D + S reflection

Scenario A: It's difficult to explain your instinct , if you really can swallow all the risk - I mean do it alone , you can do it freely . Once you realize there is more stakeholders , more expert challenging your decision , you become emotional because you don't know how to explain to others your instinct and more over - now you are not taking the risk alone -- this is the delima keep you wake up in the night , bring you anxiety and you become stressful ...

The evolution of couple co-run :

Step 1: for your information 

Step 2: for your information only 

Step 3: should we discuss it ?

Step 4: should we decide it together ?

Step 5: should be share the risk together ?

Scenario B : the new president - hire gun soon be on board , how the tradition goes and how the balancing situation can co-exist ? The complicate dot and solid line . Another way to see the blur entity .

Scenario C: money is not in my pocket . And the mortgage level is higher than 5 years before . Should we be more conservative ? Saving for the raining days 

Scenario D: no comparison and don't compare who is the fortunate daughter in law .. Don't do it ..