Sound's mother physically left him today

Time to say goodbye 

By far this is the biggest fight among sound and us - his emotional , ruthless and dirty manner put us in the corner of parental Torrance . It's a sleepless night for Meilijg and her determinantion of leaving home is a vital action while I support .

How I response ?

As a coach and mentor to many successful people , my blind spot is not knowing how to apply what I know to my own family , I am not worry the family dispute will impact my coaching career or performance . I am still don't know what to do... Never make comparison , only to see if Sound is better off himself . Only himself can bail him out of this unhealthy circle - his teenage rebel comes late but strong . This morning , I asked if we need to bring him to see psychiatric - his cold response again leave me no room to develop positive conversation . I can only say to myself : everything will be alright in the end , if it's not alright , then it's not yet the end "

Think positively 

 This is quite a lesson I need to learn in my life - a karma or anything else ? 

 Information receive but not to be influence if you take the information is message to receive - this is not anger management , it's a way toward life - bitter end or happy end? 

Next Step :

1. Support Meilijg cool down for a fee days and not to show up in the family 

2. Keep health loop with Meilijg and be sure her situation is in control 

3. Share with fruit what happen and win her understanding not to be impact significantly .

4. Reflect and introspective about what's going on , pick up all the piece and keep my other life simple and organize 

5. Distance with sound and learn how to do my own house work ..

6. Seeking mother's assistant to provide paty cash to sound on his week day .

7. Have Meilijg or myself communicate with school - inform sound's situation and perform student parent role 

Do I need any help ?

  Someone who can give me shelter or release my nagetive energy ? Something I can do to re-direct my attention ? Somewhere to go to relax my tension ? Somebody to talk to without giving me advise ? This is a time for " self - learning " " self - awareness " " self - discovery "