Meiling turn 50 tomorrow

We met when she was only 18- high school girl and tomorrow she will be 50 years old .

Time really fly - 32 years together , it almost double her time with original family .

Together and getting married , raised 2 trouble maker ... It's an amazing time .

What I did to celebrate? Eating out ? But her gift ? Big birthday cake ? These old cliche won't transform the memories , do I do one thing differently , I though about it when reading at city library this afternoon , I decided to cook dinner for her - first time at her birthday .

Bought all the ingredients at the mags market summit and found out there's no vegetables today , never mind , I come out with 3 dishes :

1. Slice pork deep fry with bean curb.

2. Green bell paper fly with pickled cucumber.

3. 3 color onion mix with scrumble eggs 

We had happy time sharing dishes at dinner table 

Almost forget to post it : LEE CHI

I never ever image will meet lee chi at Bati natural park : a place 70 minute away from our home and we never place it at our " to be list "

He precise as before : we knew each other 22 years ago , last time when meiling saw him should be decades ago , and he never see sound in person .

He have been through many life change - from start to dust and going through some unhappy marriage .. 

Lee told me he adapt to vegetarian last year , commit to bring the Chinese traditional value - family value to the young kid - probably from kindergarten and working under on fundatuon , and he call what he dose is " social enterprise "

We stand outside " Tina kitchen " and talk for 10 minutes I guess . Meiling done her billing check out and saw lee and his wife ... 

We won't be believed to meet him in person under such a circumstance.

Correcting personal and professional

1. Done my long awaits exercise this morning : moustiqo bites and sweating .

2. Thinking about death since last night : why jobs said it so many times ( when you feel you are about to die , you know you have nothing to lose but follow your heart ) the movie " tour de force " really trigger me hard of " dying " : the process no one can predict or redirect.

3. Be a good coach :

- Hubert must change in some way 

- Transblobe workshop can't extend ambiguity 

- accton need my expertise but not the consultancy .

- talents fly need a better guidance .

4. You can't change how high you are after 21, but you should response for how heavy since 21.

5. Saving for the raining days : no extra spending on the things I want but not necessary need .

Who

Will you invite to your last journey ?

Why you want them to join ?

What if someone reluctant to participnt ?

What would you want to share on the road ?

How you wish to be remembered? 

Great film " tour de force "

What I can learn and modified to a good program in forum :

1. Friendship for 15 years with a single theme " bicycling 500 km per year "

2. Opening day : use the cup paper to write a challenge to the person next to you and hopefully it will complete during the trip .

3. It's friendship ; couple love ; family relationship and how you see death yourself.

4. Opening sharing the things  you near to say goodbye with .. 

PJL at St Ignacis plaza

Sound's closest friends - brother JP do a new song promotion event . I was asked to attend as a ? Humm I don't really know . Even a veteran to the music industry , I am distance from the current music development not to mentions my ignorance to RAP music . 

They perform 5 songs , not to my surprise , some technical problem occurs . And no lighting no stylists and no key message , it will easily end up with a " celebration among friends "

Saving normal is a good book :

- disease is dis - ease : you don't feel comfortable. 

In the Christian ruling world - for 4-5 century people who develop sychologovs disease going through a dark age - beg high with evil spirits and then sinner , a very sad history about the stupid people who don't know how to treat other people who you don't understand..

I am not in the right position to give any advise now .

Make up memories

1. New wide 40th anniversary and YPO table : it's Sunny's birthday so this is a family business .

2. Hubert session :

No foreplay but make love ? Do you take your word seriously ?

3. Just sleep NTU : nice night market map to go with your target guest 

4. Dr Chang : congratulation and yes , it's really trouble and now because of you , I understand your mother a little more .

5. Door close : fruit please close door when sleep , if you leave door open , your family will cheek if you are home .

6. Meusem study and social change :

- Lu is as vivid as usual 

- lily forget who I am - s Kuang' sister snd this is cause by my eyewear 

- wang ding Chung - how come he is paralyzed but an invited panel speaker .

7. Anxiety : about Steve Vai event .

8. What's the take home of speech this morning :

- James Chuang is not serious about what he said - you can't count on him

- Meusem director is ok as speaker 

- EMBA alumni foundation ? How it functions? Why it and what's beside them ? 

New wide executive team taste of forum

For the last 3 days , had a chance to connect and sharing among top executive at new wide , I am thrilled to know it works profoundly and excited to know some of the revised procedure did works better than I expected .

Words of mouth spread so chairman added 2 more executive last minutes , one mandarin session and one bilingual session went smooth and well .

What we did 

1. Open and group vaulnuble at the session 

2. 4 persons resolved conflict when doing jphari trust and opened exercise

3. At least half of the participant share deeply their personal life 

4. Non of them falling asleep at session 

5. Many ah ha / enlightenment and paradigm shift taken place 

forum works can and should come up with a new approach to many big corporate and I promise to meiling it will be her birthday gift - more aggressive in delivery my value .

