WPO taiwan inauguration party

People said it's a good party and I can't agree more : 

1. Everyone is so happy to connect and re-connect : I mean regional board member , YPO taipei and TPO members 

2. A surprise birthday for Christine Lo ( Kenneth lo's spouse ) 70's birthday .

3. Marc and me share our passion in connect Ashouk .

4. Water's connection .

5. Paul's happy greeting and my patience this time to listing without noise 

6. Michael Chiu - chance to offer help for the Italian kitchen furniture agent in china 

7. Hubert echo on how "immigration is a good business endorsement "

8. Talking to Patrick's father : John 

9. Yi Ping willing in return to WPO Taiwan. 

滬港通

I made a big joke these days - mistaken the Shanghai - HK stock market access to the high speed railroad direct transportation . 

I talked to meiling : this is fine , she is my wife and not very into financial or international news 

I talk to Maggie and Becca : this is terrible as they are from Shanghai and HK .

What a stupid - I -think -I -knew -it -all. 

A restaurant call COCO

Coco channel and picture of the day : this is truly a luxury hotel :

Tim Cook

A few reflection :

- I admire his outed and speake on behalf of gay / lesbian community , as charming as Anderson cooper .( Tim Cook )

- I am not sure why fruit support me to vote Lien as city mayor but not look up to lien herself.

- I finally unpack hp printer and assemble it to works , it's been 6 months 

- meiling resume to stay with sound , it's been 30 days she said she wsa expelled by sound on Sep.28- our wedding anniversary 

- talent fly : I don't feel comfortable the association run on delegate by delegate process - to me this is a non value added thoughts 

- Becca asked if the " eating oil " event in taiwan is truth or fake ? This is coming from a governament controlled mentality - china 

- Maggie is not support the " Chung occupation campaign " in HK - she is a resident in HK 

- I finish reading Allen de botton 's " news " in one day : how come I can digest it so quick and swallow it so fast this time.

- I give fruit 3000 as weekly allowace last night, no matter how much you gave her , she don't have the will to save money . 

- QB stick on sleep with me wherever I am on coach for a nap 

- chairless is really a useful compact and mobile chair - one of the best design I bought . 

- finally - some solution for Vivian Chiang 

About eSun orientation

You tell the story and not to create gap between leaner and teacher , you make believe that everyone have the quality to be teacher and friend in ones life and this is my opening :

1. Ebola :

- Obama and the human right debating : how you can judge a future sick to constrain someone's rights ?

- isolation of Australia ?

- NPR storycorps and the grief in losing your family in Ebola but can't comfort or touch them.

- Alan de botton " news "

2. 1814 - 2014 :

- life span from 30 - 75 

- we have trouble to deal with family issue and need more from friends

Talent fly :

- water can ....

- the poisiton talent fly task to make a different 

Dinner with Maggie / Becca 

- thanks you 

- simply yet delicious food

First half day

Done :

1. Bought Allen de bottom new book 

2. Prepare my eSun orientation tomorrow 

3. Done sound's score printing 

4. Having another Japanese wu tong noodle 

5. Stalk at Eslite sung San building 

6. Terry's positive response : YES

7. Buy myself a passport wallet 

Why:

1. Eslite Sung San is not as crowded as before - kind of scary 

2, my stomach is not feeling well

Angeli's CSR short film

I know I am too harsh on this , but I have to be condor about it :

CSR film by ambassador :

1. The message is not clear and strong 

2. Imitate after Regent : you can see the scares 

3. Story telling : neither compelling not touching 

4. Communication strategy : channel ? Target audience ? Expect outcome ? Benefits to our key stakeholders ? 

5. Cheated : someone steal your marketing dollars 

6. Unprofessional : documentary should conduct and monitor / Guide by professional 

I am pouring cold water to Angeli and his is it , I can always flatter for what's not real . 

Noah :

1. Slow Yes ; quick No

2. Test and test again and again 

3. Stand still on my value and not the quotation .

4. Always an alternative to keep my root in Taiwan.

HR meeting :

1. Combine succession plan with criivxk positing with function competence 

2. How retirement impact on current Ambassador employee and how we may obtain imformation ?

3. Reach both goal : Chairman and HR

4. I can be part of them .

Second run movie :

1. Dawn of the app : the more you close to human , the more you act snd he have like human 

2. Tornado chaser : you spend decent money for a tiny object --

Coffee of the day :

1. CAMA here I come 

2. Morning firework celebrate: you chose how to spend the day in your life :

3. Today is a gift ; tomorrow is a hope.

Distance

This is the keyword I capture on coaching session today : with D and S

Running family and business together and to form a partnership ain't easy ..

