Noah distortion and cognitive solution

1. They look down my trust and play around it: loop -- in china , change on his own interest is a nature , favor to one party is the " winner take it all " scenario .

2. They dishonor the oral agreement -- oral agreement is never a solid contract and even contract sign off , breach and break happens .

3. I've been sacrifice for so many times -- no one forcing you to take these actions - buy ticket for just a talk , not strictly guiding how the process / set up should be and suffer from the imperfection .

4. It can't be done without me -- it's always a team work , no solicitor , no logistics , no incentive , no administer , I would never perform smoothly , in addition , this is not a MUST in life , but s nice to have , so there are many line us for fill up your space and they might happy to do it for free - to quote Chinese terms is to " support " 

My value and my believe is highter thank others , so , be me and be confident in redirect this