B may apply , if in order of sequence is not apply , then why not simply omit the unlucky numbers ( I means in some countries ) and make Everyone happy ? You call the number from 1-20 without use 4 or 13 . As simple as that .

It apply to my question to ww2 movies - no matter how good the film is , we ( or the America film director ) set the tone for German bad guy - stupid guy ; American good and smart : what will the box occur reflect to this discrimination although its base on war history ( or winner's tationale ) this is the question I have in mind . 

Do they ever show all the anti-nazi movies in German and how is the movie critic tell ? 

jiggles Davis and launch of forum

I met jiggle this morning at Hilton breakfast cafe and decided to make an impromptu appointment with him - he nod and we meet over a coffee by 10:00 am here in Melbourne :

1. Jiggle decided to break his chapter into 4 president forum by the year of 1975 when he was chapter chair 

2. He promote the confidenciality in the beginning and borrow some religion group rule combine the TEC format 

3. He believe relationship is important and 2 major element to build forum are : entrepreneur interest in other people ; YPO emphasis on idea exchange - when group become larger , you can't really exchange idea among one another 

4. He think moderate is the key to success , not the deployed coach 

5. He dont think doing biz with each other in forum will jeopardize forum 

6. He met terry only once and he don't know why terry is .

7. His forum still active and alive 

8. He's been in the YPO / WPO for 51 years .

Impact by the book : new beginning by 55

Since the book title perfect match where I am , dare to change become the key thinking now - why change ? Because I am 55? Chang what ? Am I not satisfied with who I am or what I do ? How to change ? Another blur question I have. 

Be you vs becoming the one you want to see is a transformation --- owing to the goal ... 

Strong reflection

Can't get rid of it :

1. Why I was seen as single ? Freedom ? And how I response with a inappropriate answer : MBA : married but available ?

2. Why feel strange when Jennifer H mentioned RAW is not a problem but when asked for favor , she seems reluctant to do so ?

3. Why free is the gift ?

4. It's so dangerous when Uni Air didn't make a good landing on March 19?

Rentals car service

He said it's no problem to arrive the destination by 9:00 am , however the highway traffic wasn't as we expected this morning : hsing chu run / Korean pop artist concert and the heavy frog . The driver is young and must be nervous . We finally get to the tree plantation ceremony temple by 9:20 am , the ceremony just begin and its a fun and intresting event 

Plate my tree and with the blessing of " as eternity as heaven and earth , good days everyday " 

Pulltion turn into forest is a good intention . The way to Taoyung airport took us almost an hour , thank God I leave it earlier .

Ate too much for lunch at Singapore airline lounge - feel sleepy .

The connecting flight to Melbourne is 11:30 pm , I have to stay at Singapore airport for 5 hours -- reading and ...

Ready for NDC 7 reunion at Liu Li Cafe

Doing 55 forum chat

It's another beginning , I don't mind it's a trasaction or developing as long as it fit my value and goal. It seems I will do it in Beijing by end of April ...

To work the the senior china base forum is intersting , it is.

Arm Chair arrived home earlier than scheduled time , mother come down the stair and says : oh , it's an arm chair , Meilijg said to put it at mothers room , I say no necessary ....

Lunch with WOB - woman on board society - only 3 members's / fellow is what they call themselves : Lisa wang / the media giant Yu chin and Ypo members Jennifer Wang - Jill and the other supporter demostrate how mess this org is and why a consensus worship is necessary - Jennifer warm me not to go so deep as forum - I hear it 

It's all about commitment : the important and how it provided values to each one .

Cliff coach is healthy .

But myself 2 jackets - love it .. Really 

A big big mistake

As a facilitator , there is no way you become the person who breach the confidenciality in forum - even its a workshop or training .

Regent is a bloody lesson and the worst scenario is I may disqualified as a CFF and never perform my role since , it will end my coaching reputation as well is someone really want to kill my career at this point .

