Arbitration at Li Ren law firm

1. It's not a zero-sum game and the winning range is 3-7. So the undertake is between 5-9 millions .

2. It takes 6-12 months depending on arbitrator and since the amount is 160.000 only , to me a 5-5 or 4-6 chance outcome will arrive within 6 months 

3. Total coat on hand 

- law firm : 300.000

- arbitration fees : 160.000 

- time / man power 

- political risk unknown 

My question :

1. Do we really win money back form culture affair ministry ? Unlikely 

2. Our people don't know who our arbitrator is ? How we going to win ?

My thinking

1. If forum require entertainment as a protocol and spending decent money , I will quit. ( 6677 ) 

2. If forum require same level of social & ecomoic status , then I will quit ( Tiger ) 

3. If forum can't bring me value equally to what I contribute , I will quit ( Diverso ) 

Queen

A bad ticketing experience : the wording is inhuman and the ticket office don't response to customer need , I am consider not to place Order from it now .

1. You credit more than 20.000 NT and there is no confirmation mail or text message 

2. No clear answer to when the ticket will sent ? Only repeat blur answers 

3. I told the call center rep that I am welcome recording as I want other to hear the customizes voice loud and clear 

4. Not implite but inpatient .

 Glad I made the call and make sure the transaction is complete and my tickets is sitting to be sent ( cross my finger ) 

It's swift

Taking up the vice chairman position in 5 minutes :

1. Only Huber and myself and shu in as mc / minutes taker 

2. Samantha came and test my ? My reply :

- no salary / only to stream line the Managment and responsibility 

- KC still on forum works pay roll 

- no need to replace mangers name : Fu is in Huilien and remain unchanged 

3. Shu In ask should any " question " be asked on the proposal for approval : my answer is simple : yes . I am here to change what's not right .

To reward myself - I had my best Japanese deep fried pork rib at sogo department store.

Aware - Acknowledge - Acceptance

Only Yes and No change our life : Maybe never will ...

To feel how I feel and to acknowledge all the emotions occurred and willing to accept them .

Mature to deal with oneself and gradually influence others who surrendered you - those with breath and spirit ..

Emotion and Awareness

I am about to take a role to train my emotional muscle as I should be going against many " old school " rule / routines 

Hanes : month long in person coaching

Non stop DU for more than a year  my leaning this session :

1. We don't create work , create value 

2. We align personal & peofessional value and take it as a transferable compency .

3. You identify 2 area to demostrate value : cross ( function / BU / factory / area ) for problem solve ; new ( area / biz / trends / service ) for future opportunity . 

4. Combine solid and blur goals complete your vision .

5. Not in decision making group : feel lonely and left over ; not developing 2 way communion : no caring . 

 Care giver - a local professional charge at 75.000 / month . You will spend 900.000 ( material not include ) per year .

Change is to do for thing you relic tend to do

My laundry list :

1. House keeping before Meiling arrive home by Sep. 7th.

2. File on each business domain now 

- notebook for each 

- meeting notice for each 

- weekly file for all 

- pile in right place 

3. Prepare all slide for public use 

4. Diary workout - stretch and meditation 

5. Reading 

6. Reflection & inteopection 

7. Appreciation 

Unsubscribe spotfly

It's more complicated than Netflix - as it tight up with iTunes payment , you need a few steps before unsubscribe it and the payment ending date is : 9/23 . For another month 

Just one touch and the change begin

   Analyze myself and I know I am not a Netflix heavy user , there's no point to subscribe it and waste money .

  By touch the unsubscribe icon and I free myself from the " spend but seldom use " trap . It said the payment cycle ended by September 2nd : I am ok with the few days extra cost ..

  Who ask me to sign up ? Hubert a heavy user , why I do what he said ? Some documentary really draw my attention , how come I decided to drop it 

1. Too much time consuming if I really want to use up my subscription .

2. Not so many films I am into and I don't want to falling into the "soap drama "syndrome which is watching all day like a zombie 

3. Even its monthly due I am affordable , collectively its money I spend without notice .

Next ? Spotfly ? I am not really a heavy user as well ... 

  Change from the touch and touch for change . 

Linda

A 21 times daily update really align linda and me - at least to place us on the same page for live coaching - this is an exciting experience after 4 months of coaching contract signing .

