Reflection

-The last heavy tone from D and her imitate the big sigh from S ....

-The worry I see from H and his giving up a year long project ...

-The major concer is family and spouse 

S have a deep and serious something about building consensus with J / D 

- how I hear not what S said but how much I will earn ...

- challenging the assumption - if the measurement not fit . Get rid of it 

- be who you are , in the end people will know . Don't fake it ... 

- rely on me or really on someone ...