I am not S and I don't know what outcome will be , send a nessage and prepare for my apology - I don't know what

SC

2 makes the conversation better as you don't need to share or look after othes , this is a dialogue . SC didn't aware my emotion / self awareness / reflective grow from my blogging for years . 

Eric Clapton is a big deal for Larry I know and I will do it . 

Isable - chi chi - Diana season goes well , clear the air and remove all the speculation . It seems another 1.2 millions contract built in already .

Buy myself 2 jacket - enjoy life .

A scary experience today when fly Uni Air back from shanghai pu tong airport , the landing to sunsang is not right , pilot pull up the airplane and take the second landing - I witness everything ... So risky .

Jay / Eugenia and my 500.000 rewards -//" 

Feeling ok for the 400.000 investment. 

Free don't mean less value

Value is how the receiver acknowleg rethen then your perspective .

Li - Fung :

1. Huang Chen the photographer who assist the event invites me to the ice breaker and I pick him as my " johari window sharing " partner - inclusiveness is the best way to perform empathy .

2. James Chen is in an extreme anxiety on internet + anything revolution , it's a dead or alive Game and the result will show in 3 quarters --

3. Love to see James daughter : Amy - sunshine and pleasant who aim for Columbia or U-Pan 

4. Many ask for photos and connect in weChat . I am fine with it

5. Learnt and finalize the trust in 3 important keys : 

- it's given , not establish 

- it's exchange over time 

- it should be mutually benefit 

6. Lunch at Ding Sheng garden - Ler Hung Chang old house - good place 

Xingwei 

- student leaders forum : sunrise / tong tie / ming hung / Amy / James / lu / purple :

- good 3 hours 

- I buy them a dinner Outside 

- it's good go connects with kids who need help and peer sharing / support 

Forum low and high

6677 don't have anyone willing to do presentations , not even acknowledge there is parking lot from the update , I didn't talk much but to observe the energy level is not right , so I simply did a " your one comment to improve our forum health " then a lot of issue surface, it pave the way to further discuss how to make it better :

1. From Monthly 4 hours change to every 2 months for 24 hours retreat overnight in different venue 

2. Check if sabbatical apply to the non active members 

3. A one on one in depth non protocol apply session for itimency. 

4. Blending with man flavor / approach 

What happens yesterday ?

Preparing for potential conflict between couples coahing and it went well.

I am not in the loop due to the corporate expense control and this is not what I can say : take it as an investment or nice to have ? Spiritual food is hard to replace butter and bread .

Lunch with bill / Angeli / frank and its a debating on :

1. Value of chef Kim 

2. The functional role for management financial 

3. F & B depts where to 

4. Birds nest 

5. Andente and new shareholders 

Met Fumei before home , she is fine and I shall not take her as a no person since it all come from Steven , Fumei is not in the loop of Regent corporate develop . Happy to know that Regent Taipei forum running still 

Sound enroll to Tunghai Univesity

This is truly a good news to the family , sound is enrolled to Tunghai university today , via the " many stars program " and he managed to get into his first choice - the sociology major .

Tunghai is my dream Univesity at my time for univrsity entrance examination , I am so happy to receive the news before fly out to SH this morning . 

The following 4 years means a lot to him , if there any goal to be set : loose his weight , enjoy univrsity life , embrace the freedom of campus , find his passion in life or fall in love the first time . 

I really want go celebrate : puki island ? Or any interesting place to be ? 

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It ain't easy

Now it's not simply coahing for business or leadership but to determine whether the owner and couple will remain good relationship or turn to biz partner only . I hate to take side and don't won't to be seen as hungry for getting contract from my friends . But this is blur and it's really blur . 

Trap in office political wasn't what I ask for but if I need to get my hands dirty and keep them marriage working , I need to do what I do . 

