At lunch yesterday during YEN session, I am like to be kidnaped , young want to ask more , such as : how to express emotion and feelings? How to overcome bad experience turn obstacles? As I am not in the mood to answer , so I can see myself impertinence to these 2 young man - reflect on JR in class , on every break , always student approach and occupied his time. I never saw his annoyed , much to learn for me .
Trust is not a skill , so it's not how good you can perform or how many practice needed before you can trust others .
Commitment is not force to , so reluctant is a slowly killer .
Confidentiality is by defore : we need to feel save to talk : about our public and private life and sometimes take risk in disclosing secret life ..
Sharing is key process in solving : when share you either rationales your thoughts or just let go those unsolved.
Empathy is to connect not to react : you only acknowledge with your gesture or non verbal communication- just feel how people feel.
Self curiosity is searching inside you : the unknown potential is pursuing wisdom inside and in the old days we call philosophy.
Issues and emotion : if we can't assign emotion to the issue , it's a fake issue .
Believe: no matter what i say is truth or false , only you who decide to believe it or not .
Truth before Trust : transparent is prerequisite to giving trust .
Trust bridge : Respect / Understand/ Support
Roger
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