Guru ji stress free and meditation process

1. Massage your face : your eyebrows musual / rolling eye balls / your forehead / your chin .

2. Breath cycling : 3 fingers on top of nose / no name finger on left size nose / open both / breath in / block right side nose hole / Brearh in from left side nose / open right side nose hole - block left side / Brearh out - do it for how many times ?

3. Meditation: eye close and feel your weight getting lighter - relax 

Coaching H today

We have only 30 minutes - so fuck and no foreplay? Or what ?

See you in years : ADHD 

- reluctant to commit or plan ahead

- no patience 

- distract 

Energy level - flat in personal / family and business .

Do I look like money anxiety ? Why ? 

I should never complain my own thing to my client - it's a wrong role play.

Long stay at 11 VIP

Finalizing my last touch for taste of forum tomorrow, too many information to swallow and digest . 

Passion and " willing to do it better each time " will redefine my definition for " mastering : continue working on something until it works for you " 

On air : in the air

Having been to radio interview for many years not to mention to do it in English at ICRT - but do it well and Terry said I have a good voice over the air : passion and genuine... I should consider another way to coach - live coaching 

And never undersmate preparation , the 20 minutes prepare make a difference, This is the draft used this morning :

ICRT : Terry Interview 

1. Theme of the Event " master for minor "

2. Purpose of the event : support less resourceful young talents to pursuing their Dream by connection master in the fields they dream of .

- music is primary field we focus as my background and how music transform my life and how friend in music circle transect friendship .

3. How it begin :

🌼About talents fly ( non profit ) : social relay and inclusive for a positive loop in supporting young talent boldly pursuing their dream . It's not a giving back since we are not taking too much , but to create a positive loop by connecting what resource we generate before . Well , I will like to put it this way : to Do the right thing ( good thing ) right. So start from music field .

🌼Make a noise or Steve Vai : friends since 1997 when he came for the first concert in Taiwan and we met , the friendship grows , I don't play any instrument but my " ear " and " heart " and I get know this gentlemen more then his guitar skill . With strong believe and high spirits in doing good together , we make the " master for minor " a pilot run from Taiwan and see how the ripple goes . 

3. Some details :

- it's a talent identification yet a competition. We ( Steve and other judge ) will spot final 6 and give an in person coach : class on October 18 in huilen .

- Yes , Steve fly all the way from LA and your application is free of charge . 

- all fingertip instrument welcomes and not limited to electric guitar - so : pipa / Yu chin / ukulele ... 

- check talent fly FC page : 才能飛

- deadline set 10

 

Eat and movie with family

Hitman 47 win more entertaining point from us than pixles .

Egg plant restaurant keep good quality in food and raise price on average consuming.

Little Mongolia hot pot is a compensation to meiling after the awful hot pot experience in Taichung .

Sound talked a lot :

1. About my ugly history share by his grandma.

2. Interesting in the guru ji things 

3. Discuss how his best friend lee Chung want to be next jay chew 

4. Talking about TAIPEI slater and southern taiwan slater

5. Politely asking me to join lee's showcase on Saturday.

6. Express how he see classmate abroad Japanese for university and fit in new environment.

6. Think work part time at cinemas is better than labor work 

7. Got to know his father via other associate at music industry before .

Strange dream

I had more than one dream last night but leave only one which is vivid :

I wore only strip underwear to office with shirt on - and this is exactly what David Du sponsored underpants, I don't feel anything until Hubert took me to see a person ? A contemporary artist who rent an office somewhere under the hill - pretty much like yang ming mountin , when arrived , I am shame and took another blue short pant from my beg and put it on -- hum this is my back up plan ? Hubert point me to the office building and said , you should work here , it got nice view , then artist jolin Tsai jump out and greet us and said something like you are here to greet the artist and then show her support with 4 letter word .

We walk in the office , ask to see the artist who I really don't know how to pronounce his name and meiling woke me up since my alarm is on but I am in deep sleep still .

How I can inteprete my own dream ?

1. I feel shame to see others 

2. Hubert ask me to do something in the office and I reluctantly to answer 

3. I am still in the artist / entertainment mood 

4. Do I owing Heng Yi anything ?

Full energy today

1.The flesh idea spark my idea for coming out the " facilitate steps " base on the one page guideline , I am able to produce tools and exercise for many class : I am thinking about growing the business .

2. Deliver accton corporate forum agreement and see how it works , no delay and well crafted 

3. Greeting WPO Japan dry run group at sungsang airport - I am glad I did it.

4. Pump into Ceaser at Mos burger and come across next master for minor possibility .

5. Halp finish my preparation for new wide - open complete and exercise design means ok .

6. Break is what I want need : ask sound to movies this afternoon - should be a good break for both of us .

Guru ji

1. Balance is dancing : one foot on the ground and one foot in the air 

2. Age but not aging : young mind 

3. Meditation bring you happiness 

4. Smile : don't let stress get you .

5. Pursue a stree free ; violence free world 

S.