The 21 times update follow this route :

1. Voice first 2. Voice for many times a day . 3. Short memo 4. Short snd interactive Memo 5. Update mutually .

Every one deserves a custom made coaching model and only for them 

Mark today

Big day for both Meiling this morning : a possibly new face for her and different life to me : people taking on some challenge to change their life - woman and man do have their own rationale ...

I hope : safe for her and peaceful to me.

Again , only YES & NO can change our life , maybe never will.

2 document

Simon Binner : Assistsnt dying & Andrew : the fathers story 

This 2 very profound documentary from net easy ... Keep people thinking . 

Diverso to Divorce

Diverso forum aims to inclusive all differences , if not celebrate the difference ., at least to accept it . Well , the burst out conflict between 2 members got me thinking : and this is my conclusion to myself :

1. Forum is not everything , it's not life 

2. Conflict resolution ain't easy 

3. We don't hi-jack a group to again people you don't like 

4. The value is not what you give but also what you get : don't put it on priory but just try your best .

5. You do have bias to some people even some race, you don't stereotype it as the culture label , rather take it as a personal mark - personality ect

Bangkok meeting is a forum meeting and at the same time to resolve the conflict , I don't know what outcome will be , as I reset my priority , I don't want to hold my pressure commit to come every time , there is exception in life , for Diverso , I am taking my exceptions - and yes it's a divorce to me to the forum .

What I miss :

Brother like Thien ; Kiraki ... 

King Hwa forum Retreat take away

1. Vincent LIN and his family forum / coaching invitation 

2. Connection with Chen Han : nice guy

3. Knowing Randy more and interest in his son's initiative : emotion check app

4. Lucy in low 

5. Robert transforming to social entrepreneurs .

6. Karim : new and deep thinker 

7. Jonnathan : not well and can't be with us .

Others :

1. Lotus mountain and the see watching guanyi Buddha .

2. Lotus feast 

3. Fan Yu country development and grandson of Dr. Sun Yi Sen family 

S + D

1.Rare appraise make it more meaningful 

2.Talk behind is not a leaders behavior 

3. It's a leadership issue or a communication issue ?

4. For those less defense , you nightly overly protective 

5. You check and balance and get to surface the real issue 

6. It's good to be family but not really business partner 

7. Going south and knowing the land better 

8. I am not stuck - I have time to exercise but I didn't 

Lunch alone and small talk

2 group of young man sitting next to me , the right team :

1. Someone develop brain tumor and doing treatment at Wang Fan hospital , I have to see him everyday between 9:00-10:00 pm , Doctor should not give him too much hope .

On the left : 

1. Someone taking him to hospital and the taxi driver is kind enough to carry him up to his house , he is very sick , 72 years old but didn't aware he is about to die .

My resonation

1. When Maryanne said why charge a high price ? People expect you to delivery what's outstanding ..

2. A contract with forum client ? As Sue did ? 

3. Coaching is a slow process .. 

4. A life long commitment : 1.2 million x 40 times no matter she remarried or not : 48 millions 

4. Ding's girl friend : 38 years old tv star

5. Why not connect with Li Hui now ... 

6. My shake head bring strength to my father ? 

7. The homeless and the helpless 

Life changing session

H don't have a crue what I am here this morning as Jeanie not yet send him revise consultant agreement , but at the session things burst out :

1. The divorce agreement surface : with terms and condition ...48 m commitment for life .

2. The brother issue and the breakthrough in M :

- the transfer and transformation of his role and position in the family . 

It's a clear call for adventure and my resonate is :

1. 5 years coaching support him to be more reflective and introspective 

2. Positioning thinking bring him to think and see better . 

According to him : it's a life changing moment to him : family / business and personal .... What a morning and what an experience . 

Vice Chairman of Shin Kai

It's much compliance than I thought :

1. Conflict of interest for providing consultant service 

2. Leagle obligation 

3. Responded for p & l : 

See what a quick yes bring to you . Need to carefully check with KC and make it work for both party ... It's not a joke 

One too many

I forgot to bring the gift pack to Maryanne this morning , calling home and ask Meiling if I left in at home or at taxi , she said at home and complain about my doing to much for friends - enough is enough ... I kind of agree and bought one pineapple cake as near by place to replace it .

