J today

1. How people hijacking you :
-- no one can see his / her blind spot
-- we don't know how to give an appropriate feedback
-- let Feeling ( reflect) than Fact ( rephrase) drive the way .
2. If you want to be objective, 3 dimension needs : He and She can be 2 subjective Party , you bring both of them to the middle and create the 3rd view : objective.
3. If you wish to deliver appropriate message, find an appropriate place and create appropriate environment.
4. Think it over : what's your add on value or burden ?
5. No expectation is to explore possibilities rather than aim for opportunities.
6. Who's the shadow dancer in your organization?
7. Treat human beings as human beings
8. No matter how light you are , no one can lifting himself.
9. 3 lines for financial section defense :
- first line details operation ( on )
- compliance & risk governance ( before )
- auditing ( after )
10. What's your message imply ?


Roger