I am here by 8:00 am, it open at 8:30 am , I am the first person registered and my appointment tickets is : 16 ? Why , even thought there is multiple way to register, but to serve for those who come in person a better arrangement is a common knowledge, I don't know why and I can't figure it out ?
And on the tickets , it mentions if any complains , please write it down and throw it into the suggestion box . I don't believe anyone will either check it or improve it .
I waited for 30 minutes already and I don't know when number 16 will be called.
Roger
2016年12月31日 星期六
2016年12月30日 星期五
Audi A6 arrive by end of 2016
Replace a new car for Meiling or myself - as a passenger. It's my own way to sustain living : CSR community : a BMW 320 - forum works early day : Volkswagen Passat CC , beginning of 2017 : Audi A6 to kick off .
Roger
Roger
Lucid dream
The cold part 3 : asthma coming back, this is the worst symptom I ever want to re experience: a nightmare since my childhood . I don't know what trigger it this time but when laying on bed last night , I can feel it coming.
Lucid dream :
1. Sound call home for mother late , it's 12:30 am in the morning , so I didn't wake her up for the call.
2. Sound is home and ask if we go to " Assistant Creed " yet , he is so excited about going to this movie with me.
3. Meiling had a guilty face on her , I don't know why and I don't want to know .
Roger
Lucid dream :
1. Sound call home for mother late , it's 12:30 am in the morning , so I didn't wake her up for the call.
2. Sound is home and ask if we go to " Assistant Creed " yet , he is so excited about going to this movie with me.
3. Meiling had a guilty face on her , I don't know why and I don't want to know .
Roger
2016年12月29日 星期四
Broadway Cinema reopens
I am here for " Great Wall " the movie I am not going to be - not on my priority list and to taste what's new from this old time favorite cinema ( close to where we live , quite and clean )
The renovation looks good , but it turn to a home theater alike cinema : 40 seats per screening room . I hope the experience will be good .

Roger
The renovation looks good , but it turn to a home theater alike cinema : 40 seats per screening room . I hope the experience will be good .

Roger
Get some sleep and get some rest
I lye down to bed and sleep without knowing what time is it .
Take another 2 tablet and hot bath , I return to bed by 5:50 and sleep until 7:00 am
Roger
Take another 2 tablet and hot bath , I return to bed by 5:50 and sleep until 7:00 am
Roger
2016年12月28日 星期三
In high fever now
The flu is getting worst , all the symptom come one by one : running nose ; block nose ; cough ; sore body ; and finally : Fever come to me .
It's like listen to sychodilic music , you just floating on the guitar , image now Steve Vai is Adolfo a solo and you just getting higher and higher now .
Noon send me a message by trigger of what Steve did at Kennedy Center Honors - he is tribute to Eagles or more specifically- Joe Walsh . The number they did is " Hotel California " and you see Don Henry / Joe Walsh nod their head with smile - the high light is when the All Star Band tribute " Life in Fast Lane " a guitar driven hit , you can image how Steve want to play with the song and to entertain the audience - including Obama .. he did it at the perfect ending to the Honory Concert .
This is Steve , how people love him and always bring magic to everyone on stage .
I am in high fever still , call the help desk for the fever relief tablet : as they are not medical Train and certified members , so can't directly offer me any medical Advisee and does , desk boy knock our door and say : this Tablet is from our own staff for personal usage , if you need more , please dial 3.
I books the earlier shuttle out tomorrow morning and ask if shuttle bus driver can lead us to a close by clinic - I need to fix the symptoms before it too late.
It's getter better now and I am sit to write my blog about my fever drift ..
Roger
It's like listen to sychodilic music , you just floating on the guitar , image now Steve Vai is Adolfo a solo and you just getting higher and higher now .
Noon send me a message by trigger of what Steve did at Kennedy Center Honors - he is tribute to Eagles or more specifically- Joe Walsh . The number they did is " Hotel California " and you see Don Henry / Joe Walsh nod their head with smile - the high light is when the All Star Band tribute " Life in Fast Lane " a guitar driven hit , you can image how Steve want to play with the song and to entertain the audience - including Obama .. he did it at the perfect ending to the Honory Concert .
This is Steve , how people love him and always bring magic to everyone on stage .
I am in high fever still , call the help desk for the fever relief tablet : as they are not medical Train and certified members , so can't directly offer me any medical Advisee and does , desk boy knock our door and say : this Tablet is from our own staff for personal usage , if you need more , please dial 3.
I books the earlier shuttle out tomorrow morning and ask if shuttle bus driver can lead us to a close by clinic - I need to fix the symptoms before it too late.
It's getter better now and I am sit to write my blog about my fever drift ..
Roger
2016年12月27日 星期二
Berlini restaurant
Hanes book it and I walked in with full memory of Mr. Han : I walked him to lunch twice a week for about one year back to my wandering days .
This is the flagship store berlini build its business.
Same taste , different staff and different guest this time .
Time pass , memory stays .
Roger
This is the flagship store berlini build its business.
Same taste , different staff and different guest this time .
Time pass , memory stays .
Roger
2016年12月26日 星期一
H 2 hours
H is in the mood to talk / share :
1. About Things with Joyce:
2. About Maple and his idea in mind
3. About A Zone : this is the arguably point as I am not align with break even in 2 years mindset - my task is to let KC know what Hubert want and if there's no way to deliver , we either find good hands and sell to good partner. As long as Hubert know I am here to help , he should understand.
4. About Frances and Shelin development and Chairman Chang
5. About AMBA and new site development.
6. About S co-op and new opportunities
7. About why I need money urgently.
8. The M structure : for Development Licensee : H is the only window to M : key person involved: Chen H Y ; John K. George C.
Roger
1. About Things with Joyce:
2. About Maple and his idea in mind
3. About A Zone : this is the arguably point as I am not align with break even in 2 years mindset - my task is to let KC know what Hubert want and if there's no way to deliver , we either find good hands and sell to good partner. As long as Hubert know I am here to help , he should understand.
4. About Frances and Shelin development and Chairman Chang
5. About AMBA and new site development.
6. About S co-op and new opportunities
7. About why I need money urgently.
8. The M structure : for Development Licensee : H is the only window to M : key person involved: Chen H Y ; John K. George C.
Roger
Mullet Caviar Roll
Chung produce the best mullet fish roll , when watch the tv news , I browse the website and tried online order last night , I didn't complete the transaction but received the shipping notice via mail today ? How come and never mind , it will be a Chinese New Years bonus to someone .
