Conflict resolved in one hours

One Action taught us - don't let the confrontation between the one you love sleep for more than 24 hours , so once I done my " relief reflection blog " I talk to her and ask her " apology " when open our conversation.

Cliche kills once it become a habit : for those who aware . It will comes to a time they can't stand it anymore . To the new acquaintance: you just don't have second chance to man your first impression.

So - honestly and skillful feedback is so so important .. starts from your feeling ( private domain ) then the fact ( public domain ) but never to intrude others feelings ( their private domain ) on your blind spot ( the third window - or more precisely the mirror) you either received feedback or develop self - discovery skill.

She promise me she won't absent minded use " divorce " as cliche anymore -- it's so fragile to a 30 years marriage couple .

It takes year to understand, to learn and lifetime to practice ..
I am still learning.

Roger