About last night

She do have a communication problems and never admit it and so stubble to listen . She request other to listen to her but deny any chance for feedback and challeng me - say I am a coach to others why not able to really understand her ? Well if you close your door for listening to feedback , how can others know what you thinking and you jump to the conclusion all the way on your way - how can others support you ?

This is the thinking in my head now di he last night .

I agree the third or fourth time for her to perform plastic surgery which is totally against my value of a true human , why said my caring turn to pressure and giving me ugly wording ? 

What I need to learn is : Infomation is for receiving not request for accept , it similar to " don't put your words into my mouth " the strong statement hurt even more than physical bully .

Yes , it's not about Nail. 

Picture of the day

1, I should not having sharks fin 

2. YPO event at bank 

3. Dinner with WPO Koreans and forum rule apply 

Story of Du family

David share after the WPO Korea - Taiwan dinner :

 My grandfather teach mandarin so my father understands a few and attend commercial school . So my father get his job work in Keelung harbor bureau as small clutte . At that thing the biggest shipping company KBI aware Japanese lost the war so asked my father to use his bank account for taking care shipping company clerk after war . Due to my fathers integrity , 6 years after war KBI resume biz and ask my father to be the sole agent for 52 years and gradually intro Japanese biz to taiwan - and so he the big Japanese house in Ren Ai road is used to be the resident of KBI president , they encourage my father buy it and now it's the 80 years house we live today . 

So honest and integrity is the key to our family and many Japanese biz Comecon done between my fathers and many now family business . 

I am surprise to hear Jamie said about Morrison forwarded today and how Jamie accuse Danny's father stolen the company belong to his family before - NA family ... 

YPO is really a small world -

A good movie teaser but not the movie

And the winner this week is " running all night "

Teach for Taiwan

Ann Ting is a good speaker , she took her experice resonate what she passionate with and connect audience .

If you are always good from childhood , you are expected to fly higher and prove yourself once and again ... Try too hard 

Yes , we are all impressed and then ? If it's not single person's responsibliy , how collective wisdom can do more ? More to others ..

TEACH FOR TAIWAN model after teach for many ...what is the " taiwan unique " case ? ...

The other speaker Chen Bar selling sympathy too much .. He work to hard too proof him right . I have problem to interact with her brain .. 

Coco Lee : woman in power summit

A Yes from her before I take the HK airport express to airport - it means a lot of details / planning ahead / jean support this ideas and Bruce endose it .. 

Today supercharge

It went better than my expectations since I set no expectation but to try my best to inclusive everyone .

Everyone is exhausted due to varies reason but the somatic program at least keep us in action - it's good , no lecture , no classroom and many take aways.

I enjoy it and I am happy to know I did create value for this forum . 

Linch at Lee Garden is amazing good so another indulgence meal for me.

Opening for today

1. What I do ? Professional friend 

HK reflection and introspection

11 @ airport 

- meet fermi and having lunch together 

- drone and feedback to taiwan 

- billy ho and my prograsive eyewear 

- dinner : coporne / Wei jay / Danny / fermi

- Karaoke : stay till one in the morning 

12@ island 

- Jeff long breakfast 

- the fish and the media company 

- expensive lunch at pacific place 

- get my glass and 

- ICF coffee 

- daniel dinner at downtown HK - he had a plan but reluctant to share fist 

- take the ding ding ding 

- appreciate great coffee at coffee acdemica 

12@ 4 seasons

- see Hubert 

- Hwa Yi - the artist 

- what I do ( the metaphor for kid / wife and myself ) 

Roxy gathering

Ling Wei is truly a friend with warm gesture , last weekend , he post a " Mondy night gathering at my bar - roxy at 9:00 pm " instantly , I sign up for it and under my pressure schedule , I managed to be there by 9:20 pm.

My last time saw him was years ago when tried to get fruit back home , that the worst experice I had with fruits and she was drinking with some strange foreigner at ling wei's bar . It's not a present memories and I transfer my upset emotion to my friend Lin - who we knew for more than 30 years and who committe to run his rock pub all the way.