Day with phil and Maryanne :

1. Phil is uneasy , I finally notice that he is anxiety about the it issue at hotel which he need to conduct online course tomorrow morning - we bring him back to hotel by 4:00 to smooth his anxiety .

2. Maryanne : not taking many photo this time . We agreed on : Joseph Campbell , coaching is more meaningful , snow is not the bad things , grow inside you , not attend the Boulder CFF retreat this year , Vincent Ding have a girl friend who is a tv drama stat .. We should visit Austria farm one day and see the Kangoloo ... 

3. I invite Alan - Hubert's driver to our lunch together . 

4. The Gellery exzibitor try so hard to sell her painting .

5. Marvin at the lobby of regent and so warm to me 

6. CC offer the reading room as nice as before .

7. Ting Tai Feng at sinking misukoshi is a smart play .. Attraction to local and foreign tourist .

8. Formosa Pearl didn't improve on cuisine . 

9. Waiau mr. Brown Cafe change the name to number 9 cafe - another operators .. 

Why I think about him

The guard at King's band Taipei HQ who I met a few years ago when seeing John there . The Assistsnt manger of reber Hotel back to my Sony music days - he always give me extra service and alway put on smile and alway happy to do me his peofessional coffee - latte .

People do you good in small manner and you keep in mind still , try to find a way to repay it . Not because you are Rich but to don't really need that much of paper money ..

Taking the road less traveled - literary

I ( yes it's me ) decide to take non free way route back north , no sure if we will arrive home or not . The answer is no , we stop over at Chayi and enjoy another night outside .

  This is the game : taking highway 61 along the west coast , if we see any small town we wast to pay visit , we simply turn the wheel toward that directions , we end up visit : 路竹 ， 永安 ， 永新 ， 北門 . there are few stops increase our knowledge , a few stops enhance our wisdom . And 2 most spectacular places are : Dr. Wang's memorial clinic - a combination of good cause by religion ( Christian mainly - aim to save people's soul ) , physical doctors ( aim to save people's life ) and charity ( fund raising - aim to leave a legacy ) . I don't know how it happens - what shares my limit knowledge about black foot disease which cause thousand of amputation in the town of Bei Meng , suddenly the raid sign of " BFD memorial hall " shows up in front of us . We pay a decent visit there and so touch by the unconditional love a doctor shed ... Then for another 15 minute drive - we visit the Tao temple : Dai Tain Kung the first time : the Michiko 3 starts temple is a huge site and it's  variety of business get me connect Shao LIN Temlple in China - to leverage the name of God . They do almost everything there and even open a 4 stars guest house - if you choose to stay , there is no restriction seperate man and woman . My positivity thinking is no worries about sieving instinct by Taiwanese people , there alway way to survive . 

2 forum retreat in one window

Bon Vie and the Vietnum forum plan to come on the same time and I am invited as facilitor too - exerciting ...

H session update

It's a very heavy one :

1. My brother kick me out 

2. Just take it without even saying a word

3. The picture now :

- 3 AMBA ( Chi Bar / Achoi / Que ) 

- one Andente ( house + restaurant )

- one 1B2G

4. Gone :no Taien Mu club / close down 1b2g & burger fix / no bakery / no A Cut / no investment to A zone / capital increase from Shelin Development to Qui Xin / Angie : Donai : Clifford : Jeanie transfer back to SSC

5. Dino will take a month long break and may ask for non salary pay long leave 

6. Clifford have no firm assignment yet 

7. Jennifer is doing a new org but lack of resources 

8. Cindy must know how the outlook of P & L in 2016 and onward 

9. In his mind :

- AMBA saturate in Taiwan already 

- Sung Ren service apartment by AMBA

- Huilien & Taitung maybe if term is ok 

- Patricia / Elmo as residential manager - ow to utilize and retain 

- F & B : every brand limit to 3 brunches 

- Fine Dinning market in Taiwan is tough 

10. I am taking up the A Zone responsively and will be the new Vice Chairman ... What should I do better and different 

Korean movie week

Done it purposely , bought 7 Korean movie last week for the reason of balancing bloody dreams - so more or less the titles I pick relate to " police - criminal " themes and Meiling and I enjoy a one week Korean movie week at home 

1, we done movie after dinner 

2. Turn on the air con and enjoy living room space 

3. Follow the movie drama and share our opinions in between 

4. Impress by the script and production quality Korean movie delivers .

 What do I read from those movies other than entertaining ? Not only killing time or moving to other space ... 