For D :

1. The book : from zero to one 

2. Two important things : build the leadership for next GM ; exchange trust with new GM

For S:

1. How to regain passion in what he do

2. Value alignment with D

3. Family avoid in operation 

My take home :

1. First 90 days : 

2. 信任不是放任

3. Distance 

4. No incognstion after Dali Lama

First time I recall - continue

1. Stealing family money : primary school 

2. Stealing outside : part time for police shoes redemption 

3. Cheating outside : father's best friend - high school for porn book 

4. Stealing vinyl record : high school in she Lin 

5. Breaking the law : pistol to high school - steal from youngest uncle 

6. Not serious about love : tamssui Oxford college - the rock fan at one university who stay over night in my room ( no fooling around )

7. B : music biz 

8. Contaminated deseas hurting the one you love .

9. Junior high : not respect family members at night .

First time as I recall now

1. Lost my vitginaty : high school - chew 

2. Barber shop massage experience : social - Tom 

3. Smoking : high school - Lin 

4. XXX book : junior high - uncle room in Chang Hwa 

5. Got drunk : high school - Lin Dao liu 

Vampire family ?

Fruit : from tutor childhood until talent learning today .

Sound : private school always until now.

Father : atm machine for cash needed.

Am I a victim to this ? Or I should save for my raining day? 

Feel like kidnapped by family : when recall I was used as caliteia for 500.000 loan from my father. Very weird feeling.

At lease I am enjoy my Japanese wutong noodle lunch: my picture of the day

Good morning father

Father came home yesterday , mailing didn't know why ..and this is the conversation between us this morning :

Father : I have something to tell you .

Son: please 

Father : the mountain house need to repair and the road is broken as well , u need some money from you .

Son: how much you need ?

Father : at this moment maybe 100.000 NT , but the house leaking we may need more money to repair or rebuilt it.

Son: I don't have money , but I will borrow it for you . 100.000

Father : ok 

Introspective and reflection in YEN shunzen session

Introspective :

1. If you have passion in you - people with notice and dancing with.

2. Curiosity in yourself as well as others .

3. Process works : from one to many , one in group ; one with group ; paring and sharing .

Reflection :

1. Victor share his valnability and I am so touched ( johari window exercise )

2. Mandy on life changing : what an authentic and genuine story 

3. Iris : stine : Strive for independence 

4. Lin hai : how he hold different view and enrich my learning 

5. Larry for for the last minutes support and sharing his forum experiences 

6.kenny is great in logistics and be a good outside students 

7. Marcus : fan Ta long and his careeih in music is amazing . 

Check in

This is how I think on the way to hotel :

1. Invite sound to a dialogue : how he felt about not able to keep the score ?

2. My points :

- you earn your freedom by proving you can deliver .

- there's no free lunch and I can't indulgence and to avoid my responsibility as parent .

3. Scenario :

- move back home 

A. nothing happen 

B. tab still and late for school 

- don't want to move back home :

A. Consult his school teacher 

B. Stay with him overnight and 

C. Making new agreement 

What happen today ?

As I recall :

- prepare and revise eSun workshop Team 3 / minor change 

- Bloomberg tv : inside Fedi 30 minutes 

- take nap on the way to airport 

- sitting and reading periodical at airline lounge 

- prepare my flight to shunzen

What I see:

- the girl wear such a high heel shoes 

- kind of lost when receiving sound's teacher mail his examination score - 10 rank decreae . I don't know how to tell mailing and how to handled it together with her - presume a family hurricane is forming now.

Appreciation

Angeli : i  appreciate Angeli for thinking about my next term with ambassador and willing to support me as usual.

Her recall on working in Hyatt and keep such a good reputation is remarkable : this is how a legacy may set example .

Hubert :

His allowance for chip in and support friend is 100.000 USD - and he don't mind I spot it when at the coaching session .