It's fun to connect with old friends like fun long Shen and he share me his current project : produce Ai Wei Wei album - a risky business in China .

Jimi - the guartst who use a Flying V in 80's turn to new age and curator himself who share with me his current work for Nan Hui Chi memorial foundation and to my big surprise the foundation is either run or support by Da Kwang! Isn't it irony ? And the indie bank clips lead vocal Shao yin. 

New friends : paintist Chuang Pu , artist Long Chung Err who married jimmy Lai and the interested poemist Kuang Kuang , we spend decent time Sheng life and marriage , he is an extraordinary person to know and I am happy to initiate such a connection .

What I can't really stand is smoke , bar allow smoking inside and this is the main reason block me out - I enjoy connect with new friend , reconnect with old friend without alcohol and cigarettes as catalys .

KK and I : we are true to life , we renel , we anti establishment , we enjoy movie in theater and share authentic friendship 

Go with the flow and drift by the bigger current

Doing forum FSFE this morning at Regent : sunny open and lunch , and paricipants are :

1. Chris Tsai 2. Steven Pan 3. Rose Tsao 4. Kelly Wu 5. Bryne Lee 6. Mona ...

Well , it went well ... As it supposed to be. I am glad that steven join and endose on the four steps and me.

Chris's call is a bigger current to distract my flow - Paul come for half an hour , rush to Hubert season ( first time sit at her mother's office ) , and rush back to met his son - Justine - a nice young talent who enroll to 20 under 20 - the Peter thief foundation and create : teen net / motivation Gen for his good cause 

- support teens who develop depression 

  With my limitation of bandwidth , I don't spend time for checking sound's school , I will make it up tonight. 

Stuck on FSFE yesterday

Now I have to rationale and tell a story , create the space and build a theatrical yet save place for everyone .

1. Opening : your role in your forum now ..and what bring you here ? (expectation)

2. Camul and walk beside me : Sanjay Gupta about Denmark .. 

3. Engagement protocol :

- right here , right now ( one action ..)

- what time is your heart ?

- absent minded : forgot / busy 

- no electronic device to distract others 

4. 3 major corner stone 

- confidentiality bring safe 

- trust bring vaulability

- open bring risk taking 

5. 人在-打開-分享-連結（交心也讓人醉）

6. Communication starter : where did your name come from : Julio Iglesias story and my name 

7. Basic : c protocol : 

- on sharing but not giving advise 

- listen is for understanding 

- why empathic ?

8. Exercise :

- list your emotions in 3 minutes 

- mindful meditation ( 3 ways of dealing with stress : meditation / acknowledged pythcial therapy / Prozac ) 

- sharing your vaulability 

- "not alright"group self-curiosity  

- 4 steps pattern leading 

9. Q & A

10. Check out : your one take away today 

Second team up with Jorge

It went well actually , we spend 3 hours discuss his materials and revise / improve to more dynamic - interactive process and on the last session - when half of the members want to leave earlier , I have to share his viewpoint : the platinum rule yet the golden rule with him and we did a good closing :

Hartman's " true color " to tell your personality - exchange card and better your card . Then 4 colors groups sharing is a very profound tool , easer than Mbrg or DISC . We had a good session together at class .

2 coaching invitation from multi forum retreat

It's a good retreat / challenge program with the help of Renny , it's my experience also , I enjoy the hiking this afternoon and surprise to encounter with 2 coahing invitation --

Eric Brandt from sandiago - tele coaching / Skype coaching 

TAKA from Japan for 2 / 2 days personal coach in town -- is it interesting ? 

Little wulai fall is so beautiful - really

I have homework to do -- now back home 

Mutil forum first night

I see fake aboriginal playing their role in front of foreign visitors and they modify the dance which I - the locals hardly can tell it's traditional tribe dance or not ; we eat BBQ and drink beer / Kao Liueng -- this is too much for everyone .

