Day reflection

Hanes session is more a dialogue than coaching. What I scan to his body is lack of sleep or not in a good sleeping quality , rest than that, he is hype and full of energy .. we
1. Update on a few things
2. Communicate and develop a lifestyle business development roadmap : sell the product - provide the service - owning a customer- stealing an identity
3. His question:
- Why experience count ?
- our book and his idea
Lunch with Bowei and Hubert
- a coaching nudge to Bowei via Hubert
- yen house Chinese restaurant is good yet h is too much ha la
With Seyin
1. Why her fiancé couldn't come
2. Learn Gary's money borrowing secret
3. Good session with Kevin Peng
4. Lovely dinner at " Really Good " with president Ger , Frances & Richard ..

Really good is a restaurant..


Roger

Difficult Conversation

Difficult Conversation 3 layer : 1) Content ( Fact ) 2) Feelings 3) Identity : from 3 main questions : ⏺ am I good enough ( ability ) ⏺Am I a good person ?


Roger

Calvin and Sound

So Sound enjoy a big breakfast and willing to revise VW website?
1. He knows how to mingle
2. He search for information before seeing the person
3. He willing to help


Roger

J learning

1. When ask to simulate the situation, don't be trapped to take a role play - its will lead to some unthinkable projection.
2. Communication hurdles ( difficulty ) come from 3 aspect ( rehearsals again )
- 1) Fact . 2)? 3) Empathy: a) am I good enough ( capability challenge ) b) am I a good person ( integrity challenge ) c) why can I be love / respect as others ( feeling of fairness )
3. Proactive communication: make it happen ... Inactive communication: let it happen .. or Time is the remedy .
4. 小善易為惡；大智當若愚。


Roger

Met Chris Berry

My finding :
1. I had a charter of connecting with artist easy and deep .
2. I enjoy time to be the ambassador for Taiwan and showcases good things about where I live
3. Chris is warm and passionate - a friend to be and a free spirit also
4. Bring Angeli is a good move. Let her involve and include and create her ownership
5. Ken love what I post about father at Chinese New Year - a resonate so deep and it's the " back look " story every Chinese have in their heart
6. Du ship Yu do offer authentic local delicacy and it's delicious.
7. Be a good host you must : know the basic of your guest ; bring your story a fun way ; feed them local news ; share what we eat and a bit out for their comfort zone ; connect to next encounter ; debrief the purpose of meet ; let social not only social



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Sam

It's not about businesses although my biz pipeline come from YPO forum pool
What I suggest :
1. Fix price for forum fundamental and moderator training, free market for forum retreat.
2. Don't let non qualified member take up CFF role and offer their service: fee or free ...
3. If language is a condition : how to inform or promote language specialist ?
4. Traveling resource: how it was identified and how to make it a fair play in backing region CFF pool ?
5. Rating and recertification criteria?
Other than this : Kurizawa welcome , Joe pizza good and other movie things


Roger

Logan lucky

John Denver is the main theme but it touch upon " games of thrones " what an combination and only can link multiple generations.
He is a genius .


Roger

Recreational moment

Do it simple with no backfire. Even on the Chinese Valentine's Day , I received the greeting but still can joke around it .


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R

I knew the restaurant he plan for lunch is close on Monday , but I don't mind as we can find restaurant nearby , it only proof some neglect in details .
We begin with his trip earlier and follow with his start up - or investing in a start up , his current challenge is people , my viewpoint is different, I need a " why " full with passion to convince me .
And we go over :
1. Emotions is not what you can controls but to aware.
2. To build your muscles of self awareness you need to train your reflection & introspection.
3. Journaling is the best way to build the awareness skill .
4. Passion is where your talents ( do good ) and calling ( bring you values & happiness , achievement) meet .
5. 3 keys determine your future, you just need to align with your passion : shareholder agreement ; ink / chop ; timing to exercise .
6. Father and son : the vertical versus horizontal relationship and my story
7. Separate bed : good or bed
8. Special care giver to father : 3 on 24 hours call
9. 70 years anniversary, I am the only family member and elder son who is not invited to go on stage -- if not for your help and coach , I couldn't be this way now .


Roger

My getting high fantasy

It's been very long since FOB no longer integrated to my life , so I am fantasize the scene every nigh before go to bed , it help me to tuck in easier .. and I have no idea what it means .
And yes , getting high is an ASC : alter state of conscience . Not like getting laid : it's a FLOW - blurry your conscience in time and space .