My short coming : number and people , so I need to focus on envision our vision 

- what you expect me to perform as chairman ?

- what wisdom my partner will gain and not to be blamed?

- the key stakeholders are so professional , what can I address more ?

- embraced then we find the truth

- hand in hand and seamless given no room to others 

- you need a reflesh - retreat 

- it's like T Cell : when the wound develop , we develop and getting tight 

- sleeping - yeah spooky or ....

- better 

- foundation - take time 

Diana

I can't really says too much but I am happy I regain trust and be a truly coach again .

You can't involved too much otherwise you will be bias 

You can be too distance otherwise you can be no empthy 

You encourage them to speak and on the final spot - they really talk and you beginning to listen .

It's a 87 minutes session . 

What behavior change you expect from your coachee ? And do I really need to set expectation ? 

Going back to my coaching mode and o am now have new expiration about :

Guru ji -- 

It can only be better 

Session with Angeli

1. About Chian Hui : the word I sing to you , the less I can do again 

2. Spider web and ripples 

3. I forgot ? What's the word I memories ? I should take notes 

Meiling say

I can't disclose to my client that I might develop " menopore " 

I need to change panes to cope with shirts color

I can't let my coachee comfort me .

What I did this morning ? Yes , I did 

- mountaineering and body stretch 

- listening to freakmonic radio about "risk"

- cancel dinner appointment tonight as it no meaning to me. 

- prepare for coaching this morning 

- picture snail again and this one is so vitality 

Where is my self awareness

If you only feel anxious , your uncomfortable feeling won't go away .

If you want to sort it out , please do it one by one and once at a time.

If you self awareness can't help you , you need to do something else such as meditation .

If you wish to perform as an appropriate coach / facilitation , you must regain your capability in handling your own emotion. 

Is it man's menopore ? I better find it out.

What I can do :

1.reading redirect my focus 

2.meditation tuning my alpha wave 

3.exercise will distribute more positive energy .

4. Connect with nature may work somehow .

Life according to Sam

It's an HBO documentary by 2013. Year before Sam passed away from potegoria decease .

I Watch his Ted talk about meaning of life and find 4 other information online :

1. Leslie : her mother funded the foundation and spend life for finding the possible cure.

2. Dave Matthew band welcome him as VIP guest to their concert 

3. HBO did the " life according to Sam " documentary highlight the decease and Sam's life philosophy .

4. Sam didn't make it on his 18th birthday and die on jan 2014 . He had a dream to be someone like Steve job and want to study at MIT. 

1. Focus on your can list 

2. Surrounding by people with same thought 

3. Moving forward .

Good Sam and good life .

Meiling learn to comfort me

Send canned quote the first time just for comfort me - similar to my feeling last night : why I said " let's not bring complain to living room " become her strong response and mention this is the first time in 30 years I told her not to bring complain to me ? Too strong and too subjective.

If sound think we should sell the house , we better planning ourself better now 

Why simon and gerfenkel " sound of silent " bring lot of sentimental to us ? 

Young at heart . 

Unstable emotion

I am not stable in my emotion life .

Morning recreation wasn't really relief .

No good lunch 

Miss the movie in the early afternoon 

Falling asleep in the afternoon at home

Bento for dinner and side dish is the cold face of Meiling .

Good take away :

1. The documentary about airplane crash last year at pan Hu island and how fur islander suffer endless nightmare 

2. Human right lawyer Kao 's story become a documented by new tang TV 

Emotional leader

Aj is in the verge of break down and Easily share / disclose his emotion over many people inside meeting room .

He don't want to listen , don't want to think and deny on everything he heard .

He use strong words to express his emotion , not caring about who's in the meeting room. 

Lonely but not alone is what forum works , Aj is kind of lonly and alone .

" I need your help " : yes I hear it , but I don't listen to you yet . What I can be of help ? If you make up your mind to be bold / tough and ... Who will you turn to ? 

Share car with A hp veteran who works go ACCTON , he knew Aj for 22 years and told me how he understand Aj and said he is so caring about people .

What life you want to pursue ? What caught you in between ? 

Edward is so understanding, Aj said you are my shadow -- what does it means ?working around and push the system . A least a second commenting channel to complicated operation - who make our life hard ? 

Push - respond and bounce back

I almost respond Angeli's mail with a " not so friendhly " manner - my self awareness alert me this is only her " complain sharing " not exactly "-asking for solutions " so I use " infomation is for receive not request to accept " mentality filter she mail and I decide not to response this is follow another behavior I learnt " it takes 2 to know one " - no response is my respond not to show how I stand for .

