2 days to remember

2 days to remember

Today, June 25th,2012, marks the 25th anniversary of my marriage with Meiling – from the day we don’t have a why married, but walked hand in hand to the public accreditation house for announcing husband and wife – for 4 people on the scene, James Chang and Tom Chang were no longer good friend of mine. And we keep our marriage still, even through we were having a family difficulty to overcome together – well, I put Together aside as this is a one way thinking, not a consensus yet. It’s been 25 years since we married. No vows and no promise, I don’t know what keep our marriage still – Love, I really doubt it these days, appreciation and gratitude? Maybe, but I am not 100% sure.
Toda, June 25, 2012, 4 years after I conduct my first invade surgery, place a stent on my left artery exactly 4 years ago. On 2008, I was lucky detected the artery problem founded by Dr. Chen and urgently perform this surgery. It’s like a re-born to me and I have no idea how it impact me until now. It gave me a good reason to resign from LCPC – a place I am not passion with nor happy to work with. Since then, I am more approach to identify who I am instead of What I do. It pave the road to be coach and facilitator , it’s hard to keep the living standard, but it give me a new skill to develop and become an independent service provider – coach after professional manager lead to a door more open.
  Today, I received text message from Daniel Y. who in China support me in identify my next venture and urge me to think what’s crisis ahead and kindly enough to ask my bank account – lending me money for the transition struggle I am facing. But I hav’t heard from him since forward my bank account and it pass the deadline of needed, I checked with a follow up message, not response still, I am a little bit disappointed but there’s nothing to complain with, Daniel flew to Taipei, drove all the way to Tainan and support me to defend my rights in front of M. and willing to discuss my business plan with me… what you can asked more? If no financial aide at this point, should not be the break-up point unless Daniel take his position this way. All the questions in mind come to an end since received his message today, he was sick and he asked my bank account again – the swift code – I am so touched again.. what can we asked more?
 Today in the morning, I receive mail from Matthew, when sent the friendship is greater than anything mail to him, he solve his own problem and I feel relax also. Matthew update me Mr. Allison’s health condition. When learn some of his difficulty from Mark Chen, I decided to make the call and not to let the friendship sours.. we wish to talk and we will find a good space to reconnect.
 I review Martin’s work from FB – He is actually a facilitator – via music to connect with audience and with God – he must be a great facilitator I believe.
 Today, I made love with Meiling in the early morning, I havn’t have sex for a period of time, after the love making, I realize today is our 25th anniversary in marriage and my 4th years after surgery.
 I have another relax afternoon to perform a “ I am alive “ session and I deliver what I will do with Ambassador Hotel Group with full confidence – I am ultimately get the coaching deal – and according to Angeli – a short and sweet session.
 2 days before… the day I managed to perform a qualified facilitator during the final judging panel at 23rd Golden Melody Award – among 20 professionals, I don’t have chance to use my golden vote , not even once. All the consensus were built within 3 rounds of voting – what I did:
1. re-state the etheric and honest protocol
2. promote the full discussion before voting:
- if anyone volunteering to begin, let the ball roll
- if none of the panel willing to speak out . pick the person to open sharing or guiding first
- manage time and emotion
- Keep the long meeting a fun and interested session
- show my appreciation all the time
- on the latter and critical moment – remind how our decision impact on Key Stakeholders at large
By 6:00 pm, we were line up outside Little Dome – the stadium held the award ceremony, I am the Panel in General, so, I am obliged or honored to walk the red carpet with Minister of Culture – Miss Long Yi Tai – a new minister and new dept since May 20th. Yes, there are spot lights on my almost bold head. Long have one wish – don’t let me fall, she asked if I have the experience – my answer is , yes, once in my wedding. It rains hard, but all the camera capture us..
 It’s a good show on the ceremony event. Excellent production and great outcome – I don’t really mind how others see the finalist of the best male / female vocal, best album and best new talent. The consensus were built already and the judging system improve year by year. There is a break during the live broadcasting and I have my another 90 seconds of famous. MC Tain Shin asked my how was the panel session going.. I came out with only 3 sentence :
 Judges were fully discussion before voting
 The consensus for the final result is very high
 Judges have high comment on all the participant and the music they deliver last year.
I am not sure how it goes with the media collective interview – by 10:00 pm, I am escort to deliver the final outcome before end of the ceremony, yes, since I am the only one ( other than GIO staff ) who obtain the result, I am responsible to answer question from the media.. I think I have done a better way to explain how the process goes and what goes right and nothing related to personal or bias – if there’s bias, it’s a group bias and it’s based on the rule / regulation and the works which apply for the award challenge.
 Some said I look handsome from TV , some said I am great from Newspaper, I am not care about any critic about panel or result, and it’s a gone thing.
 2 days to remembers, My re-born day and 25th anniversary ; The 23rd GMA and the reclaim under spot light.