Roger

On snail on top of the other

I am not sure if they are mating , this is an odd experience so I took the picture here


Roger

Lucid dream

It's a business scene , we are working with a strange company , accordingly to them , the investor behind is a 3C tycoon, I have no idea what business they are into but it seems we have ( or I introduce ) Japanese potential customers visit .
We are all in the office- and the office looks very much like Mr.Han's office , we are thinking how to return favor and pay visit back to Japan .
I don't know why we need to find a company name and the suggestion they makes sound like a Gang , I don't like it and told them if we change company name from time to time only for completed one transaction, I will lose my credit . The counter part show his background, he was a district attorney so it proof his " righteousness " and " credentials "
Then the elevator open , come out with 3 ladies , 2 of them wearing the security uniform and holding a suspect in between , the security had blood in their face and ask my counter partner :" please explain it ? " and I have to excuse myself and slip away silently ...


Roger

Parents sit behind me at the ping ping games

They sit for 10 hours , I don't know why I didn't consider to move my seat ? They are the live broadcaster at the game , they are not watching the game but talking the games , it's really annoying and sometimes thy even ANNOUNCED the wrong information .


Roger

Daphne

It's you on last minute , and it's my decision to allocate this fantasy mission to Angeli .. distance creates ? I don't know but I am aware.


Roger

Table Tennis Universise

I love the Game , not really who wins , unfortunately you are surrounding by patriots , so you become one of them .
Sports competition is about winning not gaming, a sad truth to reveal human nature .. using other body skill rather than weapons to show " I am stronger than you "
Spend 5 hours in 2 sections


Roger

Table Tennis Universise

I love the Game , not really who wins , unfortunately you are surrounding by patriots , so you become one of them .
Sports competition is about winning not gaming, a sad truth to reveal human nature .. using other body skill rather than weapons to show " I am stronger than you "
Spend 5 hours in 2 sections , nice games and nice competition. I am a human being and can't escape from all the hardwiring DNA .


Roger

Royce Take Away

1. Time share: what you do ; Mindshare: What you think you should do.
2. Keywords : include the insight & foresight .
3. Children should not be treated as an instrument to glory their parents.
4. Its quality space in overlapping time , no quality time .
5. Do nothing sometimes is the most difficult thing to do .
6. Don't let my experience become the hurdle in you.
7. To train your awareness muscles: build consistent reflection and introspection moments
8. Your NOT to do it ......
9. EES : emotion & energy scan from Update
10. Let the passion drive you have to give up fighting for fair measurement in any achievements define by normal people .


Roger

Shanghai dialect

H is not happy and this is the second time . So he raise it at our closing lunch . My observation is : no one purposely want it happen and for us , who don't understand Shanghai dialect should voice out and remind them also .


Roger

My word to H

As you are too Romantic, romantic about by planning in advance and planning in details , all of your projection should come to reality one by one , time after time with no flaws .
Once you understand things won't come as you wish , your romantic bubble burst out and you feel frustrated, then emotion arose .. you won't be romantic anymore..
stay in every NOW and learn to appreciate every CHANGE , take the uncertainty the only certainty, life will treat you better or you will let go your romantic obsession and rescue yourself.


Roger

Lucid dreams come after forum

If this is the conclusion : sex is nature, nature sex , then this lucid dream reveal something:
The scene : Its a cafe and we set on the same side
The Action : come to an pause of conversation , she lay her left hand on my right leg . And I put my right hand on top of her hand , gently and feeling different


Roger

Being challenged

By H when try to response to b & b inquiry about breakfast - my intention is not to waste food , not a customer versus service clerk . So when he challenged me with a not friendly voice :" do we have the obligation to answer " I really feel bad
As we said earlier room is his responsibility and I am checking on behalf of him , on top of that , I am not his secretary.. the instinct and instant response now transformed from emotion to feeling . I feel bad


Roger

Auther

Bump into Arthur at HSR just now , it's been decade even we live in the same community.
He works for Sonet 16 years already .
And yes still kind of nervous seeing me , we chat for 10 minutes
1. He is going to maili buying retiring land
2. Kids : 14 and 9
3. ISP business decline due to mobile connectivity
4. Aita San is no longer handle Taiwan
5. Remaining old member : May .. and him
6. Now the CHT shareholder was not a viable assets
7. Willing to work till retire : VP is the ceiling
The see you again greeting to me : you are handsome with good spirit still ( 仍然那麼瀟洒）


Roger

Lucid Dream : David Lee

It's a forum alike environment, on every morning , Terry Kao will show up to our office before official business time , Why ! Don't know and one day he asked me to do a forum for us ..
Then another day a forum like scenario take place in the same room and it's david lee doing his presentation : a good story telling and touch upon his dick : how he controls them now .. the turn out for this forum is huge , as a professional facilitator, I am finding the window to tell everyone 2 things :
1. Confidentiality.
2. Story telling : BST : good things with trouble ; bad things with good ending .


