About last night

She do have a communication problems and never admit it and so stubble to listen . She request other to listen to her but deny any chance for feedback and challeng me - say I am a coach to others why not able to really understand her ? Well if you close your door for listening to feedback , how can others know what you thinking and you jump to the conclusion all the way on your way - how can others support you ?

This is the thinking in my head now di he last night .

I agree the third or fourth time for her to perform plastic surgery which is totally against my value of a true human , why said my caring turn to pressure and giving me ugly wording ? 

What I need to learn is : Infomation is for receiving not request for accept , it similar to " don't put your words into my mouth " the strong statement hurt even more than physical bully .

Yes , it's not about Nail.