Reflection on retreat / workshop

1. 3 among the 7 share the bankruptcy story with strong emotion : one been there , the other one knowing it's coming , the third one have a fear on that . They either come from his / her own experience or to share how their family is / will suffer.
2. The love of a great wife : not disclose if she spot the affairs , but when learn the college - subordinate of her husband is in her terminal stage , she offer her support and do it more than any one . When she pass away , her husband feel a bit guilty but can't stop the curious about why his wife perform such a great love , kindness and compassion, so he asked : the reply from his wife shock : " I am thinking if I gone before you , she will be the right person to look after you .... "
3. Young immigrants: my parent never know when I went through the immigration gate and the door close , I cry for so long and so loud as I know I will be on my own .. I don't want you to be worried so I never show my emotion in front of you - until now .
4. I promise my dad to look after my sister and brother - although 2 of them were born by the late mother . I keep my promised so dad you won't worry .
5. " before I die " - well , I just want to cook for my beloved husband again ...
6. I can't fix it and I can't solve it , I feel so helpless , I am watching my best friend dying day by day ..
7. Maybe you all think I am horny , and think why I always bring a girl back to my hotel at retreat .. now I am doing to tell you the truth " something happen to me before and I can't sleep alone outside anywhere .. "
8. I am the elder son , so I sign the agreement of pull out the tube and let me father go , no one do it and someone need go make this tough decision , until today , I still don't know if I made a right decision .
9. I suffered and overcome the challenges of cancer , I am back again but didn't tell everyone .
10. My sister in law ( a foster daughter ) really overly care about my husband and she managed his wealth , I don't know what will happen to me ..
11. I have a concubine , it's been years and we have a kid also , no one knows it and I don't know what to do ...
12. I don't know what I have done , I feel so exciting when he agrees to settle it ,,I must have done something weird while I took the sleeping pill and dream walking .
13. I don't want to work with my boss who is such a jerk and not a human .. I can't stand it for another minutes .
14. I never perform body touch : hug my colleague, even we are so close and working together for 10 years , I feel so good now .
15. After my father's funeral, my mom never talk about him anymore and no one dear to ask her why .. there must be a great pain when they were together.
16. He just don't know how to behave and control himself, if this is the case , I rather control him myself rather then have him controlled by others.
17. I don't even told him I am on cancer beginner treatment, I don't want him to know I might be weak and take advantage on me - he is my husband.
18. In my life , you are the one who know me more than anyone ..
19. If something happen to me , I don't have a family to depend on and look after my wife and children, I am feeling so lonely now .
20. We all know my father having an affair and she give birth a boy already , he just pretends no one knows and cheating himself as well .


Roger