Roger
Roger
KC
1. Lu Tai : a potential lawsuit ? Never mind , we are here to peel the onion . I don't really want to get Fu involved and hurt his feeling
2. IP gallery : what's the market price and how we can offer you a better deal ? Let's be fair ..and try to be nice too.
3. A Zone cash outflow : need to understand and control : 2016: -22m ; 2017:-14m; 2018:-9m; 2019: break even
Roger
2. IP gallery : what's the market price and how we can offer you a better deal ? Let's be fair ..and try to be nice too.
3. A Zone cash outflow : need to understand and control : 2016: -22m ; 2017:-14m; 2018:-9m; 2019: break even
Roger
Hanes
What make you anxiety? Worry ? And how the planning can smooth your uncertainty?
1. Make the assigned project an enhance experience and knowledge/skill increases.
2. Network is essential to create an environment for people to " ASK " what and how you do ?
3. A personal goal such as " words in a 2 years coaching journey " as steppingstone to explore new possibilities in the future .
Roger
1. Make the assigned project an enhance experience and knowledge/skill increases.
2. Network is essential to create an environment for people to " ASK " what and how you do ?
3. A personal goal such as " words in a 2 years coaching journey " as steppingstone to explore new possibilities in the future .
Roger
Diana
We are thinking about the same question, what is our expectation in 2017 for our coaching program ?
1. We agreed in 2017 is the final year to end the 3 year program :
- first year : Stiven / James
- second year : Stiven / Jason
2. I have my own way to handle personal and family issues and I did reflection all the time
3. What would you want to do with this company is the only thing stuck Me .. and I don't have the answer
4. Risk taker : as long as I can access it and afford to take it , then I will go . Like ski in Japan .
5. People come because of me , my responsibility is attached to people . Some of the management team is detach. It's not a good spirit.
6. For sales , the performance to me is not measured by figures: if this is the case , please well communicate with keys take holders, if you only talk at the performance review , it will be deem as defense , it won't be good to you.
Roger
1. We agreed in 2017 is the final year to end the 3 year program :
- first year : Stiven / James
- second year : Stiven / Jason
2. I have my own way to handle personal and family issues and I did reflection all the time
3. What would you want to do with this company is the only thing stuck Me .. and I don't have the answer
4. Risk taker : as long as I can access it and afford to take it , then I will go . Like ski in Japan .
5. People come because of me , my responsibility is attached to people . Some of the management team is detach. It's not a good spirit.
6. For sales , the performance to me is not measured by figures: if this is the case , please well communicate with keys take holders, if you only talk at the performance review , it will be deem as defense , it won't be good to you.
Roger
George Michael
He was 53 and passed away on his perfect day : Christmas: his Last Christmas is another " jingle bell " to this world and he will always be remembered.
Roger
Roger
Team 6 is ongoing
My TED walk this Morning brings me new aspect below :
1. Offer Lite On team 6 a facilitation session .
2. Thinking about " your eyes is talking "
3. Figure how the session with Diana should go
4. Erase my 2017/01/03 dry run as Stiven is on call in the afternoon
5. Thinking to create my : word of wisdom calendar; 50 reading list and top few movies and make a year highlight as well
6. Get to feel the difference between Belief and Faith . - from doubt to Dao
7. So Mohamed is a prophet yet a Pope ?
8. Belief ; Believe In and Faith .
Roger
1. Offer Lite On team 6 a facilitation session .
2. Thinking about " your eyes is talking "
3. Figure how the session with Diana should go
4. Erase my 2017/01/03 dry run as Stiven is on call in the afternoon
5. Thinking to create my : word of wisdom calendar; 50 reading list and top few movies and make a year highlight as well
6. Get to feel the difference between Belief and Faith . - from doubt to Dao
7. So Mohamed is a prophet yet a Pope ?
8. Belief ; Believe In and Faith .
Roger
Run into Late President Ma Yin Chu again
This morning by 6:50 am on my way up to Fairy Foot Rock , Ma is on his way down , again , an hello / smile with no picture taking .
He is with 3 securities: one in front and 2 at his back .
Roger
He is with 3 securities: one in front and 2 at his back .
Roger
2016年12月25日 星期日
Learning today
Finally , pause to inner search and do my search outside : maya lin , an extraordinary overseas Chinese who win the architecture design award in 1982 and when she was 21 , and that is by far the most visit momentum in Washington: Vietnam War momentum .
Art is poem and Architecture is essays : maya want to integrated them and cover with earth nature...
what inspired me ?
1. Don't be limit to your race , your imagination and
2. Find a balance between 2 passions and knowledge
3. There must be DNA . And what's mine ?
Roger
Art is poem and Architecture is essays : maya want to integrated them and cover with earth nature...
what inspired me ?
1. Don't be limit to your race , your imagination and
2. Find a balance between 2 passions and knowledge
3. There must be DNA . And what's mine ?
Roger
Why 2020
Why 2020 becoming a limitation but not a bright goal to me --
Why walking into 60 is a low esteem mood ?
Why I need any figure to measure my dream and stop my dream ?
It's only a number , think before Arabic numbers was invented. Does human measure by any number ?
Roger
Why walking into 60 is a low esteem mood ?
Why I need any figure to measure my dream and stop my dream ?
It's only a number , think before Arabic numbers was invented. Does human measure by any number ?
Roger
This is so amazing
1. Roger : we team 6 did it : pair and peer coaching for the last 3 months and we will continue. Sander
2. Audrey: roger , your eyes is talking ..
Roger
2. Audrey: roger , your eyes is talking ..
Roger
2016年12月22日 星期四
Star War : Rouge One
1. Rebel is come from the passion
2. It's not about chance , but choice .
Roger
2. It's not about chance , but choice .
Roger
Royce session
Alway feel good as long as you feel someone really care : our in person Session is full of mutual learning and shading .
Royce is a quick learner - it's beyond my expectation, I need to foster myself for others to pick up .
Roger
Royce is a quick learner - it's beyond my expectation, I need to foster myself for others to pick up .
Roger
Hubert on news
Now the McDonald's deal is all over the news , he is no way hide and the first reaction is to postpone our coaching session then cancel it . I am fine .. the news will keep him busy for a while , the real pressure will soon approach.
Roger
Roger
Tuyen and Crystal
The morning session have to to pull the trigger - ask Crystal to make her coaching decision ... or to force her facing her future direct with Calvin .
I know I am doing the right thing at right time for all of us .
Roger
I know I am doing the right thing at right time for all of us .
Roger
Lunch with Tze Yao and Patrick family
It's a Thursday family lunch day and I take Patrick's invitation to see my little friend . 6 years old Tse Yao . We met 3 times and become friend . To see Patrick is always good .. he is actually a thinker - I recall to send him a very long letter about my inspiration few years ago and of course his reach out lent me 1 millions NT as a support to me belief .
Life Academy is his initiative also . Nice chair and new family breed .
Roger
Life Academy is his initiative also . Nice chair and new family breed .
Roger
2016年12月21日 星期三
Take time and make time to
It's how you priorities and realign your life .