He felt relief when learn Angeli will stay and perform a balance role in managing overall ambassador group 

We are happy to candor on what to do next ? Not a cover with excuse .

I walk to the movie " the equalizer " - Hubert mentioned something about rotten tomato movie review and I share with him my eye opening memories about art film " One by Peter Greenaway " 

The equalizer : who to perform justice for the less fortunate people , how come the director open with mark twins famous " the most important 2 days for a person " the day you were born and why ? "

A basic stimulate movie for purely entertaining .  

Melody talk

We have been schedule out coffee for months and this afternoon we find a standard place : Starbucks to our update and this is my reflections :

1. The insurance saving I might cover or convert to cash can be up to 5 millions 

2. She is now living with 2 cats.

3. God play a vital role in her life .

4. She is doing good cause teaching to help those need help , such as baby sitters 

5. My reflect 2 Idears : teaching for collaboration on my " tool book : plg " and " on friendship " seminar with social media - I am tie with my one thing " influence people who impact the world "

Agent for my aging is primal need , we need to update more 

Refraction

1. The brother / sister quarrel at Hu Ko recreation center : money bring you trouble .

2. Ambegel's grown up photo: James sun took it from London with his formal family - this is the unconditional love and James is a true hero.

3. Fruit : the DNA - nature deficit of bad manner laid unchanged , we can only accept it.

4. Lin Yu Tong : a viturso of word / language / Chinese / westerner " the art of living " is a must read bedside book,digest it from time to time.

5.remew contract : how to and what to ? Value and inplaceable 

Picture of the day ： Taichung trip

Preparing s dream

My dream last night :

1. Who's there : Matthew Allison ; Julio Iglesias ; unknown classmate or peer 

2. The story : 

Julio is very sick , he developed some incurable deseas and we talked about it somewhere : Matthew , Julio and me.

I can't remember what the conversation was , it's kind of " what if ... " " regret " and I return to my peer group and shear it with either YPO er or EMBA alumni : " I could have been ..... 。" this is how the dream goes and what I can recalled . 

Taichung family trip

It's a hell freeze over trip . I didn't expo this mother and daughter disagreement can be resolved within a day. My insist on doing our trip is correct. 

Day 1:

1. Taichung mama yang sushi 

2. Check in Bao Dao 53 

3. Guan Yuang eye clinic ice cream bar

4. Yi Chuang night market 

5. Lee Hai stew pork rice 

Day 2:

1. Pig 3 : bamboo shout soup 

2. Yu chi Yi tui Yan restaurant 

3. Hu Ko highway recreation station 

Reflection :

- mailing passion in doing veggie food for them ..

- fruit impropreiate dressing 

- the hospitally stranger at Lee Hai vendor 

Angeli stays

There is no tension about Angeli's change her mind and determine to continue her consulting role in ambassador hotel. In addition : I rationalize how wellness centre can blending in :

- esalent 

- school of life 

- space yoga / winds music / Noah / talents fly 

To have her think about using coaching method to help the people she help to recruit to the group . This might be my contribution today - strive for tripple win.

  Continues Taichung trip after the family typhoon last night - war between fruit snd mewling is my life lesson to learn . Keep going and keep walking .

Dear amigo

Amigo-my college classmate said he is semi-retire now - been in Eral hotel for 6 years . After renovation but the acreage room rate is decease . It's the competition , he is so nice to classmate and know what to share and what to support .

We have a good breakfast conversion and he drove me to fun Hu seeing my father . With his help , I can now go to see my father as often as possible -- he is willing offering me the ride from 9-5 , with a little help end this is what friends for -- I am so blessed to have friends like him.

Father is happy to see me . With a brief stay . He asked amigo to take some banana and we left . Brief and sweet . I should do it more .

Managed to get 2 tickets for daniel on Jason Marz . He should love it

4 things about MD Peng no one know

1. Hardly remember people's name 

2. Can't understand word people said , need to repeat in his mind befit respond 

3. Need to identify the man / woman he need to know is good or bad guy .

In addition , he love music so much and appreciate it so deeply . Learn carinet and challenge almost all the pianist in town .

He want to change his career and not to be a boring doctor - it took up 30 years of his life already .

Why they are so honest with me ? Sharing how much they earn from co-investment with " chief winner "

Junior high school reunion

We have 5 together at cat's newly open restaurant in Hu-Wei .