Good morning : Diana & Stevin

It's a 45 days break since last coaching session : feeling good and not many changes :

1. Diana is pleasant in sharing 

2. Stiven have his style when talking a or less performance government .

Seems to hold on next coaching contract is not a big issue . 

Conflict of 2 forum retreat in Town

Vietnam YPO forum and WPO international forum come on the same slot : from Oct.6-10 , I am excited about doing something separate and together at the same window :

1. Forum supercharge : 

- Oct. 7 : Vietnam forum ( YPO )

- Oct. 8 : HK international forum ( gold )

2. One dinner together ( Oct. 8th )

3. One resource together : palace musume or other 

4. Blend in local moments ( Vietnam and others )

Minor talk with Thien

At the dinner table , Thien and I only have like 10 minutes time to exchange message , the focus point is on the reunion of Diverso forum - the cancer develop for fk complicate our rationale . I promise his if I plan to resign from this forum. He will be the first to know , likewis . What keep us at this forum is 3 people : Thien , Kirati and me .

Forum group and friend group can be separated , once you enter the forum and become good friend is a bless , if not , you should identify what keep you return and what contribution you make and what takes away you gain. You trade time / money / energy / life for something , you better figure out what is the " something " in you . 

Spirox board bonus

I don't have the habit open envelop , wherever document sent to home , it will sleep on the side table for days even months - it's not a routine I did.

I don't know why I have the intention to open envelop sent by Spirox , when open it , it's a bonus distribution slit , 500.000 NT show in front of me , it must be kidding , I resign from been board member for more than one year and never participate in any meeting or offers any workshop for executive team .. How come the bonus include me again ?

With a doubt , I share this surprise to Meiling , a curiosity arose , she asked to visit the close by ATM station and to examine our credit book - the answer is yes . We receive another 500.000 NT without telling in advance and without contribute .

Plan to pay visit to David someday , this is to my surprise ...

I am a little bit emotion when talking to Jeanie Mak

She is asking too much even by consider current situation -- the greedy I see is a pity .

I am not overlook her talent , unfortunately she is not a team player and won't be a player in the future 

If this is the only way to handle it . Let the greed do the work and keep the one month termination clause in a CLEAR contract . 

I smell the bum at sungsun railway station

It smell so strong : the homeless earring think jacket inside the air con station arcade ... I didn't walk away but facing him and take a deep breath . 

Robin and wonder form

Robin produce a great demo film to showcase how he and his team and making what they believe - produce profit  film with control budget .

- the demo will be the pilot to knock china door 

- a bridge to connect potential investor 

- total cost is around 2 millions ( the company capital ) and cash out is 400.000

- monthly break even need 250.000 NT ( the burn rate ) can sustain to end of 2016

- girl friend working with him now 

- most worry is his father , at 60 but liver tumor grow 2 holds and not a good sign 

- other than marketing and sales , tech staff can outsourcing .

I will connect them with my friend circle who produce movies .. Hope can be some help . 

KC a few things

1. Maryanne taxi : what's the concern 

2. If you don't commit , Let's not complain the redundancy 

3. A zone ;

- for biz use space calculation 

- the org adjustment and 

- recurring for qualify candidate 

4. The announcement for my action role 

5. Vietnam is a trade off : this is why we can leverage in Taiwan 

6. Don't raise your voice when getting emotional 

7. My trust won't change as there is no point to change 

8. No car rental now .. Sorry for dumping 7100 to water .

Beard Fan : studio and talk

What can be follows after the Peter Chang " searching " radio hours :

1. A zone music exhibition 

2. Foodie 

3. Talents fly next master for : cross filed and jazz and academic documentation 

4. The best arranger in town 

5. Huilien Taroko music festival 

Jenifer Chang

She is senior , what I need to do is to having her quick blend in the culture and get the full picture of who's who - many untreated group in the hot pot now and I have align her for :

1. Build our connecting social media 

- when ambassador parent move : inform me .

