I don't expect and it come so swift

As long as I know both of them knows exactly what they want - I don't think wasting time in exploring feelings is the right way - so I shift many Why to one How and make the process a roadmap to divorce - or put in a better theme: pursuing an independent life with healthier and happier process .
My first so call " marriage counseling " and not taking all the accreditation or academically approach but with my forum and empathy learning.
Sang forward me an envelope with 4.000 USD and paid my accommodation too .
Tien know I am not here to be the messenger snd can treat me fairly .
Once letter of intension sent : there comes 4 response :
1. What happens ?
2. Why and why me ?
3. Is there anyway to turn around ?
4. How can I accept and adapt it ?
Number 4 is the least scenario people want to see ... and this is the answers surface from my session ..
There lays many " for the time being " situation to handles and it requests direct communication and to holding each other accountable.


Roger