I don't have an answer but gradually I devlop a pattern to deal with such an situation :
1. Standard reply : I am not so familiar with them but won't mind to ask for them
2. It's a no guarenrtee conversation
3. If the friend is a long shot - I won't bother to even send the message - this will only show how native I am
4. If any follow up request : my standard answer is : he / she won't be available then .
Is there anything wrong on my side ? I will spend time to talk with the person who send their request but will not build the bridge and ruining my relationship.
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