- when Hubert give instruction , consult me 

- when culture fit encounter problem , ask me 

2. The new org pro and cons 

- how the new org looks 

- how to communicate it

- how the package and compensation alter 

- what RED talent strategy in place 

3. Left over :

- Clifford 

- Jeanie Mak 

- talk to Cindy 

4. Follow up :

- process and procedure 

- financial outlook 

- inform Hubert 

What I know about her :

- MBA in HR development 

- live in Tao yuang 

- resort hotel base : Lalu / 老爺 ( 5 year at property , 5 years at HQ ) 

- quick and smart 

Vietnam family and friend trip

Hong Fu is big in shoe making : converse ; Nike , Teva and UGG . Produce 120 millions pair of shoes per year , employ 120.000 people in Vietnam along and have 18 factory around the globe . Moving into real eatate and hospitality is not easy - Shilin development can be what ? And how to Align with Chang family - father and Jacky ? 

Daniel make a few friends and how ELAC can leverage from it ? Ben at Eco park or khans from my new forum ?

Ly family /

- Sang for next retreat to Taiwan 

- fathers warming greeting and lovely gift 

With Hubert :

1. A zone 

2. Chuang shin amba 

3. Jacky and Vietnam 

4. M recruiting 

Korean movies

But many Korean movies - violent and policy - criminal subject - to balance my bloody lucid dream .

Another metaphor for me to relief --

Many bloody lucid dream

Last night : Plan to resign on a gigantic launch of an entertainment biz - this is the experience hurdle as I can see - reflect to what Da Chin / ELAC development .

 And those blood and witness the killing at third party - I can't figure it out still .. 

So many reflection in a day

Woke up 5:30 am , check Linda send her. Update already , the consecutive 5 days in the roll : I can sense her living patten is abnormal : very minor sleep and full of business idea .. What's the purpose for her ? I am kind of curiously .

 Royce send one update with upset mood - I can feel his unpleasant attitude from the wording -- emotion count 

 Sound bought a Father's Day cake last night by 11:00 pm , thank god we are awake still , I take one and to smooth his emotions in processing the cake : wrong bean curb jelly ; cake in taxi ; no direction taxi driver .... 

 Fruit send a Father's Day getting line / I response ... Briefly 

 Meiling upset about her sister - selfish and selfish ... 

 I count my " living bonus " from the insurance policy made 25 years ago - from next year I am entitle to enjoy a 380.000 annually bounce - better off than average labor insurance : 180.000-240.000. I feel lucky and blessed . 

Do my insurance

1. Bail and pay back tomorrow for 343964 

2. Check the status of other millions 

3. Learn how to check my total insurance  policy . 

Why M and her mother eager to join my journey ? 

Growing old or growing up ? 

Self reflection

1. Why I am cold for Black Gold ? If he need to be relocate to animal shelter and put down one day ?

2. Why so many lucid dreams these nights ? With weapon and blood 

3. Why feeling less on the breaks up ? Am I aim for physical pleasure merely ?

4. Why Meiling mentions I seldom look at my father's eyes when he told me his feeling and fact ? 

5. Why I can't get rid of fruits bad mouth and inats conversation 

Kevin Chen small talk

We need to sign NDA with Ligh-On group and with an OK I go and visit the incubation office at NTU : it's cozy and it's fine - next to Starbucks and a full service 7-11.

Kevin wish to design a competition : for the stereo mind BU heads - I can only agree but sense the resistance stays . Change from inside is not easy , if you not been there , you won't feel it and can't really share your authentic experience . And not to expect everyone buy in : 10% is normal - 30% is bravo .

Father's home

Father return home last night for confirming if he need care giver , we will accept him and let him stay at house in Taipei . This is without a question , but he want to double confirm it ..and this is other message he send :

1. Numb of both legs - one day he might not able to walk 

2. It's take 4 hours to and from the rehabilitation hospital , so he don't want to go.

3. Throat tumor might cause him become   A dumb person 

4. Digest system is getting worst .. 

Linda finally

Missing link for many times and this morning , she was captured as Pokeman Go : she is the most difficult monster to be caught and I manage to get her conduct 21 days of routine for " daily update " I felt so good -/

And having amigo to go with me to Hu Wei for " strew pork rice " hiding somewhere in an alley and we find it , it's a pity that stew port sold out ( lady boss told us the shop open by 6:00 am and pork Normally sold out around 8:30 am ) . The 2 brushes purposely open in a residential area and move its door numbers away - a tricky yet funny way to find the local delicacy .

