my way for communication

The more I dig the topic, the more I realized the awareness inside it much important than external environment check. that's why the motivation inspired me to do a " Why we can't listen " slide to deliver how I detect such a finding and how it can be changed for a better / effective communication : in the western dogtrim , effective communication is the only reason why we train ourselves to become a better communicator but seldom touch upon the inner part of " Why ", my slide is : our heart have been covered with lit, so, we hardly listen, and we use our brain too much, focus on right or wrong but not to the person who deliver the message and to take empathy in listening. and why our hearts' been covered? 2 reasons :
1. We are not modesty / humble to listen to what we think we already know.
2. We are not honest enough to listen to the " candid " words , cause it hurts most of the time.
so we either ignore or defend, it keep our ear close and our heart sealed, how come we can really listen?
I did almost all the slides again and to make assumption, take notes and create tips and jokes to each page, as I learned before, there is not such thing like over-preparing, I am aiming a anchor after the speech, this is the goal I am going to achieve on Saturday.
CK is so great who join the entire session with us yesterday afternoon, with Jack and Celine in regard to the " Culture and Creative Fund management company ", the blur anbience bring the session a very ambiguity in the very beginning, I try to smooth the situation and after I left for the Himalaya Foundation meeting, I was told by Celine, the meeting last until 7:30 pm, and CK did a great work / contribution to our friendship. I should send him a Thanks You note now.
Luis Chen and I met with Mr. Han again late last evening, re-literate our goal to revamp Himalaya Foundation and to keep the spirit going, Mr. Han agreed with the direction and asked me again : for the no pay job, how's the feeling from Meiling? Luis will begin his fund raising process, I shared it with Celine this morning, she is not favor to work with Luis and advised me to wait for the fund raising outcome.
yes, today is our 24th wedding anniversary, we will return to the restaurant where we set our wedding banquets and to enjoy the " Turtle " dish is they have it still.