It's a Sunday story, Chi-Hon sent a message to me, with very brief message " I am not doing OK, in the marriage crisis ", as I can't response to him immediately, this really make me worry, for a man who send such a " Help " message means:
1. He is in deep trouble
2. He have no one to consult or support with
3. He badly need someone
Call him up at 9:30 pm, he can't reach the phone but the message said that he is fixing the issue. I know him , if not for the affair issue, it won't be any big issue. well, I was wrong, when see him at the hospital after her clinic the following night around 9:00 pm, I walked him home and listening to the background and learn the history of the marriage. this is a tough situation, thanks to the training I just done in London. and my learning these days for " Not Giving Advise ", it help me to clear my mind and seeking a better way to provide my support. with " I feel " " My experience " really helps. my follow up message this morning win a " getting better " resolution.
then call up wife at Beijing, I changed the flight for them and they will be back today - as I am waiting them at Taoyuan international airport --- but it seems Meijing is in deep depress also. so. I wait for her to initiative the conversation close to one AM and finish our late night conversation around 2 am. thanks for the Feedback skill I learned in London, I can really calm my mind and to perform a better listener role.
Preparing my Trainer / Trainee Photo journey this 2 days, it's a good looking back and reflection exercise.a lot to do and not able to do what I should.. it take time really.
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