I took taxi from chayi HSR station to the restaurant : 900 nt.

Spit my Starbucks latte on the HSR and the cabinet attendance is so sweet ..

This is the first time I had a clear picture about what the " seed investment " is doing and met almost all the major / minor investor .

Cat's act as CEO for the group : with 2 brand in hotel and motel biz ( total across strait 7 property ) and 2 restaurant. The group were form by junior high school classmate . The soul for the money making machine is mr kao who they call " the chief winner " he make his fortune by invest in financial and stock market and earn total up to 4 billions nt and with net earning exceed 2 billions . To utilize financial market earning . He invest in the hospitality industry and Cat is now the CRO for the group . 

 Met Chi Shun is another thing I want to do , my best friend back to school and spnding 22 years in China and now rerun with a humble new begin . His paradigm shift is impressed and I am happy to reconnect with them.

Not to mentioned the interred MD Peng , what a character .

Wu Bai and reflection in KS

Taking to mailing last night :

1. My Cinderella metaphor 

2. Her playing on our own disclosed 

3. My observation on how Eric interactive with daniel and my finding of Eric an opportunitist 

4. The blur biz plan about wellness center 

5. Don't be fooled by Celine again 

6. Finding apartment in Sh demonstrate my commitment to Noah 

Wu Bai:

1. A hero image is ego reflection 

2. Singing too hard and out of tune 

3. Wresting on stage for changing time is a bit aukuwal 

4. Stage charming is there 

5. Band is tight 

6. Audience seems over high 

7. No security check at all.

Day alone in Kaohsiung

Take the early HSR not for anything ， but to arrived KS earlier , 09:50 am reach HSR KS station , transfer to MRT and walking in a cafe : do a little bit this and that and check in ambassador hotel around 12:00 noon.

  Take a nap while listening to NPR storycorps snd falling asleep until 1:40. Interested by the hotel shopper and buy an useless item -- bad feeling . 

  Walking out and take cab to feed my stomach ; local delicacy really tasty : rice dumpling ; rice bowl , sticky rice cake .

 Taxi to the dome KS : it's s crowed Saturday afternoons. Having my heavy latte - not to falling asleep at concert .

 I will stay over tomorrow and see if I may see chi chun's parent : farming and taking care of my meals when I was in high school ... Such a long lost memory .

My iPhone 6 plus

I really enjoy this new toy - easy to hold and big enough for me to read and write. 

Hubert

My reflection in coaching :

1. Don't be like DD- a NATO : no action talks only 

2. Focus on 2 slide : ambassador ( Hubert ) end Noah ( China )

3. Cause turn business serious will flush his face and create tension .

4. The construction company mess is not go away - the impact on overall performance 

5. He like the article we co-create 

6. A zone foundation invite Shu 

7. Talent fly is real 

KC - Lydia lunch 

1. KC can't get rid of his value and we need to find him a understand parnet 

2. Lunch and coaching Lydia wasn't a good approach 

3. Kevin 's movie inataive is a hero / helo thing and now drive by Yang 

4. I am mystical to my elementary classmate still . 

5. We enjoy the talk and food at market cafe 

6. I spot him to work for talents fly as volunteer 

Just the way you are

MD chen is my friend , he took care my heart and be a great listener .

I see him every 3 months after he perform my let artery sten and give my new life - it's been more than 6 years .

Nethew vs Roger : am I belong to YPO circle ?

- because you are different from them , it make you the odd - interested person 

- unless anyone from the circle falling from the sky , they won't observe what's the difference between you and him

- introspection and reflective are so important 

This is how I don't disagree with her

1. Why always put money before everything ?

2. Why keep saying she don't know how to raise child ?

3. Why complain about suffering when dealing with kid while I am away ?

4. Why always said " I am not a woman , I don't understand "

5. Why don't accompany to important gatherings with friends and lead it to " social event " or " its your business  "

6. Why spending time with her parent and brother with no complaints but when doing the same thing at home . I feel owing to her greatly ? 