I am a coach , not consultant so not in the position to " deliver " , I handle people but not business , if anyone I coach reluctant to disclose , I can only wait . To accompany is my core value , to go along is a benchmark value ,with good gesture is basic value .

Sound

If you don't manage yourself , someone else will .

If you don't care of your own business , no one will care .

If you want your mother to serve you for life , you better find a robot instead .

If you always take advantage of others , someday it will pay back 

If your problem is not big enough , you can always find place to hide ... 

This is what I learn from our Line message - again , it's not a communication only information . 

Having pork rib rice at the high price season - feel happy .

Hanes and Jason

H is sensitive about this might be a farewell lunch , I can sense it and told him the session continue and will be phase out base on our consensus .

H improve a lot - the Cat is coming moment less impact and the biz reaction turn to emotional uncertainty is normal to me .

Question : how to expend viewpoint - enrich life and getting higher ground ( reading ? Movie ? Peer group )

Answer : make every activity you do a sense to you : what inspire you at the movie and why ? How you going to apply what the book offers ? Traveling with new insight ... Record and awareness make sense your sense .

J: last question and mine 

Roger : deal with people but bit business ; it can be even ugly ; strangler and getting too involved.

 Body tell me this is not right ... What to do next ? 

M and pei Hwa

It's a complex of respect and resentment.

P said yes means No. 

M's Ok send the signal of game over 

Do the right things wrong .

Make your own definition and create terminology suit your organization .

Facilitatation : facil - Latin root " make easy " so it's " process " and " emotion "

Never plan , always planning . 

3 solution :

- move her to where  she can perform 

- find someone on top of her 

- let it be 

If you don't manage yourself ; someone else will ...

Jason today prepare

1. Protocol : CTO

2. Check in : mindful mediation 

3. Ice breaker : what brought you here in the first place ?

Roger : end of a road ...

4. Update : up - down from last time and forward looking : personal ; family ; business 

5. Issue and development :

- the crystal ball and big picture 

- Socrates 3 filter : truth ? Good intention ? Important ?

- overall channel head review base on strategic planning if any .

- key stakeholders relationship : Stiven / Diana / Board / Consultsnt / EC 

- who you need to make success happen ? 

- some for sharing and some for solving .

- issue owner ultimately will be issue solver 

Self Awareness

1. Aj is an emotional leader , you can't follow what he instructed in the very beginning , otherwise it will end up with circling or in vain.

2. Sound is too sensetive and putting mask , he knew what damage he done to others but seldom admit it.

3. I am kind of lost even this is what I wish for - the mistake she made is really a test for me .

4. People rich in his own way , and they don't owe you anything .

5. Social Capital ( trust ) varies by people you know - if price it , the range from 100.000 to 2 millions 

6. Inside out the animation film didn't touch us hard : disguise / joy / dad / anger .. Maybe sympathy and empathy works better . 

7. No go to one SEE event : I really don't need to priority it as this is no significant to me .

8. Like it : jimmy wells from Wikipedia : the first word type is : hello world .

9. Ted radio hour : family is where we build story , sometimes we are not the story but as supporting role to others story. 

10. Micro wave cure to my elbow and golfer arm even thought I don't play golf and tennis - hand shaking for 15 minutes per day is quite essential and help 

Lie / afraid or respect

I told A that H had 3 days very import fm meeting outside which refrain him from taking up business meeting internally . A had a big business mindset and double checked with me and told me " this is not truth " H is definitely hiding from meet / discuss with people in the hotel business sector . Well - what interested me is why lie for me ? Afraid ? Respect or feel shame ? 

A is too much on finding hard evidence which will be in vain - If phasing out is the best move , why bother to dragging in the business rationales and try to push the impossible to break ballon ? 

F is too sensetive about what I am saying ? What is so important that H must excuse himself for so many days / times? 

Everyone need a break . My take home with Fermi:

1. On age 31 , he want to be A CEO in public listed company in the States 

2. Goal setting is so important and he know exactly why goal pursuing is happiness and goal achieving is relief 

3. Do good at his magnitude , neither to let others know nor to scale up 

4. About religion is I believe : no proxy can do it for him not to mention the cult ones 

5. Trust people and than extend to respect his ideology . 

6. Lower your bar when asking otherf to join your charity works 

What about my tennis elbow ?