Roger

Chris T

You ask an appointment for : sharing my experience how to begin your first coaching case .. I have no problem Chris
1. CTO
2. Update weekly , In Person monthly
3. GROW model to explore issue
4. Follow up & follow through
The rest is your facilitation skill and personal attribution .
Herban kitchen do have great vegetables meals with decent portion .. I am so full now .


Roger

Tesla Taiwan talk

To set up super charge station in A Zone seems like a good idea .. this is how we thinks :
1. Free use of the space , brand support on event / eduction etc
2. Maybe a T-Cafe can be considered
3. All the contributions and maintenance done by Tesla ...
ping & mark talked to KC and me .
Nice space and cozy office ..
Red brick - White Furniture- Lean in decorating..
Cool Tesla


Roger

J session

I spot his intention to know what I am talking with S / D , so I stop him , it can't be too specific.. and this is my professional integrity
The issue is : how to align our now to owners future ?
My take Away :
1. The building stone for Future is every step of Now.
2. Platform elevate us to reach people we want to see and to gain the experience in life
3. Status Quo caused by the " Freeze Froze "
4. Conclusions varies from Consensus
5. To optimize but never maximum- space for breath benefit more .


Roger

Hitman & bodyguard

It's an alternative crime movie and it's so entertaining, am I lost my taste to art film ? Or there's no ok art house film recently ..
maybe I am use the movie time to relief something and to " killing time " kind of scary .


Roger

Chi Hun MD

Summary :
1. Feedback : to express my feeling first and don't challenge others feeling / emotion ( private domain ) don't create the defense mood - fleet or fight ..
2. Run for peer leader: 1) not lead by professional but as leader who influence. 2) set the goals and to advocate them : international developing / in & out ; increase peer intimacy and sharing experience; be the social conscience to our community 3) 2 tag line : beware of what you wishing for and to finish what you started.
3. Upgrades : your patients ( customers) and yourself : 1) upgrade to VIP before introduce better treatment package . 2) use analogy to explain why cheap can't product best quality 3) promote your expertly via hospital resources. 4) how to pricing : first prof and package with VIP clicks
4. Something about current reality in Taiwan : 1) dare to dream big 2) ideology ruining the country
5. Personal : I was once considered to Major psychology, as it's too complicate so I follow my passion : model making and choose to be othotlogy MD
6. Passion is : When Talents cross with your Calling.
7. 10.000 times rules works : Malcom Gladwell " outlier " is a master piece .. even the Beatles .
8. Yoda : Thanks for your token and a memento to our friendship


Roger

Chasing the scream

It's a documentary literature and Hari do know how to attract people : such as recoding upload for everyone and beginning with the story of Billy Holiday ...
Drug War is an invented game or it's an evil wrongdoing will cost human being falling ? And what's the appropriate way to treat addiction ?
I enjoy reading and it's a quick reading book .


Roger

Gaia resort

Meiling pick me up at Sunsang airport and heading to Gaia resort beitou .. it's the couple force us to go .. but the hot spiring is very good .
My emotions arose by google map - the gps direct to super highway get me nervous always and Meiling read my nervous also , the result is at resort but no sex.
We had a very quick dinner and I share our 30 anniversary plan to Japan ., it should be nice but to reset expectation always
This morning, we went for a hike and see a big rotten tomb use by an army general ,,sad
And I murmur about her neglect in caring me and yes , the pay off is good sex after breakfast and before second hot spring treatment .
She say " after my place stent , I start to treat her well " which means it's only 10 years .. my question: what did I do to her before ?

Roger

3 topic

1. My brother
2. My successor in mind
3. My newly acquired company

Roger

Another 3 and half hours with Hu

It's a good one as Hu clearly list down 3 issues to go over today and we spend 3 hours to do it . And the remaining time is his weekly Update..

Roger

30 is something unique , we should do something special with someone

Japan hot spring trip with Meiling is the idea , and the thoughts behind is to appreciate 30 years on the road ..
no expectation but a planing


Roger

Terry in sun glass

We wave heads outside the immigration line and learning he is heading bj .. just a nod and hello ..


Roger

My mobile office

Yes , it's eve air lounge : printing unlimited ..and good stationary ..
as I am the " real " frequent flyer ( as I run into the hospitality manger at the entrance : her greeting is wired : oh sir , I saw you many times ? )


Roger

Gestures

I don't know why people enjoy standing in others way .. and to complicate things .
Such as the Talents Fly 2017 cross but not over vs A Zone and Winds Music , A Zone foundation... people knows each other but don't want to build the consensus for making a good thing good .. I have too many Why ..