7. Why not accept fruit is changing and alway kept awful memory on their wrong doing ? 

8. Why ? Too many why build a deeper gap and I am kind of hard to make up all the hole .

I am sorry is not good enough

I don't know the impulse : what not go g you SIM card turn to be a disaster between us ? And I can't Image how she claim not to be a good mother and don't know how to be a good mother ? Since I am not so mind if sound keep a SIM card from his borrowed smart phone or we just need to know where he is - as we had a bad experience that Sound return to his apartments after midnight .

There are too much doubt and not enough trust between sound and her mother , every incident can Bollom to a big issue .

 I admit I should not give without think and I should not dump the bomb ( according to Meilijg ) and have her to clean all the mess . But am I apologize not enough ? 

We all have a role in many others life , I was the one who took all the shit last night - when spot sound might not obey and keep his promise if he can't keep up with the class ranking . I sense he will play us again and this create enormous uncomfortable feeling to Meilijg . We drove back home last night around 1:30 am . She kept point fingers to me and I swallow it - but am I say sorry to little ? 

 I don't have an answer and I am so frustrated .

Working on finance

Close up to my saving goal - should find a prudent and balance investment and conduct house keeping on non-performing stock.

Yellow lemon :

1. Good :

- desert and friend 

2. To be better :

- service and expectation 

Matthew update :

- NPR : story core inspire me 

- Noah with space is a feasible approach 

- Space fund raising is frustrating and now need indivisual investor instead of institutional investor 

- share on family / business and life 

- my learning about the book " how we age " 

- my blind spot on family yet Meilijg and me . 

This is how I feel : mama wang

With a little help is what comes to my mind and I took action upon . By far the result is :

1. David Lee ( ukulele : no problem )

2. David Lee ( singer song writer : brovo )

3. Antonio chen ( of course )

Mama wang call back - I though this message go straight to Lee Hom but it turn out to be her and she call back .i capture my feeling upon words she said :

1. 力宏很忙。

2. 要看他有沒有想法。

3. 這件事他很小心。

4. 哦！你也很忙。

I sense exactly the same feeling back to more than decade ago -- the coming back memory wasn't a pleasant one and yes . This is so so weird . 

Bobo session

We ultize 75 minutes - bobo brought liu kwang with him :

1. About the " marriage public announcement " - a marketing campaign turn an ambiguity . - no crusins .

2. New role : invest in people - internal and external 

3. Ex-wife : it's a dilemma between siblings and marriage - you can only treat those who you can't put up with a " obstacle " to overcome in life or do a paradigm shift : they are sick .

4. Continues facilitation : don't feel obliged to as nothing is Must.

Liu's input and insight :

- 3 viewport to adjust and align : life view ; value view and world view 

- back to basic: don't let the noise distort your inner peace 

- the trust leverage : dose it measure by the money you commit ? 

Noah long term

" slow yes ; quick no " I share what I learnt from Stephen Tzui to chin Bao - and we conclude following :

1. Taking the consultant role as CCC : chief corprote coach role for my regular one on one 

2. Forming and build / moderate chi boa forum with YPO machnism 

3. Train and develop moderaotor / coach for 30 Noah eduction sub group : TTT : first forum : forum retreat : CFF camp.

4. Support coming diamond member annual meeting at San Ya , 

Other idea :

1. Relocate to SH 

2. Invest in north Ed 

3. Conduct " on friendship " series 

4. Co-build wellness center 

5. Bring yoga ( physical health ) to complete wellHness center mindset 

With Noah Ed team :

1, address market : company wih functions 

2. Outdoors Noah certified coach to corprote 

3. Target : client / client's company 

4. Budget : acquisition cost ( Noah ) vs retention cost ( Noah Ed provide value added service : quality life - contbue education , peer learning group )

Noah development

I know my future with Noah is 

Noah development

I know my future with Noah is 

6677 forum

All is here , even we conduct a " no parking lot " " no presentation " meeting , the level of itimacy is not been lower .

It's good to see haibo coming back with a savvy biz observation . Andy will go his own way , ming Capture me in forming Xingwei school management forum , Eddie do have djembe be new relate to my pass experience and we decided to have next forum an overnight at kunsheng for hairy crab on next forum .

I need to change my flight .

Dinner with maya - James friend who ask me to write the prelude for her book " butan " I am introduce her to Angeli and all forum brothers join except Eddie . 

Meilijg is overdone and over help her sister's restaurant biz . It's not right and I am going to redirect it.