Make time out of your routine
Take time focus on the important
" what make you money ? What make you happy ? " to do
Roger
Make time out of your routine
Take time focus on the important
" what make you money ? What make you happy ? " to do
Roger
Warren
We talk about culture:
1. From divergent to invergent
2. Checking the boundaries
3. Agreed upon the vital fews : what culture can sustain ? What behavior will change ?
Roger
1. From divergent to invergent
2. Checking the boundaries
3. Agreed upon the vital fews : what culture can sustain ? What behavior will change ?
Roger
位置:瑞光路,內湖區,台灣
2016年12月20日 星期二
Second Tigers forum at HK
1.Nice venue : Aberdeen Marine Club - Chairman's club
2.Good boat to Lunch at Tai Pu island .
3. 3 relatively good 4SFE and bring vulnerability to forum mate .
Others :
1. Decision made
2. Such an expensive dinner last night : HKD 36.000 what ? Why ?
3. Joke about night life in Taiwan is no fun to me
Roger
2.Good boat to Lunch at Tai Pu island .
3. 3 relatively good 4SFE and bring vulnerability to forum mate .
Others :
1. Decision made
2. Such an expensive dinner last night : HKD 36.000 what ? Why ?
3. Joke about night life in Taiwan is no fun to me
Roger
Only yes and no can change our life , maybe never will
This time , I am reminding me not to spending non value added time in forums and focus on the vital few
The more I see Tigres , the more I understand I am not one of them . Know who you are is a self awareness and to make necessary decision is approaching mature .
Roger
The more I see Tigres , the more I understand I am not one of them . Know who you are is a self awareness and to make necessary decision is approaching mature .
Roger
2016年12月19日 星期一
Why I am so sleepy ?
This update session drag for 3 hours and even myself feel boring about what I did .
I thinks after Yi Lan meeting , I should bail myself out from it .
Roger
I thinks after Yi Lan meeting , I should bail myself out from it .
Roger
Tigers Forum at HK day one
1. Long ice breaker : what's your name
2. No presentation urgency , but to extend Update as presentation
3. Deal with " Aging " and " Death "
4. Only do reflection no forward looking
5. Protocols and Process loose
6. Moderator is tired
Am I here to be changed or to bring some change ambience ?
A big question mark to me
Live fully and not talked about near death experience only
Roger
2. No presentation urgency , but to extend Update as presentation
3. Deal with " Aging " and " Death "
4. Only do reflection no forward looking
5. Protocols and Process loose
6. Moderator is tired
Am I here to be changed or to bring some change ambience ?
A big question mark to me
Live fully and not talked about near death experience only
Roger
Tigers in HK
We miss 2 persons this time :
-Bobby who I never saw him before
-So Chan say he can't be with on last meeting
Chat coaching to Calvin at lounge :
Dinner with everyone at Hutong restaurant on Peiking road number 1. With great view .
My term next time at Yi Lan
1. Have Andrew do onsite support
2. Stiven on kavara visit
3. Daniel sponsor liquor .
4. KC for car and logistic
Roger
-Bobby who I never saw him before
-So Chan say he can't be with on last meeting
Chat coaching to Calvin at lounge :
Dinner with everyone at Hutong restaurant on Peiking road number 1. With great view .
My term next time at Yi Lan
1. Have Andrew do onsite support
2. Stiven on kavara visit
3. Daniel sponsor liquor .
4. KC for car and logistic
Roger
2016年12月16日 星期五
Chou Chou dinner
Hubert skip the foundation board meeting and host the dinner .
Kin is doing everything he can prepare cuisine for us .
Main course : wagi beef / roast chicken / grill fish / seafood plate ... it's a gourmet dinner tonight .
Royce - Hubert have fun too .
Yu Ping is happy to engage .
Roger
Kin is doing everything he can prepare cuisine for us .
Main course : wagi beef / roast chicken / grill fish / seafood plate ... it's a gourmet dinner tonight .
Royce - Hubert have fun too .
Yu Ping is happy to engage .
Roger
Jason's mind map and road map
Now 38 , Jason draw his 5 of 4 years plan and see it clearly by age 58 , be the leader in this country is follow his political career path .
And yes , you can tell he shows his trust in you and willing to take this coaching program - from his own initiatives .
Basic info
1. Left home by 17 , not a happy immediate family .
2. Father working in night market with financial problem . Ask money from Jason all the time .
3. " I probably can't say I love you to my father " I see the vulnerability in his eyes
4. Siblings don't get alone , the area I am weak also
5. Wife is my working partner. We want to have kids
6. Yes I build my circle of friends but this is not a pure reflective relationship
7. I have 2 coaches before : one I think I am not trust him , the other one use to be my subordinate- well how can he coach me ?
8. More Oriental leaning and inner searching is what I aim for .
9. We focus on " change " and " better " it's either change for better ( improving) or " better change "( train is coming )
10. Learn from leaders in business world
11. Life academy is difficult to me , I can't really open in the big group ( Perfect image / defense / mask / trust )
12. Questions to me :
- why : passion is when talent meet your good at , and is there is " need " you produce many by product
- Mastery : skill / art / magic
- I participant and do peer leaning or simply listens
- a feeding to seeking leaning .
- TED is put on new cloth but nothing inside
Follow up:
1. Confidentially agreement
2. Coaching program
3. Key stakeholders 360 degree survey
We are having lunch at Legislators Yuang restaurant .

Roger
And yes , you can tell he shows his trust in you and willing to take this coaching program - from his own initiatives .
Basic info
1. Left home by 17 , not a happy immediate family .
2. Father working in night market with financial problem . Ask money from Jason all the time .
3. " I probably can't say I love you to my father " I see the vulnerability in his eyes
4. Siblings don't get alone , the area I am weak also
5. Wife is my working partner. We want to have kids
6. Yes I build my circle of friends but this is not a pure reflective relationship
7. I have 2 coaches before : one I think I am not trust him , the other one use to be my subordinate- well how can he coach me ?
8. More Oriental leaning and inner searching is what I aim for .
9. We focus on " change " and " better " it's either change for better ( improving) or " better change "( train is coming )
10. Learn from leaders in business world
11. Life academy is difficult to me , I can't really open in the big group ( Perfect image / defense / mask / trust )
12. Questions to me :
- why : passion is when talent meet your good at , and is there is " need " you produce many by product
- Mastery : skill / art / magic
- I participant and do peer leaning or simply listens
- a feeding to seeking leaning .
- TED is put on new cloth but nothing inside
Follow up:
1. Confidentially agreement
2. Coaching program
3. Key stakeholders 360 degree survey
We are having lunch at Legislators Yuang restaurant .

Roger
It cause my nightmare and headache in the morning
Meiling just can't understand what's communication and what's complaining : I don't stop anyone to communicate and won't close door for listening , but to complain is another story , she raised her voice with a terrible looks and began to shoot : this is totally beyond anyone's tolerance . Who sold the Passat CC and how long it will take ? I know KC is stubborn in some area but not an unreasonable person . On top of that : to sell our car is not and should not on top of his working priority ...
