Diverso Gone

My presentation for taking sabbatical turn to an overall forum Heath discussion ..
And it end up with surface the argument between F & T : remaining forum mate decided to call it a dissolve of forum .
Am I pull the tigger ? Or rescue everyone here at Kobe ?
It's an expected earthquake- at Kobe .


Roger

Only Yes or No can change , Maybe never will

1. Take sabbatical to Diverso forum
2. Say no to Matthew about " April 27 " Window is close for me .
3. Finish 03.07 A Zone one on one minutes
4. Do my 50.000 us TT sign off before flying out .
5. Complete my update on the plane before


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I know they felt I am weird this time

How come the airport limo drive so smoothly and no traffic on the traffic hours ? And how come my plane arrive 15 minutes earlier to Osaka airport and put me on the bus leaving in just 10 minutes ?
It all lead to a " I am surprise that I can reach hotel on time for dinner.. "
When check in VIP lounge for checking in , see all forum mate gatherings and about leave for dinner, I excuse myself via group whatsapp chat room twice and have to say it in person again ...
Happy to do my own little " lounge nuts dinner " alone and reading this very interesting book " Outward Mindset "
Kobe is nothing new to me - airport / hotel / workshop venue ( for us or others )
They must know there's someone going on and this is fine as I am about to do the " how to minimize the impact to the forum on members leaving forum ? "
My paradigm shift rescue me not to make up any white lies - it's a from Why to How practice on me .



Roger

Paradigm shift

It's not a Why but How - this paradigm shift support me to make my "sabbatical " a presentation and leaning among Diverso and won't cast too much shadow on the forum- I guess and I hope .


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位置:Install my Apply Pay to my iPhone today

S morning session

1. The machine ( my Garmin watch ) told me I don't have enough sleep ( or my sleeping quality is so bad )
2. I need to find a way to solve it : sleeping pill don't work .
3. I need a nap now .. I felt sleepy .
4. Now all the international entity were asked to take a stance if chooses from China or Taiwan - it's so bad for Taiwan .
Please do take a nap. Let's call it a day and finish our session earlier .


Roger

The rule don't apply to you

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Stop or Start the dream

-- I tell everyone to pursue their dreams , young and old . And I though this is where everybody's hero's journey starts, " finding you " put a prerequisite which is " telling your parent NO " - as I ask every one go for their dreams .. Why I stop my own daughter pursue hers ?
It's a protecting or loosing faith on her ? Or I though what I know about the entertainment industry base on my experience apply to all ?
I can't generate any empathy about Fruits dream to be fame and fortune .. my value taught me this is isureal , it's not a healthy dream for young girls and I see lot of people get burns , but if this is the dream she has , how can I change anything ?
I can only be silence , be nurtural , wait until what comes come ...
If this is the journey for her , I have no much to say ..

Roger

It's freaking fears

I rush out of Bo's brother car at Hsiao Shen international airport and found my left my charged phone in his car .. and he drove away .
Every data I have ( included all the coaching staff ) were in my iPhone. All my contact was there. I know if I left it for more than 2 nights . It will be a nightmare to me.
I can't images what can be worse than it . I stand outside airport gate and hoping to see him return - it's like hell ..
He returns in 15 minutes and I looks calm but wasn't . Must find a way to secure all my data somewhere in the cloud .


Roger

Hu Pang university

1. Feng Ren : connect and brief talk
2. Change Wei Chun : the soon be gone from Hu Wen and how he see me here ?
3. Li Yi : YPO sea Dragon and new enroll
4. George Hsieh : say hello briefly and connect with Hank / Diana
5. Meet jourolist Lee Shang from Beijing
6. Shoot picture of Jack Ma from back and front


Roger

As good as Michelin 3 star

-You lead , create , innovate and hold the space on the spot
-Even learning from the standard , you digest , derive , refine , polish and paint it with your own colors .
-You trances yourself and making improvement a common practice


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I miss my flight finally

Mistaken my flight to Hu chew is EvA air take off around 4:30 pm , when check in the airline counter , they can't find my ticket and I realize that I miss my earlier flight - it depart by 12:20 already .
Hummmm . First time for this experience and Huichi play catch up . I made it finally


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Yes ! I feel relax watching " Broadway American Idiot

Michael Mayer is with bold mind and understanding talent like Green Day : Billy Joe Armstrong is very adaptive and feeding what the musical need --
So " American Idiot " is a concept album which can be translated into a good story about the wandering youth in America .