Do more

Meilijg is in a hurry to pay the car loan / credit card bill and I offer my assistance . She told me it save her the whole morning . It's a piece of cake and this is also how we learn to improve our work .

Meilijg said when growing up / old . Time is never enough - for this I don't get it but she is helping her sister / brother right the vegetarian restaurant and lack of sleep .

My introspective today :

1. SEE meeting : with agenda and some project development . The Vibe is clear . Set the blue print for environmental taiwan : clean mountain - river to the sea 

2. The Farewell geeting to Charles's mother in law : this is the event YPO - top turn out rate is high then any eduction program .

3. TPO / WPO : there do exist some difference - James raise it after lunch and by checking what Bango said - yes . David's concern is a true issue 

Incidentally I found this photo next to me

What an coincident - I found this photo shoots 17 years ago after hang up phone with Steve : everything happen for a reason : 

Another good conversation with Fruit

She is trandieming totally . From what I watch at cnn she can spot who Malala is to " out of comfort zone " change routine , fruit become a mature and ambitious girl - she want her achievements and keep good displiine in making it happen .

 Grow herself and learn many new things - adapt new hobby and be humble to people . Eat less meat , conduct deep and meaningful conversations , you won't feel bored talking to her.

 This is my girl . After 20 years of bumping road . Now we see the positive and bright side of her .

The last thing she said last night : " bread is more important than love to me now "

Talking to Steve Vai

We are as close as before - he did not get the second thought about Daniel's investment and other introduction he did for me but address in how to make CFF closing party another great thing to happen .

 Vai sign new deal with Sony - according to him - crazy deal . And won't be touring until 2016. So I have time to prepare my documentary with friend .

 He thinks about outdoors heater . Raining contingency , bar tenders and parking space and ask if we are humor ? He wish to come up with some interesting idea to make our closing night different ... Yes what a friend . 

How to redirect Sound?

Is there anything wrong with Sound? Or what happen to him ?

1. Can't keep his promise even he sincerely promise when begging for his wish .

2. What's his wish ?

- live alone even under 18

- take bath as long as he wish and any time he want

- reading no value books / novel download to small screen - phone device 

- over eating and over weight , not taking care of his own physical condition .

- choose to go through the university exam but not commit to study harder . 

3. What's right about him?

- didn't fooling around and de develop bad habit 

- living alone but not going out playing 

- Class ranking on top 5 always .

- strong sense of logic and analysis 

4. The unsolved :

- the agreement with his mother may broke any time how we can reach an ivsn way to bring him back home ?

- if not getting entrance exam . Should we keep him at home as " ken Lao tsu" or force him to earn his living until go go army ?

- how to restrict his addicted bathing habit wen return home? 

Crocodile with yellow eyes

I hardly can express my feeling when finish this French film . This is definitely on my top 10 movie in 2014 - tie with " gone girl ". 

No with high expectation as the movie title is not attractive . I just want to see a non English speaking film and it turn out an astonishing movie . My take away :

1. Every character in the film had his personality and value . Neither right or wrong . Even the 15 years old soaking for herself , not only for defending mother .

2. 30 years is a milestone when a person can put up with anyone - especially couples .

3. You sacrifice probably won't win yourself the respect . So enjoy what you do .

4. Talent must go with confidence - lace the confidence . You always living in shadow .

5. Fame bring you fortune . Rich then but your fame - get publicity first before generate decent money .

6. Love is not give birth to anyone and can be having someone's baby . 

7. Be part of one's life is the true love . 

8. Who build your dream and who support your living can be seperare responsibity . 

Reflection and introspective

1. Working with Sound on his " energy " power point - we spend 3 hours at his rental apartment . It's been weeks We havnt spoke . And great reconnecting I feel happy .

2. Coco - writing a book about friendship together . An inspiring project 

3. Vagie dumping : my idea of how to put all the ingredient and turn out to be a great dish . Helping Meilijg .

4. Movie " gone girl" : how come anyone can come up with such a brilliant movie script ? Amazing Emmy and movie .

5. Meilijg open mouth to Fruit : it make my day as the Cold War goes away ,

6. Nobel peace award : goes to Malala and saw her interview with amapour backward . What a brave and bright girl . 

Taxi Driver

I have an impulse to ask if anyone suggest him to change his first name ? The meaning of comfort doesn't fit how Mr. Change drive his car - emotion ; over speed ; overtaking other vicheal and star at by passing cars and drivers... First experience in the morning .