I made the mistake in the first place - the accusation from Meiling is right :
1. When ask her sold it to the previous second car dealers - I check the price online and ask her to check more referral
2. When do the Passat maintenance , I ask her to check with the mechanics engineer
3. And I also ask her to double confirm with both of them
4. Then I ask her why not hand it over to KC ?
I should know why it happens, the problem is my nightmares and the headache over night - her boomerang just put me in a bad situation . It's hard to handle now .
Roger
I made the mistake in the first place - the accusation from Meiling is right :
1. When ask her sold it to the previous second car dealers - I check the price online and ask her to check more referral
2. When do the Passat maintenance , I ask her to check with the mechanics engineer
3. And I also ask her to double confirm with both of them
4. Then I ask her why not hand it over to KC ?
I should know why it happens, the problem is my nightmares and the headache over night - her boomerang just put me in a bad situation . It's hard to handle now .
Roger
2016年12月15日 星期四
Morning Jason
Next time is aim for how to communicate on appraisals: for one down ? And for Jason himself - it's critical to the " stay or go " scenario .
Today :
1. Highlights for year 2016:
- AD / AD / AD
- Tango / Group dance and Solo
- Intangible but Impactful : Not to Do
- in between to in & out
- 三才:天地兩主觀;人是折射的客觀。
Roger
Today :
1. Highlights for year 2016:
- AD / AD / AD
- Tango / Group dance and Solo
- Intangible but Impactful : Not to Do
- in between to in & out
- 三才:天地兩主觀;人是折射的客觀。
Roger
A new friend intro dinner at Chou Chou
Who : Linda family : Linda / Sean / Sabrina
Sky Family : Sky / Lien Li
Host : Hubert
Special Guest : Charles
Roger : the connector
Restaurant: open 3 days only -
French comfort food : kin
Outcome :
1. Sabrina and Lien Li born on the same day : March 12. One day later than Fruits . They can be friends
2. Sean had good sense with Hubert : development and immigration to Taiwan
3. CCPF invite Sky can be something more concrete.
4. Charles acquainted with Sky and know a new restaurant.
5. Support Hubert and Kin for new open restaurant
6. Knowing Linda's family know what I am coaching with
7. Check my value Linda perceive for last 8 months
8. No agenda and no expectation is good take away always .
Roger
Sky Family : Sky / Lien Li
Host : Hubert
Special Guest : Charles
Roger : the connector
Restaurant: open 3 days only -
French comfort food : kin
Outcome :
1. Sabrina and Lien Li born on the same day : March 12. One day later than Fruits . They can be friends
2. Sean had good sense with Hubert : development and immigration to Taiwan
3. CCPF invite Sky can be something more concrete.
4. Charles acquainted with Sky and know a new restaurant.
5. Support Hubert and Kin for new open restaurant
6. Knowing Linda's family know what I am coaching with
7. Check my value Linda perceive for last 8 months
8. No agenda and no expectation is good take away always .
Roger
2016年12月14日 星期三
What a day
Feeling that it's a rip off shop and my wild guess is correct : spending 4200 NT and thinking about a compensation to my hard feeling .
Receive a fraud call when having my simple lunch - I tried to play with him and he sense it , hang up and didn't call back since , I am thinking of calling him back ..
Text message arrived in regard to new tea , I am not interested and I was disappointed for so many times .
Where to anchor for next 2 and half hours ? Regent first ? Maybe
Roger
Receive a fraud call when having my simple lunch - I tried to play with him and he sense it , hang up and didn't call back since , I am thinking of calling him back ..
Text message arrived in regard to new tea , I am not interested and I was disappointed for so many times .
Where to anchor for next 2 and half hours ? Regent first ? Maybe
Roger
Dino
It's nothing or anything, don't call me , make appointments and then say oh it's nothing .
1. Andante house / restaurant transfer is a hot potato...
2. Find new location for Chung Xing development is critical : no Stiven / Transglobe cooperation.
3. Old school is fine , yesterday mindset is terrible- how come ?
Roger
1. Andante house / restaurant transfer is a hot potato...
2. Find new location for Chung Xing development is critical : no Stiven / Transglobe cooperation.
3. Old school is fine , yesterday mindset is terrible- how come ?
Roger
Who miss the coaching session
Prepare the forum training material reluctantly but do a paradigm shift : why not take it a new monthly one on one forum format ? It's fun to try new things
Diana's assistant is kind of panic when see my show up by 9:00 am at the office . And this is her response:
1. We don't have Dec date with Diana and Stiven
2. You didn't answer a call yesterday ( a missing call she meant )
3. I should double confirm with Andrew also
A secretary do nothing important but everything in details .. redundant wrapped doubles and you are buying double insurance.
I am not upset , it's a learning and it buy me time to see Dino before AMBA meeting.
Roger
Diana's assistant is kind of panic when see my show up by 9:00 am at the office . And this is her response:
1. We don't have Dec date with Diana and Stiven
2. You didn't answer a call yesterday ( a missing call she meant )
3. I should double confirm with Andrew also
A secretary do nothing important but everything in details .. redundant wrapped doubles and you are buying double insurance.
I am not upset , it's a learning and it buy me time to see Dino before AMBA meeting.
Roger
2016年12月13日 星期二
I don't expect and it come so swift
As long as I know both of them knows exactly what they want - I don't think wasting time in exploring feelings is the right way - so I shift many Why to one How and make the process a roadmap to divorce - or put in a better theme: pursuing an independent life with healthier and happier process .
My first so call " marriage counseling " and not taking all the accreditation or academically approach but with my forum and empathy learning.
Sang forward me an envelope with 4.000 USD and paid my accommodation too .
Tien know I am not here to be the messenger snd can treat me fairly .
Once letter of intension sent : there comes 4 response :
1. What happens ?
2. Why and why me ?
3. Is there anyway to turn around ?
4. How can I accept and adapt it ?
Number 4 is the least scenario people want to see ... and this is the answers surface from my session ..
There lays many " for the time being " situation to handles and it requests direct communication and to holding each other accountable.
Roger
My first so call " marriage counseling " and not taking all the accreditation or academically approach but with my forum and empathy learning.
Sang forward me an envelope with 4.000 USD and paid my accommodation too .
Tien know I am not here to be the messenger snd can treat me fairly .
Once letter of intension sent : there comes 4 response :
1. What happens ?
2. Why and why me ?
3. Is there anyway to turn around ?
4. How can I accept and adapt it ?
Number 4 is the least scenario people want to see ... and this is the answers surface from my session ..
There lays many " for the time being " situation to handles and it requests direct communication and to holding each other accountable.
Roger
2016年12月12日 星期一
Am I doing anything wrong
Not a licensed psychologist but doing many related works -- am I benefit anyone but me ?