Dry run under sunny sky - first night shower with rain.. Put on raincoat and eat under the cloudy sky ...

Sam drunk and he drink it all with the chief - I am not quite sure if a fake one and he lost himself - falling down and hurt his face -- taiwan members try very hard to get him back to the bus - back to the room and end the first night .

It's Jorge's 60 birthday last night and we celebrate --

Knowing jorge more you like him more - how wonder Irvin Yalom is his teacher before ? Amazing 

Talking to Aki and seeing Danny Liew

It's been a long while old music industry friend see one another - auomi concert in taipei bring us to meet and greet . Danny doing promoter / agent for 14 years and Aki join him lately as his liaison in Beijing Japanese artist to asia - mainly HK / Malaysia / China ? And Taiwan.

 Maybe my way of doing is different from them and I will conduct a reunion gathering in April for all :

1. Aki / Danny Liew 

2. Sarah / makoto / Matthew 

3. Bruce / Neil / ken 

We don't need to build any contract

It's meaningless to use contract to constrain ourselves -- and the mutual trust is dilute .

" what make you upset ? " is the greeting from wen chi yesterday and this is an old cliche to me . I have no emotion over this tele conference as my decision made already -curtesy and skin deep social is fine . If the burning issue is event on March 14. To be a fire fighter won't build solid relationship in between .

As confusicec said " gentleman broke up , never bad mouth " I follow it .

How can a restaurant serve latte in a bowl size ? Look at that 

Unexpected valnable at SFF

It happens 5 minutes before we ended the forum meeting and it's the " I appreciate the person who sit at my right side " S shows his valnabilty to all and it trigger half of the group dive in the same mood --- a corporate forum with light trigger can go this far , I am glad with what we did .

On my back back to Taipei , sit on the HSR . The kid sit at the same row is so naughty and noize, he drive her mother crazy , after I find out the reason is " I want to eat " I reach out and offer my bum to the mother . You can easily be part of the solution .

After Steve Vai project meeting , I are the Japanese noodle at breeze plaza taipei station - the woman with luggage hardly can do "self service " after order at the counter - I reach and help for her for the sake of speed up my meal - in return I receive many gratitude eyes ..

Woke up in the middle of the night

I know I am alone in my dark room , but I see sparking lights twinkle - some purple , some red and it all demostrate a dim light . I am lost somewhere and I know this is my empathy when hearing what H disclosed yesterday ..

Falling asleep again -when alone , I listen to TEDX radio by NPR , probably fall into sleep in 5 minutes .

Good topic : why we love ? ... Can't finish it , I should listen on the move instead .

Download many good video for forum works - can and should improve alway .

" I dare to " is a good book - force you to change everyday , the tiny little things accumulate to decent something , a good method to follow .

John grey : man / big = big score ; woman : any = equal score . Trivial  many win vital few in woman world ; vital many dominate in man world .

Now you know how to score 

Heavy H

The session this afternoon goes so heavy , I wish it getting lighter when we go throguh it together .

I was asked to change the schedule and having coffee outside - this is unusual for my past 4 years experience coaching H.

We went to Hill - the creative cafe around TaiMu and beginning the exploration .

 H is under stress - in term of Ambadsador hotel and relationship with brother , on the other hand. The domestic relationship is getting nowhere as well .. Dysfunction and not having Normal life .

 H want to gain back his life - approaching 50 and not about to waste more time .. This is to solve his life than others ... 

He is in the " soliuton mode " which I try to lead him away - its cognitive and acceptance stage . 

 For biz : put more focus on his controls side is better .. 

 Then we move to see his current project - good property and good house design by Yamamoto . 

 I am glad to be on his side and reaching out for him - the value is getting more and more clear .