Send greeting message to coco and know Bruce's father is not well - Meiling saw 

Stew Pork Rice with Hubert

Talking to Lydia and met Kevin by chance - he didn't know I am here and I signed a loan agreement paper board meeting minute which indicates he will get a loan from corporative bank for 4 millions. 

 Set up lunch appointment with kc and Lydia next week - long time ..

Bring Hubert to the Hung's stew pork restaurant and check the " A - Zone " status . He is happy about my more involment in the A - Zone development . See how it goes.

 We go over TPO : Ypo members profile one by one - an interesting history in Taiwna business family .

1b2g don't look good on p / l - accumulate lost up to 7 millions and compare to budget the gap is 10 millions . It's a serious matter .

I am home and want to see Dracula over the weekend.

Gassip : David Lin had a big quarrel with Andrew Kuo... Hmmmm 

Transglobe : CTC workshop module 4

Modules :

1. Fundamental : see the mountain 

2. On the road : climbing 

3. Almost there : way to peak 

4. Back to basic : see the mountain 

Learning :

1. The team collective consensus process works quite well .

2. Life changing choice is another good story telling / sharing session 

3. For corporate : solving can't be avoid :

Surface -- Sharing / Solving -- Support can be the revised model 

4. Music is a great trigger

5. SAVI is a workable methodology and design concept 

 I am happy chichi come for participate or sivullence . At least she witness the authentic commotion among high ranking offices st Transglobe 

Ending episode for Transglobe

Initatially , I want to do an unplugged version but fails as I add up more and more colorful ingredients , expecially music with picture - if this is the end , we should all remember the time we spend together .

 Lunch with Frank Lin . He thinks corporate forum have its limitation , I am not going to call it an end so having a consensus on 3 parties joint survey :

1. What the forum do good for you ?

2. What not been served ?

3. How to make it better next year ?

4. Your honest opinion and insight 

5. The goal we wish to strive :

- old team to build on ITIS corporate culture 

- integrate new and old team basis on consensus 

- promote an open / trust emvirorment 

- break silo and solve cross depts issues 

- peer learning on leadership and key Managment expertise . 

Meilijg helping others

Why my brother in law reluctant to let me know they need help from Meilijg ? Maybe she overdo most people's limit when offering help , not to mention to her siblings.

 Should I not happy about her reaching out for others but not with full gear inward ? Or this is my bias judgement and fact is she contribute more for our family . 

 Rubbing a cafeteria alike small restaurant indeed is a business . Some basic knowledge and basic biz understanding is essential - Meilijg is a great chef . The rest of the relative team should perform complementary role . 

 What I am not sure is : this is a one shot support or long term commitment .

 If this is her passion , let the flow goes. Happiness is on the way of fulfill your purpose in life . 

Huilien spirox retreat day 2

Sleep until 7:40 am and I have having breakfast . A good morning conveys tin with SC and Grace couple :

1. I am a coach and facilitator in nature 

2. Yes . And yes 

  Professor Sung is so keen in promo organic argricultue and friendly to earth . We spend the morning to see the orhsnic plantation and to have lunch at Eco - Kitchen - the Tung Hwa university operated restaurant .

What inspired me?

-- farmer said " no matter how spficicste we are . We are all rely on the Mother Earth " 

-- lawyer Lo : don't misunderstood people . 

-- mr. Huang : to support and pervent cancer at early stage 

-- David : how many open - heart laughter you have in your life ?

-- I am sharing the " talent fly "- social relay race concept and the " driver / enabler " mindset 

  A zone visit :

- Thansk to Fu : Kao : Eric and Kevin 

- it's a favore taken and recheck the status , 

Spriox bod retreat day 1

YWe left our house by 7:30 am and arrive taipei railway station at 7:50 am, 50 minutes before train departure time.

 Alex and James came by 8:10 am, they are from HsingChu .

 Taking train number 410 to hawlien , we arrived by 11:16 am.

 First stop : lunch / the Japanese restaurant is really impressed run by Japanese couple .