1. Try this : vibration once 75% of curing rate 

2. No harm at all - worst scenario is nothing improves 

3. Refer make me cut the line and be the first patient .

Coaching for nothing

The recession session turn to be my coaching for free :

1. You image and create the future you see

2. Depress can be handle by parking and recognize such as black dog

3. Positive sychology better than nagtive thinking 

4. Yes , I have pay my price also

5. Your circle of friends - networking define who you are and your risk / opportunity .

TPO new member

Jennifer : my onsen and gourmet map

Rose : 有能力好好過人生下半場（身體、心靈、財務）

球：哥哥爸爸真偉大。

霖：不知所云。

Many small contact expect better result 

- seniors is senior 

- Ryan over coffee ( yes , it's been too long )

- AJ: taste of corporate forum and old houses in KL 

- Bengo: system works , please join in

- Rose : time to have a coffee

- Tim : kind need lesson from you 

- Eric Tsai: let's have veggie lunch 

- Jae : I like your eye ware : with quality 

- David Du: will join dinner with WPO Japan on 26th

- andrew : Fu Jen university and social enterprise course 

- fermi : let's have breakfast tomorrow 

- tai Shen : you dress good 

- Royce : I quit smoking for 3 days 

- bobby : sorry I can't join Steve Vai Event 

- challote : you are gandi in TPO 

- michael : I met Yu Kwang the other day , there's reunion concert on Oct.3rd

Finish what you start

1. Talents fly :

2. Master for minor 

3. A Zone development 

4. WCD 

5. House keeping : books now 

6. On diet and healthy living 

Buddy monitor and Matthew

1. What I leant a about bee and hip hop in Taichung 

2. As buddy : Matthew done his small different commitment yesterday , what about me by Sep. 14?

3. Less usage and frequency on mail and social media / net .

4. Seeing James Wei and TM ( shanghai - Singapore )

5. Talents fly - master for minor : Huang said it right , purely charity and no sony hijack on artist performing . 

On the road

It's not the " Beat Generation " ambience , sound is about to check in Tung Hai University today , we take this opportunity to see father after typhoon .

 Had a very long phone conversation with Jason before the trip , we move ourself around 10:30 am and guess what , we run into the maganitutue traffic jam on highway , arrive father's mountain house by 3:30 pm , we skip the lunch but enjoy the electric motorbike experience , I rode one to the far house where green grass is maganaficent .

 Check in hotel - amigo run hotel by 5:15 pm , he is there waiting - upgrade and discount - what can I complain about the not function shower room ? 

 Going out to buy sound few clothes , spend more than 10.000 nt this time and it's the best cloth he ever wear - even you are fat , you can well dress yourself and be a clean boy - this is what I said to his mother.

 Taking some good local vendor food , no like before but taste even better , we cancel the plan about go to movies and enjoy a no plan night .

 Sound learn his grand mother is not well and ask us send her to see doctor , the cal between them solve the issue .

 Out for old house visit - a routine or ritual I did every time . Chun Xi spot where I am when post a art convert picture - this is where I grow ...

Ni found it

Finally - the ignorance bring the force to end relationship .

The exposure do leave me shadows as any normal person can easily googling who I am and there is no way to escape from any follow up disaster .

How she can manage the risk is what I don't know and this ignorance in which I emphasize for many times do happens .

Paper will never hold the fire - where there is a smoke , there is a fire .

How I can reduce / control / eliminate my risk ? 

I can only play silent now and leave the window as long as possible . It's not about calm down. Cool down . It's about put off all the fires .

Space off site : SOS

My take home : every encounter count 

Learning from execution :

1. Test :

- when you arrive ? Why ?

- on an empty bus , you will take single or double occupancy seat ! Why ?

2. Communication starter :

- set the mood ( CTO / Be Brave to )

- tell us something we don't know about you ( from light to heavy , from business's to family and personal )

3. Level 4 & 5 listening exercise :

- consolidate worksheet ( framing your emotional story and use the active listing check list to listen / record )

- group framing - group centering - pairing 

- feedback about what you listen to ( for those she didn't say and to double check ): it takes 2 to know 1.

- group sharing : how you feel ? What you hear ? Learning ?

4. Finish what you start : even it take longer time , make it worth while .

5. Your participate and not as observer make a difference . 

6. The more listening to Evelyn , the profound insights she had - resonate chamber .. Feel your body .. It's sound before music 

Frank L

It's all about me because it's relate to operation .

H ask me to pass messages via A. So I am less significant then W.

Who told you R. Ask him back ? G himself , right ?

Have you chen the cafeteria recently ? It's full house always and it is fix by CM

A must have something else than passing message .. Even her sister don't know much about ..

A Zone is a place H should worriers : accumulate lost up to 120 million and increase capital to 240 millions and now the cash position is 90 millions..

H is very involved in YPO right ?

You should save your own retirement fund...

Achoi behind budget by 1.5 million / month but I can't really help...

Burger Fix - not yet break even ( monthly. 2.1 m ) 

AMBA Kenting : CM is taking director but not chairman position . 

I am the lowest pay COO among group BU.

You looks tired today ? Why ? Don't burn out. 

CM trust me long time ago but I didn't told H

Sales report direct to CM - this is his Managment style . Didn't H know it ? 