Roger

Reflection on Sound

As father and son : the vertical relationship, I am upset
As 2 adult dealing with emotion : the horizontal relationship, there is people like that , never mind and just leave it alone .

Roger

Sound piss me off

I am not happy about his challenge my feelings and brought back the snake liquor issues, more than that , he swirl and say something bad over the line with me when discuss his " trip in Vietnam "
What should I take it ? Spending time , effort. Money and relationships and this is the pay off ?
I need to write it and let go of such an unpleasant emotion .


Roger

Talk walk

FB producer manage : your attention is a product
Neefx CEO : our competitor are FB google and sleep
Scholar : don't grand the power to phone to decide for you - delete social media app


Roger

Electronics shut down Taiwan

It never happen before and the damage is hArd to calculate. The good side : you hardly can see people in the same community walk out their door and communicate. No TV and lights turn the community become a community .


Roger

TTV what do I mentioned

1. Not only to find new trend , but to survey on loyal customer what works for them and what can be better?
2.GMA brand is not by packaging or marketing but the context , how to build the mainstream versus application Eco system ?
3.Let the international panel be your next cheer leader and having the locals to guide And mingle with them .
4.Measure the impact , not the outcome
5. Asian base and asian focus - from market to service ..
6.Seating dimension and panel design will make some difference : panel to panel , lecture , one on one , workshop , experience , audience lead panel ..

Roger

4 words for H on emergency

1. Can you return and help me ?
2. I need a partner
3. She is not stable
4. Can we meet and talk ?
Slow Yes ; Quick No


Roger

Gene kick off and personal retreat

I appreciate regent Tai Pan offer me a no private room charge space for the whole day and offer me great support.
Gene : kick off from 10:00 until 13:50
1. CTO and confidentiality Contract sign off
2.Go through personal retreat ppt
3.Do the basic
- family
- networks
- spouses and personal Things
- issues forward looking ( p / f / b )
- 3 contacts for interviewing
- WU format
- coaching contract
- Time share : Mind share; Sharing with someone you trust ; solving with someone hold you accountable.
Anti is the Things we don't have time to address
A good start ..


Roger

Should I joke about the applicant ?

I shouldn't but I couldn't help ..
She use the name " Courage " apply for the matching selection ..
her music wasn't impressive so who all the judges come together for the final round .
After showing the video, I ask the event organization party , did she use the name " courage " first time to apply ? The answer is yes and without second thought , I said " yes , this is what they need .. " Tree didn't get it the first time .. my explanation just making the fun no fun anymore .


Roger

Recently encountered tattoo figures

1. The grand staff for Eva airline who have a little lions head on her finger
2. The camera man who shoot the opening ceremony at CQ Shin Kong Place tattoos a big " question mark ""?" On his back head
3. This morning I met a young girl running on top of fairy feet stone , she wore a short top sport with belly naked : you see on top and of her belly tattoo 2 human face - she must have someone to remember or something to tell .
To me , its brave to put on your second skin - tattoo , why , because this is the thing once you do is hard to reverse - when grow up , grow old or try to change your identify .. you just label yourself in a hard way .. I don't ha for the courage to do it and it won't be on my buckle list .


Roger

A relatively long conversation

Meiling was horny last night , it's an intimacy invitation, however , the mood was not for me, so we do an length conversation on bed instead of making love over bed .
She will do the pregnancy test the following date , although the decision is made : she is too old and I am to overwhelmed to take the risk of having another baby , the topic surrounding it still.
I flip the Perdue of Carl Jung's last publishing, professor Yu did a great work introduce Jung to his newly acquainted, especially on sub consciences and the non cause - effect theory on " Things " a more meaning transfer simultaneously from " Ego " ( who are you ? ) to " Self " .. ( dream and symbols ) , so clearly and precisely.
Then my curiosity arises , when learn he used to teach at Tung Hwa but passed away at the age of 61 -- and the first time I saw anyone mentions / profoundly " in " & " out " as the nature to life .. similar to my personal finding this year - am I a self born wiser ? Or my soul once hiding somewhere ?
I felt pity about the lost and pity not able to have in person encounter with another wiser .

Roger

More-space warehouse

Bin Chang road 309 B2
Access with U card
Storage 105
Password : 1919
Now I have a space for something ..