Roger
Roger
The broken rice lunch talk
1. It less than 5 to a 1-10 score for a managing director
2. Workplace safety can't be torolent and it's an issue .
3. It's how we see the company sustainable not to any person
4. Family office was talked 3 years ago
5. The key is how you deliver the " No " not about you can't say no
6. Boy / Business / are main reason I am protecting you .
7. Long mail is not communication, it's a one way or 2 way information .
Roger
2. Workplace safety can't be torolent and it's an issue .
3. It's how we see the company sustainable not to any person
4. Family office was talked 3 years ago
5. The key is how you deliver the " No " not about you can't say no
6. Boy / Business / are main reason I am protecting you .
7. Long mail is not communication, it's a one way or 2 way information .
Roger
Tell me or answer to yourself
1) Do you need to solve ? Or just want to share ?
Do you want to solve ? Or just need to solve?
2) It's solvable or not ?
3) who should and who can solve it ?
4) do you have anyone to share ?
Roger
Do you want to solve ? Or just need to solve?
2) It's solvable or not ?
3) who should and who can solve it ?
4) do you have anyone to share ?
Roger
Now it's getting tough
All the key stakeholders surface now : Crystal , Calvin and Hai Yan... if build the business is for support the family . How to reverse it today ? To have the family reach consensus on sustains the business?
1. Vertical vs Horizontal relationship
2. Conflict with value but born with same DNA
3. Single parent and culture shock
4. Pursuing own happiness and Wish your family well .
5. What picture of business both generation in business wish to see ?
6. Priorities in everybody's mind ? When was last time we sit down and alignment?
7. Talent perspective and corporate culture development.
8. Communication Skill require in dialogues
9. Taboo and hidden agenda ?
10. The calculate risk we are willing to absorb ?
11. Who we trust and willing to share ?
Roger
1. Vertical vs Horizontal relationship
2. Conflict with value but born with same DNA
3. Single parent and culture shock
4. Pursuing own happiness and Wish your family well .
5. What picture of business both generation in business wish to see ?
6. Priorities in everybody's mind ? When was last time we sit down and alignment?
7. Talent perspective and corporate culture development.
8. Communication Skill require in dialogues
9. Taboo and hidden agenda ?
10. The calculate risk we are willing to absorb ?
11. Who we trust and willing to share ?
Roger
2016年12月10日 星期六
3952 Forum Supercharge
I started with the story why a Vietnamese YPO join chapter 5 years but reluctant to join local forum and postponed her workshop until now ... and to explore my observations about this forum : Trust is in the trial stage ...
It's a good one as I heard George appraise me in front of everyone- so , it's a payoff day and there's is no such a thing as over - preparation..
I am ready for a good movie day tomorrow.
Roger
It's a good one as I heard George appraise me in front of everyone- so , it's a payoff day and there's is no such a thing as over - preparation..
I am ready for a good movie day tomorrow.
Roger
SC morning
He reduce contact from 200 plus to 100 and Living a " less is more " life .
Not much talking but listen to my sharing .
A romanticism follower : I cherish experience and experiment. And share basic what people interact with me for the past year .
Vision Focus occupied his 90% of mind share but financially he is better off .
My leading from SC:
1. Roger is discipline : blogging / organize / good in utilize fragmented time
2.Roger is unique and can balance right and left Brian all together.
3. Roger is doing what he love
4. Passion to roger is : talents meet good at . Values is see need in the world to perform your passion .
5. In & Out is much difficult then in between and It require decent enlightenment.
Roger
Not much talking but listen to my sharing .
A romanticism follower : I cherish experience and experiment. And share basic what people interact with me for the past year .
Vision Focus occupied his 90% of mind share but financially he is better off .
My leading from SC:
1. Roger is discipline : blogging / organize / good in utilize fragmented time
2.Roger is unique and can balance right and left Brian all together.
3. Roger is doing what he love
4. Passion to roger is : talents meet good at . Values is see need in the world to perform your passion .
5. In & Out is much difficult then in between and It require decent enlightenment.
Roger
La La Land
-Joseph Campbell appears without a cause .
-If both of you wish to make your dream come true , someone should sacrifice for able to make it happen
-give your dream a second chance always
-love don't mean stays together
- try your best to the main goal , something else might come out - not because of the goal but due to your try your best .
Roger
-If both of you wish to make your dream come true , someone should sacrifice for able to make it happen
-give your dream a second chance always
-love don't mean stays together
- try your best to the main goal , something else might come out - not because of the goal but due to your try your best .
Roger
2016年12月9日 星期五
Back to normal
A hug and kiss can kill all the toxic relationship poison . I did it by 6:30 pm when saw Meiling in our living room
Now we are about to enjoy the romantic movie " la la I love you "
It can be so easy ..
Roger
Now we are about to enjoy the romantic movie " la la I love you "
It can be so easy ..
Roger
What should I do with my entering cold status ?
It's not a Cold War , but it certainly bring our relationship down to a cold place - literary and physically ...
distance creates ambiguity, distance create coldness , distance create unease feeling . And I am about to experience it . Should I and do I ?
I don't complain her but I think right now I have the intention to be cool down first , all the oral conversation lead to quarrel and drive to the dead ally , I am silk to see the possible outcome which I don't want to . So calm down and cool down first .
Roger
distance creates ambiguity, distance create coldness , distance create unease feeling . And I am about to experience it . Should I and do I ?
I don't complain her but I think right now I have the intention to be cool down first , all the oral conversation lead to quarrel and drive to the dead ally , I am silk to see the possible outcome which I don't want to . So calm down and cool down first .
Roger
You prepare before present
No matter how many attend your public appearance , they get the license to criticize your performance . So be ready anytime .
Today at Chia Yi for the 25th international band festival opening forum : my preparation pay off
Host and moderator: Rd Yeng
Panel : Jonathan Yeah : Chairman of Chai Yi culture & creative park .
I deliver my : first 10 minutes ; second 10 minute and conclude one minutes .
Roger
Today at Chia Yi for the 25th international band festival opening forum : my preparation pay off
Host and moderator: Rd Yeng
Panel : Jonathan Yeah : Chairman of Chai Yi culture & creative park .
I deliver my : first 10 minutes ; second 10 minute and conclude one minutes .
Roger
Steve Vai to Royce
I sense that he forget and thanks to my tuition sending him a reminding message in time .
Royce deserve a good surprise
Roger
Royce deserve a good surprise
Roger
Bombarded
Do coach receive bombardment all the time ? Why it doesn't happen in Taiwan but overseas? Or maybe distance create the space for bombarding. I don't mind as I know how to :
1. Filter
2. Stop - Listen - Observe
3. Not been the victims of information
4. Exercise Empathy: Connect Not React
Roger
1. Filter
2. Stop - Listen - Observe
3. Not been the victims of information
4. Exercise Empathy: Connect Not React
Roger
2016年12月8日 星期四
Troublesome day
Caught in between day :
1. Sany & Thie .
2. Meiling and Me.
3. The Fat lady and my dick
4. Calvin and Crystal
What else can better profile a day for " troublesome ? "
Roger
1. Sany & Thie .
2. Meiling and Me.
3. The Fat lady and my dick
4. Calvin and Crystal
What else can better profile a day for " troublesome ? "
Roger
Why her communication style is like that ?