Roger

Another in person session with Crystal

It's another good vibe , it strengthens our bonding and I am pretty sure the " format " works well .
It's another HK airport session and another lovely Cantonese BBQ pork .
And another 4 hours participant coaching session .


Roger

Bombarded learning

I should not do but didn't follow I say : don't send any written thing to fruit in regard to her " model " Dream no matter how I evaluate it . But only set up appointment for time and place .. I didn't follow it and share my concern about her expose and toward a wrong destination- even share my feeling about " sad .. "
She coming back is more than 80 messages complain / challenge / accuse me - her father . I was wrong at the first place and will easily raise my emotion .
Call Meiling and she told me her 20 plus years experience dealing with Fruit and also coach me " this is the only beginning " what will happen next is even ugly . When I get home ...
I need to pick up my pieces and not to let me emotion drive my monthly coaching session with Crystal in HK airport .
To write is to organized and to let go. I should face it , but not now .
How to treat Fruit ? An adult ? A sick Person or what ? Let it behind and had my Cantonese BBQ pork now .


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Fruit future or mine ?

Check her FB and shock by her expose photo and soliciting model work as free lancer , I can't sleep well and can't fugues out what to do next .
It's another tag of war between my mind and head ..
there is not clear cut . Must be a third way ..


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Crystal's update is a reflection to my relationship with Fruit

I am not really spending time ( even mind ) with Fruit , although she is around . Stay at home so her own thing - only see her trash and those bad behavior to accumulate what I know about her - almost nothing since she move back from Chayi - as a matter of fact , I knew so little about her since she was born
Meiling is the channel feed me who Fruit is and was . I fully bias to her opinion and become a bias father - see only the bad side about her and reluctant to connect her as I think Fruit have been bad to Meiling - her mother and my wife .
There is no clean talk to straight it out in my family . Money seems to be the only thing can talk to her - monthly allowance and other spendings .. it sad to develop such a poor father - daughter relationships, I am a coach to many successful people and even coaching on improving / changing other father - daughters relationships. But I can't even face my own - still far from fix or share it ..
crucial update in many ways trigger my own relationship with Fruits- be nice to others . This should include your own daughter. You don't need to trust her but love her without question .


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Tom's call is a noise - it bothered me

What I will do ?
1. Be silence to his message about KC is difficult to communicate with - as the consulting firm is hired by culture of ministry for " check " A Zone status / why need this redundancy ? Make things improve is not to check
2.Why Tom take the messages role ? As he knows clearly that I am not " in the same chemical level with him " to take the messenger role won't improve our relationship.
3.whats wrong with KC - it's accumulate complain about his low EQ - stubborn and difficult to communicate- should I let him know ? Remember what he told me " I am so happy that not one in my road stop me to where I want to do here at A Zone " trust is one thing . Get things done properly is another .


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Morning breakfast with Angela

She is fine , traveling , exploration and having good time , the catch up is a touch base on maintaining friendship , I find " coffee lovers planets " as the venue for us and we talk - only talk from 8:00-09:30
1. She trip to chasing Aurora from Canada is a good trip : the 65 years old lady who is either selfish or self ease cause her thinking
2. Her way of " seeing or not " Through the lens is to reflect on Buddha's teaching " Seeing the invisible "
3. I update her my recent coaching plan - to her is breakthrough on money making . To me it's an opportunity to offer what people need and I am catch on this wave to relief my mortgage pressure .
4. Talent fly build in with wind music
5. What taipei can offer for his EMBA alumni reunion in Taipei
6. Mayday concert is her passion still
7. Many traveling ahead ..