Roger

Linda

So you need me
Do you need me
How can I help you
How I can help you


Roger

S session prepare Gene personal retreat

1. EES : emotions and energy scan
2. TIME Share VS MIND share
3. Key stakeholders analysis
4. GROW and Issue go deep
5. WWH : will + way + holding Simone accountable
6. CTO
7. PET
8. Weekly Update cycle and Monthly in person .
9. On regular and on emergency basis


Roger

Meiling

You don't need to ask me not to grand fruit money .. you are reminding yourself but not me .. so please
Finally you spot the boy who fruit is seeing now . You told me he is ugly , short and riding a motorcycle.. I am all fine as long as she feel happy ..
and yes , I won't grand more money anymore


Roger

S

Emotion and Energy scan : as normal as usual
Sleeping is an issue still but whatever
Moving to a non executive investor role is more save .
It's like serve to the army when you unroll from the army : you feel safe and you don't lost an arm or leg .. a good analogy .


Roger

Soda Green and Tree

I have no idea A fu from soda green is the panel judge today .. and I share some story with Tree about my Today Records Shop days with Lao Cha .. the guitarist from The Youth.
And yes , a possible dinner with Chris Berry on Aug. 28 before " Cross but not Over " event


Roger

Why

1. Why wear your earphone always? Can't let your ears take some rest ?
2. Why in a hurry , dose the minute or second make any significant difference?
3. Why running marathon demonstrates you as a better person ?


Roger

Lucid dream : 2

I am protecting my family : especially for 2 infant in my house , it's a house and with certain degree of security : bars / fence , bad guys hold metal stuff try to get in .. I am in the midst of protecting..
what does it means ? To have new born ? To encounter financial worries ?


Roger

Experience the worst seating area

For a local movie and get the first raw .. hey what an experience

Roger

Reflection

1. The small talk at union cafe about the external affairs: next table .
2. The hungry puppy chewing the chair at a corner cafe , and he plays with me .
3. Very expensive unagi rice : 900 NT and Why to hire a Korean service lady and point me to the wrong direction twice .. am I too serious and win the apology from cashier?
4. Union cafe : a tutor is teaching a high school kid about Algebra - I still can't figure it out why it is important at school but less - I mean much less significant after you graduate?
5. Louis CK : comedian with a character - send by sound ..
6. Sound and Khanh and Thien : sound love Thien the most .. no reason
7. Don't turn on air conditioning too long / so why not stay at public library or go to a movie ( and you have to put on the jacket )
8. Taxi driver Kevin ( an actor I Believe) post his celebrity photos all over the car .. which come more important?
9. Analysis follow Jung : it's quite a commitment, why everyone need to be analysis?


Roger

Weekend errands

I am not taking about some house keeping staff but my own little something :
1. Friday afternoon: 2 movie and one dinner wish Meiling: the Spain movie wasn't so brilliant and my second review to " baby driver " is an ok also .. but we had a very good intimacy on Friday night . Since her MC late for 2 weeks , she want to relief.
2. Sat : our in the car and see the world routine . From route 106 to Fu Long Beach buy ourself the lunch bento and return home along the coast highway.. I went home earlier than Meiling and we enjoy the " games of throne " at home , the new episode and the dragon mother .. good one
3. Sunday : it's an independent day , I do my library morning. I was late but manage to check the biography of sigmud frued .. part of . And browsing some good / now unagi restaurant in town . I am going to " just do eat " tonight .
4. Afternoon at Union cafe : a local good cafe , the table next to me is like some 60 plus elder talked about the external affairs and kind of emotions , I change my table , withdraw the playing heart and read the Juening life .. interesting in reading..
now I am about to enjoy my unagi rice now . 900 NT - its costly .


Roger

H : don't continue to surprise me

Voice recording : the green tea at HSR Kaohsiung station is good , remind me to buy it on aug 23 .. and I have to be at airport by 5:20 pm so which HSR I should take ? And calculate all the detail time spend in between .

Hahaha


Roger

H words

1. I am reluctant to take the group leadership but my father should retired in 2 years, on the board meeting, I am officially include in the Taiwan Executive Committee
2. The monthly long sabbatical from China is a 5 years routine due to the tax plan .
3. Sleeping always been a big issue to me , it damaged my health significantly, I've try every method and am taking sleeping bill now , but there's no off switch in my brain , it won't work after I tried the third time .
4. I am even too excited about I am about to taking sleeping pill and I should have a good sleep , and the excitement keep me awake all night after pill .
5. Coffee is the stimulative I need it now on almost every meeting .
6. A big " Whol. " when Vincent almost hit the crossing street cat
7. I have 5 secretary / assistsnt to help me sore out everything
8. I am too kind to my wife : 3 nanny , one assistant and 2 drivers .. she only need to yell and things get done. It's a problem now .
9. I don't eat complicated food such as : crab , shrimp or even the meat hard to chew ..
10. It's good to walk and now relax and take a good rest
11. My take Away is due to dry run , I have to ware short pant and I felt the nickel tissue development a soft tumor inside .. I need to check it now , but which specialist ?
12. Yes , I love to stay one more night at adagio Huilien , but what To do in the afternoon ? In 3 hours , can you tell me what to do ?