It makes me feel so uncomfortable, what's " if you didn't ask KC , I will call and sell the car " and " here you come again , emotion raised " hey , if you standing on my shoes , what will you respond ? No one can talk with you ... never mind , I just blog it and keeping myself cooling ... I should not Bother her anymore .. it's kind of stupid to bring myself trouble all the time .
Roger
Roger
I tried my best to stay inside National Palace Museums South
And it turn out I am only spent 3 hours maximum for all the exhibitions - and it pity not seeing so much " Chinese " flavored treasure . It's kind of strange .
Roger
Roger
Sign and reflection
1. I emotionally burst out 3 quarrels with Meiling in one week .
2. Tien send me unhealthy messages and it worries me.
3. Hacksaw Ridge is a great movie and it's not a war movie .
4. Blood War is the worst sequels out of the 4 movies
5. I take advantage to stay at Cat's hotel in Cha Yi.
6. Cha Yi culture and creative park will take decade to balance financially, I should think what rationale behind !
7. 3 months bonus for KC is fine - I means it's fine .
8. Do I not willing to listen to Meiling ? Or she never share her true feelings up till now ?
9. Why I am inpatient to the number 18 when doing my massage? Everyone try to make a living .
10. Why my into Meiling to Hubert is " we hsve been married for 30 years ? "
11. How come I am so stupid use Terry's case in johari window and told stranger how I am smart and he is less EQ?
12. Why I want to guess on C & C coaching program? And Meiling won't join me in the guessing game ?
13. I am too prudent in writing my update to Steve , less human and more literature - do I intend to publish them and a little distortion now ?
14. Why I had 4 turkey rice in Cha Yi in one day during my period of " on a diet "
15. Why I am still cold to Fruit ? Even school send us the " skip too many class " warning letter?
16. Why I developed sense of guilt after one month windows with H and knowing we won't see each other again
17. Why met Alan virtually into by Thomas make me feel I want to take advantage of his coffee expertise ?
18. Why I know marriage counseling ain't easy but willing to take this task ?
19. Why I take one more day for myself to Cha Yi without telling Meiling?
20. Why I feel disturbed during the break at my own workshop? An inpatient mentor ? What dose it mean ?
Roger
2. Tien send me unhealthy messages and it worries me.
3. Hacksaw Ridge is a great movie and it's not a war movie .
4. Blood War is the worst sequels out of the 4 movies
5. I take advantage to stay at Cat's hotel in Cha Yi.
6. Cha Yi culture and creative park will take decade to balance financially, I should think what rationale behind !
7. 3 months bonus for KC is fine - I means it's fine .
8. Do I not willing to listen to Meiling ? Or she never share her true feelings up till now ?
9. Why I am inpatient to the number 18 when doing my massage? Everyone try to make a living .
10. Why my into Meiling to Hubert is " we hsve been married for 30 years ? "
11. How come I am so stupid use Terry's case in johari window and told stranger how I am smart and he is less EQ?
12. Why I want to guess on C & C coaching program? And Meiling won't join me in the guessing game ?
13. I am too prudent in writing my update to Steve , less human and more literature - do I intend to publish them and a little distortion now ?
14. Why I had 4 turkey rice in Cha Yi in one day during my period of " on a diet "
15. Why I am still cold to Fruit ? Even school send us the " skip too many class " warning letter?
16. Why I developed sense of guilt after one month windows with H and knowing we won't see each other again
17. Why met Alan virtually into by Thomas make me feel I want to take advantage of his coffee expertise ?
18. Why I know marriage counseling ain't easy but willing to take this task ?
19. Why I take one more day for myself to Cha Yi without telling Meiling?
20. Why I feel disturbed during the break at my own workshop? An inpatient mentor ? What dose it mean ?
Roger
2016年12月6日 星期二
End of the cold - war ?
If she didn't aware my feeling and emotion, can I call it a Cold War ?
I am now reconstruct what happens last night:
1. 8:20 pm she came home and say no word
2. 9:00 pm I reply with " I don't ask you to prepare vegetables, I don't want to eat " why give me that look?
3. 9:20 pm walk up to our living room , bath
4. 9:50 pm she walk up also , say nothing
5. 10:30 pm I went to bed
6. 11:00 pm she went to bed say nothing
7. 11:30 pm I angry jump off our bed , she is not responding
8. 11:30-12:00 I take about hot bath
9. 12:00-12:30 rest at sound room
10. 12:30-04:00 roof floor study room
11. 04:00-04:15 another hot bath
12. 04:40- 07:00 sleep at sound room
She don't even cares and I told her cancel dinner tonight and I will go out ...it's 7:00 am
07:40 am she call and say we should not cancel dinner with sunny ..
08:00 am I walk up to let her hold me - she is sososo ... careless in people's feeling
Roger
I am now reconstruct what happens last night:
1. 8:20 pm she came home and say no word
2. 9:00 pm I reply with " I don't ask you to prepare vegetables, I don't want to eat " why give me that look?
3. 9:20 pm walk up to our living room , bath
4. 9:50 pm she walk up also , say nothing
5. 10:30 pm I went to bed
6. 11:00 pm she went to bed say nothing
7. 11:30 pm I angry jump off our bed , she is not responding
8. 11:30-12:00 I take about hot bath
9. 12:00-12:30 rest at sound room
10. 12:30-04:00 roof floor study room
11. 04:00-04:15 another hot bath
12. 04:40- 07:00 sleep at sound room
She don't even cares and I told her cancel dinner tonight and I will go out ...it's 7:00 am
07:40 am she call and say we should not cancel dinner with sunny ..
08:00 am I walk up to let her hold me - she is sososo ... careless in people's feeling
Roger
2016年12月5日 星期一
From A 4 to A 6
It's a dramatic change , if not visit the showroom and check the car , I wouldn't been this change -- I like it but now I don't have the mood to share my excitement to the future driver .
Roger
Roger
Tien
Sang and T : I am working on her for about 30 minutes with 4 whatsapps chat - she seems share more open than before .. I am trying and hope it's not in vain .
Roger
Roger
White lie
At the movie : blood war , is am absent minded and my mind keep telling me : don't bring yourself more trouble, ain't you having enough?
After the movie , I cancel my HSR reservation, send a line about an urgent matter force me to cancel everything. Yes , simplicity...
Roger
After the movie , I cancel my HSR reservation, send a line about an urgent matter force me to cancel everything. Yes , simplicity...