Home 8 or 9 every night ? No way , ute even late 

R is disqualified, only do training and light out by 5:00 pm , how come ?

D is behind budget at A - compare with last year also behind .. 

Keep the loop open ...

Professor Chuang lunch at Achoi

My teacher :

1. Just the way you are : care about student and his papers .

2. Not expend circle of friends or networking - opposite Extreme to jr lee 

3. Domestic focus : by nature and by defour 

4. Away from : not knowing S Sui passed away .

5. Living in own value : a structure to reveal and review and live by.

6. About family business: family tie is stronger than business ( blood is thinner than water )

7. Independent director ( non executive director) : how the value changes these years : professor take up the job and not been challenge 

8. Distance : Wu and JR dispute which I don't know 

9. How hou raise teenage : prophet the Chi books says all ( arrow cans bowl ) 

10. The mini series : Dai Ban and how to liaisons 

Sport shoes and Tea Can

Too sensitive in observation on detail and emotions or word between the lines - this is how she express yesterday:

1. You are wearing new sport shoes, casual and cute 

2. Don't forget your gift pack in KC car

3. Tai Wu kids Charity performance will be taken cared 

4. Won't issue my invoice in Q4 but phase out without causing locomotion 

 

Paradigm shift

I call sound and ask where he want to go tonight ? How lucky you have a boy who is 18 years old now and willing to spend time with you. 

People are tired

It's because so someone decided to and then the ripple effect erupt the group and everyone suffers .

You knew what I am saying and this is the breaking point of Diverso forum .

Force to and hard to say no

It's domestic issue : you want to satisfy all in the family and end up sacrifice yourself and impact the whole family dynamic indirectly .

- last night to beach : only to pee ? / every word out of your month is ironic and challenging / why raise your voice ? / who the hell to work for the family ( my os )

- chang's family : typhoon night for trip outside / 100.000 for a life / compensate for movie and eating ?

- D & S : why Imply the one and 25 year divorce ? / why care empty nest I am the one who spend time with kid / always independent and responded for my marriage / you play and who work ? / Atempt not get me involved with Chen / I want a position Vice Chairman 

Follow schedule follow goal

1. It's hard to deal with prostration and yes , I tried my best to follow scheduled today - wait a minute , who set the schedule? And why I have to constrain with myslef ?

2. Ya Tung hospital visit chi hung and try to fix my elbow - he recommend me to see other doctor and use the window to update the family issue ...

3. No money , have time : so many waiting outside clinic - my numbers is 121 -- you listen to what they say , that the life they taken - nothing right or wrong . 

4. Buy book : at standard - owner recommend " Age of ambience " , I bought it without second thoughts.

5. The talkative taxi driver : complain is the natue of the business. You can only listen . 

A terrible turn OK session

When D walk in the join executive office and S ask her to sit together , I smell something wrong - the CTO protocol have been broken and no one prepare for the sharing space - this is by far the awful experience I encountered with them in 2 years . It force me to drive my left brain and lost my power in connection and empathy listening . 

I had to end S session in short : nothing really pay off and I excuse myself to the meeting venue and wait for another 10 minutes until D check in:

The session will D extended to 90 minutes as we need to rebuild the space and then have her to really sharing .

It ain't easy to bring back positive energy , as it mix with biz and family , it complicated the case .

I do hope my final statement works for her : " Make the Good thing Right "( 把好事做對）

Why follow Monday rule

Woke up 5:00 am , can't really lying on bed . Do recreation job by 6:00 am and begin my working pattern , I question myself : why I should follow the white caller routine since I am not one of them ?

Doing / revise Space ppt and gain a few leaning , the most important one :

⭕️ the benefit of " Goal " cycling :

- goal setting : aware of something going to change ( paradime shift - positive energy) 

- goal pursuing : sustain the happiness of reaching and action ( diffuse and sustain )

- goal achieving : relief and happy by complete one task ( short but sweet )

 We create we images and we become .

⭕️ greeting those who might impact by typhoon .

⭕️ follow coaching scheduling 

⭕️ review week to do : only the span of 7 days 

⭕️ prepare coaching process :

- to improve or to reform is a feeling - once people follow your thought and turn it into action - you feel good in the process not necessary the results 

⭕️ morning coffee at the stand by cafe 

Self awareness:

- why Meiling said I am too scare of death ? When hitting the rock at the cave and consider withdraw , she asked me go keep moving and lower my body .

- when the water supply is in danger , I am look up for water everywhere and survey the nearby convince stores to prove I am right .

- when empty for 3 days , I tried to rationalize what value I generate and conform myself I am not wasting time .

- when bring back to the middle class mindset , I lost the bold to do good work or workout resource on hand . ( especially when hear we spend half a millions already ) 

- dose my " too conservatives " protect me from trap in deep trouble ? And keep coaching a comfort zone of my own ?