Roger

Reputation

If I maintain my reputation for so long .. why should I break it now simply because a food friend want me to diet the same color?
It's principal and it's live my value, no matter how others see me as strange or pretend, as long as I live it longer than people's thoughts , I win .


Roger

Wu support Wu

A funny thought come to my mind
When seeing Thomas Wu appears at Shin Kong Place opening dinner , I don't realize but gradually I sense Thomas once kidnapped in Taiwan , according to news it's May who save him out.
And Steven Wu once kidnapped in Beijing when boarding his planes back but was force to get off and couldn't come home to Taiwan .
They both risk their life being rick or running biz against others interest .. a funny thought come to my mind .


Roger

This is something unusual

I woke up 3 in the morning during a tiring day , something's unusual:
1. Carrie message about postpone linda coaching schedule : it happens and it will happen one day .
2. Meiling ask if she have pregnant , should we keep the baby as I am approaching 60 now ? Yes , it's a perfect one to correct us how it raise a child .
3. Not going out wine daniel and the crews


Roger

This is something unusual

I woke up 3 in the morning during a tiring day , something's unusual:
1. Carrie message about postpone linda coaching schedule : it happens and it will happen one day .
2. Meiling ask if she have pregnant , should we keep the baby as I am approaching 60 now ? Yes , it's a perfect one to correct us how it raise a child .
3. Not going out with daniel and the crews , seems I am not a coop man .
4. Still struggles in wasting time on the trip .. couldn't really bail me out from it .


Roger

Reflection

1. Melvin in CQ
2. Regent car back to Hyatt
3. Richard join YPO greater china and met daniel this morning
4. Gary had the wrong expectation about me and he is right now
5. Do nothing in CQ is something
6. I will go to the best sell movie this afternoon for sure
7. The same restaurant twice and the taste is good , price is reasonable
8. Ugly Monkey cafe - why charge for money
9. Met Chu Ping and Ming at airport - just think about the book ripple
10. The " warm " from wechat and the message she send
11. Sound knows how to make peace and decided to call me again


Roger

Aug 8 and 88

Today is Father's Day in Taiwan also the memorial Birthday for 88 , browse his FB this morning and so my respect for a few minuets .
Daphne is an idea candidate to participate as next karuizawa summer jazz featuring artist . Hope it to as planned



Roger

Emotion exit

To tell someone how sad / angry / frustrate / many other emotion seems to be a good mean in resolve your emotion , what we don't realized is if we are dumpling it and " outsourcing " our emotions to others without ask for permission?
If the one really listened, I meant in active and empathy listening , he or she must felt energy suck by you .. if he is not listing, you won't feel the care and yours sharing won't be paid off ..
when to ask permission for sharing - resolving your emotion ? Find the right time , in a right mood and maybe choose a right place - when things outside is right , inside can be right .


Roger

Don't do it

If the perspective is " you are coming back " I am really send a terrible message , don't make the transaction a continuity invitation . Do the transaction a transaction practice - one in a time , no dragging and no to pour in any feeling .


Roger

Rattlesnake liquor and the emotion

Late last night, almost one o'clock in the morning taipei time , Meiling line phone and ask about check in her luggage with Sound's suverner - the rattlesnake liquor in the bottle. I disagree and Sound insist on smuggle one bottle and see how it happen ? I told him if anyone should taken the risk , it should be him but not his mother , he getting emotional and challenge once I being in Tibet beef and not process quarantine.. I didn't answer him immediately but ask Meiling to stick on the principal - if anyone ask him to smuggle drug and other illegals material , what will he do and who should response for it ?
I really upset by Sound's way of inquiry during our conversation last night, it kept me awake for a long while :
- why he never appreciate my efforts to bring him Vietnam intern experience?
- why not to think my rationale in not to break the rule ?
- Why press on somebody's wound when challenge his viewpoint
It all surface some of his nature - the devil side of Sound , it's a pity to see it coming


Roger

Rattlesnake liquor and the emotion

Late last night, almost one o'clock in the morning taipei time , Meiling line phone and ask about check in her luggage with Sound's suverner - the rattlesnake liquor in the bottle. I disagree and Sound insist on smuggle one bottle and see how it happen ? I told him if anyone should taken the risk , it should be him but not his mother , he getting emotional and challenge once I being in Tibet beef and not process quarantine.. I didn't answer him immediately but ask Meiling to stick on the principal - if anyone ask him to smuggle drug and other illegals material , what will he do and who should response for it ?
I really upset by Sound's way of inquiry during our conversation last night, it kept me awake for a long while :
- why he never appreciate my efforts to bring him Vietnam intern experience?
- why not to think my rationale in not to break the rule ?
- Why press on somebody's wound when challenge his viewpoint
It all surface some of his nature - the devil side of Sound , it's a pity to see it coming , I am preparing to accept the Cold War next , some values you live and you should stand for .. for this , I can forgive but not forget.