Roger

TPO Frank and Bengo

Bengo story telling did trigger me some memories in LCPC : didn't know that much or deep when working there .
Planting the rice paddle for logo is good
Say Dee about YPO and with wrong perception is weird
Taking care of Steven Kwang's son is a high morale and it's touching
Bengo is as complicated as before


Roger

R monthly session

Another good session for 2 hours and the bonus is to ride on number 888 of Tesla E sports on the road ..
for R:
1. Consequences and Contingencies thinking
2. Learn some trait about S and don't be ...
3. Figure out the April priority



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Break for " business "

Originally I want to do crystal monthly coaching stuff but end up working on business administration such as
1. Asking for Hu Wen advance : 50.000 usd and it works
2. Send out MYWISH to Tiger
3. Feed back to Tasnai
4. Conclude buying Steve Tickets
5. Upgrades Steve's room at Regent
6. Done my toilet routine



Roger

What make a CEO leave ?

1. Trust : can debate in private but support in public .
2. Bias : especially from non professional surrounding consultant . Assistsnt
3. Compensation: monetary and non monetary.
J do have a strong emotion this morning and I :
- forgot to bring my wallet and any ID
- J pick me and rescue me from Starbucks
- And we start our session from 8:05-09:45
Take Away:
1. You either send signals by taking leave ( break )
2. Or do a private dinner for Resolve .
3. It's not your expectation but how their perception.


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Blogging

Busy schedule make my trivial time management a loophole - not to keep the daily blog - thanks for non stop du with clients and keep pace on what I do ..


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Amigo : Change and what to do ?

1. About your biz model ? Low profit as platform aim b 2 c market ( outdoor - tourist )
2. About how to integrate mind / soul growth health into the physical program .
3. About how to design synellm / curriculum to meet corporate need .
4. How to build in the basic attrition for leaders / teams / management to the program and to facilitate on take home values
5. Outsource with creditable coaching for add on values
6. Your story is a leadership program : your unknown complement on clients knowing- vis beesa .
7. Be confident


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Tiger Yi Lan retreat

My take Away is what I did for " I wish 20 years later "


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Do you want to do more

It's not a coaching window but I sense H have something to say : so I wait until 1:00 pm . I have to postpone my scheduled session with S .
H want to try a new beee noodle shop . To my surprise, it's Jennifer Chang Pei Hwa's little restaurant.. and Pamela is assist ( CSR - Space ) from today...
H:
1. F will officially out from SL D by April 1
2. A hotel issue occur to some integrity and misconduct / fraud of one employee and might result to a critical investigation and charge - and H is involved ..
3. Pre caution taking sleeping pill
4. Inpatient due to stress ..


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Hu Wen

It's a brain tug-of-war and end up with a mind game , I won the first round: obtain first year coaching contract with commitment of 100.000 USD with 50.000 down payment in one day .
He knows what he want , I am burning my midnight oils to shine my heat and light ...


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FMLD YPO Shanghai today

Who's here : Scott ; Vincent ; Frances; Nelson ; Johnny ; Glen ; Miguel ; Tsai Hwa ; Philip; Bo Yi . Total 10 people .
My learning:
1. 8 hours investment is too long for some busy executive. Especially those hire guns
2. The up update have some flavor
3. Word association as the self - curiosity exercises can work.
4. Make every video connection and excise not only the eyeing point
5. Ritual works : hand shake - heart share - hug close ..
6. One one goes deeper .


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Work Face response

Sunny told me the 80 copies of return cards. Only 2 mentioned " no thanks you " so the hit rate is 97.5% , I am happy and everyone is happy .


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Recreation

It's a good feeling and good vibe , not in any professional gesture , it's a true intimacy .


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Prepare just in case

Family Mart is full of school out kids - my just in case purchase have to put in hold for a few minutes .
Grab some snack I like for my bathtub amusement . It's a nice hotel as usual .


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Working for friend

Tasnai and Sang works for me as I am now works for Matthew. Helping others to be successful is a good feeling . And how to balance your own definition of success ?


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How come I meet so many people at sungsan airport

1. HP Jeff approach me ...
2. Jae - wander - and her from CSR community .
3. 文䝨： my high school and EMBA classmate .
And who else saw me but not saying hello ?


Roger

Diana session

It's a monthly in person coaching with a YPO forum flavor . She talked 90 % of our 90 minutes session . And the key issue and stakeholder is Stiven - our conclusion arrived at " it's not an issue to solve , but to share "


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Crystal teach me

Pre mature - big heart and deep soul .
She will be someone someday .