3 days

 Absent from forum meeting in Singapore release me another 3 days in taiwan without any confirm assignment : so what I do ? And what values ever created ?

1. Happy and happiness : 

- goal approaching or pursue goal make you more happy ( as goal approaching taken more time then goal complete )

- goal complete make you a short achievement and release / relieve .

2. Finish reading book : Wu empress: learning from a drama writer in describing Wu she understand .

3. Breakfasts with Hochen : realize what " middle class like me " can do and know when to stop if talents fly burning money without good funding .

4. Sleep : make up sleep in the day time many times ...

5. Enjoy more family time with kids : watching not very good tv and dvd , that's fine as we don't know home many times we will do it again 

Very depression movie

The ? Drunk by director chang cho chi is so depress , not for the recommendation, I won't buy the ticket.

Also , my first experience to go to eslite movie theater ( the art house ) isn't a pleasant one .

 The price combo is too complicated for customer and for clerk , you are not only selling and booking seat , but need to micro wave food and brewing coffee for them , the average service time for each movie goer is way too long , how come they didn't improve or revise its sop ? It's so ridiculous - to be the top culture / creative brand in Taiwan ...

  The movie set the tone in a very oppress mood in the beginning and follow with all the low life - hiding in their comfort corner - in the middle of the film , I make a decision not to help those low life if my non profit goes well , I can't really spend time with them and generate my empathy - only sympathy instead .

 The deep presure mood follow through the entire movie - not a pleasant experience, I finish watching it . Luckily I didn't invite anyone to go with me.

 

Hochen breakfast

As unusual - it's always a pleasure and his response is " it's more than pleasure "

Take sways :

1. Transparent is the prerequisite to " TRUST "

2. Reform is a feeling - you feel better when doing so call reform : not really the result .

3. It's a process of " alignment " : to iron out other abnormal and unreasonable issues before you really conduct any reform .

4. Transforming education: " lay your heart " association .

5. In the world of Internet age , you can easily find information suit your need , it's no point to debate / argue on teaching frameworks - the basis of eduction recr is not yet done .

6. You need someone to be the " Red Guard " if you need to stand in front of public .

7. Attabu : my credit is on ... Yes I did something as well . 

8. TRTB : 2 millions passenger and 30 millions revenue per day - typhoon is not a good business for us .

9. Sound : thanks my parent who give me a happy childhood.

10. The book we read : 「朕是女人」，他：「列寧的墳墓」

Simply yet easy : only and first thing

Your shape represent how you live a displine life - as an adult , we respond for what we looks and weight . So this is my commitment :

" reduce my weight under 70 km before Sep. 10 th " which  means in one month from now , I need to lost 5 km .. 

It's a deal and no compromise to myself . 

Want to see

Documentary : Ken Burn " Roothbelt " 12 episodes on pbs . 

Reading : the Free book send by Dr.

How dose it feel ? Ken Ya Ting .

Sound : it's an experience.

Meiling : labor in all form is so physically intensive . 

Fruit : the sandwich shop is quire famous over the social media .

Roger : I am willing to accompy my family for co create this experience. 

Street walker : who the hell are you guys ? Not buying but taking picture only , create traffic jam in such a narrow alley.

FB Friend : wow ! Where the place ? Midnight in Keelung ? 

Ask yourself : will you do it again ? Introduce to others ? Bring anyone there ? Recommend to others ? 

Ken Ya Ding experience

I am 55 years old and I should have one experience about the midnight fish market at Keelung - so without further ado , our family decided to take this venture this morning .

Done a good Wan Hwa night Market dinner with family and first time to try " sweet sour pork " at the restaurant we visit almost every time , restaurant owner a senior lady promote it and told us the Fu chew style is totally different and urge us to try - the tast is so so good .

I went to bed by 10:00 pm after craft a joke for our classmate - we woke up 1:40 am and drove for 30 minutes , it's easy to find and difficult to stroll - no parking space , no pedestrian route and no vendor provide good fresh " ready to eat " sashimi - we experience the life but not really the place , I even took photo of a potential street punk who slept at 7-11 around 3:20 am .

 On our way back we miss the intersection and over passing taipei , take a long way home and touch my pillow by 5:00 am .

 Done another private coaching to Chiang by 7:00 am , having simply breakfast - fish cake we bought early this morning and knock out at living room coach - it's 12:00 when Meiling waking down to me .

It's good to have another 3 free day Dorothy scheduling anything .

Say No to the gut No

1. No for coming Divreso forum 

2. No for seeing the tour specialist this afternoon 

3. No to secure time for Celine 

4. No to be the victims of messaged from 

5. No to accompany H on his side !

6. No to take the night trip to Keelung 

7. No to watch soap with Sound .

8. No no no 

Jason and Me

Meiling send " don't worry " message , she must read my non verbal languages well .. Anxiety and over eating disclose something different .

