To utilize my forum training and experience , I urge Meiling to face the challenge in communication with Sound , it's been 3 more weeks they don't talk to each other , aug 10 will the day mother take son to high school entrance at shu hei , if by then they don't talk still or develop further quarrel , I won't be there with them.
Climb up to sound's room , push door and get in for the first time in 3 weeks , as the air not breath well , bad smell coming to me.
I share with sound my own experience about how my relationship getting worst with my mother - his grandma , of relative don't talk . The gap will increase and you will then forget how to build the intimacy .
We begin our forum style issue clearance by 10:40 pm. The communication starter I use is china airline air attendant greeting change from " please wait " to " I will be right with you " to share how change the first person make the whole experience differ ! Then they both express their feeling toward others , I was there to guard the protocol and helping each other turn projection to checking ! Finally . We hug one another and it complete my missions .
It's so simply , if you teach others how to communicate via forum method , you better do it in within your own circle and prove it work for you as well what sound taught me : family will always come to a peace ending So it don't matter to create conflict !
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