Roger

Scene in a second class movie

The movie deal with dirty cups - corrupt politician and some family intimacy. The director ambitions is clear but he want to address too much , so you lost here and there .
I learn the director hold a strong husband - wife gestures and always drive the camera lens to a deeper and inner place . And the couple were not in a " happy situation "
- a set up special force can only peak his girl friend / wife singing in a jazz bar .
- the FBI head's wife brutally killed on an undercover mission and alway driver him to commit suicide
- corrupt cup love his cancer wife so deep that willing to redemption his sin by exchange his life .
When watch it , what come to me strongly and reflect is my wife - who sitting next to me watch the movie together . For the last 30 years marriage life , we live most of the time happily and do not encounter to sit on the bed side worry the significant others in a sad mood . It's a bless and this should be cherished .
Maybe this is why I am not happy about her left home to wash at gym but stayed so late , without taking her phone with her and not mentioned when to return , this make me uncomfortable.
I told Meiling this morning, " if I am at home , don't come home late . " we need space and she has enough space already .


Roger

Crazy dream

I never expect such a sexual related wet dream will surface in my dreams . What make it so different?
1. It's a homosexual dream , deal with gay sex and not only in one scene but all the scene .
2. It related to 2 famous Rock star and one is my best friend
3. I am not sure I am only a bystander or on the waiting line for next sex party .
4. It's so clear and no one in the deal feel shame about it .
It's a long gay party dream and I am still wandering when it come to my dream ?


Roger

What trigger me today

1. It's fruit birthday and probably I am the only family member sent her birthday getting
2. We don't have family photos for so so long
3. Didn't run or start any business ain't bad
4. What is a " not so nature " happiness ?
5. Feed forward is another gift
6. What we don't know about you can be the Things or the Why behind it .
7. Picture can trigger many other emotions .


Roger

Double M forum supercharge at sun moon lake

It's a mission driven day trip :
Taking 7:30 am HSR to Taichung by 8:20 and connect with a shuttle to Lalu sun moon lake by 9:30 am , forum stares by 9:45 am and finish at 16:45 .. it's a profound in depth session .
Raymond : I will say I love you and bring you here with me.
Jeff : to thank the one not with me will break me down.
Noreen : bankruptcy is what I am prepared and I am so so afraid
Victoria : I don't have a good childhood so I will give back to my step mother
CY: it's a fragmented memories and it impact me still .
Ana : why me to pay back
Hui Yi : yes I love my mother but what more can I do - Why the motivation story turn to so emotional ?


Roger

12 hours long sleep and the dream of drawing in a wild sea

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Chou Chou

Due to not to ruin my reputation, I change Hanes morning coffee to lunch at Chou Chou :
The food is really good, Kim is so kind to serve us complementary deep flies frog leg as souvenirs .
Hanes is perform normal last month : family and personal are fine , as for business : he still get the sense of guilty as not Work assign to him - maybe after my chat with sunny at Vancouver will change something.
Met Hubert at Chou Chou - and he told me Royce is with him , so I say hello in the VIP room and see Sam , Hui Yu and 2 tabloid weekly periodical man ... I don't see a good connecting for Royce.
What get me thinking is : why people have to introduce me formal something ( the title / the company ) instead of me ? I am more comfortable today than before and I should claimed it and own it . No more formal this and that .. really .


Roger

Recreational session

The advise is don't falling in love as it cost is beyond what your body can weight .


Roger

I like the metaphor this gentleman said

Some people like Ink - they penetrated and diffusion into water , some people like oil , they surface above water and don't know how to blend in.


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Jason emotion

Jane's report : who read and Why read ? This is the emotion arose when having a good lunch at Morton Taipei .
He want breakthrough and don't want to suffer his body -- it's stressful to work with family business owner and they think they " owns " everything . Dignity / respect for professional / give room for them to dance in their stage / willing to share .. it's hard we know .
When the time comes , it come, I agree to bridge the message once the day arrive.


Roger

Work Face taste of the forum

It's a " taste - test - testimony " process from " check in - buy in to all in " - how we may decided to render our trust and build a save space to connect and sharing .
I think I am done 90 % of my works and in a group of 90 without any forum experience.
I do it for Sunny but at Meiling said : you pay back and give back much more than before , you don't owe anyone for life .. it kept me thinking ..