D + S reflection

Scenario A: It's difficult to explain your instinct , if you really can swallow all the risk - I mean do it alone , you can do it freely . Once you realize there is more stakeholders , more expert challenging your decision , you become emotional because you don't know how to explain to others your instinct and more over - now you are not taking the risk alone -- this is the delima keep you wake up in the night , bring you anxiety and you become stressful ...

The evolution of couple co-run :

Step 1: for your information 

Step 2: for your information only 

Step 3: should we discuss it ?

Step 4: should we decide it together ?

Step 5: should be share the risk together ?

Scenario B : the new president - hire gun soon be on board , how the tradition goes and how the balancing situation can co-exist ? The complicate dot and solid line . Another way to see the blur entity .

Scenario C: money is not in my pocket . And the mortgage level is higher than 5 years before . Should we be more conservative ? Saving for the raining days 

Scenario D: no comparison and don't compare who is the fortunate daughter in law .. Don't do it ..

Annual income 2014

Taiwan is exceed 11 millions NT and foreign income exceed 5 millions so far in 2014, I clear the road and aiming for annual revenue up to 1 millions US - 30 millions NT in 2015

Noah distortion and cognitive solution

1. They look down my trust and play around it: loop -- in china , change on his own interest is a nature , favor to one party is the " winner take it all " scenario .

2. They dishonor the oral agreement -- oral agreement is never a solid contract and even contract sign off , breach and break happens .

3. I've been sacrifice for so many times -- no one forcing you to take these actions - buy ticket for just a talk , not strictly guiding how the process / set up should be and suffer from the imperfection .

4. It can't be done without me -- it's always a team work , no solicitor , no logistics , no incentive , no administer , I would never perform smoothly , in addition , this is not a MUST in life , but s nice to have , so there are many line us for fill up your space and they might happy to do it for free - to quote Chinese terms is to " support " 

My value and my believe is highter thank others , so , be me and be confident in redirect this 

Noah - hurry up

Is it the working model in Noah or across china ? Even though they aware the decline for March 14 facilitation assignment but they don't want to link it with the " retainers negociation " 

I tried to seperate emotion and issues and have KC to deal with biz issue mainly , but I do know the on and off discussion or negotiate already dry my passion up for them . My projection for Noah change from a long term partner to on time deal - every time is first time .

How I should response properly without damage my master reputation and at the same time negociate to what I want - if this is the game , don't put my foot to their shoes , don't get iratate and don't arose emotions this time . 

Love what you do but fair to how market respect you. 

Jimmy Wu's long breakfast

I am not sure why jimmy mention " business models " of forum so many times and think large about the building block for any community .

He knows well about online community and share his strong background and more over - the people he know and can leverage for the forum - mentoring resources - if I discount 50% of what he said , still a relevant resource to me.

1. Next Generation forum and mentoring machneskm 

2. Chinese writer association 

3. One world after " we are the world " music for charity campaign .

 Interesting guy .

 I am forum guy and forum guide --/

QB and his tumor

Got QB to shave his hair and return look like a little ship , the pet beauty salon owner told us his meat tumor under jaw is growing , someone must take care of it. 

A dog / pet or little family members ?

Korean movie

Director Chang Yi intro many Korean movies after our conversation , I can got 2 only and I like the " memories of murder " - the human nature and reaction is so nature .

" joint secure zone " is so interesting - tension between north and South Korean and friendship between human beings.

Put self before everything except Fish

I seldom survey a person online before meeting him as long as one referral introduced . And I did it this time : for jimmy wu .

Since I found almost nothing when googling , so I jump into conclusion that he is nobody - I digest and develop more self - awareness and lean my bias is too much weight on person I don't really know .

Put self before is like to " ask yourself " before question anything to others , from self - control , leadership , awareness to curiosity ... 

Do I equip it or just telling others what do do but you didn't perform such attribution ?

This is how the statement after chai Chi's documentary " under the dome " taking about the haze in China create so many discussing and the product wisdoms is " on one can wake a person who is faking in sleeping "