On and off

I think this time father's determination will turn to reality - a scheduled spine surgery arranged by himself will take place on Jan. 14th at Douliu :

My dellima :

1. I will be out for business trip and can't be with him

2. Need a signature and mother reluctant to do so ..

3. Meilijg's personsal efforts and how we can take turns 

4. My worries and how to transform to a confidence support to my father 

5. No to disclose to anyone in order not to be influence on this on and off process 

6. Prepare for the worst and willing go take the consequence .