Roger

The delay tele coaching

My talk with linda delay until 6:30 am , 90 minutes after presumed schedule time ! Or maybe I am wrong - it's anytime after 5:00 am base on Linda's personal interpretation.
The hurry up and wait time and mind adjustment turn to a " not so good " session to me even though I promise to come up with the minutes after .
As I need to dressed up , woke Meiling, pack to go and rush downstairs to the train station , my concentration wasn't there , on top of that , the alarm setting interrupted our connection , thus I need to redial for many times .
It's ok to do our 40 minutes and covers mainly many aspect of her life -
My remaining park is the ice breaker " let's begin with what you don't want to talks about " with a silence air , Linda say: I am willing to say anything.. so , the mood isn't set and the environment wasn't save enough .
I should manage to get some sleep on the train now as a long conversion with leaders from a zone is waiting , they probably slept less than me yesterday.


Roger

Secure 2 coaching session but didn't work out

Sean as usual - set the no problem on 10:00 pm tele coaching time , I sent a message and follow a call last night , but no response still . Final message sent " Go to rest , it's rescheduled tomorrow and good night " by 11:00 pm , and it's no response until 5:00 this morning .
Linda sent me an " this is great " message when I ok with her " can do morning coaching session by 5:00 am " . She woke already but conduct a tele conference now so our session is on wait : it's 5:40 now and I am about to leave home by 6:40 the latest to catch up my train .


Roger

A long talk to KC

1. The quality time is contributing to your effort. Not mine
2. Don't use the big picture to blur what must be done in reality.
3. I do it for you as a good friend and classmate , not base on any working relationship or ethics .
4. We need 4 regular meetings to fulfill my mission about how to bring a Zone on track , by then , you will have all the information needed and no board meeting requirement
5. Take the position is different then before , your suggestion turn to instructions at once .
6. Brands product / own development product / utilization of space are 3 revenue streams


Roger

From today : the grace period at Ambassador is over

As a clear notice and I am prepare for obtain the information- Ambassador VIP lounge finally inform me use of computer and printing / lounge consumption will be charged as normal customer .
Which means : I am not longer enjoy the privileges as before . I am fine and can understand it's difficult for the staffs to relay this message to me .
To me it also clear that H & ambassador do set some line .. well
It's an interesting journey to enjoy the benefits for the last 5 years .
Now I should find other pit / secret garden for me ..

Roger

I am living in my secret

I am not sure if the girl sitting at the cafe with this Chinese Tattoo really know what it means . So I excuse and ask , then to double confirm she knew it .. the new melineir

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GLC no - Edge some , connection many

Bobby finally update with us - especially to me , yes he is sincere, honest and genuine. The sushi lunch to me is a brief connection, I don't know why Phil become so warm and Graeme turn to a sheep when talking to Bobby ... I did a very brief who I am to him.
I don't intend to trapped in the dark room on second afternoon, so decide to buy lulu lemon - the only spending in us and Canada , 20.000 for 6 pieces ain't too over . The clerk is now measuring my pants and I am having coffee alone and buy me some peaceful moments.
Morning session :
- the Israel company mobile eyes which focus sharp on auto driving is amazing and it's official when Gennis certified the AR for us ..
- Justin talk today after his mother magerit yesterday , not if Graeme feed me , I won't know this dramatic story : father is pm and son success it , First Lady and mother have affair with Ronnie Wood of Rolling Stones .
- Sea Dragon dinner wasn't perfect fit for me : I don't drink and I am not in the space to share color jokes, I don't feel uncomfortable but feel kind of wasting of time . No deep learning about anything . But to know Chris did told his wife how he see me .. and helping Peter fulfill one promise with his son . At the same time to surface the potential opportunities to work with Hubert- china construction and boutique hotel programs.
- Crystal hold my arms tight - same at Shy in , it's nature..
- Russia brother Arkardiy and Oleg connection is good .
- Vincent is so skin deep and I am kind of don't want to waste my energy .
Overall speaking I enjoy edge this time and might think more strategically next time .


Roger

Learning at Vancouver Edge