Roger

Gang of 4 minus 1

Last minute notice ? Sidney - Why and Why guessing ?
It's purely a eating gathering , nothing particular .
Peter apply PhD at Tung Hwa university .
Chung Lu ( hey I forget his English name ) feel no focus in life ( according to him - no gravity)
Super man is so nice and offer 2 drinks for my friend .
Tua : I thinks I said something like : I won't take initiative anymore ..


Roger

News about R

Melvin go to CQ : Sherry and everyone support .
Andre resign and a consultant become managing director of Regent
CC develop cancer : sad and she take a year long leave
Simon prompt as GM of Regent Taipei and he is not happy ...
F have been here for 5 years and If Chances come .
Jason resign and will take new offer in Sep.
Sinking Life opening banquet will be done by Regent CQ team - Steve will be there on 9th also
S : remain unchanged.. following 5 years will be challenge still .
Antonio / Jason take me as role model ? Right and wrong ...
Gang of eating : Ellen ; Simon ; Fumei and Melvin but now .. gone


Roger

Daphne

A story to open :
1. What is karuizawa summer jazz festival
2. Why I am doing so ?
3. The budget and prerequisites
4. You ? Ok make my life simple
--
Possibility :
1. Toku
2. Aki Tanaka
3. Akio ?
4. Sky Wu


Roger

Fumei

It's been 5 years at Regent , it ain't easy when Trust is not the DNA in the culture , please won't feel Safe then .
Leaning :
1. Personal and business updates
2. Time share versus mindshare
3. Choice is my default
4. Trust is a choice never the practice



Roger

Sherwin

Sure . Sherwin , I might be one of the unique person among your father's friend circle - the other one is A Da .
So - to pursue academic credit : MBA PhD is a stepping stone to you next career goal - somewhere in the field of international affairs dealing with " rebalancing asia power "
As you see the instability coming next in Asia and since it's inevitable, how to manage it is critical than to stop it ( it's almost impossible?
And what's your constrain ? Time and Money- and by the way I am married and this is part of our plan - to work overseas and for me to pursue my life goal is to trike a balance in Asian stability.
It's not a normal route people walk on he life Journey : survival - success then significant, you done the reverse engineering and put the significant in front - as this is the goal you hardly achieve in one life , so it's qualify to be a life goal .. congrats
What I can do ?
- Shu Yu Ren
- Japan negotiator
- block chain : nation of weaver



Roger

2 good movies

The 2 action films were so good :
1. Frozen Secrets : Cold blonde is a great action / spy movie and the tone of director is amazing .. music and background of Berlin Wall is also brilliant .
2. Baby Driver : like it so much , not so many action movies have such a racing / action feel . Enjoy it as another cult film
I do have a good time in the theater .

Roger

Behavior , thinking and action

The thoughts floating for month and days , I project the consequences and not to take action . And the thought of immediate pleasure cast a shadow on me .. by calculation the risk , it's higher than the " transactional pleasure " that's my rationale brain stop me to do ..
and the substitute is either less save or less pleasure or it contain certain degree of risk , although the exposure is not as significant as my floating though . It's a risk also .
I am use my Update to probe my thoughts and I know 100% I should NO take action .
Behavior and behave ..


Roger

Hubert

McDonald is in fast pace under a fast food mentality , I have to catch up and only observation now
-- don't worry and no push. When the time comes , I will be ready .
What's dose our sessions benefit me ? By only sharing but not solving ?
-- by sharing you are in the process of solving
-- you know the skill of coaching and use it to lead the new team
-- I am the one you trust to share what you don't disclose
-- whenever you ask for " solve " I will be there and all you need is call me
How you see our partnerships or relationship
-- don't let it end
I love to help others
- so please help me more
- when the time is good for you or it's bad for me .
I am surrounding by abnormal persons in my family
- time bomb



Roger

Session with Hanes

My high / hype energy is an " in - between " syndrome.
We agree :
1. Boss must be the smartest in his company. Those who smarter than him either work on their own / find a smarter boss .. or the worst case - play dummy and live life easier working for you .
2. Communication dilute trust - if any corporation need efficiency, the leader can only allow official internal collaboration meeting once - for the second time , come to owners office for final decision .
3. Do the Right thing and Do the thing right
4. Flow :
-- SEAL : 1) never give up your partner in war . 2) alway look at opposite side when taking mission 3) onsite - we follow whoever move first .
-- Google : Burning Man & Schmidt as CEO from 2001
5. CSR report and Jay's leadership


Roger

Who I become the pa to D

Simply because you never say no to him and always response to his request no matter it's easy or tough .
So , don't let yourself be the victim of friendship . It's not mutual and won't health

Roger

The young female driver at airport

She drove up to 130 km / hour on the highway , no less than any tough male deiver .