 Professor Tsai join our table . He is a food stone sculpture artist and also teach at Dong Hwa Universiy . A very knowledge and well connect to the artist community . With his profession guide . We had a fruitful sculpture tour in the afternoon : the stone sculptures museum / Pine House / open space international artist working ..

 Highlight of the day is dinner at Charles's house : the Vice President of don Hwa university together with his passionate life - professor Won give everyone a night to remember .

Charles built second house for the diner function and amazingly , he is one of the best chef we ever met - you never see anyone can do the roast duck at home and prepare a 30 persons potion Spanish seafood rice at the same time...

It's great I brought Meilijg with me and its trulyva great event .

Bold next

1. Find a new things to learn 

2. Go someplace alone where you never explore 

3. Write an English book / essay / commentery 

4. Touring with Steve Vai 

5. Host and product " on friendship " 

Without further ado & with all due respect

Without further ado : 言歸正傳

With all due respect : 恕我直言

Take home value this morning

1. I bought my favorite breakfast : the crispy Pan and green onion pan cake 

2. Even we didn't get all in the forum , I share 3 principal :

- if you take it seriously . People will see it seriously .

- if you think it's important , then it will create value to you .

- do it fail is better than I can't do it mentally 

Now we call it a peace

An early morning itimacy with Meilijg smooth the uncomfortable feeling both we have last night - she's been bothering by sound and othe matters and I caught a flu and reluctant to give advise in regard to how to handle Sound- maybe what I learn and taught these years make me know giving advise won't be helpful .

We didn't sleep well , who's accompany who ? Why gratitude overtakes love when you growing old ?

 Spirox forum won't be success as the commitment is low - if you don't contribute you won't see the value yourself : it's an equal and mutual respect emvirorment to build . 

 I am not saying I will quit if the things getting worst - however my contribution shall be equally honored . So I will concur an consensus workshop and check the reality ahead of me.

 For cruising over the huilien harbor and watching dolphin / whale we need to wake up 4 in the morning next Mondayx! See how the pay off is ,

It's time to enjoy another forum expletive of mine - yes , every experice count .

Home and Meilijg

It's difficult to change someone unless he /she have the willness . It's hard to coach someone unless she / he have the self awareness . The process from the person is ;

I want - I will - I feel - I do 

The reaction from his / her key stakeholders is :

He want - He do - His behavior - He anchor 

The question is : " why change ? Change for what ? " 

My answer is :" change for better or Better change "

How a tier A coaching quote ? This is my for leaders in China

-- 12 months is a routine . 

-- twice a month in person . 4 hours sessions maximum 

-- urgent call : anytime 

-- urgent in person : depend on coach availability and for extra charge 

-- 30.000 RMB per month : 360.000 month 

-- coachee cover biz class round trip airfare and one day accommodation at 5 start hotel 

-- payment term : sign-off 50% balance even out to monthly due . 

-- change of schedule : to be mutually agree upon 

Chanbaishen Noah strategy meeting

How to define you " miss " 2 stand by flights ? Since you were not in the confirm booking . You are there to take a chace , but the truth is you still think you " miss " 2 opportunities windows

I rate myself full score this time : yes on the second upon ending , I share my vaulnabilty with all the Noah executives and it really connect us all .

I told them " the road to normal " is the reflection to my life and it is ..

Following are my reflective :

1. Team lessees orientation is good , you have suppoter before the session and to feel the org climat first .

2. Songs to carry and deliver message so have power .

3. I follow the : somatic / auditory / visual / intellencet model and do the 4 p ( prepare : presentation : practice : performance ) model to included and rationale my slides - it prove that story telling is more Powerful. 

4. Move up the video session up to late afternoon and leaves the audience a good rest / eat / drink and mingul is a good process change .

5. Appreciate all the challenge and welcome it at a harmony way . 

6. Bold can be risky but you dare to try .

7. The big group ice breaker to surface a " happy birthday " surprise is a good ice breaker .

8. The song " I do believe " can have everyone shake their body -- exercise .

To be better :

1. First day first 90 minutes should be more intensive 

2. Some of the module such as " searching for your dream " can be more deep . To have team to know each other better and to create time for everyone to go deeper .

3. To work on my PC . Or draw on white board , I do ass to audience many times .

4. Get to know each other from light to heavy - not to inject heavy dose of " open "