Roger
Quarrel
There alway a tail ( or string attached ) after the round one hot quarrel , I have no idea when and where the second round will hit : it's a cold storm - she just want talk and posture with a poker face , This is what make my upset , what on earth I should bear it ? It kept me thinking again and again to live by myself , and this is why I should have saving for my own .
Whenever the day approaching : going out with friends which she call it " social " , I have to please her without any cause , it get me sicker and sicker ... I will buy myself more time alone and do whatever my life worth .
Roger
Whenever the day approaching : going out with friends which she call it " social " , I have to please her without any cause , it get me sicker and sicker ... I will buy myself more time alone and do whatever my life worth .
Roger
President Ma
Run into Ma this morning when climbing up the hill at my backyard: he greet me with a " morning " I give him a salute and " good morning neighbor " warm greeting ... nice vibe ha
Roger
Roger
Is it work this way
1. Crystal and Calvin response late or no response
2. Trap in sang and Thie
3. Sky Wu and Linda's charity
4. A zone slow in deliverable
5. Worsen reputation from Heidi view point
6. Stating the fire again ? W
7. Not seeing father and pretend nothing happens
8. Distance with fruit and not caring about her future ?
9. Break needed and yet to realize
Roger
2. Trap in sang and Thie
3. Sky Wu and Linda's charity
4. A zone slow in deliverable
5. Worsen reputation from Heidi view point
6. Stating the fire again ? W
7. Not seeing father and pretend nothing happens
8. Distance with fruit and not caring about her future ?
9. Break needed and yet to realize
Roger
I am kind of not willing to talk more
At lunch yesterday during YEN session, I am like to be kidnaped , young want to ask more , such as : how to express emotion and feelings? How to overcome bad experience turn obstacles? As I am not in the mood to answer , so I can see myself impertinence to these 2 young man - reflect on JR in class , on every break , always student approach and occupied his time. I never saw his annoyed , much to learn for me .
Trust is not a skill , so it's not how good you can perform or how many practice needed before you can trust others .
Commitment is not force to , so reluctant is a slowly killer .
Confidentiality is by defore : we need to feel save to talk : about our public and private life and sometimes take risk in disclosing secret life ..
Sharing is key process in solving : when share you either rationales your thoughts or just let go those unsolved.
Empathy is to connect not to react : you only acknowledge with your gesture or non verbal communication- just feel how people feel.
Self curiosity is searching inside you : the unknown potential is pursuing wisdom inside and in the old days we call philosophy.
Issues and emotion : if we can't assign emotion to the issue , it's a fake issue .
Believe: no matter what i say is truth or false , only you who decide to believe it or not .
Truth before Trust : transparent is prerequisite to giving trust .
Trust bridge : Respect / Understand/ Support
Roger
Trust is not a skill , so it's not how good you can perform or how many practice needed before you can trust others .
Commitment is not force to , so reluctant is a slowly killer .
Confidentiality is by defore : we need to feel save to talk : about our public and private life and sometimes take risk in disclosing secret life ..
Sharing is key process in solving : when share you either rationales your thoughts or just let go those unsolved.
Empathy is to connect not to react : you only acknowledge with your gesture or non verbal communication- just feel how people feel.
Self curiosity is searching inside you : the unknown potential is pursuing wisdom inside and in the old days we call philosophy.
Issues and emotion : if we can't assign emotion to the issue , it's a fake issue .
Believe: no matter what i say is truth or false , only you who decide to believe it or not .
Truth before Trust : transparent is prerequisite to giving trust .
Trust bridge : Respect / Understand/ Support
Roger
2016年12月4日 星期日
YEN 30 plus forum fundamental the first time
Manage to get thing done in 8 hours : 08:30-16:30 and serve :
1. What's forum
2. Johari window
3. Deepening connection
4. Update and parking lot
5. Closing exercises and appreciation
6. Julie's speech TED
Roger
1. What's forum
2. Johari window
3. Deepening connection
4. Update and parking lot
5. Closing exercises and appreciation
6. Julie's speech TED
Roger
YEN morning
Shanghai is a good hotel , as the registration number exceed 30 this time , it ain't easy to knock everyone down , I am not trying to do that :
1. This is by far the best seating arrangement. So no compliant
2. Meet 2 members with high expectation, it need to be reset .
3. Logically, I should finish by 16:30 ...
4. Don't forget the " confidence posture " : 2 minutes..
Roger
1. This is by far the best seating arrangement. So no compliant
2. Meet 2 members with high expectation, it need to be reset .
3. Logically, I should finish by 16:30 ...
4. Don't forget the " confidence posture " : 2 minutes..
Roger
2016年12月3日 星期六
I consolidated my slide for tomorrow
Trim down from 100 plus to 80 and now come down to 50 something .
How to make sesame with all the slides ?
1. One slide with one message and one story to tell .
2. Consolidate slide fragments to all pages but to grouping to one slide
3. Take out those bridges slide as I can replace with my talking .
Roger
How to make sesame with all the slides ?
1. One slide with one message and one story to tell .
2. Consolidate slide fragments to all pages but to grouping to one slide
3. Take out those bridges slide as I can replace with my talking .
Roger
Bao An international airport
Mr. Chen pick a double meaning nick name for his wechat account, he send greeting massage early this afternoon, post his greeting signboard and told me he will greet me outside the gate next to Kentucky fry chicken .. it seems perfect and there is no way I am going to lost .
After immigration and luggage scan to the waiting area , there is no Kentucky but a McDonald , I don't see any sign board . Move forward to a Plaza with many food / fashion shops - I am lost , information desk help me to identify where Kentucky is : I walk in the gate again and by number 12 I call him up and find him wth the pink signboard. Then I told him Where I was , it's international arrival not domestic and ... he have no idea where I am talking about .. he tire hard but mission delay .
Mr. Chen said " it's not clears in communication " I am thinking picture is powerful than words..
I am inside a super luxury mersedez benz and it takes another 50 minutes to my hotel under the condition the traffic is good and he don't get lost on the way .
Roger
After immigration and luggage scan to the waiting area , there is no Kentucky but a McDonald , I don't see any sign board . Move forward to a Plaza with many food / fashion shops - I am lost , information desk help me to identify where Kentucky is : I walk in the gate again and by number 12 I call him up and find him wth the pink signboard. Then I told him Where I was , it's international arrival not domestic and ... he have no idea where I am talking about .. he tire hard but mission delay .
Mr. Chen said " it's not clears in communication " I am thinking picture is powerful than words..
I am inside a super luxury mersedez benz and it takes another 50 minutes to my hotel under the condition the traffic is good and he don't get lost on the way .
Roger
Learning 2 days with JR Lee
Professor Lee treat me at a partner. Lite-On senior take me as a professor . I spend 2 half day at NTU Hung's memorial hall for LEAD module C-4 .