Roger

Reflection

1. Why daphne ? And she's ok .. karuizawa 2018 - become an agenda now
2. Coco Shen : what a pity or not . Miss in Tokyo but say hello on FB
3. Last minutes on Aug 4th .. I should just let the time passing by .. and make it a movie day
4. Shopping : for the comfortable and cool clothes .. not the fancy or brand thing .
5. So many unagi rice : 5 in totals and I won't get tired of it .
6. A remote coaching with Huwen ..
7. Totally forget Linda / Sean ...


Roger

Non stop is a discipline or not

5 nights 6 days in Tokyo , I perform 6 times if my own recreation without others hand - it's a discipline or I am overly abuse my " BODY " although I fully aware it's nothing to do with body .
My private and secrets life refrain me from ruining my reputation , it's critical to what I am doing now ..


Roger

Internship resonate

I recall the time when father arrange me a summer part time at Taipei Municipal Police Station for distribution of police shoes - it's for uncle Tasi's " All Beauty Shows " who tender the police shoes at that time .
I don't know how many days I was there to issue / replace shoes , my memory is I sneak a few hundred at shoes box and use them to buy some vinyls - rock album at my high school day .
It's my stains when I was still a high school student .
Today , I am arrange Sound internship to Saigon and this memory surface ..

Roger

J session

We were back to Taiwan last night. His family time at Bali and my coaching trip to Saigon
1. Relax is to experience an Extreme Experience : it require your full attention and the " NOW "will surface .
2. Not a " emotion / energy " scan today but a " reality check "
3. No equity involved, professional can only be short sighted .
4. To see the 「脾氣 」versus 「任性」
5. Next board terms : what's the contributor made from current director
6. If brokers can run the business & industry, we shall all be pity . Consequences is not as simple as you see.
7. Smart people doing stupid thing ? Must be some agenda .


Roger

Emotions trigger

Our emotions is triggered by others - mainly other people's emotion . And how those unpleasant energy infusion to our mind is still a question to me .
Ken Yang : good friend of mine and development Winds Music to an unimaginably sustainable position at such a industry destruction.
Talents Fly ask him / or his company to join force a " charity based " function by offering their expertise. The intention of doing good should be clear.
I am not sure is the budget is irrelevant or the strategic mind of " buy one get one free " free ride is a must for surviving today . The even hijacked and the corporation with Adagio B & B ( or the trade off ) become the marketing angle which diluting our " good cause " and blurring the role " Talents Fly " / A Zone perform at the joint event ..
A Zone foundation manager is so upset and emotional - according to Angeli ( our project owner from Talents Fly ) who initially should be the coordinator to all possible dispute , however , she is taking a step back ( this is only my observation, don't want to get her hands dirty is her nature ) and rationale why Winds is doing - I am fine as there is no point to break my friendship with Ken but to reexamine what I did for them and should I continue to do so ...
KC is cool as a bystanders but he see things clear ..
my emotion is been trigger by Mayan and Angeli but not Ken or Winds Music .
I am journaling in order to bring back my peace of mind.
In addition , I am not so happy about having our volunteer such as Connie here and do " almost nothing " but to be a guest - I didn't reserve dinner seat for her ( and my impression change after preparing gma tickets for her . But after the show , nothing happen and no Thanks you .. It's don't sound like an HR specialist to me ) .
This is a mix emotion .. and I am anchor it here .


Roger

Viewpoint, thoughts and others

When happily share my commitment to bring over Taiwan jazz musicians to Japan participating on karuizawa jazz festival . For ease the financial burden and to do something meaningful .
A cold water pulling down on my head , Meiling say why can't get rid of the grief ? What not let the " missing the lost one " keep within oneself, why not work for the living , the poor and those who need help and we can really SEE ? And why spend money on the dead ? Why not save for the raining day ? Would 88 happy to see this happen ? Or why I am doing what I think is good but to drag her grief period longer ? By continue to support karuizawa jazz festival and bring her back to the 88 days - how can Teako bail herself out ? How can she open new chapter for her life ?
There is nothing wrong with her pragmatically thoughts, I just told Meiling don't share such a thought to anyone as it will be treated or cold blooded .
I am a human and I am maybe more human sense than normal human ..


Roger