Typhoon will impact taiwan on August 8th, the day I plan to fly back from Singapore, it give me second thoughts on suspend my forum tomorrow .. Maybe I should follow my heart and take a no go action today .

Jason want to know how his communications works ? I said - go precise on wording and even go reprase afterwards means using too much left brain and to eatablish mutual trust , you have to pull yourself out - less reservation 

- someone do disclose ec workshop 

- the dialogue is well put 

- James take consulting role and how go make an appropriate press release?

- role and responsibility for continue consultant service from top 

- hell freeze will be over one day 

- reform is a feeling , once action take , it's done , nothing related to the outcome or results -- all the history books address the same 

- black dog ? Grey Cat & white mouse 

Empathy on anxiety

Caching session this morning :

- too much to share and update as things develop to a " what can I do " scenario .

- acceptance and rationalize is the way we handle it 

- need a communication and lead the communications with cm 

- deteriorating of corporate function and corporate professionals 

- worst come to worst 

- different in seeing F. 

H is proud of himself able to handle and accept it even through the anxiety will hit from time to time . 

H's willingness to stay is an interesting point but the weaken operation musual will weeken his confidence to promise many outside connections .

And yes , I can no longer take advance anymore .

Anxiety : self awareness

This is how I spot myself these days :

1. Begin to count the beans - number , budget , flying class , traveling expense ..

2. Over eating : especially the sweet consumption 

3. Lack of exercise: other than walking , alsmost do nothing .

4. Sleeping quality : late to bed and early wake up .

5. Lose patience: short focus , hard to concentration, easily annoyed .

6. Hard to listen : no time / space to really listen ...

7. Emotion unstable to stranger : a lot of " why he / she is doing this ? Questioning other " 

Questions: challenge my business model

What's my business model ?

- what do I sell ? 

- how I solve my clients problem ?

- what do I deliver ? 

- how it can sustain ? 

- who is my clients ? 

- how can it scale up and scope wide ?

- how to replicate with same quality 

- any mass market development potential 

- how to utilize modern technology and communication?

- the Eco system and supply chain ?

- who is the competitor ? 

- how big is the market ? SAM ? 

- how to standerdise and distribute ?

- any breakthroughs? 

- new market ? New product ? The Quadrum 

Revenue forecast 2016

Taiwan revenue 

1. Transglobe : coaching : 3.6 m + workshop 1.2 m ( upside 4.8 m )

2. Hubert : coaching :1.2 m + Shelin development 2 m ( upside 3.2 m ) 

3. Transglobe foundation establishment: project outsource to Talents Fly ( upside 2 millions ) 

4. YPO training : ( upside 0.5 m )

5. NTU center : ( upside 0.2 m )

6. Others ? 

Taiwan Expense :

China 

1. Workshops ( upside 6 times 1.8 m  )

2. Book publishing and book tour (?)

3. YPO training ( upside 0.5 m )

China Expense :

Others :

1. YPO retreat ( upside 0.5 m ) 

Other Expense :

🔘 new thinking :

Hubert 10 in the morning statement

1. About chairman and ambassador:

- he is too concern about the profitability of the hotels sector - the competition is getting serious , you either take a bold approach ( H : make a difference ) or take a conservative stance ( CM : control and commend )

2. About brother and brotherhoods:

- what role I should play to keep family tie and save both face ?

- who can be the middle man perform our communication ?

3. About H's forward looking :

- what action can be slow down ?

- what action have the edge for alternation ?

- what is the must ? And when above will complete ?

4. H buying time for ?

- complete sungsan AMBA project .

- settle all food and beverage initiatives 

- consider talents ? Who to transfer ?who to let go ? 

2 message to digest

1. Row 11, J2: this is the seat number keep surface on my mind yesterday when sleeping somewhere , the dream end up I found the seat and cover it with heavy carpet . It's a private area and I have no idea the nature of the show .

2. Posting on wechat can create ripple effect and cause some inquiry : a strange way of connection " do you have time on Tuesday morning for coffee  ? " this greeting is tried to make you make time for it : if my routine is so easy to be detected , I will say yes and try to fit in, and if I use my " information is for receive not accept " mindset , I won't need second though on how to accommodate.

3. The hot spring restaurant located in middle of the Moutain : see in the first time , chen ping broaderly ask few thing , why I am in the place of saying yes , but or put myself into a " do I looks like a YES man ? " syndrome? Of course not.

4. Jeffrey Su : a potentially master in photography took some good phone on me and we will co work on : making grind with Steve Vai on the road next year

5. Changing talents fly meeting place : ambassador is no longer a sweet place to meet and I should not create too much trouble for my friends .

6. Good reading : the Chinese empress who schemed , seduced and murdered her way to become living God by Jonathan Clements .