Destruct relationship

1. Hello and goodbye : I remember how you look at 18th and time will tell .

2. It's your call : I know how it suffers , thanks for taking the initiative and end it come your end.

3. No , I am not that horny : it's hormone and it won't driver your body now ...

4. I don't really owe you anymore : it's spiritual lead you , not me and I don't have the intimacy anymore . 

Learn from LH

1. Be friend with your kids - especially daughter 

2. You can't do everything for them . They need to share house work and it's not too late .

3. There's no hatred since you are parent 

4. Know why before how .. You don't want to waste your life 

5. Buy a land , plant your fruit and enjoy retirement life 

My observation :

1. Speaking mandarin is not quiet comfortable to 

2. Age don't lie 

3. Your environment and background define who you are 

4. Even there's a Starbucks across the street , McDonald is more comfortable 

Glen Campbell : I will be ME

I watch this documentary by 2 session : late last night and this morning , it's a meaningful moment when your sense been attract by this touching story : Alzeimer affect your memory but you roots your passion ( music ) so deep that it's hard to take away and it relief many people who love you .

- the 4 times marriage 

- the alcohol and drug period 

- the last tour : 151 shows 

- the life achievement awards at Grammy 

- concert at National Congrass Library 

- the Ashely Campbell sharing : I can't stand that my father couldn't call my name ... 

- and the stress down to all the Alzheimer's care giver ...

 If memory is what we have in life - list of memories at the end of ones life seems to erase the life he experienced - this is a great pain to those who know his / her life ..

 Prepare to die or prepare to forget .. 

A day

Sound complete his summer part time.  I decided not to join Hubert's talk and accompany sound to Taichung - check his apartment and pay the rental balance.

 The message come in a right time - you can't spare what you don't have to others , and this is how you not only focus on business , you focus on people as well . There's is a ripple , not a strong current . I have not problem to take it and not to think too much about the counter partner .

 Sound ask us to check the chocolate workshop on our way to see my father : a wonderful place to relax and spend few hours .

 The rain begins to pour as we left the worshop . We going to see my father earier and check how BLACKGOLD is doing : he recognize us and father said :

- my leg is lamp gradually , I see the slow down of me . 

- if I can go to bed and not wake up - it will be great 

- recently I go to bed from 10 to one in the morning and awake from 1 am to 5 am . The sleeping quality is so bad that impact my overall Health 

- I reluctant moving back to taipei and bring you couple more burden ..

  Send I am here message to the appointment party tomorrow , reply until 8 pm . I took a nap from 6-7 pm and go out for street food again . 

  It rains heavy .. I  stayed and writing my memoir today - it's an unique day

The end

As I don't know how to end it , I appreciate the ititative taken from the other side - it wipe out many certain uncertainty in life - I feel relief and no regrets , if what remains is responsibility , there is no passion to hold on ...

On my way / in my way and in the way .

It's not about when and where , but who ..

Reflection

1. Why I miss the appointment with sound for our " 007 movie " gathering ?

2. Why I don't feel pity when seeing bump at street ?

3. What cause me uncertain about my attending CFF retreat this year ? Or should I go somewhere instead ? 

4. Why I don't have the inner warning sign about " reconnect with elementary school classmate " ?

5. Wei remind me about the " brain won't drive your body when grow to certain age " and you have to learn freit in physical , mental and social aspect carefully . 

6. I am planning my own Taiwan walk 

I am not there

I don't think I should attend any of gathering JOYCE organize as I am not there and not much take home value as well .

- you don't really know the purpose of the session 

- you don't gain or give anything on site 

- you don't really enjoy the right now moment 

The only and good take away is :

From old Power transfer to new Power :

The metaphor of " Currence - currency - Cuttent " it reflect to how the younger generation think .. 

And Vincent from Moto who used to work for Tech Mor - my forum mate at YPO ... 

A viggie lunch treat by Vincent 

How I put it to end the conversation ?

JOYCE said : knowledge is power - Roger : marriage is power . Period and we conclude : relationship or connection is power .

Hello Dino and AMBA

It's not a break up group but to strengthen the synergy of what you have , again the revitalization must align with JR circle : C core SOP ( culture base Strategy - Orgsnization - People ) and the rest is execution and go for your goals with passion .