I am not really spending time ( even mind ) with Fruit , although she is around . Stay at home so her own thing - only see her trash and those bad behavior to accumulate what I know about her - almost nothing since she move back from Chayi - as a matter of fact , I knew so little about her since she was born
Meiling is the channel feed me who Fruit is and was . I fully bias to her opinion and become a bias father - see only the bad side about her and reluctant to connect her as I think Fruit have been bad to Meiling - her mother and my wife .
There is no clean talk to straight it out in my family . Money seems to be the only thing can talk to her - monthly allowance and other spendings .. it sad to develop such a poor father - daughter relationships, I am a coach to many successful people and even coaching on improving / changing other father - daughters relationships. But I can't even face my own - still far from fix or share it ..
crucial update in many ways trigger my own relationship with Fruits- be nice to others . This should include your own daughter. You don't need to trust her but love her without question .
Roger
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