According to JR : teach foe executive:
- introduce " framework " knowledge
- systematic in delivery
- action learning mindset
Day 1: the ABC in organization ( CSOP is his teaching principal: Culture - Strategy- Organization & Operation- People ) and I am response for the PC module .
- how to 1. Alignment: horizontal & vertical
- how to 2. Balance : old and new
- how to 3. Co-create synergy : priority and synergy among BU and BG
Day 2 : O mainly , by conducting 2 case study " Philip " & " Taiwan Cement " to check where " CSOP " imprint .
I am thinking how to apply it to A Zone , no matter how local , how remotes and how small , basic is the same , value stays
Roger
According to JR : teach foe executive:
- introduce " framework " knowledge
- systematic in delivery
- action learning mindset
Day 1: the ABC in organization ( CSOP is his teaching principal: Culture - Strategy- Organization & Operation- People ) and I am response for the PC module .
- how to 1. Alignment: horizontal & vertical
- how to 2. Balance : old and new
- how to 3. Co-create synergy : priority and synergy among BU and BG
Day 2 : O mainly , by conducting 2 case study " Philip " & " Taiwan Cement " to check where " CSOP " imprint .
I am thinking how to apply it to A Zone , no matter how local , how remotes and how small , basic is the same , value stays
Roger
2016年12月2日 星期五
CHT call center
Next question please : my response make her laugh .. similar to what Meiling always say : I only know how to understanding others but not your immediate and significant ones - I disagree .. objection loud and clear .
Roger
Roger
Emotion over quarrel
Call her but yet to follow one Action guidance so it's full of emotion . Never mind , let it out and let it flow . Ask her back to pick me up . I am going to movie still .
Roger
Roger
Triggers
When met at Wonderful Theatre, I am about to finish my tele communication with Sang .
She sit and told me : I am going to do my eyes again , doctor propose 2 option , injunction every 3 months with fees or 2 stitches for free . When my response is : injections even though I disagree with either way . She emotionally told me she want to do the stitches and what to do it now and told me doctor said after 15 days of micro operation, everything will back to normal .
I am not happy about the repeating performing micro surgery to her face and last time , the disastrous experience want leave any lesson to her .. why , I lost my mood for movie and dinner and ask her send me to the paper printing lab .
In the car , I said to her :
1. Love is not in the face , is my love is to her face , we should not keep our relationship this way .
2. Confidence ? Compare to those not fortune enough people, why you are asking so much?
3. No one is perfect , don't let the appearance overtaking our value
4. No one can remain Beauty when grow old , when you will prepare for it ?
5. Don't discuss this topic with me because my comments never been seriously considered.
Her response make me mad :
1. You don't understand me ? Again , this is her opening
2. The imbalance of 2 eyes make me uncomfortable? Who can really tell the difference?
3. I am doing it because you ask me to go out social with you ? Count my fingers , how many times you happily join my so call " social event " ?
4. I don't like your friend or circle , thinks about it , you don't want to go out work my friends also ? Have you ever inviting me ? Each time you go out with them. You come back and complain about it : not in the same environment, same mindset etc .
I have to get off now before our emotion arose high , I am not going to call first and will begin to " love myself " until you honestly send me apology - I mean seriously apologize.
Roger
She sit and told me : I am going to do my eyes again , doctor propose 2 option , injunction every 3 months with fees or 2 stitches for free . When my response is : injections even though I disagree with either way . She emotionally told me she want to do the stitches and what to do it now and told me doctor said after 15 days of micro operation, everything will back to normal .
I am not happy about the repeating performing micro surgery to her face and last time , the disastrous experience want leave any lesson to her .. why , I lost my mood for movie and dinner and ask her send me to the paper printing lab .
In the car , I said to her :
1. Love is not in the face , is my love is to her face , we should not keep our relationship this way .
2. Confidence ? Compare to those not fortune enough people, why you are asking so much?
3. No one is perfect , don't let the appearance overtaking our value
4. No one can remain Beauty when grow old , when you will prepare for it ?
5. Don't discuss this topic with me because my comments never been seriously considered.
Her response make me mad :
1. You don't understand me ? Again , this is her opening
2. The imbalance of 2 eyes make me uncomfortable? Who can really tell the difference?
3. I am doing it because you ask me to go out social with you ? Count my fingers , how many times you happily join my so call " social event " ?
4. I don't like your friend or circle , thinks about it , you don't want to go out work my friends also ? Have you ever inviting me ? Each time you go out with them. You come back and complain about it : not in the same environment, same mindset etc .
I have to get off now before our emotion arose high , I am not going to call first and will begin to " love myself " until you honestly send me apology - I mean seriously apologize.
Roger
JR Lee class
1. ABC in collaboration: alignment / balance / co-creation
2. Vertical power come from : resource / responsibility and accountability
3. Align people goals is different
Other take away :
1. The lite on jacket
2. Money in ?
3. Lunch box
4. Done 12/10 file
5. C-5 with founder talk and setting the exercise
Roger
2. Vertical power come from : resource / responsibility and accountability
3. Align people goals is different
Other take away :
1. The lite on jacket
2. Money in ?
3. Lunch box
4. Done 12/10 file
5. C-5 with founder talk and setting the exercise
Roger
2016年12月1日 星期四
One day Hsin Shu
Take the 8:20 HSR and working in the cabinet for next unplanned Saigon trip : Thie and Sang session .
And I miss my STOP , train took me to Taichung where I transfer another HSR back to hsin chu .
Meet sunny for one hour : 10:30-11:30 before Annie joint by 11:30 and Lynn appear at 11:50 .
- say hello and learn a few old and new spirox things : some resign and some return
- Sunny is happy about my time with her alone
- Lynn learnt the Ta Tung story
12:00 Lunch box with David
- his daughter and her future
- Vietnam as I know
- how I can be a family forum facilitator? My answer : Believe bring Trust and Trust transform to Confidence and the story goes
- come back more
- vertical turn horizontal relationship : acceptance to recognition - tango on the same tune
13:30-14:30 session 2 with Annie and Sunny : role of parent and what bow and arrow metaphor from the book " Prophet "
Gift : bum and cake
Roger
And I miss my STOP , train took me to Taichung where I transfer another HSR back to hsin chu .
Meet sunny for one hour : 10:30-11:30 before Annie joint by 11:30 and Lynn appear at 11:50 .
- say hello and learn a few old and new spirox things : some resign and some return
- Sunny is happy about my time with her alone
- Lynn learnt the Ta Tung story
12:00 Lunch box with David
- his daughter and her future
- Vietnam as I know
- how I can be a family forum facilitator? My answer : Believe bring Trust and Trust transform to Confidence and the story goes
- come back more
- vertical turn horizontal relationship : acceptance to recognition - tango on the same tune
13:30-14:30 session 2 with Annie and Sunny : role of parent and what bow and arrow metaphor from the book " Prophet "
Gift : bum and cake
Roger
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